Husbands, Stop Doing These Things, Post By Eesah

Ok guys, we've talked about what women should stop doing to their husbands.... and even more
 Now to balance it since lots of husbands visit this blog as well.. What are those things husbands need to stop doing that hurt their darling wives....Wives this would interest u too..
Sometimes men need encouragement in their quest to step up and be the men God has called them to be. Sometimes they need information, and sometimes they need training. Sometimes they need a mentor, someone who will show them how to be godly men, how to love their wives.
Here are ONLY 40 ideas. Of course, not all of these items apply to all men. But perhaps something here will hit home for you.

1. Stop acting like the battle is won in pursuing and getting to know your wife. Have fun together, just like you used to do before you walked down the aisle.
2. If your wife is a stay-at-home mom, stop treating her like her work during the day is somehow less strenuous or less important than yours.
3. Stop coming home from work and plopping in front of the television for the night, leaving your wife to bear the responsibility for everything else going on in the home.
4. Stop working so much. Find a healthy balance between work and family. Your wife would rather have you than a big house, nice car, etc.
5. Stop acting like you’re listening when you’re really watching TV.
6. Stop allowing the spiritual leadership of the family to default to your wife.
7. Stop being passive when
it comes to disciplining and training your kids.
8. Stop saying you know and understand what your wife is saying or feeling when you haven’t even listened to what she has to say.
9. Stop being a closed book. Open up to your wife. Don’t be afraid to show emotion.
10. Stop allowing your role as leader in the home to be an excuse for selfish behavior. Don’t forget that a true leader also serves.

11. Stop dishonoring your wife by criticizing her in front of your children or in public.
12. When you wife irritates you, don’t answer right away. Instead count to 10 and remember that she is a gift from God.
13. Stop using your size and strength and anger to intimidate your wife and children.
14. Stop using the word “divorce” in your vocabulary.
15. Don’t shy away from difficult conversations with your wife.
16. Stop saying you’ll do something and then procrastinating.
17. Don’t purchase any major item without first discussing it with your wife even though you may want to call it surprise.
18. It’s impossible not to notice beautiful women who pass by. But don’t allow your eyes to linger. (And if your wife is with you, don’t lie to her and say you didn’t see that woman. Just admit you looked).
19. Stop thinking, I know more than my wife. You and your wife will each have more knowledge than the other in certain areas.

20. Don’t assume you know what your wife is thinking. Ask her how she is feeling and why.
21. When your wife tells you about a problem she’s having, don’t immediately try to solve it. She may just need you to listen to her.
22. Stop the sarcasm. You may be trying to sound funny, but you’re only cutting down your wife.
23. Stop treating your wife like a child. Remember that God has given her a wealth of experience and information that you need.
24. Stop acting like God and trying to control your wife. Command respect don't demand respect.
25. Stop pointing out her mistakes and asking for explanations. Doing these things can make her feel like a failure.... Please encourage us them.
26. Never casually or disrespectfully talk to other guys about sex with your wife.
27. Stop telling your wife that she is supposed to “submit” to you. If she is not following you, that means you’re not being a good leader.
28. Stop feeding your sexual desires from any source other than your wife.
29. Don’t be alone with any woman who is not your wife or related to you.
30. Stop discussing deep-level issues with a woman who is not your wife or related to you.
31. Stop deceiving your wife about your finances. Why would you do that?
32. Don’t look up old girlfriends on Facebook.
33. Stop putting a number on how often you should enjoy sexual intimacy.
34. Stop acting as if you have a GPS programmed into your brain. Before you go somewhere with your wife, get the right address and find out how to get there. If you are lost, don’t hesitate to get directions—from your smartphone map, even from a person.
​35. Don’t make fun of your wife to other guys. Are you a learner?
​36. Don’t allow guy-only activities (like playing golf, soccer, etc.) to rob you of leisure time with your wife and kids.

​37. Stop expecting your wife to do all the housework. Biko help them small na lol.
​38. Stop saying, “Honey … can you get the kids to be quiet?” when the kids are being monsters. Get up and go quiet them down yourself!
​39. Stop putting all your stuff in the laundry basket and then acting as if you “did the laundry.”
​40. Stop acting like stopping over at shoprite is like going to mushin market...
Some will say that lists like these are “too much to handle” and this is an example of “trashing” men. But the truth is that Sometimes our husbands need to know what not to do.

Comments

  1. Anonymous7/02/2014

    That is a nice one

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  2. ghen ghen.....God bless La'poster.
    no 40 is super funny..... Stop acting like stopping over at shoprite is like going
    to mushin market...

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  3. Amiable writteup by Eesah, aboundant benediction and knowledge.

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  4. Anonymous7/02/2014

    Hmmm,i like.....i love......no,am loving this post.

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  5. The 40 Commandments!

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  6. Thanks Eesah for this


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  7. Nice one, dear eesah

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  8. Dis is for my hubby nice

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  9. Anonymous7/02/2014

    Thanks Eeasah. dis is just for my hubby.

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  10. Anonymous7/03/2014

    This is so good. I will copy it and send to my husband's whatsapp account so that he will read it because he doesn't visit this site

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