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15 Years Childlessness, Pregnant After Cheating, Please Address

Hello, I am a silent follower of your blog and I have an issue which I hope you can help me post.


I have been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman whom I love. We haven't been able to have a child. The doctor says that we are both fine. 
In my 15 years of marriage, I have never cheated on my wife, up until last month, when I met a girl who is nice, reserved and pleasant. She showed me a lot that I've missed over the years, I just feel young again, so many things my wife refuses to do with me, she does with me. We

Royco Women Who Really Cook Contest

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Royco Women Who Really Cook contest
Royco Nigeria has rewarded two African women with Kitchen appliances for preparing tasty African mealsin the Royco Women who really cook contest. Faith was the winner of the Southern theme with her delicious lookingBanga Soup & Starch recipe while

Meditation:Thy Kingdom Come

"The kingdom of the world has become




 the kingdom of our Lord and of his Messiah, and he will reign for ever and ever." ~ Revelation 11:15, NIV


¶ Many long years ago, a 'boss' looked me in the face and said, "You will never turn out well" just because I constantly resisted his mediocrity. That very day, these powerful words streamed into my spirit: "Thine is the kingdom, the power and the glory." No human being, pastor, prophet, toxic parent, teacher or boss has the final say over your life! Some people will make believe otherwise, if you let them. But think about it... that boss is human too. He shares the same destiny of dust as you. The Kingdom is God's and His alone! The final authority in your life is God!
••• I have a friend close to my heart. Whenever things go wrong in her life, she'll jerk her left

Sisi Yemmie's Fried Rice For This Weekend

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Beautiful Blogger Sisi Yemmie is now a mommy blogger, she just gave birth to a bouncing baby boy who is less than a month old and right now. You and I do not need to be told that this is a very busy, tiring, guest receiving,  hot watering, sleep craving, overwhelming period for every new mom. Even if one has family and friends to do all the work, what about waking up to breastfeed hungry crybaby at night?
sometimes once is not enough. Sleep deprivationx.

Let's try her well dressed attractive Nigerian fried rice

Leaving Him And New Wife An Option?

WhatsApp Conversation:
04:12, 18/05/2015] Blog Reader: Morning aunty,u're doing a nice job,pls keep it up.I really have a burden in my heart dat I want to share wit u,nd I really nid advice from ur blog.                           I've been married for over 8yrs now,still believing God for d fruit of d womb,done 2 failed ivfs,just to discover dat my husband has a wife nd two kids outside,I've heard about dis kind of stories,never believe it could happen to me,honestly I'm shocked by his betrayal,will leaving him be d best option?
[08:25, 18/05/2015] Eya Ayambem: Oh my, how did you find out?

[04:31, 19/05/2015] Blog Reader: It's God,for d pass 4 yrs,he's been locking his fone,on dis particular day he

Turn Off The Tap, Stop Mopping Floors

A Faucet in Your Soul
"I will no longer talk much with you, for the ruler of this world is coming. He has no claim on me." John14:30ESV
¶ A few years ago, a popular Nigerian pastor was in the big news when he declared that masturbation was not a sin. Usually, when such a matter generates such heated interest, it could only mean that too many people are involved, if you know what I mean.
Is masturbation a sin? I pondered that question for years because I was involved. The answer my heart gave me was not the answer I had wanted. I secretly wished masturbation wasn't a sin! I had fasted, prayed, tried hard not to look at women lustfully. Yet, the more I tried the more my willpower buckled. 
At some point, I didn't care anymore if it was a sin or not. I just wanted to be free from the habit! I

The Curse Of The Married Man: The Awakening (Part1)

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The only thing more frustrating than not having available men come to you is having married men come for you. They come in drones. I mean the married ones. The happily married ones, the ones with troubled marriages, the ones looking for adventure, the this, the that, even pastors too. At a point, I was beginning to wonder if I'm not under a certain spell, you know , the type where what you desire doesn't come, where what comes is not what you want. Abi, what do they see in me? Am I the only one? 
And they do it so well, sometimes I'm tempted to give in. You know, to say yes to them and collect more money. I must however confess to having collected stuff from some of them tho. They just won't let me be, even after outrightly telling them I'm not interested and all, they still come back, insisting and all... baring and displaying all forms of gifts and cash.  The gift giving types and the money dashing ones make resisting difficult alot. Especially when you're a…

