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We Enjoy a healthy marriage with no major issues but one thing...

Hello ma'am, I wanted to reach out to this wonderful wives connection family and get some advice on if my situation is a perfectly normal one or I am the one who is over-reacting like she said.  I am not really sure what I should be doing. Would appreciate any advice from the blog...

This is my second time asking for help from the blog family and I trust . My wife and I just celebrated our first wedding anniversary last weekend. We enjoy a fairly healthy marriage with no major issues so far, But one thing that has been

Ugu Okro Soup Served With Stew And Corn Flour Fufu

Maybe I should have posted this long before Nigerian tomatoes became


Hello Aunty Eya, good morning, I need urgent help from wives connection. My baby is just 5 months old and exclusively breastfed. I haven't yet introduced him to solid food or cereal and wanted to wait till he is 6 months but there is a little challenge. My husband has been on my neck to let him suck too,

Mr and Mrs West On A Lunch Date

Kim Krdashian in a plunging orange mini dress.Her orange dress is custom made by Mark Wong Nark, which means it's not available. The couple looked relaxed as they arrived at the upscale restaurant, a Kardashian family favorite.

Sit down for your house


Boy falls into gorilla enclosure, gets dragged for 10 minutes before giant animal is shot dead

A zoo shot and killed a 17-year-old gorilla that grabbed and dragged a four-year-old boy who fell into the gorilla exhibit moat on Saturday afternoon, the Cincinnati Zoo's director said. Authorities said the boy, who fell 10 to 12 feet, is expected to recover after being picked up out of the moat and dragged by the 400-pound male, lowland gorilla named Harambe. The boy was in the moat for about 10 minutes and was in between the gorilla's


It was a very sunny Saturday morning, and our wedding anniversary. I looked at my wife as she got ready to leave the house for work. She is a doctor and had been on call today. It seemed like yesterday she walked down the aisle to me. Wow! We are twenty-three years in marriage today.

Pregnant Mum Went Into Hospital To Deliver Her Baby But Woke Up Five Days Later With No Legs

This story just reminded me that every pregnancy is different, and that even Oyibo Doctors make mistakes. Five days at the hospital, mum woke up hoping to see her bundle of joy but instead was met by Doctors with heartbreaking news for her.What should have been a routine op had gone horribly wrong after her healthy daughter Winter Rose had been delivered. And after five days in an induced coma, Ella needed both legs amputated to save her life after blood had clotted in them. Today, in a heartbreaking interview, the mum-of-eight tells how her life has been changed forever because of an allegedNHSblunder.

(Photos): Toolz And Tunde Demuren Dubai Wedding #Tsquared

Toolz and Tunde got Married yesterday May 28,2016 in Dubai.
Happy Married Life.
See more photos after the cut...

Vegetables Cornmeal With Fish

I enjoyed this a lot as a child, ate lots of cornmeal s during the rains, Mostly cooked with broad pumpkin leaves. Green amaranth is also good when there's no pumpkin leaves. If you are from the South South, you may have tasted this delicacy. I can eat this for dinner because corn is not high in calories. We enjoyed this meal after so many years, I just remembered it this week. Cooking with kpanla fish makes this a very very affordable dish because kpanla fish is the most affordable fish in Nigerian market right now.
We have food is Nigeria abeg, in abundance.


2 Tablespoonfuls palm oil

My Fiance Says He Used To Masturbate, That Ok For A Christian?

Hello, good day auntie Eya,I'm a Christian and so is my fiance. We're both adults, and are both waiting till marriage before we share a bed. Now, we all have urges. we're human. I'm physically attracted to my fiance and he is the same towards me. Yet we of course won't and can't do anything about it and just try our best to ignore the urges.
Well, the thing is he just confessed to me that he used to masturbate, and this would ease

Guess This Delicacy and win airtime

Found this on Facebook. It tastes like fresh fish pepper soup.
Hint: It's cold blooded, medicinal too. A lot of people, especially women, do not have the guts to eat this even though it's white meat and highly nutritious.

Singer Waje and her Daughter

The Voice Nigeria Coach and her gorgeous daughter Emerald cover Allure Vanguard. See more photos after the cut...

