Should I Tell My Mother Inlaw

Good evening, wtc. Am a constant reader of ur blog but never gave my
>> comment, always on the side reading people's problem and solution
>> providered by other viewers. My problem is this I just got married two
>> weeks ago, didn't have any kinda of pre- martial sex with my husband. Now
>> we are married and ready to enjoy  to the fullest but am not finding
>> easy cos I noticed that my husband semen looks irregular. I mean sometimes
>> is normal and sometimes it is mucus like and stretch alot. Well as a good
>> wife I did not throw it to his face, I only asked him to see a doctor which
>> he is not complying I don't wanna be rude with neither do I wanna tell his
>> mum. Pls I need ur candid advice

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  1. Anonymous4/30/2014

    Why would you tell your mother in law such a thing? If he doesnt want to see a doctor then leave it alone for all you know it may not be anything serious. You have just been married for 2 weeks abeg enjoy your marriage and let the man be

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    1. Anonymous4/30/2014

      For all you know it might be your cervical mucus you are seeing and you are calling it semen

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  2. Anonymous4/30/2014

    Which one is telling your mother in law? She shouldn't be involved in your sex lives. I really dnt knw much abt semen bt keep ur mum in law out of this. You are jst two weeks in marriage third party is d last tn u wnt to strt having. Learn to solve issues within urselves. www.mariasdesire.wordpress.com for discussing God, marriage nd recipes.

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  3. Anonymous4/30/2014

    If he cums inside of you how come you saw the semen?

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    1. Anonymous4/30/2014

      Help me ask her o! Madam poster do you not know that once he is inside you your fluids mix

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    2. Anonymous4/30/2014

      Good question!

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  4. Semen is meant to be stretchy and mucus like. Just like cervical mucus change in look and texture at different times of the month so does semen change from time to time.
    If I were you I won't get any1 involved. This isn't a problem and you already want to get your mother inlaw involved, when real problems arise who will you call, a family meeting (all your husbands people)?
    Please don't involve any1, enjoy ur marriage as it is still very young.

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  5. Anonymous4/30/2014

    What has Semen got to do with sexual satisfaction? Except you are having problems with conception, which is too early to say, I don't see any cause for alarm. I assume You guys underwent necessary test before marriage to rule out STDs if that's your fear

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  6. Madam Poster, I bow for you... You're examining semen after sex? Gosh!
    Wondering how you're going to enjoy sex the way you're going... how many types of semen have you examined that you know the one that is not normal? And why tell mother inlaw and not a doctor?
    I think you're starting on a wrong footing. Erase all this thoughts and ideas from your mind - enjoy the goodies that come with marriage.

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    1. Anonymous4/30/2014

      she probably noticed because when it's mucus like and stretchy, it sticks to the tip of the penis and does not wipe off easily. it's also probably more stretchy sometimes than others. This is likely due to pent up semen. have sex more often or he can jerk off more often and it should become less mucus like. as long as the colour is whitish, there's really nothing to worry about. still in doubt, then talk to a doctor. Not your mum or is mum abeg

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  7. Poster, if u start raising an issue when there is none then u're on ur own. U had better enjoy ur marriage & let sleeping dogs lie.

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  8. Anonymous4/30/2014

    Mmm my hubby told me he's a graduate o he even showed me his certificate (fake) he was into politics when I met him after 4years in marriage I realize he only has ss3 to be a graduate isn't a criteria in marriage but y lie abt it am so hurt n disappointed now cos he's jobless, rude, hot tempered am soooo down cos am pregnant n we hav kids o n am not working. just lying in my bed crying.

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    1. #hugs dear.
      I'm so sorry you're going through that dear.
      Please hang in there whilst you try to figure things out.
      I just think you should definitely start some kind of business or trade- I'm not sure how bouyant you are or are not but you could even start as an apprentice or something.
      In all dear, always put it to God in prayers.
      I truly feel your disappointment :(

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    2. Anonymous5/01/2014

      I'm sure you knew all this before it became tough. My question is how much did you save? How much did you help him save for rainy days? 4 years is a long time not to put your finances together or maybe you never knew it would end.

