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HUSBAND RESIGNS AND WANTS WIFEY TO LEAVE THE WELL PAYING JOB TOO BECAUSE HE TOOK HER THERE

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Jealousy in marriage is real and because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it's non existent. Jealousy in marriage can be very deadly oh. If your spouse is jealous/envious of your success, check the level because there are different levels of this kind of jealousy and envy. If it's serious, mind your self oh because it's not from my mouth you'll hear that life is more important than marriage. immediately I saw this post shared on Social media, I couldn't resist

HOW TO KNOW THE RIGHT MAN TO MARRY

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The right man to marry is not your Lord, not your saviour, is not your messiah, not your Automatic Teller machine, neither is it your boss. The right man to marry is not the richest man on earth, not the

HOW TO TREAT A LAZY HUSBAND

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This is a post that has been shared so many times on Social Media. It just makes me feel like there are some people you help until you become bankrupt yourself yet their condition will not change, why? Because they are just like that. They make no effort themselves! Imagine that a woman proposes to a young man with 5 million Naira and od other expensive items, for two years, I mean two whole years. She didn't see any investment, she didn't see any returns from the initial five million Naira she gave him for free and

HOW NOT GIVE UP ON YOUR MARRIAGE

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Hello Aunty Eya. I am an old follower of your blog who used to comment anonymously but stopped talking and when quiet too when you stopped cooking and sharing your wonderful recipes with us like you started. I found your blog 5 years ago from Linda Ikeji's, when you just started blogging and frankly I got hooked to your delicious food and advise. I have tried a bunch of recipes from your blog and they all turned out delicious.  At a point I stopped

WHEN THE KIDS STARTED TO ARRIVE, MY MARRIAGE BEGAN TO WITHER

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Three months into our marriage, Laura was the best woman I had ever met!
Talk of who spoke my love language the best, it was Laura!
Planning surprises, pulling up loving pranks, praying for me, tickling and pecking me out of the blues, sending my heart some quakings, making me love God more and climbing higher and higher spiritually, making me laugh more and making me more healthy were all Laura’s handiwork in those three months!

I got home on the 23rd of July, 2016 to meet Laura looking sullen in the couch. Her body was hotter than the hottest boiling ring. I

TOO MUCH TALK ALREADY ABOUT CHECKING HUBBY'S PHONE, JUST DO YOU

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Why all the talk about checking your husband's phone na? The coming of gadgets and social media shouldn't be the end of family/marriage o. If your husband has never checked your phone

SHOULD A WIFE MOURN HUBBY WHO DIED IN HOTEL ROOM WITH ANOTHER WOMAN?

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Should she? shouldn't she? Well, Reading all 35 responses below can make you a good Marriage Counsellor, just in case you need to give advice to a grieving woman... Lol.
This question was raised by a Nigerian man Afolabi Mathew on Social media. He asked for responses from both men and women concerning the matter on ground. If a husband who says he's travelling to another city for an official assignment is suddenly

20 WAYS TO SIGNAL HUBBY THAT YOU NEED SUGAR

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Times have changed, in this era, women no longer wait for their husbands to be hungry before cooking breakfast, lunch or dinner. Now, if  wifey is hungry and Oga is not thinking of even a snack, she can unapologetically ask him to come to the dining table. Some signals will work for you, other's won't because people are different and connect differently. Only a look can send signals to one and won't do nothing for another. Learn what works for your case and use it. Don't starve yourself after changing name to his abeg. If

HOW TO CALM YOURSELF WHEN HUBBY UPSETS YOU

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Times are hard, everyone is affected. When unhappy, do not wait for help to come from DH, it may take a while, try to DIY for your happiness' sake. Calm yourself first. Many more marriages are struggling to keep it together. Stress at work, while shopping, at home and even with our loved ones. Sometimes, we quickly get over every other kind of annoying thing but one cuts really deep, that is when you are upset or when the sadness comes from hubby. Please do not let yourself fall into depression... A young Naija wife died not too long ago. The cause of sickness wasn't known. She just