Get Rid Of Infertility Problems

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Heavily Pregnant In My Dream, Two Other People Had The Same Dream About Me

Good morning aunty Eya, please i have something bothering me that i would like you to share on your blog. I dreamt that I am heavily pregnant and two other people had the  exact same dream too which they told me. I'm a girl of 22 years, not married and not ready for it till I graduate and

Woman wins permission to remove her dead partner's testicles in the hope of using his sperm to get pregnant

A woman has won a legal battle to remove her late partner's testicles from his dead body in the hope of using his sperm to have a child.  The Toowoomba woman was granted permission to remove his testicles in the Queensland Supreme Court. The woman lodged an urgent application to perform the procedure the day after her fiance died unexpectedly in April, the ABC reported.  
The two met in September last year, became engaged a month later and were planning to


After raising a ton of questions and setting off a firestorm of speculation with her ‘Lemonade’album, Beyoncé wants fans to know that her family dynamic is in a great place. The singer took to Instagram to share some intimate family photos — and you may be surprised to see

Photo: Annie Idibia Celebrating Children's Day In Abuja


Gordon Ramsay responds to woman who claims her baby looks just like him

Do you see the resemblance? Claire Dempster wasn't expecting such a huge response when she tweeted a photograph of her baby at Gordon Ramsay. The child, who in the photograph sports the same steely expression as the famously volatile chef, does look remarkably like Ramsay. She tweeted... @GordonRamsay this is our baba - have you been in Wales for any reason


The shooter believed the doctor had no right to be present during labor and that only a female gynecologist should have assisted the delivery. The woman gave birth at the King Fahad Medical City in the Saudi capital Riyadh back in April, Saudi news site Sabq reported.   Shortly after the birth, the woman’s husband went to the hospital and asked to meet with Dr Muhannad Al Zabn, а Jordanian national who helped his wife during labor. The man said he wanted to thank the doctor. Both met in the hospital garden but instead of expressing gratitude to the

Pregnant Woman Killed As Driver Misses Bus Stop Sign

An Atlanta man missed a stop sign and plowed into a pregnant woman at a bus stop, killing her. Ke’Anna Shields, 21, was pronounced dead at the scene of the accident on Pryor Road near Amal Drive on Thursday, according to the The graduate nursing student was on her way to pick up her cap and gown at United

Photo: Zahra Buhari



Hello wives connection and Madame Eya, I started following the blog in 2014 and have benefitted immensely. Please advise me on how to go about this new drama from my wife. We have been married for 8 years and live in a 4 bedroom here in Lagos  with 2 kids. We are not rich but comfortable enough to thank God. I am a  business owner and I pay for everything, children School fees, food, cars, insurances, groceries, maintenance, medical bills, building a home at my village and all expenses which is well over say ten thousand Naira straight.  I also pay for my wife's part time schooling. She became a teacher after our second child was born, to enable her create more time for the kids while earning a little something for herself.  My wife doesn't really work that much at home and does only a few dishes sometimes, laundry pretty much most of the chores for

Italian doctor wants to adopt Nigerian orphan Baby Favour whose parents died in immigrant boat off Libya coast (Photos)

A doctor taking care of a baby girl orphaned when the ship her family were on capsized in the Mediterranean has said he wants to be her adoptive father.
Nine-month-old Favour arrived on the Italian island of

Local Palm oil jollof rice with dadawa, smoked fish and vegetables

Palm oil local jollof rice cooked the same way we cooked the palm oil rice and beans but this time instead of beans, we added dadawa and vegetables. This is very filling and delicious. Those who don't like fresh fish will still enjoy this because smoked fish tastes really good without all that fish smell.
INGREDIENTS:  3 cups rice1 fifty Naira wrap of dadawa (locust beans)

Ghanaian pastor caught sleeping with a married woman on her matrimonial bed (photos)

Apostle Douglas Akwesi Amanor (pictured on the bed) was caught naked with Mrs Mina Adjei (pictured) a married woman and a member of his church on her matrimonial bed in Accra, Ghana.  Read the story as told by Nana Effei, from Tema, Ghana after the cut...

I want My Wife To Be Exactly Like My Mother

Twitter user Chuma wants his wife to be exactly like his mother. I say That's NOT POSSIBLE. Who will then be like his wife or does getting married to Chuma mean that her own personality is lost forever?
See some replies below:

Osas and Gbenro Ajibade are Pregnant

Tinsel Star Gbenro and Osas who got married last year are pregnant with their first child.