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  9. Anonymous5/01/2014

    the things one hears sha. 2 weeks in marriage, no premarital sex yet you are complaining about the way semen looks. abeg how many people's semen have you seen to know that your husband's own deviates from the norm. To know if it is different, you need at least 50 men of different ethnicity and you must examine at least 30 emissions for each person. Then if all those other men have similar semen at all times and your husband's own is still different, then you can talk.
    And I just cannot wrap my brain around the fact that it even crossed your mind to tell his mum about this. Are you for real????????

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    1. Anonymous5/07/2014

      Good advice. For someone who had never had premarital sex, you sure sound very knowledgeable. Honey random sampling might help. Abi you no write project for school. My hubby emits a Lil pre cum and since I'm not a swallower giving him a bj is kind of tedious and if I wipe off before going there, he I unhappy. So I suck it up because I don't want him getting it elsewhere and it's not his fault. Our bodies are all constituted differently.

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  10. Anonymous5/01/2014

    This poster is funny. My hubby semen has always been mucus like and stretchy and we have 3 lovely kids. You sound like someone that will always be looking for problem where there is none. You better sit down tight and enjoy ur marriage before you get caught up in d kids coming.

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  11. Anonymous5/01/2014

    Sorry to deviate pls,wat can I̶̲̥̅̊ use to stop sweat in armpit.I̶̲̥̅̊ so much hate it,is very irritating.And it's nt lyk I̶̲̥̅̊ sweat too much.please I̶̲̥̅̊ need help ASAP.thanks

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    1. Anonymous5/01/2014

      Use roll on

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    2. Anonymous5/01/2014

      Use roll on especially the one for men and make sure you shave

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    3. Anonymous5/02/2014

      not just any roll on, use antiperspirant. try Nivea cool kick for men

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  12. Anonymous5/01/2014

    Poster pls leave third party out of your marriage is too early. Enjoy your husband.:) . Anon 8:48. U can use rollon (SURE ROLLON) It helps d armpit to get dry.

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  13. Anonymous5/01/2014

    Dear poster, please grow up and been a smarty. How do you know an abnormal sperm? How sure are you that what you see is not your cervical mucus? And to think that you will even discuss such private matter with your MIL barely 2 weeks to your marriage is ridiculous. This post is just funny.

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  14. Anonymous5/01/2014

    Hmmm wat about semen that looks like water? Not thick at all. Is there a problem with that?

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  15. I think the poster is afraid that she might not get pregnant. Sooo incase that happens, mama will not blame her but her son. Na wa for people sef. Well, like u've bn asked, how many types of sperm u don see before. Don't create trouble and destroy your home with ur own hands o! I don talk my own finish. A wise woman builds her home. Ask God for wisdom! !!

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  16. Anonymous5/01/2014

    Poster you be real mumu o

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  17. Anonymous5/02/2014

    Like seriously? I believe u re pulling our legs. But if serious, follow d advice given to u: worry less. But if you can't help it, persuade him to go to hospital with you.
    But my dear 2wks into marriage? That ridiculous. Abi u get problem but looking for excuse to heap it on ur hubby. My dear if ur hubby satisfies u n u guys did d usual pre marriage tests b4 wedding (is if u be wedded) then my dear u no get wahala. Carry go wit enjoyment.

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  18. Anonymous5/02/2014

    Are u for real???

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  19. Anonymous5/02/2014

    I just found this blog and I'm in love already with it.

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    1. Anonymous5/03/2014

      welcum dear.

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  20. Anonymous5/03/2014

    this are the matters you involve your family doctor not mother in law plss. y not take s swab of it and take to a hospital for examining? if you are so uncomfortable with it.

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    1. Anonymous5/03/2014

      poster tk to ur mil since shes a nurse. Mtcheww. Na so una dey create problem.

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  21. Anonymous9/16/2014

    For the sweat under the armpit, use DriClor, its very very effective. I used to sweat excessively before but since i started using it, i have been having dry underarms.

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