In An Abusive And Obsessive Marriage, I Need A Life

Ma'am hapy nu month
Was introduced to ur blog by a friend as I must comment wot u r doing and how u r reaching out, am a graduate of LASU since 2010 and up till now they havnt given u a cert so getin a job has been soo difficult, am a mother and also a wife, a survivor in an abusive and obsessed marriage, I need a life, I need a job Pls, I nid a reason to b happy, I need to show Ds man dat I can make my own muny, d humiliation is too much, I have walked away 2ce buh kips comin back becos handling 3kids witout a job in Nigeria is just a suicide mission, am Godly and very hardworking. Pls any sister around festac and it's environ dat can assist me wiv a decent job is wellcome, olso I need encouragements. And advices from mature minds, mature friends dat can help me sail Tru Ds life battles gallantly. GBU

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  1. Y not take up a vocational skill like tailoring or catering anything u have a passion for pending wen they give u ur certificate but in d mean time avoid trouble in everyway u can wit dt man and ur success will come as a surprise to him

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  2. Y not take up a vocational skill like tailoring or catering anything u have a passion for pending wen they give u ur certificate but in d mean time avoid trouble in everyway u can wit dt man and ur success will come as a surprise to him

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  3. Johnson4/01/2016

    Madam, the 1st thing you need is self-encouragement. You also need to realize that wanting to show your husband that you can make your own money will not get you far.
    Life is more about choices- where you are today is the product of past choices you made, and your tomorrow will be based on choice you make today. It's the same for all of us.
    Staying in abusive marriage because of children and no job due to no cert since 2010 are mere excuses... You need to sit back and talk to yourself - what can you do? How do you become a better wife & mother? Etc. It is the child that opens his/her hand that would be carried...

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  4. Weda husband or no husband every one need independent life. That's where your self confidence comes in. Thank God you in lagos at least job won't b dt hard to get. Just strt something no matter how small it is till better one comes in. Den while waiting too u can try some handwork or Lil businesses dt ll keep body and soul moving. Don't worry God will open doors for u soonest. Just keep praying. All d best ma'am.

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