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Growing up, I had friends who lost either or both of their parents, siblings, a guardian, a husband, wife, cousin, fiancé /fiancée as the case may be.
It seemed they were never going to pull through. Some never did but thankfully, a lot did. I saw them gradually begin to let go of the pains of losing their loved one(s).
I can say that not all the pains will ever go away because the void created by that person will always be there, painfully.
I still have both my parents but that doesn’t mean I haven’t had my fair share of loss.
However, I find people who have lost someone at one point in their lives strong people. The bible says ‘I will not make you go through something you cannot handle’, hence, if you could not handle it, trust me, you wouldn’t have gone through it. May I salute the strong man/woman in you; I envy the strength in you ‘coz I don’t know if I’d have been able to handle it.
For those who lost someone either to death or otherwise, those finding it hard to let go, going through a phase in Life, please bear in mind that someone somewhere is praying for you. You are not alone in this and may I plead that you do the same ‘coz I have real devils I’m fighting as well.
On my way to work this morning, the bus I boarded had a rather impatient driver who found it quite a challenge waiting for people to alight from the bus. When it was my turn to alight, the other passengers practically shouted at the driver to stop completely so as not to hurt me. The moment I alighted, I said to myself that those people on the bus were my family. They were all I got when I was on the bus because the spoke up for me. Before you go on to crucify me, think of what ‘family’ should really be?
We are created for relationship both to God and to one another.
I stumbled on this blog and got stuck. You are all I’ve got and I love you. You are my family and I appreciate you (unfortunately, I can’t mention everyone’s name + we have quite a number of anonymous IDs). In life, nothing happens without a reason, hence, I met you via this blog for a reason and you are a part of me. This is me saying: I will pray for& with you; I will love you; will be there for you; will scold you if I have to; I will humble myself enough to take corrections; I will give you my shoulder to lean on when you need it and I promise to give you what is really lacking in life today- Love.  Aunty Eya, God bless you for creating this platform to meet my family.
As I ponder on this thought this morning, may I plead that you see everyone you come in contact with as a part of you. You met them for a reason and they are there for a season in your life and you are there for a season in their lives as well.
Live and let live.
Have a BeaYouTeaFull day.
Hugs…
FolaShade

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  1. Uve spoken well..I celebrate u Folashade. .u re higly appreciated..God bless u

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  2. Disappointed reader5/14/2013

    OMG I'm so irritated right now. So I finally found the lesbian blog ppl were talking abt on d lesbian post. #Lookingglassofanimmigrant. Aunty Eya I have been following your blog since and today I am highly dissapppointed in you. I even want to puke now. For the fact that you took that lesbian post down on the bases that you were disgusted and all that soopy story you told making it seem that dats the first time you are hearing such. I actually felt pity for you after you took it down and wrote a sermon on how you have never seen such before. So I visited that blog and behold madam Eya's comments on almost all posts. The one were you were the first commenter telling her to 'let her pussy purr'. How dare you madam eya. You even asked her how far abt wat happpened and yet you come here acting all righteous. You are a full participant of a lesbian's blog( and YES you fully knew she was a lesbian). I am highly dissppointed in you Eya not cos you comment on that blog but cos you took ur lesbian post down. If you want, delete this post but at least you will read it and correct ur self and I will keep reposting it. *spits* Dissappointed reader.

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    1. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Pls what's the address?

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    2. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Give me the adress before our oga deletes this comment

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    3. ***You fool, Eya wrote the address here before you. Look at the time. Eya wrote at 2;05 while you rushed up here to reply at 2;23. who are you deceiving? YOURSELF.

      Eya already wrote down the link so, why bother if destructive witchcraft is not what is disturbing you. You failed lesbian blogger.

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    4. Madam Eya, It's good that you gave the address. Let her get the traffic she has been craving for. If you do not have quality content, you think that traffic will continue?

      Oh, after Eya gave the address.... you still went up to write again to make it look like you did first?? why?

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  3. This is the address;http://lookingglassofanimmigrant.blogspot.com/2013/05/so-im-back-with-few-random-thoughts.html?m=0

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    1. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Thank you madam Oga

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    2. Thank you for dropping the address. Everybody can now rest.

