Showing posts from March, 2016

Dodo Gizzard, Nigerian White Soup, Okra Soup, Pepper soup Plus More Nigerian Recipes To Cook This Weekend


I am not good enough for my husband

Hello Mrs Ayambem, can you please post this on wives connection blog for me.  I have been married for 3 months now. Please take out personal details before posting.  My husband  is extremely good looking and has had lots of good

Bouncing Baby Boy Found In Pit Toilet Yesterday

My keypad is  soaked in tears and I don't know how to stop. There are orphanages, there are churches and mosques, there are public places to leave this baby in case no orphanage around. Why a toilet? Why? Maybe I should just keep posting mails of pregnant ladies looking for adoptive parents.
Here is a bouncing baby boy found alive in a pit toilet yesterday, photos shared on Facebook with not much details. Below is another photo of the baby in poop.

He always wants to know my every move, How long I'll spend when I go out

Helo WC please i really need to make a  decision. my boy friend doesn't trust, i know i'm responsible for that cos i messed up once and i told him about it and assured him it will never happen again and i intend to stick to

I Lied To Him About Being A Virgin; Should I Just Leave?

Hello Aunt Eya,  good morning, how is the holiday and our family?  I need help with a lie I told that's about to back fire. I've been with my fiancee for a year now  and at the start of our relationship I lied to him about being a virgin. He was a virgin so he thought that we were each other's first. The only reason I

What Can I Use For Skin Discoloration Caused By Pregnancy?

Aunty Eya happy easter Pls help me post, I'm dark skin but since I gave birth my neck refused to blend with other parts of my body, it's so black. Please

A Doctor Has Had His Registration Cancelled For Failure To Properly Diagnose Appendicitis

A 77 year old Doctor who failed to diagnose appendix has had his Registration cancelled. The medical practitioner failed to diagnose an eight-year-old boy with appendicitis has had his medical registration cancelled after the child died in hospital.  Dr Hamid Kahn, who has been a general practitioner for 40 years, examined the

A Bouncy Castle Blew Away In High Winds Killing 7 Year Old

Always keep an eye on the young ones when they play on bouncy castles at kids birthday parties please. A 7-year-old-girl has died after the bouncy castle she was playing on blew away in Harlow. She was visiting an Easter fair when high winds ripped the dome-shaped inflatable from the

Khloe And Lamar Together Easter Service

Khloe Kardashian and husband Lamar Odom including other Kardashian siblings were seen going for Easter service today. Below is how TMZ reports it:
Speaking of resurrection ... Lamar Odom was back with Khloe Kardashian and the rest of the family for Easter church service. Khloe and Lamar strolled into church looking the married couple they still are -- and toting Kourtney's

Christ Is Risen! Happy Easter

Easter symbolizes the renewal of life. I wish you and your family the renewal of life, love, and happiness. May Jesus Christ bless you and your family with abundant happiness and

Baby Born With Full Set Of Hair has become an overnight Internet sensation after mom shares selfie Online

28 Year Old Mackenzie Kaplan took a sweet selfie with baby Isabelle and posted it on her private Facebook and Instagram.
But the next day, the 28-year-old was surprised to discover her daughter had become an online star.

Is It True That Challenges Don't Come To Those Who Pay Tithe?

So I went reading a story Online to know how much parents of the Barbington Macaulay Junior Seminary paid as ransome to get back their daughters from kidnappers. While commenters thanked God that no harm befell the young girls, below is a comment that caught my attention:

3 Months Later, Ex Wife Is Pregnant For Judge Who Dissolved Her Marriage

A man and his wife started having marital problems and approached a court to resolve their issues. The marriage was dissolved and 3 months later the lady is pregnant for judge who dissolved her marriage.  The details of a scandal, which led to the suspension of a Lagos State Customary Court Judge, Mr. Razak Adeyeri, have come out, as the parties in the issue – the estranged couple and the judge – explained what happened in one of the most controversial cases in

Real Housewives of Atlanta (RHOA) Cynthia Bailey 'no longer living' with husband Peter Thomas

