Showing posts from November, 2015

You May Kiss The Bride


Our Vegetable Ogbono Soup Gets 3000 Facebook Likes and 900 Facebook Comments, With Hundreds Of Shares

Goodmorning guys, you know I think Nigerian food is great. Do you know that I posted this soup on wives connection Facebook page and as of today, it has gotten over 3000 Likes, hundreds of shares and about 900

Chattered Accountant Job

Please Do you know any young Chartered Accountant between the ages of 26 - 33 looking for a job?
There are job opportunities  for a Finance and Admin Managers in Victoria Island and Ikeja - Lagos. The package

Getting A Divorce, After 35 Years!

An elderly man in Mumbai calls his son in New York and says,

‘I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce; 35 years of marriage… and that much misery is enough!’

‘Dad, what are you talking about?’ the son screams.

Mind boggling excerpts from an interview with a Jewish leader about Blacks.

INTERVIEWER: Why are blacks so behind Economically?

JEWISH LEADER:The only aspect blacks understand is Consumption. Blacks don't understand the importance of

Addicted To Eating. Any Idea What To Do?

Gud day ma,  Hope u had a splendid weekend?  ma my stomach is about to burst. I don't know what to do to help myself.
Am addicted to eating even when am not hungry
Ma, my stomach is about bursting. Please any idea of what to do or how to stop this?

The Festive Season , Personal Security

Dear All,

The festive season is usually characterized by increased criminal activities. Please be guided by the following tips:

1.       Personal Security
·         Keep a low profile, blend in and be alert to developments in your environment.
·         Avoid known crime-prone areas and black spots.
·         Avoid routine pattern of movements and late night outings. The more predictable your movements and

Abuja Residents, Have You Seen This?

It Reads:
Intelligence reaching this office reveals that insurgents are planning to attack the Federal Capital Territory. Their main

What Manner Of Husband Are You? Pick One Below

Please read and share your honest thoughts. (Ladies, you can also participate by answering the same question, that is, “What manner of a husband do you have?”) Here’s wishing every woman “Kingdom Husbands.”

Ladies, incase your husband or fiance doesn't read wives connection,  send to him as a mail oh.

How can your wife describe you? Below are a few categories of husband:

(1). Autocratic Husband- He is a self-knowledge, self-involved, unbending, unyielding husband. Nobody can correct him, nobody can counsel him. To him, he knows everything. He is very arrogant and stubborn. He has no mentor. He does not fear, honour or respect anybody. He doesn’t want anybody to advise him and he can not be influenced by anybody especially his wife, who hardly knows his plan or what he may do next. He is a difficult man to live with.

(2). Corrosive Husband- He is abusive; hot tempered and a

I Have Done All The Begging And Trying That I Can With My Husband Over The Past 12 Years

Hello, wives connection bvs and my dear Eya, please help. My husband and I have been together for 13 years, we have two children. Ages 12 and 10. He also has a daughter from a previous marriage who is 14, who he really does not have a relationship with. (That is a whole different heartbreaking story). So anytime we have the slightest disagreement he demands

My Husband, My E-mails And My Many Lies. How Do I Save My Marriage?

Hello,  Good morning lovely Wives Connection family-friendly helpers. First of all let me say thank you. I discovered wives Connection blog this year 2015 and with all that Learnt from the wise counseling, I regret that I didn't know about this family earlier.

I have been a terrible liar to my husband, it's

We Broke Up, I Met Someone, Now We Are Back Together And I Do Not Know What To Tell The Other Guy

Hello Aunty Eya, thank you so much for everything that I have learnt from your blog. I completed my NYSC not long ago and this life, I have read and learnt so many things from other readers' stories, I never thought that a day like this will come when I'll need Online help too. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 5 months now. The majority of that

What's That?


My Favourite Nigerian Things: Beautiful Necklaces


My Husband's Irresponsible Behavior Has No Part Two, Can Other Women Please Help A Sister

Hi Eya, I don't know where to start from but pls hide my identity thanks will also try to make it brief as possible.... I'm a new subscriber to this platform. I can't say I have a smooth past or that I'm perfect. I met my

Sugabelly Rape Tweets :Private Emails, Chats Released

When I read sugabelly's tweets yesterday, I felt bad that she is rejoicing a human being died,until I reached where she tweets that she was brutally raped by the deceased' son, I didn't know what to think or say anymore.
So, the wife of the accused rapist took to Twitter to say she will release some private contents. Bellanaija has done a great job blocking names. In case you didn't see those mean tweets, visit sugabelly's Twitter handle.
See more after the cut. Very long o...