      Personally, I'm over all these. I ran away from Lib and llb, now the same thing is happening here. I think it's even worse here cos it seems the trouble makers cannot use their head and see that this is a different kind of blog. I have checked a lot of foreign blogs and you hardly see such hate on personal blogs Like this. Most people are supportive of each other. Hate is usually seen on blogs filled with political writings or entertainment and gossip.

      We Nigerians have to free ourselves from the shackles that hold us down. Jealousy and envy is kilking a lot of women. You want everybody to be miserable. You only derive joy from seeing that someone is in the same or worse situation with you. To ppl like you wealth means ritualist, prostitute or thief.
      Beauty means plastic surgery, bleaching or 'mammy water'.
      Born again means fake.
      Intelligent means cheat or fraudulent.
      Happy means pretense and lies.

      To you everything is ugly and when you realize it's not, then you'll run it down and rubbish it.

      Some people think witch craft is when you 'fly at night'. No. When you decide to be a source of headache to someone, then you are practicing witch craft. Someone created a blog to help with family issues that women face daily but dnt know how to solve. The blog features all kinds of help down to hygiene, food and even how to cut mangoes.

      Rather than appreciate, learn and contribute some of you have taken it upon yourselves to destroy the blog. We blame boko haram and our leaders all the time, meanwhile many of us are worse of! After all, our leaders and terrorists did not fall from the sky, they grew up amongst us. They are just a projected reflection of who many of us are.

      I went to check the blog ready to see where Aunty Eya was hailing the lady for being a lesbian or something. I did not see anything like that. I even noticed from her responses she tried her best not to give away her stance on Lesbianism. She brought down the lez post cos it sounded fake and brought a lot of controversy and it painted married women in general in a bad light. I remember Aunty Eya did not even comment on the post even when many were trying to make her comment by insinuating rubbish.

      Moreover, even if she loves lesbianism, who freaking cares? Is that what this blog is about? Better still, is that what this particular post from FolaShade is about? Can't you send her a mail? Or go to the blog where she commented and attack her there? Why here? You are disappointed, SO? Are you paying her to blog? Is this ur blog? Did you advertise ur product here? Are you the owner of blogger? Is she ur mum? Sis? Child? Friend? Church member? Neighbour?

      When ppl were attacking me, I was like whateva mehn! Try as you may, u can't run me off this blog. I just realized, I wasn't the only problem. The person(s) behind this is just a sad bitter jobless fellow looking for where to cause commotion. You are an agent of darkness! Yes I said it! Any post you enter, you infect it with your negativity and evil. Pls seek help. Both spiritual and psychological help. Pls do. You are a menace to the society. I fear for your neighbors, I fear for you family.

      I did not want to comment before but Aunty Eya has defended me before, so I'll defend her too. If you like try and walk though a wall. I dnt care.

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    3. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Adhaisy y don't you copy and paste the encyclopedia u just wrote and form a novel. Senseless comment. Madam I too know.pls get da fuck out.

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    4. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Ada what's your stand on lesbianism? Are for or against? Or you would not show your stance on it. Stop being a hypocrite. If Eya is wrong, let her come out and apologies.if not, let's move on. But for you to defend someone who supports Lesbianisim is too hypocritical of you.
      You were the same person that praised Eya for taking down the post because the post was suporting lesbianism

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    5. You can go and bring ur bulldozer. Maybe that will remove me... I am sick of anons like you. Open a google account, put ur picture, then come back and reply me. You are just a coward with low self esteem, ashamed of ur looks and who you are. Hiding behind anonymous. Why dnt you go and get help first? You wouldn't know senseless even if it plucked ur eyes out.

      You think I can't stoop low to ur level to call you names? You think cos I try to be civil with you, I dnt know how to get dirty? I dnt want you to beat me with experience and expertise. Moreover, it will take me years to climb back down to your level...

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    6. Anon 5:34 I do not support lesbianism, never have, never will. Reread my comment again before you comment OP. I am defending Aunty Eya, because all these are not called for. She wasnt the one who posted the lez post, neither is she the owner of the lez blog. So what's my ish with that? I will say my own. Either learn from it or take a hike.