Stella Damasus' daughter, Angelica Aboderin receives Presidents' Award for educational excellence in America

Actress/Singer, Speaker Stella Damasus' daughter with late Jaiye Aboderin, Angelica Aboderin won a prestigious award for academic excellence. Mon announced this via her Instagram page while Celebrating her via her... Below is what Stella wrote:

Teenage boy commits suicide rather than face his parents anger for crashing a new car

An 18-year-old teenage gymnast, Ruslan Gutu, committed suicide by hanging himself, after crashing a brand new car bought for him by his parents. According to his girlfriend Athena, Ruslan confided in her on how worried he was about telling his parents about the crash of the new car.
Athena told the coroner that he was 'shaking' as he told her he was worried about how he

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West Sue Former Bodyguard for $30 Million, Demand Retraction

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West’s former bodyguard, Steve Stanulis, has been going around to various media publications and selling a ‘story’ about how he was fired for talking to Kim on the job and making Kanye jealous of their interraction. Kim and Kanye say the story is a complete lie and are now suing Steve for $30 million based on the



Python Sinks Fangs into Man’s Penis While He’s on the Toilet [Photos]

Atthaporn Boonmakchuay thought he was simply going to the bathroom to handle business as usual. Unfortunately for him, an 11-foot python was in there ready to bite on his penis... via Mail Online: The 38-year-old reportedly reached down with his hand after feeling a sharp bite – only to discover the serpent’s jaws clamped around the tip of his penis. Atthaporn screamed out for his wife as he thrashed around trying to dislodge the 11ft python.

My husband impregnated my niece, I connived with nurse for abortion

Mrs Dike Happiness has been arrested alongside a nurse in the Mafoluku, Oshodi area of Lagos State for allegedly aborting the pregnancy of a 12-year-old girl, identified only as Favour.
Favour, according to the Punch is Mrs. Dike’s neice who was allegedly impregnated by her husband, Dike Johnbull. Johnbull had reportedly raped the victim several times before she conceived. It was said that Johnbull, a father of three, and his wife, Happiness, found out that Favour was four months pregnant in February, after which they bundled her to stay with their trader friend in Mafoluku, to hide the evil deed but the woman was said to have returned Favour to the couple in April, saying she

The average city dweller in Kenya pays 16 bribes a month

In East Africa’s most prosperous economy, the average city resident pays up to 16 bribes per month, according to Transparency International. Locals have dubbed Kenya “ya kitu kidogo” — the land of the “little something” — a kind of homeland of the bribe. And on the streets of Eastleigh,Nairobi, the victims of those bribes point their finger at one perpetrator. “If you look at the police who are meant to protect them,” says local activist Abdullahi

Cow to be put to death for killing elderly woman

A mad cow in Norway is being put to death for killing a woman, according to a report. The 80-year-old woman in Rødøy Municipality in Nordland was attacked and killed last weekend as she helped the cow give birth for the first time, The Local reported. “We have had contact with the farmer, and he is determined that the cow that attacked must be killed because it is unstable. He does not want to have it amongst his livestock,” Nordland police spokesman Mads Bernhoft said. The cow also injured the 83-year-old hubby before a neighbor eventually fought the animal

Woman's bid to use deceased daughter's eggs to have children continues

A 60-year-old woman who wants to use her late daughter's frozen eggs to give birth to her own grandchild is continuing her legal battle. The woman is appealing against the UK regulator's refusal to allow her to take her only child's eggs to a US clinic to be used with donor sperm. Her daughter, who died five years ago, was said to have approved of the plan. The mother lost a High Court case last year but was subsequently granted permission to

Snapchat video of 'sex between 15-year-old girl and up to 25 boys' sparks police investigation

Police in Florida have launched an investigation into a video purportedly showing as many as 25 boys having sex with a 15-year-old girl in a school bathroom. Twenty-five male students were identified using CCTV going into the Lee County high school's main boys’ bathroom while the girl was inside last week. Authorities initially decided not to pursue the incident, as neither the girl nor her

Doctors claim 'heaviest newborn baby girl ever' born in India

A mother in India has given birth to a 15-pound baby girl, believed to be the heaviest female infant ever born. The child weighs the same amount as the average six-month-old and is reportedly twice the size of the average baby. The baby, who is unnamed, was delivered by cesarean section to her 19-year-

Photos of young VVF patients carrying bowls at Murtala Muhammad Hospital, Kano

Kano State Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Development today, Wednesday, May 25, visited the VVF ward at Murtala Muhammad Hospital to check the health condition of the young patients and make some donation to them. The patients are pictured with bowls between their legs to manage the leakage. 