Delicious Photo: The Obamas Celebrate Thanksgiving


Nigerian Black Friday Sales A Scam Or Real? Who Buy?


I Suspect My Wife Is Jealous Of My Daughter, What Can I Do?

Hi wives connection,  I have been married for two years, but been with my wife for a total of five years.
Very long story cut short and could do with honest or brutal advice please.
Split from my Ex ( my daughters mother) 5 years ago, we were never married.
My daughter has just turned 7
Been together with my now wife and step son (10)  for two years.  My family travelled for easter holiday this year the 4 of us. There was a

My Favourite Things: Nigerian Gele Headgear


Adele: 'I Do Have Body Image Problems, But I Don't Let Them Rule My Life '

Even  celebrities have issues with the way they are. I'm yet to see a woman that truly feels like she has a perfect body.  Adele   has never been one to mince her words. Now, the star has spoken candidly about body image, saying that

This Woman Says She Doesn't Want To Have Any kids, Then, The Backlash

A Nigerian woman that goes to post online that she doesn't want to have any kids might face more backlash than Brockwell.  

I Learnt Blow Job From My Husband's Side Chicken, Now He Won't Respond Plus He Moved Out When My Insults Became Too Much, How Do I Bring Him Back Home?

HELP ME SAVE MY MARRIAGE. God bless you and your family Aunty Eya, I have learnt

Should I Accept This Cheating As punishment For My Bad Behaviour? Is He Lying To Me?

Dear Aunty Eya and blog visitors, I need to get married and settle down as sokn as possible but a

Failed Past Relationships Preventing Me From Trusting My Fiance, How Do I Change?

Hello Aunty Eya, God bless you for all that I am learning from wives connection even though I'm not married yet. I need mature advice from other readers and you too please.

In My past 3 relationships I had been cheated on. One I walked in on,the other 2 I caught shady stuff in their social media and

18 Nigerian Food Recipes To Cook This Weekend


Do People Give Up After Just Two Fights? We Started On Friendzone To Close friends, Now He Left Me

Hello people of wives connection and my lovely Aunty Eya, please look my way and help with advice. Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend and want to take the relationship further?

I  was close to a guy first as a friend. Being a friend, I used to be very carefree and honestly never cared so much as much as he used to for me. Then things changed between us, we started

If I Don't Ask For Money, We Enjoy Peace. The Moment I Ask My Husband For Money, He Gets Angry. What Do I do?

I  must commend the admin for what she is doing, in order to help us learn and gain experience in this blog Here is my story: I am a mother of 5 kids,i got married at a very

New Born Baby Abandoned In A Manger At Holy Child Jesus Church

A newborn with his umbilical cord still attached was

Pope Francis Arrives Africa, I Wish He Came To Nigeria, Would Have Backed My Baby To Go Stare

When I watch Pope Francis on TV kissing babies and hugging the sick and abandoned, I get goose bumps. He is a rare human. If he came to any part of Naija, I tell you guys would have tied my baby safely on my back and ran off to just stand in the crowd and observe. I love him so much. Did you See the small car he drove when he visited America?

I envy the people of Kenya at this moment. Below are photos of his
Pope Francis arrived Kenya for his state visit this afternoon and was received by Kenyan president Uhuru Kenyatta, his wife, Reverend Fathers and other top government functionaries. Chai Lucky Kenyans, why not Nigeria? See more

How To Cook Nigerian Steak On A Stove

This steak cooked well on a cooker in a griddle pan. I call it Nigerian steak because we like to cook our meat done, not pink. I

I Get Turned On By Sniffing My Wife's Undies. Is Something Not Right With Me

Hello Eya, Hello fellow readers. You guys forgive me for getting addicted to this wonderful wives connection blog. I need opinions for what is happening to me ever since I met my wife . I thought it would stop with time but it's been two

Re: Baby Burned In Oven, Mother And Boyfriend Who Went To Buy Pizza Have Been Charged

Remember the oven burns post that made me remember to share my testimony? Well, Mother and her boyfriend are already in soup. Thinking to myself, I'm wondering like, if that toddler was his biological child, will they both abandon him at home to go buy pizza? I just pray they didn't use the pizza story to go get some alone time somewhere.
Here is the story:

Racqual Thompson, 25, and Cornell Malone, 21, were arrested Tuesday morning and held on bonds totaling $36,000 apiece.

Smile, God Is Still In Control


Can Anyone Here Help Me Get my love Back?

