Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage tips. Show all posts

Friday, March 09, 2018

Can A Nagging Wife Change? HOW DO YOU MANAGE ONE?

So yesterday, I got a mail, replied and decided not to publish it here. However, thinking about it today, I feel it might be useful to someone on the blog so, here is it below and my reply to sender...

Dear Madam,

I read your post/blog on the internet on Nagging Wife. I will like if you can share with me how to

Tuesday, February 20, 2018

Should your husband be present in the labour room?

It's awesome, beautiful to have a man see what his wife goes through in the delivery room, to be there by her side reassuring through the labour pains and all...  Would you like to have your husband with you in the delivery room when your pregnancy is  due? My answer is 'YES' and 'NO' 
You see, all marriages are not the same honestly, the way that couples relate is not the same. Some spouses are soul-mates, they are so connected, they feel like one person while some spouses are just

Sunday, January 28, 2018

Can a woman with Rhesus negative blood type give birth to children?

Hello wives connection. I am a young student who found your blog on Google and needs help.  My parents both have positive blood groups;  mum is o+ while dad is A- Both me and my elder brother are negative and people keep telling me that I might give birth to just one child in my lifetime, that if I lose the first pregnancy I might remain barren because negative blood group causes miscarriages.  Is it true ma?

Monday, January 22, 2018

Wife rants on Facebook after receiving insults from hubby's babymama

A mother of four,  identified as Ruth Brownie on Facebook is not only hurt that her husband is still sleeping with his baby mama, but also frustrated that he has taken sides with the said woman who finds pleasure in humiliating her.
According to the frustrated Nigerian lady, since she gave birth to her last child who is barely 2 months old, her husband rarely spends time at home as he is mostly with his baby mama. 
She also said that her husband is proud of his sex life with this baby mam as he comes home every now and then to boast about it. Below is her post shared on a Facebook page...

Saturday, December 02, 2017

Nigerian wife stumbled on husband's romantic chat on Social media, pulled a Boko stunt on him, it worked

According to multiple online reports, a woman in Yola, Adamawa state, accessed her husband’s phone and saw his romantic chat with another woman on Facebook, instead of doing the normal confrontation and stuff, she did this beautiful and smart thing that immediately ended the Facebook relationship and saved her marriage!...

Friday, December 01, 2017

Six Reasons Why Many Newlyweds Are BROKE

Welcome to today’s world, where ‘’save the dates’’ are constant on our social media timelines. 
This should be a must read for you,if you are about getting Married

A world where instagram and facebook popularity matters more than anything to most young people. We live in an era where luxury has been redefined to mean ‘’normal’’ and where the modest and moderate person is tagged as ‘’old fashioned’’. 

Our forefathers got married in a clearly different way and white weddings were not a requirement. Today, no matter how you decide to get married, without the fancy and luxurious white wedding/ reception, you are considered ‘’archaic’’. To many, it doesn’t matter how they

Thursday, November 30, 2017

A Nigerian man asked his wife what she wanted for her birthday, Come closer and read the email she sent him :)

A Nigerian lawyer took to twitter to share this heartwarming email his wife sent him after he asked what she wanted for her birthday. Scroll down to read the heart melting email...

Sunday, November 26, 2017

How wifey found out that Her Husband Of 4 Months Is a Car Wash Boy And Not the Car Dealer he made her believe

A newly married woman has cried out for help and counselling after discovering that her husband of four months is a car wash boy and not a car dealer as he had made her believe during courtship.
The truth was revealed when after four months into their union she discovered he works at a car wash bay.

She cried out thus:
“HELP! I am 25years old. I have been married for 4 months now but I have really regretted and I need your help. Before I married my husband, he used to bring all sought of cars to visit me in my house and when I asked the job he does, he told me that he is a car dealer. Just

Thursday, October 05, 2017

Dress to kill him at home, not outsiders, not house uniform everyday

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 DRESS TO KILL YOUR MAN AND NOT OUTSIDERS. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE GOING OUT BEFORE CARING ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK! Let him return from work and meet you looking sweet and refreshed. 
Ok, you as a woman, when your husband dresses well and looks good, don't you feel something? When your husband is very careless and unkempt with his looks, do you like it? Not to talk of men that are well wired to be moved by what their eyes see whether at home or abroad.
See, It's very easy for very busy mums especially full time housewives to start depending on robes,  boubou,  big gowns and all kinds of lose and free clothing because that's what keeps you comfortable considering you are not going to any office or attending an event. Eventually that daily same look becomes a lifestyle. 