In July 2013, the then Minister of Women Affairs and Social Development, Hajiya Zainab Maina, said Nigeria had been identified as the country with the highest prevalence of Vesico

When My Husband Think's I'm not around; Annoying

Hello Aunty Eya and wives connection fam. This is really just a rant but over the past few weeks, my husband and I have been talking about having kids after just 5 months of marriage. We've been together for 2 years as fiance and fiancee hustling to gather money for wedding, but married only five months back. We are both only 27. 
I snoop on him and know quite a few blogs and forums he reads. I noticed him making stupid remarks on a forum he visits. It's an open forum, predominantly male users. He's been talking about how Beyonce is the only true hourglass female and how Rihanna makes him wanna diggggg. I don't think he knows I can see that stuff but I think he's being an idiot. And, frankly, I'm disappointed that he's like that when he thinks I'm not around. I thought of confronting him but won't he think I've been spying on him?

It's making me feel weird. I don't know if I want to be all gigantic and pregnant while

Paris Jackson Reveals Her Latest Tattoo in Honor of Late Father Michael Jackson [Photo]

Paris Jackson took to Instagram to show off her latest tattoo — a tribute to her father, the late Michael Jackson. The 18-year-old got her father’s 1991 “Dangerous” album cover tattooed on her forearm at Los Angeles shop Timeless Tattoo. “The meaning of life is contained in every single expression of life,” she quoted

DSTV removes Caitlyn Jenner's "I am Cait' show following serious complaints from Nigerians

MultiChoice Nigeria, owners of DSTV have removed “I Am Cait” from its E! Entertainment channel’s Schedule after many Nigerians complained about the show. ‎A statement released by the satellite TV company yesterday May 24th, says they are aware of the concerns raised by some of their viewers regarding the programme “I Am Cait”, a reality show about

Jay Z takes Beyonce out on a dinner date, hours after addressing 'Lemonade' cheating rumours in new song (photos)

Jay Z took his wife Beyonce on a dinner date just hours after addressing rumours he cheated on her in a new song with Fat Joe. The track has got everyone talking since it dropped exclusively on Tidal on Tuesday. Hours later Jay Z was spotted holding hands with a smiling Beyonce in New York as they went on a dinner date. More photos after the cut..

Graphic photos: Married man killed in girlfriend's house by jealous boyfriend in Cameroon

A married man was killed in his girlfriend's house by a jealous boyfriend in Bamenda, Cameroon. The 22-year-old culprit said to be a student of FONAP Polytechnic alleged went crazy when he saw the married man in his girlfriend's bedroom and killed him. The girl is said to be 20 years old.

A Cameroonian Dimma Karen shared the video and photos on Facebook writing: "See what happened in front me today around FONAB polytechnic done by a student. Let God take control. He died bex a hero. RIP" The kwifon of nkwen has locked the girls room saying it is an abomination and certain rituals have to be done before it can be reopened. See the graphic images after the cut..

Inefficient Gynaecologist at Crystal Hospital Dopemu, What Can I Do?

Hello aunt Eya, I want to use this medium to report what happened at the above mentioned hospital located in Dopemu area close to Egbede. Eight months ago,I had a baby there through CS.I later found out that the gynaecologist didn't do well.when I arrived there,he checked me and I was 2cm dilated and afterward referred me for cervical ripening but he wasn't the one that did the ripening for me .
another doctor came along and performed the ripening even while I was not in labour and there was no issue with me nor the pregnancy ,the baby wass doing well in the womb so I don't know why cervical ripening that lead to rupturing my

Abuja: My husband’s extramarital affair collapsed his church

A petty trader, Juliana Aquila, on Tuesday told a Nyanya Customary Court in Abuja that her husband’s extramarital affairs led to the collapse of his church. Juliana, the respondent, said this when she testified in a divorce petition filed against her by her husband, Abba. "I m not the reason why my husband’s church closed down as my husband alleges; it was his extramarital affair with a woman called Rosemary that led to the collapse of his church. "In 2015, my husband relocated from Minna where we resided, to Abuja and was cohabiting


