Things I Am Ashamed I Care About

Aunty Eya, God bless you for all I have learned from your blog. I'm an addicted reader that needs help. This post is a sort of confession. I really need to confess but may not each a greater audience if I  do it to my pastor alone. I need people to
flog and bring me back to my right senses. The things I do and imagine in my head eh, if anyone hears, they will hate me I swear. Please do not post my name or email I beg you.

One of those things I shd be ashamed of is wishing my ex Fiance's marriage crashes. 

We had a very serious relationship that almost ended in marriage before he left me for another lady. He got married to her while I also am married with a child. 

We live in the same town and I still manage to know and hear a few things about his progress. Ever since he got married, I have secretly wished that it becomes unsuccessful. I had to rush into my marriage because I couldn't stand him getting married before me.

The second thing I do that I'm really ashamed of is trying to find and meet  his wife, to see the quality of ring she is wearing.
Finally, I hate to see an unflushed toilet and am preparing to train my son to be good at flushing after him. BUT, many times I do not remember to flush the toilet myself.

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  1. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Please forget your ex and focus on your marriage,it's like yOu Are still in love with him which might unknowingly be affecting your marriage.you son will learn with time,am also having problem trying my twins Hw to use the bathroom.TRIPLE JEWEL

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  2. Barbie5/12/2013

    Lol, you are not alone. if I tell you mine eh, you will pick race.

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  3. Hehehehehe u're very funnt couldn't help but laugh @ failing to flush the toilet*ayama*
    U need deliverance white garment style. U need to be flogged with a white pigeon. Hehehe leave your Ex aloneoo. Before yanga go wake sleeping trouble.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  5. Anonymous5/12/2013

    @ poster u make me laff.. My own be say people go dey call my fone instead of me to pick( and am doin notin) I'll txt dem to pls call bk or sms dat am bizy or in a meeting!! Lol.. I tink evry1 has their own 1min. Of mischevious act.

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  6. Shayor!5/12/2013

    Not new jor! U would overgrow it...most of us do dt....about d toilet; errrmm! Dt I can't deal...pls flush biko! #irritatingmuch#

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  7. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Loool, this post is funny. Mine is always wishing my ex finds someone I'm way better than, funny enuf, he is yet to get someone beta. Anoda 1 is telling ppl that they look fab when its crystal clear that they look hideous. As much as i wouldn't want to make them feel bad, i sure need a way to do/say it without making them feel inferior.

    Ella

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  8. Anonymous5/12/2013

    U r obviously obsessed wit ur ex. U got 2 stop. Am at d recieving end of wat u r doing now. My husband's ex gf used 2 live wit him. We got married still living in d same place he used 2 live wit his ex gf . Dat means she has a lot of friends in d area. She had pple take pics of me 4 her 2 see wat i look like. Some of her spies even became my friends so dey could get inside info 4 her. She knows wat my 2kids look like even without setting eyes on dem. Its only a matter of time b4 u get 2 dat stage. Aunty Eya, dis is serious. I just found out abt dis a few months back & my heart is broken cos i just found out dat most of my so called friends in my area r just spies. There is dis particular lady i took like my sister. She knew everything abt my family plus she's related 2 my husband. She was d one takin pics of me & my kids & sending it 2 dis bitch. Everytime my husband & i had a fight, she will let her know. When things r super rosy, she also knew. Right now i feel like my privacy has been evaded so ve shut every one out. It hurts 2 look at all these pple i used 2 call friends & family who were actually my enemies. Poster, u got 2 stop. Its a waste of time.
    Yucee.

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  9. Anonymous5/12/2013

    U r obviously obsessed wit ur ex. U got 2 stop. Am at d recieving end of wat u r doing now. My husband's ex gf used 2 live wit him. We got married still living in d same place he used 2 live wit his ex gf . Dat means she has a lot of friends in d area. She had pple take pics of me 4 her 2 see wat i look like. Some of her spies even became my friends so dey could get inside info 4 her. She knows wat my 2kids look like even without setting eyes on dem. Its only a matter of time b4 u get 2 dat stage. Aunty Eya, dis is serious. I just found out abt dis a few months back & my heart is broken cos i just found out dat most of my so called friends in my area r just spies. There is dis particular lady i took like my sister. She knew everything abt my family plus she's related 2 my husband. She was d one takin pics of me & my kids & sending it 2 dis bitch. Everytime my husband & i had a fight, she will let her know. When things r super rosy, she also knew. Right now i feel like my privacy has been evaded so ve shut every one out. It hurts 2 look at all these pple i used 2 call friends & family who were actually my enemies. Poster, u got 2 stop. Its a waste of time.
    Yucee.

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  10. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Nice one,I hate my ex ATM,bcos u just made me remember all the bad things he did to me,can't evn spy on him,don't care.

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  11. Looooooool.

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    1. Anonymous5/12/2013

      I am sorry, but your wish is a devilish one. Pray to God to help you forgive him and take your mind off him. I used to have an ex i loved so much that I all I wish for him now is the best. It took prayers for me to stop loving him and the love I had for him just died naturally.
      Thank God now I am blessed with the most fantastic person i have ever met as my husband.

      Please I beg you stop those thoughts, because it a terrible one. Imagine someone wishes your marriage to crash too? And mind you, he and his family could be praying for God's destruction on their enemies and my dear, right now you are one.

      ...pj

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  12. Looool. I was once in your shoes and still have same thoughts once in a while. But I made a conscious effort to stop wishing him bad. On his fiancee's bday, he begged me not to get upset when he puts up her pic as his dp. I was soooo jealous but on her bday, I actually prayed for her and wished both of them well. But d gobe now be say e be like say d bobo wants me back. *confused*

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  13. Anonymous5/13/2013

    @Nekky...he doesn't want you back but wants to eat his cake and have it. My dear,you have to put a stop to it before it turns to something else. Everyone had an EX but we all moved on and to someone better. When you wish people well,it will come back to you. Sometimes witchcraft isn't when you do juju,it is also when you have strong wish for evil on someone and you will find out it keeps some areas of your life messed because it's like a negative energy. Concentrate on working and praying your life,your family,when you have peace and happiness in your life,you wouldn't bother with someone else. I found out any time I let go no matter how people hurt me,something beautiful happens to me. I once had a crush,when it didn't last,I cried my eyes out waited for him to come back,one day I picked myself up and moved on...then he came back and I saw him for who is...the Man I should never be with. If he left you for someone else,it is not because you are not special,it is because no matter how special,valuable you are...he doesn't see you as the Right gold for him. The good thing is your husband saw those qualities and married you even though your husband may not be perfect but he knows the perfect gold for him. Not everything we desire in life that we should get,let's get what is good for us. So MOVE ON. GLADDENED HEART

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    1. Anonymous5/13/2013

      Waoh!! Nice one

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  14. Well...ure obviously not over ur ex cos if u r u wldnt really care about hu he is wt or wat he does.den ure toooo competitive.no offence bt I suspect he mstv cmplaind about u dis wen u guys wre stl on.or cld it b dat u lft hm4anoda guy&ure wishin he rmains d way u left hm?below ur standrds&probably being@ur mercy?.am jst sayin dear.imagine if ur hubby's ex is wishin d same.and God has a way of doin things smtyms,he wld keep blessin dat person u wish evil...u knw a.k.a shaming d devil..so dear..get ur mind off&let d man enjoy his life

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