Earlier this week, Cynthia hinted that her marriage was struggling.And on Friday, TMZ uncovered some evidence of Cynthia Bailey's struggle, as it turns out the RHOA star and husband Peter Thomas are no longer living together. According to the news site, while the show was on break, Peter decided to move into the couple's Charlotte, North Carolina home, leaving Cynthia in their place in Atlanta, Georgia. A source told TMZ that the arrangement has been going on for 'months,' because Peter no longer wants to be a part of the reality show. He also apparently blames the show for the disintegration of his tenuous

How wives make sex mistakes but blame their husbands

When wives want to be honest about their lack of interest in sexual relationship with their husbands, one thing they often say that discourages them is the way their husbands have failed to measure up sexually. Apart from complaining about not knowing how to treat them at day time, they accuse them of neglecting foreplay and eventually making a mess of the sexual act itself. Many husbands tend to

Man Admitted To Killing His Wife Because She Won't Stop Talking

A Man threw a blanket over his " loudmouthed" wife, covered her with a pillow and sat on  it until she gave up. Below is how Dallas News is reporting it:

Easter Celebrations Around The World

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A Respected Spy Exposed By Wife Over Secret Gay Sex

A spy has been exposed by his wife over a gay sex scandal, The Telegraph can disclose. The case was raised in a military divorce heard in court recently, involving an intelligence officer in an Army unit that targets al-Qaeda and Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant (Isil). The scandal emerged after the officer’s wife discovered he was having one-off sexual liaisons with men he met near his Army base and close to the headquarters of MI6 in south London. The woman is divorcing him but reported his activities to military commanders.
This newspaper has seen military correspondence in which the woman raises concerns about Developed Vetting (DV), a security procedure designed to alert intelligence agencies to issues with the private lives of their staff which could make them vulnerable to blackmail. The wife said: “DV is not fit for purpose any more. It’s an honesty box system that doesn’t work. I found out what my husband was doing very easily. Imagine what trained people could do with t…

Viral Poop-Date-Lady Now Hit By Suitors

The lady who clogged her date's  toilet with poop during a sweet date and put it in her purse has attracted suitors like flies on s***. Makela from Canada went massively viral this week after tweeting about her disastrous date ... she was at his house, went to the bathroom but his toilet

Microsoft deletes 'teen girl' Chat Robot after it became a Hitler-loving sex robot within 24 hours

A day after Microsoft introduced an innocent Artificial Intelligence chat robot to Twitter it has had to delete it after it transformed into an evil Hitler-loving, incestual sex-promoting, 'Bush did 9/11'-proclaiming

I'll Like To Share My Story With Wives Connection Readers...

Hello Eya, I will like to share my story with wives connection visitors. I just discovered the blog, went reading old posts and it feels awkward how you and other counselors advise women not to divorce but to pray for their "sick husbands" and hope for the best? I suffered in my relationship and marriage in the past but I'm a survivor. When I was 24, I fell in lust with a man 15 years older than me. I was so naive, I believed everything he said to me, said he was going to divorce his wife and

Nigerian Easter Recipes To Cook This Weekend

These are carefully selected recipes, great for Easter Celebrations in Nigeria. The yummy recipes

See How Unicorns Are Made

Beautiful rainbow. Lovely colours, very green grass.

Everything In This Home Was Precious To The Owner, She Won't Throw Anything Out

It was later renovated, Before and after pics posted on Social Media, Nasty comments followed, which got the family of the home owner angry but unable

This 19 Year Old has the mental age of 7, struggles to balance and cannot dress himself after Mom was bitten by mosquitoes during pregnancy - Mom Reveals

At 19, Daryle Koltay cannot do things normally or live like other boys his age, he has a condition where babies are born with small heads and his family thinks it

So Allergic To Water, Even Tear Drops Can Cause Her Pain

The 17 year old is so allergic to water that even her own tear drops cause her excruciating pain...
She is one of only 35 people in the world to suffer from aquagenic urticaria. Niah said: “Living with it is a nightmare. When water comes into contact with my skin it feels like it’s burning. I’m in a lot of pain and there’s nothing anyone can do.”
The distressing symptoms began when she was five but no one could work out the

Undateable Stammerer Now Planning A Wedding After Appearing On A Dating Show

Stammering Matthew Oghene who believed he would never find love because of his impediment is now engaged after appearing on a dating show, Read how it happened:

Woman Impregnates Herself To Avoid Death Row

42 Year Old Nguyen will give birth next Month April 2016 after artificially inseminating herself in August 2015 to get pregnant and avoid dead penalty. Read the story below:

Update On Cojoined Twins Miracle And Testimony

I feel so relieved and happy for the Ayeni cojoined twins. Beautiful Actress Caroline Danjuma who brought their plight to the public, gave an update about  them this morning. Read what she wrote below:

My Good Friday Lunch Is...