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    7. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Even Eya that this post is about she is not going about name calling and saying ppl are witches. You have a sharp tongue( or hand) and there is a drug I want to introduce to you. I would like to recommend a large dose of dignified SILENCE. Learn to ignore some things madam.

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    8. Considering that your drug does not work on you, why should I take ur recommendation?

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    9. Anonymous5/14/2013

      You are dump to think its only one person commenting under Anon.

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      LOOL Ahdaisy 1 - 0 Anon 5:54 pm!!
      Round two! Fight!!!
      #just kidding

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    11. I dnt think it's only one person. And of course you know I am not 'dump'. As you typed it sef, your hand shook cos you sef no say Ahdaisy is not 'dump'. However the attackers are not more than two ot three commenting over and over. If you want to defend urself, bring urself...not hide under anonymous.

      Anan, 6.06, lool. Before my first comment, I prepared my mind very well cos I know all their lines. If it is not 'you are a wife', it is 'you are a christian' or, you should talk like this or, act like that or, do like this you are a pretender, or liar, or fake, or bitch, or prostitute, or barren, or old or ugly or hypocrite or fool, or idiot, or stupid or crazy...what else? Let them go and search the dictionary or street lingo and bring it on!

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    12. Anonymous5/14/2013

      So Ada if someone praises you under Anon it's okay, but immediately they attack you, you start using the fact that they are Anon to insult them.

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    13. No. But if someone comes under anonymous to attack 'my person' then it's not ok cos it's not a fair fight. You can't be under anonymous and attack a person's looks, or life when you dnt display your own for scrutiny.

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    14. Anonymous5/14/2013

      They only attack the information you put in here, anyway like the other Anon said learn to ignore some things. I really like you but I think you are always on the defensive

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  4. @Disappointed reader,so why bring it here,what is the relation between what u just raised and this post,what do u seek to achieve by raising this issue here?
    Anyway I know your type little bitter soul, an enemy of progress and a kill joy. For those of us who never visited the blog and doesn't want to visit why not save us this rubbish.
    For the fact u took so much time to putup sonething like this just to bring another down,u're no better than a terrorist. Its not your fault atall and for your information aunty Ojay won't backdown coz of your cheap blackmail u coward.
    If u feel u're so concerned and serious,put a picture of you to that your disappointed name,quit being anonymous and lets finish this business once and for all. I so hate your type,coz nothing good will ever come to your type,may that your disappointment name follow you all your life.
    I wish she can pay no heed to all your calumnies, don't worry if u don't change your ways your suicide story will soon make a post here.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. Anonymous5/14/2013

      I think he guy is just shocked cos Aunt. Eya said she doesn't believe Ppl do lesbianism meanwhile she's been commenting on a known lesbians blog and leaving obscene comments there. I just went there and I'm surprised by the comments of Aunt. Eya cos I don't see her that way at all

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    2. Dissappointed reader5/14/2013

      Bonario if only you will get your head out of ur ass and read wat I typed. All the epistle you typed is stupid and useless. Iam an Eya fan and I had to say this. I don't have a problem with her commenting on wat ever blog she wishes but for the fact that she went over dramatic removing the lesbian post forming hollier than thou preaching abt her ignornace on such act made me believe she was hurt abt wat ppl were revealing only for me to see the kind of comments she makes on that blog.. That is just pure hypocrisy or howeva you spell it. Bonario try to use your brain. If you believe a friend did wrong, caution them and don't decieve them. Eya I think you were wrong and you must accept that. Accept it.

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    3. Mrs Dayo5/14/2013

      From ANONYMOUS to Disappointed READER to SISTER to Rubbish. Continue to change your name and make it look like you are many. For fighting Eya this much, you are a certified evil witch.

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    4. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Mrs Dayo, thanks for calling someone a witch. It's only one that can identify the other.

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  5. Anonymous5/14/2013

    But Aunt Eya I just saw what the guy is talking about. You've been commenting on that blog for some time now(before that post came up)
    And your comments there are strange, that the Aunt. Eya I know.wow.

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    1. Mrs Dayo5/14/2013

      Same old YOU!!! that wrote the other comment,you can spend the whole day here leaving comments and replying yourself. Me I know your type and I don't give a hood.