HOW MY MOTHER IN-LAW SHARES OUR BEDROOM

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A worried Nigerian wife shared the post below on Social Media, asking other wives what step she can take to save her marriage and to sort out Mother-In-Law issues..
It all started after my traditional marriage... 2013..
My mil took me to our base (my husband left me the next day because of his work) Lagos I.e one week after my traditional Marriage..with the hope she will go back to the village after taking me to Lagos..
Then we were living in self contained apartment with my hubby...MIL sleeps with us in the same room..instead of her to give us some privacy.. She refused to go...I wasn't angry then .
I took in for my first child...meeting to nine months my husband rented a new apartment I.e one bedroom flat she packed in with us....
She always find fault in whatsoever I do...she controls my

20 WAYS A HUSBAND CAN USE EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL ON WIFEY

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He rejects your cooked meals, even when the hunger is squeezing and churning his stomach. Why? To make you say "sorry|" sometimes over nothing and sometimes over no wrong of yours.He withholds praise and withholds acknowledgement when you do well.Wears a long face and avoids eye contact.Keeps late nights to make you jealous even if it means hiding somewhere close to the house or just parking and sitting lonely in the car till late night.He falls pretend sick and tries to look really miserable such that

RAISING OUR SONS TO BE HUSBAND MATERIAL

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We have read, and heard so many things said about how we women, should keep our husbands happy, so that our marriages will last. So, many write-ups have gone on how to have a successful marriage and sadly, these write-ups have always laid the greater responsibility of a happy home on the wives/women folk! Sadly, yours truly has equally made her own contributions in that directions.

These have all contributed in making the man look like he totally does not have a part in making his marriage work! Our parents raised up men who had little or no instruction on how to keep their homes, how to make

their wives happy etc.! While I do not deny that its important to make the head of the home happy, its most important if the two work together to seek each other’s happiness.

So, this “patrachial” society end up raising men who can almost not function in a home/marriage, men that think that making money alone can keep/make a home, men who put the sole responsibility of raising children on the wife …

'OUR 3 MONTH OLD RELATIONSHIP ENDED THE DAY HE SLAPPED ME AT A FAST FOOD JOINT; HE HAS FOUR SONS NOW WITHOUT A WIFE'

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A happily married Nigerian woman narrates on Social media, what

SHOULD SHE BELIEVE HE MARRIED A SECOND WIFE FOR HER AND THEIR KIDS SAKE?

A Nigerian wife shared this story of her life on Social media. How she found out her Medical Doctor husband's recent late nights
are because he just secretly married a new wife who is supposedly very rich and has opened a clinic for him. She confronts oga and he

WHAT YOUR MARRIAGE TRULY NEEDS (NOT SEX, NOT COMPLAINTS)

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"We need to talk" he texted his wife.
She wondered what was wrong, men rarely use that "We need to

I married early to escape torture from mum, Now My husband mistakenly calls me his secret girlfriend's name... I need help

Madam Eya I am so so sad. I cry everyday. my husband does not

MY HUSBAND REFUSED A COURT MARRIAGE NINE YEARS AGO, NOW WE NEED THE CERTIFICATE TO RELOCATE

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A confused Nigerian wife shared her story on Social Media and honestly tears dropped from my eyes while reading and I couldn't think of  a reply. She needs answers. Should she forgive her husband and go ahead with the court marriage nine years after or fly abroad with her kids and leave the man here in Nigeria? Read below... “I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and

Can A Nagging Wife Change? HOW DO YOU MANAGE ONE?

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So yesterday, I got a mail, replied and decided not to publish it here. However, thinking about it today, I feel it might be useful to someone on the blog so, here is it below and my reply to sender...

Dear Madam,

I read your post/blog on the internet on Nagging Wife. I will like if you can share with me how to

Can a woman with Rhesus negative blood type give birth to children?

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Hello wives connection. I am a young student who found your blog on Google and needs help.  My parents both have positive blood groups;  mum is o+ while dad is A- Both me and my elder brother are negative and people keep telling me that I might give birth to just one child in my lifetime, that if I lose the first pregnancy I might remain barren because negative blood group causes miscarriages.  Is it true ma?

Wife rants on Facebook after receiving insults from hubby's babymama

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A mother of four,  identified as Ruth Brownie on Facebook is not only hurt that her husband is still sleeping with his baby mama, but also frustrated that he has taken sides with the said woman who finds pleasure in humiliating her. According to the frustrated Nigerian lady, since she gave birth to her last child who is barely 2 months old, her husband rarely spends time at home as he is mostly with his baby mama.  She also said that her husband is proud of his sex life with this baby mam as he comes home every now and then to boast about it. Below is her post shared on a Facebook page...

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