Sharon O, in the enlightening post below, encourages women too look their best even at home.  A lot of women have lost their homes because they did not pay attention to their looks, they got so carried away with caring for the family that they forget, they are supposed to be their hubby's babe.

As wives one of our primary assignment is to be our hubby's hot chick and not his mummy.
Most times we don't care about how we look at home, we only forcus on the task at hand. but when is time to go out(office/church) we will spend 2 hours dressing up for people outside to enjoy our beauty, just to show off our latest dresses "notice me" But our man, the reak owner of our beauty  only see us in house uniform hoozing our sweat smell after all we've been working all day "she bi na house I dey".

What we fail to realize is that those yeye girls, husband snachers, are always looking hot every minute, the perfume they spray can draw any man's attention to them but we are so comfortable, carrying Mrs..... about, while the girls are parading themselves in front of our husbands with their beautiful looks and dresses daily. And when he comes home, he meets mummy........and not baby....or sweety....

My sisters, it is time for us to wakeup and start looking our best at home, I met a woman, who was sleeping with a married man, and we got talking one of the point I got from her was the fact that  the man looks the way she dresses, she told me, I wear bum shorts, sexy cloth, makeup and long hair and papa loves it, but that is wife na so so wrapper. we are talking about a man in his 70s. my question is, what will your young husband do when he comes across such women, they are every where looking for a home to enter, most of this girls don't go for single guys oooo, wedding ring is number one qualification they look at.

 Am not perfect but, my husband do tell me that when ever his faced with such girls, he compare me with them and most times, I get better marks than the girls, he told me he will first start from her boobs, to her finger nails. he will check every part and finally conclude, my wife is still better.
If you are the type that loves comfortable dresses, then get nice sexy ones that will show your figure and make a BOLD  statement to your husband that you are still take away, and not those loose dresses that won't show your figure. Yes it is good to wear loose dresses too but you can spice it up by getting a short sexy ones, at least while you are at home and is just him and family if you are ultra conservative about revealing too much. In any case, who say short and sexy means nudity! Be sure not  to turn you to an old woman over night cause of kids. See those husband snachers spend money to look good, if he won't give you, save from feeding money, go and buy bend down select, watch them well with hot water and wear.

Please dress to kill at home, stop wearing house uniform, they don't look nice on you. it gives you same look, sunday to sunday nothing to remind him of the lady he fell in love with. see if you don't want those yeye girls out there to steal your man, start dressing good at home.

Some wives, because their husband is cheating on them, they turn to over night old women in the name of praying, fasting and born again, instead for them to wake up and look good, they now tie scalf every minute, makeup gone, ear ring gone, lovely hair styles no more, my dear stopppppp!!!!!,  Don't stop living cause you see him with another woman. I think that now that he cheating on you is even the best time you should live and enjoy life. live your life, dress well, be happy for you, look good, eat at the right time. when he sees you looking hot and happy that's when his senses will come back to his head and realize what he is missing. but if you because you heard or see him with another woman, then you change your look and become miserable and you are running from one prayer mountain to another my dear he will not see you. the only question he will be asking is, how did I even marry her? abi she use otumokpo on me. mind you the babe outside is looking hot and you allow sadness to steal your beauty cause you are praying and fasting. sweetheart he won't come back, the prayer needs action from you.

Am not saying is wrong to pray and go to church in other to win a lost husband, my take is as you are doing that, you take care of you, just to let him know you are still in town and presentable, am not saying start wearing dresses that will show your nakedness but dress well, look good, Don't use cry make yourself ugly. The ladies he is seeing outside are looking good and hot for him, why not do same.
And for those whose husbands have not tasted outside, please don't allow them use dressing to steal your man, dress to kill for him at all times.

~~Sharon Onojeta

Read This! How woman committed suicide after her husband divorced her

And to think that he divorced her after just two years of marriage when people have waited much longer to receive their blessing. So calous not to consider her sacrifices, how did he expect her to move on? Twitter user, Kelvin Odanz shared this heartbreaking story of how a woman who sacrificed her career for her husband committed suicide after he divorced her because she couldn’t bear children two years after their wedding. Read the story below…

Thursday, September 07, 2017

'Women who dishonour and talk down at their husband's shut the door of favour to themselves' - Nathaniel Bassey

Gospel singer and Pastor, Nathaniel Bassey in his domestic violence  message addressed to both men and women, has this to say;
'Men who treat their wives badly don’t know they lock the heavens over themselves. And if you think I’m just speaking, then go check out what

Tuesday, August 01, 2017

"Am I supposed to relate with my husband like an employee? he says I have no right to be angry at him or tell him that I feel insulted"

Is a wife wrong to be angry at her husband?