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    2. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Errm no. I'm the one that asked for the address. I just went there and saw what the guy was saying

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  7. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Shit happens!

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    1. This is not about shit happening jor. It's about someone, maybe another loser blogger envious of this fast rising blog and trying to blackmail Eya pleeeeeeeese.

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  8. another nice piece frm folashade.

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  9. Nice post Folashade. You sure write inspirational things. May God continue to enrich you sis! Hugs.

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  10. Sorry to come in please. I used to visit that blog too. That pussy purring post although I never commented but I felt she was actually talking about something else. When I read it then, it didn't seem like a girl versus girl thingy.

    The truth is... that blog owner never came out openly at first. Even that her profile now that states she is a lesbian is a new development. It wasn't like that when I started reading that blog.

    I actually enjoyed her blog a lot before she came out to declare openly "she is lesbian." I dodn't know for Aunty Eya but me, after that declaration and change of profile story to 'LESBIAN' I STOPPED reading her blog.

    This Annoymous fighting Aunty Eya is such a failure. When I stopped reading that blog, I noticed that it stopped showing on Aunty Eya's blogroll here. I guess she took it off her list.

    If I am right, Eya didn't take down that post because it talked about Lesbian, afterall, she is the one that put it up in the first place. She explained that it was for reasons best known to her. (Anyway I guess it's also because of the Annoymous that continously left comments glorifying lesbianism. My 5 cents.

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  11. Anonymous5/14/2013

    I don't really believe that any Nigerian wife can just drop her kids in school, bid her husband goodbye and head straight to the bedroom to sleep with another woman. I can't bring myself to believe, so, let it go...

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  12. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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  13. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Hmmmmmmm the cat has been let out of the bag. I just read the blog myself now and I'm so speechless. Really speechless. Aunty Eya are u a Lesbian? Pls clear the coast...

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    1. No Anonymous. I AM NOT A LESBIAN.
      Thank you.

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  14. sister5/14/2013

    Bonario pls let Eya defend herself and pls be a man hmmmmm na wetin

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  15. God knows my name5/14/2013

    Folashade,better person with better post God bless u plenty jare. Ur post always makes sense. Don't mind Eya,her haters and her voltrons,putting stinking stuff under ds ur beautiful post. You all should be ashamed of urself!
    Keep dem coming Fola dear,ur write ups are wonderful. Cheers dearie.

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  16. Dissappointed reader5/14/2013

    If u idiots want keep decieving yourselves that anyone that says something wrong to Eya under anon or any other names is the same person. Nobody is that jobless. Eya herslf knows she was wrong and I'm pointing it out. All you trying to find senseless reason to defend her should keep licking the shit out of her butt. You know wat I said is correct. Today was my 1st time on that blog and I found it thru google and I was having a quick glance and was irritated by the blog itself. How ppl praise this so-called lesbian blogger as if she did sum humanitarian job. That blog itself disgusts me. But then I saw Eya who never for once condemned the blogger the way she so did on this blog. I also saw comments from Ace Bentley who was the only person that seemed irritated about the whole thing, he was being real. Madamm Eya Accept your wrong doin. Accept it. If anyone wishes to come after, please do and I will give it back to you. Rubbish. *spits*

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    1. now that you have pointed it out, can u go and drink a cup of cold water? and plz get out of here while you are at it. Urgh! irritant!

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    2. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Madam disappointed reader abeg rest na we yaff hear! U hear, God bless U okay? Go get Panadol n cold water u hear??
      Madam u don for us o, u can go and take several seats!!!!!! KMT

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    3. eya's fan5/15/2013

      madam disappointed, ure obviously jobless and husband-less, u are rude n a cheap fighter. these names i have called you could be derived from your posts. lesbianism is wrong and anyone has d right to comment n remove stuff within her own capacity, so pls take a back site n drink so panadol extra cos u would definitely need it. instead of u to use your internet subscription to look for jobs online, u are here showing us wat a low life you are. am really sorry for you.

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    1. bolaji5/14/2013

      You this child! What do you know?! Paste your face and name out for everybody in the world to see,then continue spewing foolishness from ur mouth! U're just starting ur life o! U better be careful about wat u say before ur words comes back to haunt you later in life.