To cook rice and beans together, it's best to let beans boil for at least 40

I Am Happily Married Not Living Happily Ever After

Hi Aunty Eya, please permit me share my story on the blog today Good Friday to encourage one or two wives who read it. Ever since I discovered wives connection blog in December last year, I have visited daily and read stories of unhappy marriages, read wonderful pieces of advise and even the not so good

Reality Star In Tears Following Cruel Comments About The Shape Of Her Ears

She says I hate my ears but was born like that:
The reality TV babe, who admitted she cried after reading nasty comments about her appearance, says she is ready to fight back and will NOT be going

Dad Marries 1 Year Old Daughter Who Has Just Few Days To Live

A father marries one year old daughter who has just a few days to live because he planned on giving her a Dream wedding, Read the story below:

READ THIS: I Have A Story To Tell, It's About My Poop

This woman was forced to hide a poo in her HANDBAG after her date’s toilet wouldn’t flush, and then it gets worse from there. Read Below: A WOMAN has gone viral after sharing a cautionary tale when it comes to taking a POO at a romantic partner's house. Makela, from Toronto, live tweeted the gripping story to her Twitter account, causing hordes of social media users to tune and hear what happened next. The ‘pooping’ incident happened on Monday night after Makela had agreed to

Woman "Burns Vagina" In A Dance Off Trying To Wow Her Audience

Image courtesy: Sickchirpse/Youtube. Dance Off Drama goes wrong as this woman sets fire to her vagina while dancing. Read below: A shocking video shows the moment a woman 'burned her vagina' after she set her crotch on fire in the middle of a dance off. In the clip, the woman is heard screaming as she glances down at her crotch and sees

Lady Tells Starbucks Barista Her Name Is Beyonce And Gets THIS Response From Them

If you've ever popped into Starbucks for a coffee, you'll know that most of the time they ask you your name to write on the cup. Not only is this a more personable type of customer service, but it helps you get the

By The Time I Realized, We Had Booked Down Everything And Paid Deposits To Many Vendors

Hello Mrs Eya, I'm a male reader of wives connection blog, married for just 8 months but already want out and happy.
I’m 33 years old. I’ve been married to my wife for 8 months now, and I’m already so unhappy that I’m considering leaving for good. Prior to getting

How To Cook Unripe Pawpaw (Papaya) Soup

Papapya or Pawpaw soup is cooked with diced and dried unripe pawpaw. It is a delicacy of the Obudu people of Cross River State Nigeria. They are found around the Ranch Resort and share a boundary with Benue State. Pawpaw soup is cooked with ogbono, egusi, Nigerian white soup or even

We Are Worried About My Son And His Controlling Wife

Hello Madam Eya, I am a forty something year old lover of your blog who left Nigeria long ago but, still feels like home when I come Online and connect with Nigerian blogs like wives connection and a few others. can you please help me post my little challenge with my adult son on the blog for advise? Three years ago, my then 25 year old son met a girl, 23, and "fell in lust" here in the US .....unknown to me and my husband at the time, she was already married

She Is Friends With My husband, Am I Wrong For Requesting Her Hubby's Friendship ?

Am a 25yr old lady, my marriage is less than 2 yrs with a 10 months old daughter. Hubby has a female married friend dat is close to him, dey've been friends even before we got married and all. They do call themselves 'sweety' ,'honey', and 'Shugah'. Initially i complained, but he assured me

Read This: A Fatal Misunderstanding

Even if you have read this before, please read again. I just read on Facebook. Just two years after our marriage, Hubby brought up the idea of asking Mother to move from the rural hometown and spend her remaining years with us. Hubby’s father passed away while he was still very young. Mother endured much hardship and struggled all on her own to provide for him, see him through to a university degree. You could say that she suffered a great deal and did everything you could expect of a woman to bring Hubby to where he is today. I immediately agreed and started packing the spare room, which has a balcony facing the South to let her enjoy the sunshine and plant greenery. Hubby stood in the bright room, and suddenly just picked me up and started spinning round and round. As I begged him to put me down, he said: “Let’s go fetch mother”. Hubby is tall and big sized and I love to test on his chest and enjoy the feeling that he could pick me

Introducing You To Longrich International

Please permit me to introduce to you one of the most successful multi level marketing platform in Nigeria. Please kindly take your time to read through it and do not dismiss it as one of those things.

