Does your husband tell you that the reason he puts his hands on you is because he loves you? Read this
I lost a friend of mine to domestic violence yesterday.
The incident kept me very cold all through the night
I was among her asoebi ladies in 2014😭
Dear ladies, it is high time we learn to speak up, don’t let any man take your life in the name of jealousy.
Those men that won’t let you have peace just because you waved to a guy.
Let me make this clear here,
Marriage is a good thing, but it is not an achievement, it is just a license to change of status.
when a man start hitting you, believe me the love and respect is Gone.
When a woman starts misbehaving due to the actions of the man, the world will say, she lacks home training.
Don’t let any man tell you I hit you because of the love I have for you rubbish
all relationship/marriage has its own ups and downs, if the understanding is not mutual, if the jealousy is abnormal, please leave.
Leave that marriage in peace.
Ladies
*Please learn to speak up
No man has the right to treat you like a goat in the name of jealousy
**At that point when you can’t take it anymore
***At that point when you feel your whole life has ended
****At that point when you are beginning to see all the errors of a man due to his unjust treatment towards you
*****At time point when you want manage because you don’t want the world to use you as an example
******At that point when you say *I want to save my marriage*
Please leave to live
Please leave to live
Dear men
Please learn to treat your wife with respect and love
Learn to control your temper
Women are the weaker vessel
Learn to let out the talk going through your head
Learn to speak with her
Never be fast in conclusion because marriages are fast dead that way.
Learn not to act in anger.
Understand that before a woman will give up everything to be your wife, she gives it all
Don’t let jealousy be the Lord in your life
Learn to control your suspicions
If you don’t trust her enough, don’t marry her.
Please be aware that a woman might have been suffering from depression before she finally gives up
Treat your women well please.
Dear fadekemi
You stayed because of your children
You stayed because you wanted to save your marriage
You stayed because you couldn’t bear the shame of divorce
You stayed because you loved him
But the reasons you stayed ware not valued. I can’t bare to share your pictures
REST IN PEACE MY DEAR FRIEND
My the souls of all faithful departed and the souls of all the women who have lost their life through this means rest in peace. AMEN.
B. Chioma