Showing posts from December, 2015

The Other Mans Wife Called And Warned My Wife To Keep Away From Her Husband

I Saw wives connection page open on a colleagues system during work break, checked it out and got super glued since then. I enjoy reading advice here because people are so sincere and forward.  Here is my problem. Almost a year ago, my wife fell in love with another man. I don't know where or how they met but It started out with texting and flirting. This escalated to texting daily even while I am home. I remember a rainy day in July, she asked me to stay home with our two children while she

Top 30 Blog Posts Of 2015 - Most Read

Wives connection most read posts of 2015 all have something in common.  Can you see it? I'll add links so we check them out again. The shea butter and baby skin post is number one, it is the most read post on wives connection this 2015. It receives  heavy hits everyday from January right till December.  There was no day the she a butter post was not read by many mums I guess.  Ok, so I'll start linking from the highest to the high.
1. Is shea butter good for baby skin?

2. Pictures: How to Prepare Soya Beans Powder  For Infants By Peach
3. Can a pregnant woman take moringa?
4. Nigerian food recipes 
5. Why you desperately need moringa tea
6. Nigerian meals suited for a pregnant palate
7. How to cook nutritious afang okazi vegetable soup
8. Excessive farting after giving birth to my baby
9. How to cook Nigerian white soup

Yoruba Introduction Ceremony How To

Hi Eya, I  am a Yoruba properly married woman. I read an old wives connection post where the poster asked how Yoruba Marriage Introduction is carried out, but could not post my comment. In the Yoruba culture, an introduction is held so both families can meet officially. 
Yoruba Introduction Ceremony used to be an affair of just close

Happy Sunday. Hope You Had A Joyous Tiring Christmas?


Merry Christmas From My Family To Wives Connection Family

May this season bring joy to you and your family as you

Promoting Tolerance In The World, Shouldn't Both Sides Adjust?

Muslim parents demanded the abolition of pork in all the school canteens of a Montreal suburb. The mayor of the Montreal suburb of Dorval, has refused, and the town clerk sent a note to all parents to explain why...

35 Nigerian Christmas Recipes To Try This Christmas And New Year Updated


You can find your favourite Christmas and new year recipes on these food collages.  What's your favourite Nigerian Christmas Recipes?  If it's not here, let me know and I'll give you a link to find it. From these images,  I'll link only the ones that I  think Nigerians love to serve and enjoy at Christmas and New  Year. Try any recipe here and watch your guests luck fingers and plates.

Try All our Rice and Gravy Recipes

See How to make fried Rice Sauce wives connection
1. Jollof rice and beans with carrots 
2. Pan grilled fish dinner with rice
3. King prawn fried rice by Lizzy Obaze
4. Rice and baked beans stew
5.  Fried rice by Sisi Yemmie
6. Vegetable fish sauce with rice

7. Titus fish stew
8. Fried rice mix in the making.
To follow step by step 
cooking of all these rice delicacies, from number one to 8, click on allricerecipes and some more rice recipes and much more rice recipes

Can A Pregnant Woman Eat Nigerian pepper soup, Bitter leaf, Ugu and Hot Leaf?

Good morning Aunty Eya. God bless you for this forum. Please ma, this is my first pregnancy and I don't want to make mistakes eating the wrong foods.  I crave pepper soup daily  and now am scared the hot pepper in there

My Story. The Circle Is Repeating Itself

Hello Aunty Eya, I came across your blog while I was in a desperate chat. I'm 24rs old. I have a 3yr old baby from years back. The man flew immediately he knew I was pregnant, I

12 Delicious Finger Licking Nigerian Recipes To Cook, pick one


While In Labour, He Is Breaking Up With Me At The Hospital

Good evening  Aunty Eya,  I want to ask for advise on the blog but am not a good writer. I just found this story on bossip and there a so many similar things about my case, any advise given by blog visitors will help me too but I  Kw you might not post it because I read a comment last week where you warned a poster that she or he copied a story and shouldn't do that again. I  am not a copier and not a good writer too. Please help me, pity me by posting this story. I need advise please Aunty Eya. I am 22 years old with a one year old son with a man, or should I say boy, who’s betrayed me in every way. We’ve been neighbors all our lives, even had sleepovers in my house when we were kids. We didn’t speak to each other besides a “Hi,” and head nod for years because our mothers HATED each other. But, more than 2 years ago, because of my brothers, we started to hang out with each other. I was in another relationship at the time with someone who was cheating on me, so I cheated on him. B…

Why Am I Pregnant While Still A Virgin?