The platform is a good one with a superb compensation plan. Suitable for a stay at home mom , yet to

Indomie Noodles Recipe AGAIN

Oh yes, indomie again. We've had a long enough break sha. I remember in 2013, when I kept posting different indomie noodle recipes until I started receiving comments asking if noodles are the only thing I know how to cook. I am not a noodle fan. This, here is hubby's  last Sunday's lunch. He loves noodles with lots of vegetables and proteins. I never wanted to share this but come on, someone reading might like it. He enjoyed this lunch thoroughly while I enjoyed my Sunday rice and stew with some chill water. You can also try it this weekend, if your kids love noodles, this is a very nutritious version. When you kids eat this, you are sure there is fibre in their noodles meal and no worries about bowel movements and malnutrition. I am posting this because even though there are many noodles recipes on the blog, there is none

I Made Dad Give My Boyfriend A Job, My Parents Feel Strongly About Me Ending It With Him, Should I Listen To Them?

Hello Aunty Eya, please help me cuz am in a fix right now about my boyfriend, my recent feelings and my parents. I have been in this relationship for 2 years, he is 28 while am 25 years old. Ok, I

Cook Any Soup With This Base

At this point of cooking Nigerian soups, no one can say if it's vegetable, egusi, ogbono, okra soup or what? This is basically the base for almost all Nigerian soups. Here, all proteins are in the pot, palm oil is cooking already cos we don't want to smell raw oil while eating, at this point, I can make this white soup by adding hot leaf (uziza) and pounded yam; I can make this draw soup by adding ogbono; I can make this  Nigerian white soupvegetable ogbono soup, edikaikong  soup or afang soup by adding my veggies at this point. This can become egusi soup just by adding ground melon. Cooking Nigerian soups is very easy if one masters this basic part.Y you can easily make any soup with this same base.

For this weekend, let's cook egusi soup with tomatoes on number 4 below

It Has Run It's Course, How Do I Stop Caring?

Hi Mrs Eya, good morning. I am an addict of wives connection blog who has never posted before, this is my first time. Please help  put it up without my details. I need advice on how to move on when you are convinced a relationship has run it's course. I was looking forward to

I Feel Like A Roommate, Invisible And Insecure Everyday

Hello Aunty Eya, please post this on wives connection. I've been married going on 14 years, my husband and I are in our mid and late forties and we are no longer having any intimacy, there is no intimacy at all, it feels robotic and forced when anything does happen in our

Good Businesses For A Stay At Home Mom In Lagos

Hello Aunty Eya how is the family? Am an ardent reader of wives connection o and there is no day I don't refresh this site. only if I don't have Internet ... Please I want you to post this

I am The Problem In My Marriage

Good morning Eya, how is little Chairman and the family? I wish to ask for help on the blog, kindly post anonymously please. I don't understand why I cannot be happy with what I have which is more than most people. To be honest Aunty

Re: My Story, The Circle Is Repeating Itself

Hello Aunty Eya, I have decided to keep this baby and the scan shows it's a boy. Things are hard for me, I engaged myself in petty trading. Buying and selling of cheap cosmetic products. Please ma, help me put out

New Mom Tips: Best Hot Water Flask To Use In Nigeria

Hi Aunty Eya, Am a new mom who got so much help from wives connection during the period of my pregnancy. God bless everyone that shared pregnancy tips on the blog. I need help from other moms

I Love Apple Juice


I Know My Husband Has Fallen In Love With Her; Have Tried My Best Not To Contact Her But It's Hard

If I Can't Enjoy My Marriage At This Early Stage; What Happens When My Parts Start Falling Apart (Old age)?
Hi aunty. Let me start by saying I need this to be anonymous. This blog has really helped me immensely. I am a 30yr old mother of one who has been married for almost 3yrs now. My husband is a serial cheat. At the  top of my head, he has cheated about 5 times. I have been forgiving, prayerful, patient and tolerant in the past but I think I have gotten to a point I cannot take it anymore. I am a very good looking fashion forward, hygiene conscious