Good afternoon Mrs Eya, I have been a silent reader of wives connection and it is my first time posting on this blog asking for help.
My love and I were together for two and half years. a little history on it; we are always happy together, loving, having fun, and in each other's presence a lot. (we are a couple that just loves spending time together) the problems we've had are

My Fiancée Or The New Girl? I Have To Choose By End Of This Month

Hello Eya, thank you so much for this forum.  I am a man but I swear I enjoy your blog even more than the women on there. I need a little advice from you and other blog visitors. 

I don't share what I'm feeling or thinking with most people. I try sharing with my Fiance but she can be too judgmental or aggressive. She usually doesn’t get my point. We've been

Instagram To Take Down Epic Penis Pictures

I  saw these pictures a few days back in Instagram, ran away shouting "the blood". On second thoughts, I returned, took a screenshot to share on a Goodmorning post but on second thoughts I just changed my mind like what is good about this nudity. I thought of a suitable caption but couldn't find any so I left the pics alone. Then I bumped into the second pic below and git so confused I wanted 5 ask if that was real or prosthetic? The Games's penis had a good run on Instagram, but all good things must come to an end ... and the popular photo sharing app has put the kibosh on his package.  The pics -- which showcase Game in his underwear -- were posted

I Agree Completely, White Women Know How To Care And Show Love, They Are Not Troublesome And Stubborn

I know that many of us black women won't agree with this points but I kinda agree.I'm not kidding, I've always thought that white Women make better wives than blacks. You know they give their men so much peace of mind. No unnecessarily snooping and making life a living hell for the man. I think they are very understanding and can always go an extra mile to make their men very happy. They don't put onthat aggressive nature you see in most black girls, they won't grab your collar for anything, and won't say "yeye man or stupid man to their husbands"
Talking back can be very annoying and don't we all know that black women talk back a lot? Before a husban says five words, his wife has vomitted 25. Read all the recent mails I'm getting and you'll know that most of these issues are caused by us black women who can't mind our businesses and let our men just live in a men's world. Sometimes, I want to give advice that might not be kinda …

How To Become A Successful Blogger Like Linda Ikeji

Linda Ikeji Made The List Of 100 Most Influential People in Africa.
Hate her or  love her, Linda Ikeji is number 1. She is the queen of bloggers. Getting there isvery obvious but difficult you know. It's possible to become a brand like Linda Ikeji but, are you ready to pay the price?
Here Is How To Build A Blog Like Linda: Start blogging as early as 5 am and do not bother about breakfast or 3 square meals. Eat your first meal by 12 noon or later Blog in your pyjamas till 3 PM or later Be honest with your blog readers Give that blog 100% commitment. Not blog today, go for owambe tomorrow. Subscribe to all Networks in Nigeria so you don't get stuck when one is misbehaving. Get your family involved, you don't need that cooking or washing break. If you are good to mum,she'll do all that while you just face the screen. Let blog readers know you even if they have never met you. Tell them who you are, be very sincere o,not cock and bull stories of being born in Lagos or Abuja w…

My Testimony; Oven Death Reminds Me Of The August Experience

I promised to share my testimony after the oven death post. My prayers are with the family of that cute baby. About 3 months back, In August, then my 10 year old daughter who is now in boarding school was still at home. One evening after they got back home from school, she and

Oven Death And My Testimony

19 month old baby burned to death in oven by her siblings as her mother went out for pizza.
Chai God! Reading this story,  something tells me "Eya why not share your testimony with your blog readers too" but, I cant bring myself to share my testimony on this post, I'll publish after this. . .  May the soul of this innocent baby Rest In Perfect Peace.  A baby was baked to death in an oven by her toddler brother and sister after they were left alone at home.
The twin three-year-olds watched as 19-month-old J’zyra Thompson kicked the

How To Cook Edible Maggots

The edibLe worm is a delicacy of the Southern people of Nigeria. Also known as the palm tree

I Followed My Husband's Side Chick On Instagram, She Screenshots Me And Sent To Him

Hello Aunty Eya, kindly help me post this cos I need answers. I have always suspected this my husband's junior colleague, we've never met but I know her from the official group photos my

How To Quick Cook Beans porridge In A Pressure Cooker

Cooking beans in a pressure cooker is the fastest method. To pressure cook beans porridge,  don't

Good morning, Have A Fun Monday


We Can't Have A Conversation Without Argueing, What Can I Do?

Hello Eya, kindly help me adk for help on WC. My husband  and I have been together for 8 years and have 4 children together, two boys and a set of twins who are still below one year. Over the past 4 years we have gradually been drifting apart with issues from work , neighbours from hell and me not sleeping

Having An Affair Too, If I End My Marriage, Will He Keep To His Words And Marry Me?

