|Girl dies after madam sets her ablaze for stealing a piece of meat|
When the person that is supposed to make life easier for you becomes a "pain" in your flesh, when you think that the little girl you brought from a village is no longer serving her purpose, please return back to sender. Sometimes relationships between maids and madams become so strained that it turns to complete hate.
A lady once told me how her maid suddenly changed, became stubborn, full of eye service and tricks that her stay in that house began to give madam headaches. At a point, she couldn't control it anymore and began to hiss each time this girl passed around her. She told me she hated her maid so much but couldn't return her because she had three kids in four years who were all still very little. At that time she just had a baby and with the two older siblings younger than four, she didn't know how to manage her job and family without a maid.
Even when she registered them in a school and Daycare Centre, she still needed someone to take care of some things before she gets home from work. Her girl w'd come back from school, watch TV until it's like a few minutes to madam's return then she rushes into the kitchen to clean.
Madam never met her idle, she is always seen doing something but just not enough. The floor will still be dirty, the kitchen unkempt, baby's wears not washed, bedrooms not swept,food not brought out of the freezer to defrost, everything still the way the house was left in the morning and when asked what she has been doing between 2PM and 6PM, her reply is "been washing the dishes" In four hours?
Because she couldn't send her away and couldn't live comfortably with her, she developed so much hate for this girl. Thank God she told me what was happening in her home. She had to tell me because I was impressed that this same girl came before the birth of their first child and lasted up to the third baby.
After she told me all this, I pleaded with her to release the girl. To let her go to her parents cos I felt the little girl was tired and maybe looking for ways to annoy madam so that she sends her away. Fortunately, she got help that same week and took the girl back home.
Please, dear women, no matter how you need someone, if their presence does not make you happy. If you get irritated by them, please do something. Rather than treat them bad and heap coals of fire on your head, return back to sender.
I can't wrap my head around committing murder because of a piece of meat? Would she do that to her child?
Rather that kee and maim, if you can't take it anymore, please return another woman's child back to her owner.