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  19. Dissappointed reader5/14/2013

    At least some1 else has eyes to see. The other airheads didn't bother checking the blog 1st b4 replying me. Instead of thinking that all comments are comming from one person, why don't you make use of your wasted brains. Am sure the Bonario that ranted b4 checking the blog is eating his words right now. If Eya hadn't removed that post then dis wudnt have excalated out of proportion. Accept your wrong doing Eya cos I bliv if you thot you were right you would have replied defending your self. At least you won't make such mistakes next time.

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    1. Anonymous5/14/2013

      MADAM!!!!
      I go vex ooooo! I say make u go rest! Haba u no dey tire??? We yaff hear! Tank ma, God bless!
      I will start binding u o, which kind winchy be dis na?
      The chikoo

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  20. na wa. who is this person that has time to open diff gmail accounts just to diss aunt. Eya. pple have time o. Whoever u are, just know you are wasting your time cause who God don bless, no man can cause. so jst park your danfo elsewhere and stop looking for cheap publicity.

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    1. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Ode you don't need email account to comment on a post.Mumu

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    2. disappointed reader, sister, meme or whatever the name is + YOU , all and the same person. oya open more acconts.

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    3. Haba, Ama. What did Meme do na? Biko.

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  22. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Ok, just went to the post and saw the comments and several others that aunty Eya left on other posts.. Seriously @disappointed reader? What's the big deal well I guess its just because we see aunty Eya in a special kind of way.. It doesn't matter to me though... I love me some aunty ojay

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  23. Hey bashers, Aunty Eya is not the president of Nigeria, she's not Jesus so why must you crucify her at all cost?

    I have a policy never to respond to hate comments dished out here either on me or anyone, but I just think this is getting out of hand. Everyone has a life to live, leave others to their life why must whoever you are play God in other ppl's life.

    I'm sure same ppl are the ones after AhDaisy, let me advice... You can never put off a light that is destined to shine, you can only try to dim it.


    Remember, you're pointing just 1 finger, 4 others is facing you. If you think ur cyber identity cannot be known by men, also remb God know's you well.

    Apple was making so much money from it's iOS, google dint go around on a pull them down campaign, google created Andriod, today andriod phones have out sold the entire history of iOS, Take a cue.
    No one will beat you for not trying, but posterity will condemn you for destroying.


    Women should learn to simply stop being their own worse enemy. I remember, a girl was so fitted to become my departments president way back Uni, I was her campaign manger, of all who we campaigned to only the ladies were totally just against her becoming the president for no reason, trust my words "she never won"

    Let's all move from this age of bickering, like I'll say.... The Onus is on you!



    Nuff'Said!

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    1. Ace Boo5/14/2013

      Ride on boo... U know u can neva go wrong *movement*

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  24. Anonymous5/14/2013

    I dnt know why people think it's the same person commenting. Y'all are just airheads. Instead of you to let Aunt. Eya defend herself, y'all are attacking ppl. I just went to the blog and what the anon said is true. If he is lying and you him it's different but I saw Eyas comments there live and colored. All of you are hypocrites cos you were the same person praising her when she put down the postd

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  25. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Personally I was shocked to see the comments but I guess no one is a saint. I was of the impression that Aunt Eya was against same sex things. Anyway I miss how this blog was maybe we shd get rid of Anons cos they are bringing the blog down

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    1. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Mumu rnt you Anon too?

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  26. Anonymous5/14/2013

    At least other ppl have checked the blog before commenting while the fake ones that enjoy kissing ass and decieving Eya remain blind laffing at her behind her back. Call a spade a spade, no one will cut off your tongue. Eya always defends herself against comments she doesn't like except dis one. That tells me something.

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    1. Dissappointed reader5/14/2013

      At least other ppl have checked the blog before commenting while the fake ones that enjoy kissing ass and decieving Eya remain blind laffing at her behind her back. Call a spade a spade, no one will cut off your tongue. Eya always defends herself against comments she doesn't like except dis one. That tells me something. I apologise Folasade 4 using ur post as a means for this.

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    2. kendra5/14/2013

      Disappointed reader,u forgot to change ur name the ffirst time from anon to disapponited reader! I thought u said u weren't the only one commenting..

      Sorry,u just blew ur cover.