Hello wives connection, please please please, someonehelp ke out. Aunty Eya I need your help too. This post I'm sending you was meant to be a comment on that other post that got wives making confessions. I tried severally to post it there but keep getting a message that my comment cannot post because it's too long. Kindly hide my details before posting this please  I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, around

My Husband Called Me Names For Attempting To Email His Facebook Girlfriend, Am I Wrong?

Good morning my dear Aunty Eya and fellow blog readers. I once sent a mail concerning my husband's irritating habit, your advice helped me so much. After the comments, I was able to take a stand and fight positively. Thank God our relationship improved tremendously.  There's another problem again, my friend and his Facebook girlfriend. I tried my best not to ask for help,  I thought I could

Sharing: The Most Important Life Lesson I Have Learnt So Far

Life has taught me so many lessons that can never be taught in any school :

All Women Deserve This Push Present After Delivery. Kim Kardashian asks Kanye West for a $1 million 'push present' for her current pregnancy

This time, me, I  completely agree with Kim Kardashian. Every mom deserves a "push the baby out present" cos it's not easy. God takes the glory for every successful child birth, the mother too deserves a little well done present for the nine months journey and the delivery room. It mustn't be a $1 million dollar present, any thing a husband can afford just to show appreciation to his dear wife.  This happens in Nigeria but most times the "push present" is given only when a

I Agree That A Ban On I Better Pass My Neighbour Generator Will Only Bring Hardship. Many Small Businesses In Nigeria Thrive On These Generators

The decision to ban ‘I-pass-my neighbour’ generators will only bring more hardship, It Is A Wrrong Move. Etcetera  Dear President Buhari, I will like to extend an invitation to you for a tour of down town, so that you can have a clear view of what the people who voted you into office feel about certain decisions your government has taken so far, especially

Church Wedding And Marriage Blessing, Who Knows The Difference Please?

Good morning Aunty Eya, please help me post this anonymously on wives connection blog. I need clarification on these two terms. I've always thought they are one and

Lazy Man Fried Rice With Grilled Chicken And Green Fruits

If you have never cooked lazy man fried ricebefore, then kudos o. I can't count how many times sef but can say how

Taking My Husband's Best Friend Was My Little Revenge

Hello Aunty Eya, after reading the recent confessions you posted on the blog, I feel compelled to share my story too. My confession is not to ask for advice or tips but just to be able to

How To Spot A Married Bachelor

The change of marriage shouldn't just affect the lady alone; she changes her name to yours, you pretty much get an indoor restaurant and free "bad thing" whenever you like... I hate when a man gets married and still wants all the perks of bachelorhood, I feel when we get married we are both changed, you cannot act like it is only your spouse that has to be responsible while you pretty much ball alone, we can either ball together and be responsible or don't ball at all. There are some things some married men do and get away with that is just so wrong and to me it is bachelor behaviour, you haff  marry stop acting single puleaseeeeeeee. How To Spot A Married Bachelor Alone with my thought: He always wants to be alone, He wants to have his own time, all the time. He may provide school fees and a lot of other stuff but doesn't want to hear the noise,doesn't want to get a bit messy and runs away from every chance to bond with the family.

I Feel Insecure And Unsure About My Marriage As My Husband Posts Half Dressed Pictures On His Web Page

Good morning Aunty Eya. I am an old reader who discovered your blog as a single lady , before I got married, around the time when I was

Hurry Now, Shop Authentic Elubo: Healthy Amala Flour

Elubó : healthy amala flour.

A well cooked pot of soup should be


Okra soup is best cooked without

My Husband Is Addicted To Prostitution, I Need Help

Hi Aunty Eya and everyone. This is my first time writing and asking for blog help, so here it goes.

I'm 28 and have been married for 3 years. I have a beautiful daughter and is due for the second one very soon. My problem started last July

4 Months After I Moved To My parents House, My Husband Has not Called

Hello Aunty Eya,  Sometimes I take actions thatI feel are to the best interests of our families, the people I love and care about  but then, things just turn like I am dreaming,  from

Meet African Blogger Series 3: The Beautiful Lifestyle Blogger Sisi Yemmie

1. Hi Sisiyemmie, can we meet you? Tell us briefly about yourself.  My real name is Yemisi Sophie Odusanya nee Aiyedun, I am a new mom and

My Fiance Got Me A Job In His Father's Company, He Travels And Dad Wants Me, Should I Resign My Appointment?

Hello Aunty and blog visitors, I have been in this relationship for about 2 years now with my boyfriend, he proposed this year on his birthday in the presence of his family and friends. when I graduated from school and needed a job. My Fiance s father owns a large company in Lagos, so he thought it would be good for me to work there (thinking he could see me often when he comes to see his dad on his off days from his defence job).