Shredded Chicken Fried Rice Recipe

Shredded chicken fried rice just served, hot and delicious.
This shredded chicken fried rice is one recipe you cannot ignore. If you have never really tried any recipe on wives connection? Just cook this shredded chicken fried rice this weekend and watch wonders when your family clears the pot of rice and demands for even more to be preserved. I

Breakfast Ideas 9: Making Hubby's Breakfast

This hot dog and salad is one breakfast I served hubby this time a year ago. I took pics to share but forgot and just yesterday while looking at my old pics, Google reminded me that this photo was taken exactly one year ago and it's still not on the blog. So, I quickly uploaded to share. Well, if you have been following wives connection, you'll already know that me, I nor send o. I don't eat hot dogs. or

Try Answering These Two Questions

A Northern Sister Shares Bedroom Tips To Help Revive Ailing Marriages. Part 2

Happy new year Fam, sorry for the silence pls, laziness and procrastination on my part caused it. Instead of discussing what I had promised the last time, I would beg to digress a little. After reading up posts on so many women who are not happy I feel I should talk about another key point today, before I talk on natural remedy for wetness, tightness and use of waist beads for rhythm during sexual intercourse. Quickly I will answer Brandyless wiliiams( you can check the directoress on Instagram for the oils) if you reside in Abuja I can drop a contact for you.
ORGASM Please permit me to be a bit graphic today, I believe we are all adults and for today I will say it as it is.

My Blended Family - Why Won't He Touch Me?

Good evening Aunty Eya and my awesome wives connection family. My story is a very uncommon one, so strange you may not like to put on the blog but I need your help. If you won't post it, then reply me privately with your own advice please Madam

wife 'kills husband and couple' after finding them 'having threesome' in her bed

A woman murdered her husband and another couple after finding the three in bed together, police said. Crystal Gambino put at least one of the bodies in a wheelbarrow and took the corpse to the garden to burn it, according to police . After the triple murder, Gambino (pictured below) picked up her daughter from school.

I Caught My Husband In Bed With 2 Of Our Nannies - Sharon Osborne

I Was Unlucky When It Came To Nannies.
Their relationship has hardly been smooth but even this confession comes as a bit of a shock. Sharon Osborne has revealed that husband Ozzie slept with two of the nannies hired to look after their children. The 63-year-old star shocked her fellow The Talk panellists with her candid confession on

Video Games Saved My Life When I Was Homeless

Looking at me, you would never be able to guess my humble beginnings — I am a Marketing Manager for a successful tech company, I’ve worked on big brands. I have a

We give Our children a small dose of opium so that they would sleep for eight to 10 hours While We Go To Work - Working Mother

Hidden crisis' of small children left home alone while parents work"
When can a mother leave kids home alone? At what age? - Tens of millions of children under the age of five are regularly being left alone while their parents go to work, according to a groundbreaking report on the “hidden crisis” of childcare around the world. Babies under 12 months old are among those left alone, or in the care of siblings younger

Cooking Ayamashe And Egusi Stew Recipes This Weekend

Ope did justice to this two pots of Ayamashe and egusi stew. This is something to try this weekend. When you taste this

After The Fight, I Don't Feel A Spark Anymore

I have been married for just 4 years, blessed with a bouncing baby boy who is just 2 still learning to communicate with words. My husband and I have always had a rocky relationship no doubt. Our marriage is everything except romantic.While

This Father Needs Psychiatric Checks. Something Is Definitely Wrong

If you were this boy's mom, what would you do?

A father brutalizes his son this way? physical tears just dropped from my eyes while looking at this pics on LIB. What would an 8 year old do to warrant this kind of brutality?
8 years old Chukwuma Okafor is presently on admission at the Kubwa General Hospital

My Wife And I Are Very Opposite About Everything

Dear wives connection and Eya, By asking myself if my marriage is ok,  I am sure it is not. My wife and I have been married for about 4 years. We have a 2 year old that  I love more than anyone and can die for. Wifey is trying I know, but lately I have felt like I have been

5 Reasons I Will Not Add You

Hi Aunty Eya, please help me share reasons why I don't add everyone that DMs or sends me request on Social media and let's

My Husband Says Something Rude To Me And Don't Remember Saying It

Hello wives connection, My husband is not what I thought or what he was before we got married. I suggested we go for medical check ups but he won't burge at alI. He is getting

Spot The Difference

I can spot one already. The cat on the right enjoying a lollipop.