Many new parents long for a full night of glorious, uninterrupted sleep yet shudder at the thought of letting their baby "cry it out," the sleep training method in which parents allow babies to cry themselves to sleep. But a new study adds support to the idea that the method is effective and does not cause stress or lasting emotional problems for babies. Researchers in Australia worked with 43 sets of parents who had babies

Why Tyler Perry Sold His Atlanta Mansion for $17.5 Million

The palatial mansion featured 17 manicured acres, a larger-than-Olympic-size swimming pool, an IMAX theater, a tennis court atop a parking deck, and a bedroom with a full-sized tub and massage table adjacent to the 4 poster canopy bed! But Perry said he gave it all up… for more land.

The ‘Real’ Reason Tamar Braxton was Fired from ‘The Real’: ‘Negative Feedback on Her ‘Ghetto’ Persona, On-Set Insubordination, and a Rebellion by Advertisers’

Executives of the hit daytime talk show The Real fired Tamar Braxton because of negative feedback on her ‘ghetto’ persona given by focus groups – as well as on-set insubordination and a rebellion by advertisers. The  show’s sales team made it clear that advertisers did not want her in their segments due to her antics and lack of cooperation. Specifically, there was an incident a few weeks ago that basically ended her run with the show. During the final tapings of The Real in early May, the show’s executive producer had reached breaking point with Tamar, who cursed her out in earshot of other staffers on set after being upset she lost a game during the taping. ‘It was an ugly scene. Pinterest was sponsoring the segment and Tamar was genuinely upset she was losing the game.  ‘She really acted out during the taping in front of the studio audience and then exploded


Following the recent spate of celebrities flashing their side boobs on the red carpet, one savvy company has decided to cash in on the trend. Fashion retailer, ASOS, has come up with a bralette that is designed to give your side boobs maximum exposure, for $37.04 Australian dollars, you can get your paws on one.

Coming in sizes XS to L, the bralette is offered in three colours by ASOS - it can

Pancake Stacks By My 8 Year Old

She made these for herself and little brother without supervision, without even using my pancake recipes. They cleared everything and only gave me a small piece. When she started, I asked that she writes down her ingredients so I can learn too, lol.

Pancake Ingredients:

11/2 cups self raising flour

State Of Emergency On Tomatoes - Kaduna State

God save us from diseases and pests of food crops, so it's a disease that has caused tomato scarcity. Then people should stop promising the scarcity will end in a few months unless the disease is controlled.
The Commissioner for Agriculture and Forestry in Kaduna state, Manzo Daniel today disclosed that the state government has declared a state of emergency on tomato following an attack of tomato blight that has wiped out about 80 percent of tomato farms in the state.

Lunchbox ideas 3: Fried Spaghetti

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Egusi stew turned vegetable soup

This is the left over egusi stew I made last weekend. Some people want to eat eba today and there is no soup at home,  so, I just turned the stew into soup. I have these ugu vegetables in the fridge with some left over pieces of boiled meat and stock. Soup is ready!
I didn't know it will turn out so delicious o, I was scared, worried that if it doesn't go well, that means my stew is wasted, but eh, come and see finger licking. No one even suspects it's the old egusi stew. Compliments are pouring in for the soup. I have cooked egusi and bitter leaf vegetable soup
Also cooked egusi and ugu vegetable soup together before but never tried tomatoes in fluted


As you’ve probably heard, we exclusively broke the news over the weekend that Tamar Braxton was fired from the ‘The Real’ and why she won’t be returning for the third season...WENDY

Watch below, a Short clipse of Tamar swirling at THE REAL...

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Good evening madam Eya, please I am a male reader on this your blog , help me post my case so that I could get help from you ladies, I am a father of four kids,I've always taken care of my family but my wife attitudes have changed that as the economy of the country is high and she is doing well in her business,

Adele Signs $130 Million Contract With Sony Records; the Largest Deal Ever for a British Artist

Singer/Songwriter Adele signed a £90 Million ($130 million USD) recording contract with American recording label Sony Records. The recording contract is the largest ever for a British artist. Adele has been credited with single-handedly reviving album sales after a dismal record sales decade nearly collapsed the music industry. The deal was brokered by her manager, Jonathan Dickins, just before Christmas, according