this guy(I will name him A) I started seeing some1 else (B). I have weighed my options and ticked off qualities I will like in a husband and B ticks all the right boxes so far. B lives in anoda state and told me some months ago that we need to see and have a serious talk. I pressured him on the fone on what the serious talk was about and he replied 'do you want me to tell you that I'll marry you over the fone'? But we are yet to have time to meetup and talk. I really don't want to be in a situation where A will propose and I will have to regect becos I'm waiting for B's proposal. Infact I don't want to blow my chances and keep waiting for B to come and have the talk with me. Please is there a way that doesn't sound desparate to tell B abt A's visit with my mum. I really want B to make a move quickly b4 A proposes. He just hasn't had the time to come to Lagos and I havnt had time to go to c him. B is what I want in a husband. Please how do I go abt telling him to hurry up in a non-desperate way? I need to somehow tell him to know wat his decision is. I don't want to come-off as desperate cos he might just think I'm making up stories so he can propose quickly. Sorry about the epistle.