Weekend Recipe; Shredded Chicken Gravy With Curried Rice

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This weekend, the rains are here with cold, *let's try something very delicious and nutritious by Mavis Immanatue. Your family and friends will love this. I'll add links to related posts later. Start cooking

Getting Some Parenting Help From Police

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A mom gets her misbehaving 10 year old son fake arrested by a police officer to bring the derailing young man back on track, after it's shared on Social media, some praise her for fake arresting rather than wait and face future REAL arrest of her son as a criminal. She is applauded by moms who think whatever it takes to raise a son well is in order provided the boy is not hurt by her decision. Others came for her calling it bad parenting.
Full story

I cannot judge this mother in any way. She must have tried other methods before involving the police. It's not like it's a real arrest. Boys at this age can be a

Brain teasers For This Week

We've got very intelligent visitors on WC. To all those who attempted and , Oya clap for yourself. As for those who decided to sit back while the answers roll-in, una do well. Since all the questions were already answered save for num 1, I'd just answer it.
Answer to no 1 of lastweek brainteasers :
Question :   A man walks into a restaurant and the the waiter says good day Admiral. Why did the waiter call the the man an Admiral? Answer : Because he

Too Soon To Rest With The Lord

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Rest? No! Wake up, it's two days to your birthday. How could you not tell me you were depressed and very ill? How could you come into Abuja, quietly check yourself into National hospital leaving instructions that you didn't want anyone to know, didn't want to see anybody. You didn't want to bother anyone? Who is ANYONE?
I am grieving silently and it's so heavy for me cos this whole thing I don't understand. I didn't see you sick, didn't hear about ill health, didn't hear you flew in straight to the hospital, spent a whole day there and passed on the following. 
What is friendship? Why are we friends? I thought you said you trusted me a lot? If we were friends, why couldn't you sort me out as the only one to confide in? I am so heartbroken, don't know how and what to tell the girls.

You could have just let me in. Just a few days ago, I teased hubby that you look fresher now than when you were married to his friend. He didn't argue at all. We…

Monday Morning Meditation

MORNING MEDITATION: Approach 101
"If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that gives to all men liberally, and upbraides not; and it shall be given him." ~ James 1:5

¶ When our children were still young, we visited an aunt in the village. While there, our youngest son said he wanted to go. So, Mum set up his potty at the latrine. That was when the 'green leaf' made its way toward him.

When my wife went to clean him, she was horrified at the sight of the green snake beside our little boy! If I were the one, I would freeze on the spot and then try to attack the snake with some grammar and hefty vocab. Not my wife! Her mother instinct instantly subdued her fear. She ran and whipped the boy away from the snake! Women never cease to amaze me!

The little boy was a little surprised at his Mum's Hollywood-like action movie. He said, "Mummy, I thought it was only a leaf!" That's the problem with raising an African child in the city. Just because somet…

Must Read: Belated Mothers' Day Wishes

Happy Mothers ‎Day. 
I really dunno how many times a year we celebrate mothers day,I've deliberately decided to loose count. I guess it's 3-4 times abi?  Well, if you ask me, I think mothers ought to be celebrated everyday. They never go on strike, nor do they retire, they never tire nor give up.
Here's a toast to all the mothers, intending mothers, aspiring mothers, mothers to be, etc...

Good Nigerian food To Cook This Weekend. Green Jollof plus Green vegetable Soup

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This week there are two recipes to try. If you love to chew, this is for you. The swallow recipe will come below. You can shop after work tomorrow, enjoy cooking and eating on Sunday. Follow the link to view complete recipe; Green Jollof Rice By Ope
Let's get cooking.