Good morning Aunt Eya:
I was wondering if you could help post on your blog or respond to me personally.
Hope your family is great. Firstly, I want to thank you for this opportunity to reach out to you via this means. I have this little problem that won't make me sleep well. please I need your advise on this one.
My name is Bekky (you may change the name for privacy concern) and I have been married for four years now. I don't know...but is it wrong for me to be angry at something that upsets me? 
Anytime I have a slight fracas with my hubby and it has to do with money or something else and i

Thursday, July 27, 2017

A male reader needs help from ladies on the blog

Good afternoon madam Eya, please I am a male reader on this your blog , help me post my case so that I could get help from you ladies, I am a father of four kids,I've always taken care of my family but my wife attitudes have changed that as the economy of the country is high and she is doing well in her business,
when ever I have no money and she uses her own to prepare meal she will be talking to me without

Saturday, July 15, 2017

My name is Barrister Aliyu Ahmed and I would like to share my marriage woes with you

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My name is Barrister Aliyu Ahmed and I would like to share my #DivorceDiaries with you

1. I'm a lawyer from Jigawa State. I am the chief Legal Officer of a new generation bank. I am

Thursday, July 13, 2017

Happy Nigerian wife asking the public for how to appreciate her husband after seeing these chats between him and a female staff

Have you seen this viral Whatsapp chat between a man and his female staff who while vying for a side-chic position, insulted his boss’ wife!
The chat screenshots  have gone viral online after it was reportedly shared by the Man’s wife  who is asking for a way to appreciate her husband for being such a “faithful man”!
As seen in the chat, the female staff was making efforts to show she cared, even insulting the Boss’ wife in the process! But she got a sack from the man who found her care a little faulty! Read Chats below!

Monday, July 10, 2017

Things to do, to make your marriage work - Tips by Relationship expert Joro Olumofin

There are a million things a woman is asked to do just to keep her man, but there is no list of things a man is asked to do to keep his woman. We Men make it seem like women want to get married more than us and we're doing them a favor by committing or being in a relationship. Most Men act like they are the only ones who are granted free PASS to cheat or it is their right to cheat. Women can cheat as well but they choose to be loyal in relationships for Love, peace sake and to keep their homes.
Letter to Husbands - " you should have

Sunday, July 02, 2017

Nigerian wives out there,please tell me the truth If I'm a terrible wife like my husband says...

I have been married for 4 years now and blessed with two kids. My husband nags a lot. If am sick he will nag that I'm the cause of it and won't take me to the hospital, all he would say is I won't spend my money in the hospital. As clean as my house is, it's not clean enough for him. If he comes back from work and I ask how his day was he will respond like am disturbing him. But if I go out and

Wednesday, June 07, 2017

Nigerian man refuses to use condom with wife after she found out he is HIV positive!

This disturbing story about a Nigerian man who has refused to use a condom with his wife after he lied and she found out he was HIV positive just one year after their wedding was shared by Amanda Chisom. 
What would you do if you were this lady? She needs advice.
Good evening, please hide my ID. I saw my hubby taking some drugs last month, I asked what does the drugs work for, he said he

Sunday, June 04, 2017

'I handed all my cheque books to my wife' - Singer Panam Percy Paul

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Renowned Gospel musician, Panam Percy Paul and his beautiful wife of 36 years, Teena, share some of their marital experiences with TOFARATI IGE @Punchng
Can you recall how you met your spouse?
Panam: Our relationship is unique in the sense that we had always known each other but I never thought that she would end up as my wife. I used to see her as a little sister. At a time during the Nigerian civil war, she and her elder brother, who was my classmate, even lived with us. With the passage of time, we all went our separate ways to school and to pursue other endeavours so we didn’t see each other for a while. But on one fateful day in 1979, I went to visit my parents and she was just leaving the

Sunday, May 14, 2017

Heartbroken Wife shares conversation between 'anal-loving' husband and his mistress (See Photos)

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A distressed lady has cried out to relationship expert, Joro Olumofin, over her husband's infidelity and feels she might have been infected by him as she is sure he doesn't use protection, according to her its just a year into her marriage. The husband cheated because he wanted anal something from her, but she refused, so he went in search of one..

She came back from church and found the hubby asleep in the living room, went through his chats and found out he was cheating, she went ahead to share the chats...Read Below...