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    3. Anonymous5/15/2013

      Lmao....aswear, stupid mofos.....serzly r u getting paid for ds?buh if ur doin ds for free...my sister/broda u need serz deliverance cos I dnt understand y u wud b ds pained nd miserable....nothing good ll Eva cum ur way if u continue ds way...

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  27. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Ahdaisy see how deceitful u re,so bcos aunty eya defended u befor,u now came and started defending her too even when u can see for urself clearly. And u kip claiming that u re a xtain,if na anoda person now u go sabi dey quote scriptires to take advice am. Abi lesbianism no b sin? Are u supposed to b partial? Are u guys not supposed to condemn d act? Abi u too join d lesbians club? all of u acting blindly kip supporting her Ooº°˚ ...hypocrites

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    1. Reread my comment, connect ur brain back to your fingers, then retype your comment. What is being deceitful here? By now you shud know I say it as it is. I do not in anyway support lesbianism. A lot of people support it but you dnt see me going around to attack them. That I am a christian does not mean I should keep quiet and watch someone try to destroy another person's hardwork.

      How come disappointed reader has been searching for the blog all this while? Since how many weeks ago? Instead of the person to search for meaningful things that can help others, the person spent time searching a blog by a lesbian.

      Dat was not enough, the person came to a beautiful post like this and totally ruined it cos comments are not moderated. That is my anger. That is my point. If the person had created a post specially to trash this issue, I would not mind at all... So pls, before you bring Ahdaisy into everything, drop sentiments aside.

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    2. well said sister...

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    3. Dissappointed reader5/14/2013

      @Ahdaisy or wateva. I havnt been spending weeks or years searching google for that blog, it simply crossed my mind 2 day cos I remebered wen Ace mentioned that he went on google to find the name of the blog and it wasn't dat difficult to find.

      I didn't want to mention anything abt my observations but I thot to myself, 'silence is a killer, I will air my views and anyone who decides to talk senselessly will just have to deal with it'. I have opened my mouth and said my observations and how I think it was wrong. I don't kiss asses and won't start now. I'm not afraid to talk either. I decided to air it dis way and u all have to deal with it. Eya is not being silent on this post becos she is 'being the bigger person' but bcos she knows deep in her nice heart that wat I'm accusing her of has a lot of truth in it. So by all means, u ppl shud keep on making stupid excuses for her bad actions. Its ur opinion and this is also my opinion.

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    4. Anonymous5/15/2013

      Disappointed fool, ur nt afraid to talk bah?Buh ur afraid to put ur name wey ur papa nd mama dash u nd put up a face to d name abi....hoeloshi, jobless thin...I'm sure ds thin here is a 'she' I pity d person dt ll marry u dt is if dem neva chase u commot already...frustrated being

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  28. Ace's boo5/14/2013

    Can we all move on already? I need HOT gists/posts abeg. *movement*

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  29. Folashade very uplifting post. God bless u. Ur post on letting go yesterday has really made me re-evaluate my life on different levels.

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  30. The last tym I checked the lez post is abt 2wks now,why the sudden eruption?I'm so sure all the comments from anonymouses are from madam SISTER,she's a devil and she's here again looking for who to devour.bad belle.I fear for your generation,faceless idiot.I don come for you,u go hearam

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  31. God knows my name5/14/2013

    Will the lot of you drop it already! Grown ass women bickering like fish wives! U're not even feeling bad about ruining d essense of ds lovely post.
    Folashade,you still call ds ones your 'family' after seeing all ds. All of u are just typing rubbish let me tell you. At this stage of ur lives!
    Rubbish!

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  32. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Aunt eya, you are somthing else

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  33. Thank you aunty Eya for not responding anymore!

    and to fellow bloggers with a good and godly heart, whoever deviates post with all this kinda setback talk should not receive our response.

    Hence, responding means corroborating. when we pay deaf hears to personal attacks this people will most def find a new bickering ground.

    thanks fam

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    1. Well said Ace! :-) I thought about it too but when others started replying...I was 'oh well...'