For our weekend swallow, let's try us some vegetable soup with semo, eba or poundo. Follow the link

Naija 12 Uses Of A Food Processor

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12 uses of a food processor in a Nigerian Kitchen
The food processor is a multi tasking kitchen tool that when you get used to, begins to feel like you can't live without.There were comments on one of  our delicious processor pounded yam posts asking if a food processor is the same as a blender, NO. A food processor has some remarkable difference from a blender and even though can perform some blender functions, it does much more than a blender. Every kitchen needs both because there are some functions that are performed better with either. in the past, I thought that a food processor could only be used for baking cakes and pastries and not cooking sauces, Nigerian stews , fish stew and soups. In a Nigerian kitchen, there are so many things a food processor can do, we need it here even more because our meals take too long to cook. With a food processor being used, you spend about one tenth of your time in the kitchen because every repetitive function is carried out in seconds by y…

Brain Teasers

Answers to last week brainteasers. 'Twas fun reading the attempts at last week brainteasers. Your comments made me laugh out loud.
Haa, before we go into this week brainteasers, here's the answer to lastweeks.   Chinny T already made my job easier by getting all the answers save for no 2. So, im just going to answer no 2. Abi? The answer to lastweek no 2 question is  Ans : Mount Everest: it just wasn't discovered yet. Oya, clap for me naa.
Ok, onto this week. 3 very cheap questions.
1) A man visited a town and walked into a restaurant, the waiter looked at him and says "Good day Admiral". Why did the waiter call the the man an Admiral?
2) Three fat

Should I Try The Knorr Taste Quest Cooking Competition?

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Well, I've thinking o. The amateur cooks like me who do this thing, how many heads do they have? ehn? Seasons1 and 2 came and passed. The reason I didn't register is that I thought the competition was for professional chefs or trained cooks. I just learned now that it's for ordinary women who learnt to cook from mama's kitchen and theirs.

You guys have been following my yummy cooking on wives connection recipes, do you think this cooking qualifies me for this show OR, I should just sit down and not make a fool of myself? Lolz.

I think I cook well o, family and friends enjoy my cooking and thanks to mails from wives and husbands who are grateful wives connection cooking has changed their dining tables.  I really am interested in this cooking competition this season, abeg

How To Preserve Water Leaf (Nigerian Spinach)

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I tried freezing because, of all the leafy vegetables used in Nigeria, water leaf is the most difficult to preserve. It has to be used straight from the market or the very next day else the leaves begin to drop and rot. This worked perfectly for me. The afang soup was to be cooked three days after shopping and this water leaf couldn't have lasted that long.

After shopping, the very next day, I had to wash, chop, pack in a bag and store in the freezer for two days. I expected the leaves to look wilted but they came out looking very fresh and green. Now I can buy water leaf ahead of time for weekend cooking.
Water leaf is used for cooking, softening other vegetables in Nigerian soups like fried afang, edikang ikong soup, groundnut afang soup and sometimes bitter leaf egusi soups.
Wrapping in paper bags before putting in cellophane is what I'll like to try next.

Do You Agree With Manny Pacquiao's Aunt?

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In a way I did feel like Manny deserved to win that fight. He did a great job and because I didn't want to hear it from a third party, I almost did not sleep at all that night. I was the last person to go to bed at about midnight and by 2 am when the generator came on (NEPA has been doing really really well, but that night of all nights, there was no light and it's understandable.  I've never enjoyed electricity like now. Sometimes we forget that there is a generator after not needing it in months. I get electricity everyday and night, even though there is still room for improvement, kudos to NEPA (PHCN). I remember when we used to buy generator fuel on a daily basis, lol).
So,I hear the generator come on before 2 am and suspect hubby wants to start watching that fight so I joined him to start with the Highlights and build up to the match. We watched till about 4 am Nigerian time before the fight started. Floyed Mayweather obviously was very defensive, covering his face lik…

Who else is guilty of this?

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Ask your self, how many times have you done this to a mango?

I use to be guilty of this though... # covers face.

so, who else is guilty of this?
How many times?

Throw-back Saturday

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Who remembers any of these things?

I remember the school shoe and Tandi gorana... lols.

I remember the Olympics note book too. I actually used it o.

I also remember the kobo coins and the 1 naira notes.

Well, I never used the jet cream, but I remember playing with the bottle. Lol.

Haaa, yes, I remember the plaything in the 3rd picture on the upper right.

I practically remember everything in the picture.

Who else remembers any of the images.





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