These mails from young, Pregnant virgin ladies asking me if it's possible to get pregnant without being disvirgined. I've always sent private replies without posting but I'm getting a bit worried and just thought to post this because they are becoming a bit more frequent. I always replied that fertilisation can take place if seen gets to the egg even without penetrative something. There was one lady that won't believe and kept asking more questions and finally I told her that if there was any foreplay around the veejayjay, even around the stomach, navel or thigh area, it's possible to get pregnant because semen is like liquid and can flow down without notice,  and once it touches the uvula, a little can escape in there and fertilise the baby to be egg and voila you are pregnant as a virgin.
Here is the short mail below :

Giving Birth In America, Any Blog Reader With Experience Or Tips Please?

Travelling To Give Birth In The USA.Good morning Aunty Eya, thank you for this wonderful platform that helps us share info f learn right from our bedrooms.  I am an ardent reader who started following wives connection right from inception.  This is my first post on the blog however.  Can you do me a favour?  I need info about giving birth in America. See Aunty Eya, my family has done the American green card lottery thing for over 10

A Northern Sister Shares Bdroom Tips To Help Revive Ailing Marriages

So, after reading the post and several posts on married women cheating in their homes, i pondered so much on it and it's glaring that this trend may keep increasing, one of the major factors is lack of sexual satisfaction. Many married women are suffering from this both those that are cheating and those that are not cheating, moreover the single ladies can also learn from this so as to get ready for their marital bed when the time comes. For the purpose of easy understanding i will divide this post into 3 sections, f you have any question about anything or contribution you can drop it in the

Another Pregnancy 4 Months After CS, Please Help

Aunty Eya please help me. I don't know what to do. Don't even know how to inform hubby because he insisted I go for family planning but fear and stubbornness won't let me. After birth, the Doctors advised that I wait at least one year before getting pregnant again. I don't know how this happened. I

My Baby Cannot Pass Stool Easily, Her Stool Is Hard. Any Tips Please?


How Do I Control Pregnancy Weight Gain?

Good morning Aunty Eya, please help me post this question for blog visitors. I don't feel good about myself because my husband doesn't like fat women and my weight is almost double now in my

35 Awesome Christmas Presents For A Nigerian Mother, And Nigerian Mother-Inlaw

This Christmas, Please remember the woman that gave birth to you, your wife, and your husband or your children's grandmas, your mothers-In-Law.  I gave the title mother in law, but, these are Christmas gifts fit for even our own mums too,  even fit for oga madam sef. From this extensive list, we can pick for our mothers,  pick for mom in laws and friends.  Make someone smile this Christmas and beyond.  Create fun memories with these gifts:
African prints: Vlisco Hollandais wax, High Target ankara wax material, Ghana Wax material, English wax, Lace material, or any cloth material good for sewing wrapper and blouse.

Best Cereal For Nigerian Babies To Eat From 6 Months On

Hello Nigerian wives connection, please my baby is six months and refusing all the cereals I introduced to him. I have tried cerelac, nutrend, golden morn blended indomie and even blended quaker
oats. What's the best cereal for babies this age ? Aunty Eya please help me post this.