      @ Timi, lolz...na so...;-)

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    2. Anonymous5/14/2013

      Oga Ace haff gbagaun'd oooo '@deaf hears'... Lmaoooooooooooo

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  35. kendra5/14/2013

    The funniest thing is that its only one person that is the anons and disappointed reader.. If u read one of the post where he/she commented as anon,then replied with disappointed reader but thesame words which the anon did only she/he forgot to change the name the first time...

    So go and sit down anon!

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    1. Dissappointed reader5/14/2013

      Kendra don't be stupid. Its either ur IQ is 0% or u r just plain stupid. I sent that 1st comment and replied it cos I 4got to put a name in the URL. If I was pretending to be an anon, wud I have replied it with the exact same words and put a name to it? Wudnt that have bn too obvious. I just replied you cos ur brain is obviously too slow to grasp certain things. So in order not to ponder on it till thy kingdom come, I have decided to help you out. Brainlessness is a disease.

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    2. kendra5/14/2013

      U are ver stupid and alson daft... U think u can come and spew rubbish here all the time. I still stand on my word,u are the same anon coming back here to write trash,the same one writing how u found the blog and how u are disappointed....

      If u are dissappointed,stop coming here and writing rusbbish.. Take ur nonchanlant attitude someone.. Idiot.. U saw her commenting on a post so what? Did she tell u she brought that post down cos she doesn't like lesbians? Cos I can remember her saying she don't think the story was true or somethong else but since its in ur nature to attack people,u decided to find a way to attack her by bringoing back what was forgotten and buried.. U are such a twart... U lots come here and look for who to attack,when u are tired of one u move to the next.. Writing stupid and sensless things.. Come back here and say trash and I'll cuss u out.. Fool

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    3. kendra5/14/2013

      I still stand by my word***** take you nonchalant attitude somewhere else******

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    4. Anonymous5/14/2013

      @kendra your brain is too thick, I am an Anon and it's not the disappointed whatever. Obviously he wanted to show that he was the same person that's why he typed everything againg and this time added his.

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    5. Anonymous5/15/2013

      Anon 10:48....aw do u knw d jobless fool is a guy cos I noticed u used 'he'?....ohh well I think ur d disappointed reader chngin names nd replying errbody.....who cares if ur disappointed Sef...we still love Aunty eya nd ds blog so pls give up already...if ur lyf is so miserable nd sad pls kill urself nah so d ppl around u ll b happy dt ur gone

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  36. Anonymous5/14/2013

    Adhaisy thank you for answering all these people jare and aunty Eya, I'm glad you dint bother responding this time around.. Some people are just here to bring commotion.. Na wa ooo... Cynthia

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    2. Anonymous5/14/2013

      oh pls shut up! It's so obvious that you're famzing! you that is asking others to google themselves, ave u gogled urs? You spoke n we heard in ur previous comments, now you're coming to overdo. Go and sleep babe. And if I were you I'd try to prove the one who called me a baby wrong. kmt!

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    3. Anonymous5/14/2013

      and NO I'm not 'dissapointed reader'. In case you want to use that as your shooting point!

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    4. Anonymous5/15/2013

      Anon 10:40 Sharrap nd go nd drink hypo....it works wonders....its gonna remove all d anger u v in u......GET A LYF ..lmfao

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  37. Anonymous5/14/2013

    @disappointed reader don't mind all this hypocritical people. They say one thing and do another. When you question they are ready to rain all sorts of insults on you. If you realize all the defenders have the sharpest tongues, calling ppl witches and ugly etc.
    I don't want to comment with my name because in the country that I live in, if you are looking for a job the employer does a research about you. They can pull up your online archive just so they know the type of person they are employing. Guys know that anything you write online stays here forever, so be careful of the kind of words you put on here as it can be used against you in the future. Good example is what happened to Aunt. Eya. I still can't get over that her comment ''let your pussy purr''

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      No comment for you. I only stated d obvious. Nxt time dnt over-famz!

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  39. Sigh.......5/15/2013

    Wow......It's amazing and quite sad what this blog has degenerated into in such a short time. I guess the saying, you lie with dogs and get up with fleas, remains true. You wanted LIB readers, you've gotten LIB readers with their unruly behavior. Because you want traffic, you refuse to moderate comments.

