Good morning Aunty Eya, pls help me publish this mail on your blog so i could get as much advice as possible. It's a long one but I will try to cut it short and p-ls hide my details alot of my friends and family come on this blog too lol
I am 26yrs old and I have been married for 4yrs now with a daughter who is 3yrs old. My husband and I always have misunderstandings for obvious reasons, he is a chronic womanizer, very insecure and hot tempered.
I really want to get done with child bearing as we both intend to have 3kids but our sex life is nothing to write home about, he is either tired or never around. I have tried talking to him but he just gets angry at every slight thing. He only comes home to eat my sweet food, play with our daughter and leaves, he is in town but won't sleep at home, if I get angry its worse cos we can quarrel till whenever am ready to beg him to come back home no matter how long he will just blank me.
He also stopped taking me out because he says people admire me a lot and it makes him uncomfty, am trying all I can to get a job but it never works out, and I suspect his hand is involved. I have been praying and fasting and even getting tired.
Now we are not talking because I asked why he didn't call or buy me a gift for my birthday, he just said "pls go and rest jare' I got angry and walked away, he just went in took his stuff and it's almost a week, no calls, nothing. Is this life?
It's funny the way I look good and drive big cars, my friends envy me, they don't even understand.
He had zero Naira b4 I married him so, after sticking with him all the while I get this in return. PlEASE I need mature God fearing advice thanks and God bless