See The Braces?

Lucky puppy. Life's good!

Women to be given 'period leave' by Bristol company

A company is planning to introduce a "period policy" in an effort to “create a happier and healthier working environment”. Co-Exist in Bristol wants to give women more flexibility and said women will be

She Has Beaten Me More Than 10 Times, Even In Public. I Didn't Marry Her Legally, In fact I'm Married And We Were Only Dating

John Ayoade, a 42-year-old man, has begged an Alimosho Customary Court sitting in Lagos State, to dissolve his five-year-old marriage to his wife Deborah Oriade, for fear of his life, citing her brutality

Abduction: 14-yr-old Ese is 5 months pregnant

14 year old Ese Rita Oruru, the Bayelsa born girl child who was abducted by Yunusa Dahiru, alias Yellow but rescued by the Police in Kano, has been discovered to be about 5

350% More Americans Google 'How To Move To Canada' After Donald Trump Super Tuesday Wins

Hehehe, this is not what I'll read and pass without sharing!  The billionaire businessman and reality TV star won seven of the 10 states up for grabs - Georgia, Alabama, Massachusetts, Tennessee, Virginia, Arkansas and Vermont. Infamous for his calls to build a wall across the Mexican border to keep immigrants out, Trump

See 4 Times Kate Middleton Dressed Just Like Her Mother-In-law Princess Diana To Honour Her

One day surprise your mother-In-law by dressing like her to honour her too. It won't kill you oh. She'll be flattered and you two will

Are Sex Toys Allowed In A Christian Marriage?

Good day Eya, how is our wonderful wives connection blog  doing? My phone misbehaved and I haven't read the blog for some

Memory Lane. Were You Born Then?

Just saw these phones on Nairaland and laughed so hard at my favourite number 1. That's Nokia 3310 my very first phone. This phone fell off the roof of a moving car, different parts scattered all over the

Ese Oruru And Her Family Need Our Prayer

I guess we all haave been following the story of the 14 year old abducted from Bayelsa and taken to Kano State. She'll be handed

Am I Not Too Old To Struggle For His Attention?

Hello wives connection family. I am a young at heart 47 year old who loves reading blogs even more than 20 year olds. I need your thoughts concerning my situation please. I am a divorcee who got

I'm Caring, Honest, Hardworking, Romantic, Fun To Be With

I'm Prince M J from Edo state but stay in lagos. Am 35  yrs of age never be married,6'5 feet height, slim, I'm caring, honesty,


Greetings! In crisis situation,  the needs for shelter and food are often given urgent attention.  Sadly, the specific needs of women and girls are often ignored.  According to the International Displacement Monitoring Center, there are an estimated 2,152,000 Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) in Nigeria as of 31 December 2015. Among them, women and girls have heightened needs- including the need for protection from gender-based violence,  health and hygiene needs. For many of us, buying sanitary products is as easy as buying

At 17 Can I Date?

Hello Ma, kindly help me post this. I need other people's opinion to answer my cousin. We are very close, She is 16. I went over to their house for the weekend and she wanted to know when she can start dating. I told her 16 is still young, she says she is leaving Secondary School and as such should be seen and addressed as a young adult NOT child. That all her classmates have boyfriends

Should I Confront Him At The Spot Or Call My Friend?

Hello Aunty Eya, I'm typing this mail from my phone at an eatery somewhere far away. My very good friend recently got a public

I Need Some Advice From Men

Hello wives connection friends and family, I am an only child whose parents are already aged and can't be bothered with

Your Temperament 2: Facts About Your Husband's Personality And Sexuality

To understand your husband's sexuality, you need to go read our first post on temperament and devour Tim Lahaye's books too. 
Sanguine Husband You? You are very responsive, it doesn't take much to turn you on. You are  a natural charmer, good with flattery. You have a great appetite for everything including Knacking your spouse. Dear madame,Your Sanguine husband is reluctant to take