    This blog has lost its essence and it is so sad that this is going on even in a post where someone is saying this blog is all she has. I am sure these are not the type of comments the poster expected to see when she sent this in. Eya, you have sold your conscience for traffic. In the not so distant past, you would not have allowed this to happen on this kind of post. What happened to you caring about the poster's feelings? I guess that was all pretense.

    All the negativity on this blog these days is enough to give someone a headache. To all the people going at each other, doesn't it take energy out of you? I guess some people are just having fun at other people's expense.

    Eya, stand for something and don't sell your soul and integrity for money because at the end of the day, that's what all this is about. You know it and i know it. You will still get advertisers and traffic without resorting to letting this blog become a free for all.

    To the poster, please find a more nurturing online family. This blog is obviously not it.

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    1. When I said exactly what you just said yesterday, they started labelling me as some Anons with a different name.

      When I visited LIB yesterday, saw so much hate, then saw Aunt Eya's link, I remembered how she used to advice Rihanna to come to WC to learn how to prepare soup for Chris brown. Good marketing strategy advertising there. But it comes with a price, you attract the "haters" there to your formerly sane blog.

      If Aunt Eya wants sanity, she has to start gating comments. And it's not true that in foreign blogs there is no hate there. Whoever concludes that never begin visit blogs sef. So, this is not a "naija" thing per say.

      All the fight is getting irritating sha. Just like LIB and LLB has become.

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  40. @Folashade! Tnks my dearest, U have made me see "family" in a new light.

    Pls aunty Eya stated some of her reasons for taking down the lesbian post. 1. That with further correspondence with the poster,she cld deduce he was fake. 2. She didn't blve a married woman wld drop off her kids @ school,turn around and the only thing left for her to do is hop into the bed with a fellow woman.

    Pls let us ALL be fair in our comments. Sometimes,we might not be privy to the information Eya has that make her take certain decisions on this blog (afterall,she is the 1st and ONLY contact for posts on the blog).

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  41. sister5/15/2013

    Eya where are my comments,u are not fair oooooOoooooo

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  42. felicia5/15/2013

    Anon weting dat fine girl do u. Abeg if u no get sometin 2 talk just quietly go hug transformer

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  43. Anonymous5/15/2013

    I sincerely apologise to Folashade 4 ruining her beautiful post which I finally read. My accusations on Eya still stand solid.
    And in reply to 'TIMI the dirty girl', sorry 'housegirl' oops, hope u were given a lolly and cotton candy for ur effort at defending and licking other ppl's ass. I guarantee you that d asses u have licked will not do the same for u cos u r a wannabe. U asked ppl to google names without including urs. How stupid of you. Acting like u want a pat on d back. Carry on ur housegirly duties, it sure suits u. I also noticed u deleted most of ur comments cos u finally realised how dumb u sound.
    And u ppl that are always shouting 'show ur face' I really pity ur pea brains. Just like sum1 stated, it only takes a click for your life history to be found online, so pls keep putting ur face on blogs and pairing it wif silly comments and watch how it will bite u in d ass in d future. U must really think showing face on a blog adds more money to d bloggers pocket? All dey need is ur comment. Dats y ders an option for anonymousity. Stupid illiterates.
    Once agan Folashade I apologise 4 dis mess and it won't go beyond dis post.

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    1. Dissappointed reader5/15/2013

      And yes the above comment 7.26am was from me, b4 an airhead starts ranting.

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    2. Dissappointed reader5/15/2013

      The above comment 7.26am was from me. B4 an airhead starts ranting

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  44. Anonymous5/15/2013

    Disappointed reader, suck a Dick nd die already plsss

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  45. Cyndrella5/15/2013

    Na wao,devil incarnate everywhere,dear family i beg una to forgive the foolishness of some pple here o and lets move on.what i think is that someone is trying to create awareness of some stupid blog.well not interested.

    i beg to day na my birthday jare i no wan bad belle.

    fola God will bless u for the beurifu post

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    1. Beautiful Cyndrella, happy, happy, happy birthday to you dearest. May your be filled with Love, Joy and Happiness.

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    2. Happy Birthday Cyndrella.

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    3. Happy Birthday Cyndrella, wish you God's blessing now and always. Cheers.

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  46. sister5/15/2013

    @Disappointed reader ur anon comment is so on point

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