REPLY: At six months, babies should start getting introduced to solid foods. At this age, any food the family is eating, the baby should be able to taste especially if that food is not spicy (Peppery). Some babies outrightly reject cereals no matter how sweet but jump on cooked foods. At this age, when the family or mum is eating, if you observe that the baby is interested and probably wants what you are eating, please do not relent to share. If it needs mashing, mash or pound with a mortar and pestle and serve the baby. If your child accepts the food without problems, why not continue and give what they are ready to eat and not the cereals you want them to eat. Try them with adult food that's not too …

My Wife Is Too Bossy To Change, Feels Superior to me

Hello Madam Eya, God bless you for what you are doing on this platform.  I found your blog, introduced my wife to it but she is not that kind of person. All she likes is just watching Mexican soap operas on TV.  It's a strange  thing to be married for sixteen years and yet still feel tired of being alone. I guess only somebody in an abusive marriage would understand such a thing. Well, let me put it this way:
    I have long given up discussing anything with my wife, because one of two things will happen: she will

Sunday Lunch Shredded Beef Jollof Noodles

Sunday service was long today. We got home at 1:30 PM and I  couldn’t think of any quick lunch so I brought out 5 packs of noodles. By 1:45 we were eating lunch. Thank God, Sunday rice and stew

Pregnant? Classic Baby Girl Name Suggestions For 2016

Being a mother of mostly girls, My choice of names has always been classical. Not many families will name their only son Joseph in 2015, when there are so many funky, modern sounding names. If I named my Chairman Joseph, then you should just know that my girls' names include the "old school" Margaret. All baby names are cute, however,  I think I prefer classical baby names  for my kids to funky fresh names. I’ll admit that I’m a bit of a classicist when it comes to baby names, so, if you are for unique one in town names, then, maybe I'm not the right person to ask, lol.. I prefer names like Katharine and Margaret my own daughter's name, to Funkimine and Gadgetstar or Compunerry. But there’s plenty of room to choose something cute for your daughter without going too far into oddball territory. If you’re looking for cute girls’ names, check out one of these options: Adelaide It was the name of a popular British monarch and an Australian city, but now this name with …

Zaron Foundation Versus Tara Foundation, Which Is Better

Good evening Aunty Eya. The question you posted about shea butter and baby skin is how I discovered wives connection and have been forever glued like uhu gum. Now I have something

Me, When I Started Blogging And Now. Growing Younger Under Stress


Good morning. Happy Parenting :)

Kids can drive you up China wall and make your head spin

25 Best Christmas Gift Suggestions For A Nigerian Husband

The perfect Christmas gift for your husband, son, Fiance, brother or friend.  You know what he does,
what he likes. There’s no crime in giving more than one if you can afford to. Remember to give yourself a Christmas present too. While each year

It's A Daughter For Mark Zuckerberg And Priscilla, Welcome To The World Baby Girl

Cute diamond spoon baby.   Their birth announcement reads :

This here! Is What Parenting Looks Like

Sweet parenting, awwww. So many experiences to share. What about baby peeing in your food while trying to

Woman Could Face Jail Term For Giving Pigs Water On A Hot Day

A Canadian animal rights activist could face up to 10 years in prison for giving water to pigs heading to the slaughter

Meet African Blogger Series 3: Storytelling Blogger Adaeze Ibechukwu

1.  .Hi Adaeze, can we meet you?  Briefly tell us about yourself and your blog.
My name is Adaeze Ibechukwu, I am a writer who has a strong penchant for telling stories and I am the blogger behind My blog, Adaeze Writes is

Can I Pray Against My Husband Taking A Second Wife?

Hello Aunty Eya, good morning. I sent you a mail last week but didn't get any response. I have since then been refreshing the page Incase it's posted but can't find it. I am resending it,please Aunty Eya, don't ignore this email. Help me post this question for blog readers. I need answers immediately.

Meet First Black Woman To Own An Airline

South African businesswoman, Sizakele Petunia

Best Instagram Hello cover Goes To

@mamaj_88 is the over all winner mbok!  Before you disagree,  first go to her Instagram page, scroll down, listen and if your ribs don't explode with laughter, you can then

Welcome To December 2015, Happy New Month

Wow, just like yesterday we celebrated Christmas 2014,with my children asking what they are doing in the village when their class mates and friends are off to