I agreed and went to work like any young girl would, dressed in

Linda Ikeji Takes Us Again Into Her Beautiful Mansion, Exotic Furnishing


Yam Beans Porridge With Smoked Fish


She Tweeted Stuff About Me To Her Followers While Confessing Love For Me In My Presence. Should I Believe Her?

Good day Mrs Eya,  I just found your blog this week. It is my third time here and I strongly believe this is where I can get good advice from experienced people.

I don't really know how to start this off. So about 4 years ago,

We Met Online, He Said I Am Free To Go Get Married To Another Man, Yet I Dumped My Fiance And Ran Back To Him Again, Cannot Help Myself, I need Help

Good morning, I recently started following your blog and I was inspired to share mine too. Am in my late thirties and as a Nigerian my family wants me to settle down. I have been in a relationship for over 3yrs now and he keeps shifting our plans concerning settling down. We

For 5 Years Living Together, Nothing Changes, Should I Go On With This Wedding?

Dear Aunty Eya, I  need you to post a little something for

Help Suggest A Romantic Name For My Newly Wed Husband

Good evening Aunty Eya, I am an ardent reader of wives connection blog who wedded just two

How to cook Nigerian Coconut Jollof Rice With Step By Step cooking pictures


Good morning, How you doing today?

Good morning, How was your night rest? Thank God for

My Wife Says Horrible Things To Me Causing Our Marital Problems Yet I Still Cannot Live Without Her.

Good evening Eya, I am a subscriber to wives connection who reads yoyr blog regularly. I love the intelligent responses by ladies on the blog and today I need their help. All my years as a man and husband, I have seen marriages crumble under the littlest issues. I see husbands walk out because their wives turned abusive. In my case, wife treats me so poorly yet I can't live without her. What could be wrong with me after all these years? My Wife Says She Hates Me And Wants Me Out Of Her Life, But I Can't Stop Loving Her Or Leave my wife says the most horrible things to me, can also be physically abusive. She once slapped my face at her friends

How Can I Spy On My Husband's Text Messages Without Touching His Phone?

Hello Eya, please help me post this question on your blog.  I need help with being able to spy a little on my husband of five years.  I am a very busy always tired mother of three kids who works her ass off to assist my husband while he doesn't care about the future. I also try my best to bed feed him every night  My husband has never talked about how and what future he wants for his family.  He makes money but cannot control spending. Until I saw this habit in him, I never believed that a man could be addicted to shopping. If he did that shopping for

Confused Wife Of 20 Years Has Exhausted Her Methods, Needs Our Advice To Make A Decision

Goodevening madam Eya, I came across your blog this week and am very pleased to  read and come across the advises of very intelligent people. Thanks.
I do have a very pressing and urgent need which i will like to share with Wives Connection family. Please do not condemn, I am neither foolish nor uneducated but a wife who believes in keeping her

Four Nigerian Foods To Avoid During Pregnancy

Ngwongwo:  (Not the goat meat type, I mean dog meat ngwongwo). This is a dog meat delicacy from Calabar also known as forty forty. Not all Cross Riverians eat dog meat

How To Cook Nigerian Party Jollof Rice With That Secret Ingredient


How To Make Rice Flour Fufu Colourful, Quick And Delicious, With Some Starch, Palm Oil

How to make elastic tuwo shinkafa with palm oilWhen compared with other forms of fufu like garri, semolina, semovita, poundo, wheat etc, rice flour is the

Dating A Nigerian Married Man Who Wants To Take Me As Second Wife

Hi Eya, I am an ardent reader of wives connection blog from South Africa. who needs your advice and that of other women to help me make one very serious decision of my life. In 2014, I met and fell in love with a Nigerian married man here in South Africa. He is based here but his family hasn't moved to join him yet. His wife works over there in Nigeria and visits with their two kids. I met him on the saddest day of my life so to say, I had just lost my father and been jilted by my boyfriend who found a prettier woman to stalk. While I went out to meditate on my life and seek ways to move forward,and didn't realize I was in tears until he walked up to me and offered to drive me home, although I hesitated because I don't like strangers showing kindness to me, he insisted, I got convinced he was sincere and let him take me home in his car.
Eventually, we became friends as he continued to visit me and with his wedding ring on his finger, I

Re: Please Suggest Good Igbo Names For Twin Babies

Hi Aunty Eya, well done and may God Almighty bless you for all that you are doing for us on this blog. My table has more variety since I found this blog. You will reap bountifully. I am a reader of wives connection who discovered the blog just last week. My wife is in her third tremester of