I Need To Make Babies FastGood evening Aunty Eya................., I live in ................., i'm a 24 year old law student awaiting law school, i'm not married but in a relationship of almost 7years, my boyfriend is 30.
Let me apologize before hand for the long epistle, just trying to paint a better picture for you guys.I had a lumpectomy on my left breast 2years ago, sometime last year I noticed a colourless discharged came out from my nipple whenever a little pressure was applied on my breast, I went to my gynae who diagnosed me with hormonal imbalance and gave me some drugs for it, then I noticed I was having
irregular periods,the hair on my body was growing too fast and I was beginning to have pimple breakouts which was unusual because I have a good beauty regime, I use a face cleanser every morning and evening before bath and face scrub 3times a week and I wash my towel and pillow case every week.
This year February my period lasted for 12days, I had to go see my gynae who did series of tests on me and diagnosed PCOS.
I was put on primolut N. For 10days but the period started again when I completed the dosage and this went on for 3months before it stopped,i've been observing it since then and glad to say it's been 3months now and I don't need Primolut N as my period starts and stops on it's own after 5days and I think i'm ovulating now. will go back to my gynae at the end of this month for check up and possibly continue the glucophage which I was advised to stop taking, and let the bleeding stop.
Aunty Eya, 2 doctors have already advised me to get married as soon as possible so I can start making babies just in case the PCOS affects my fertility but I planned on getting married in about 2years, I need to go to Law School and do my Youth Service and probably land a job before I get married and Yes, i've had a lifestyle reshuffle, I eat way less carbohydrate portion now(tho i've never been a lion share eater) and more fruits and vegetables and I got a skipping rope for exercise, i'm not overweight, still a size 6/8.
I've been depressed since February but my boyfriend has already told me not to be because no matter what happens, his love for me won't diminish and he'll be with me and blah blah but I'm afraid, people change.
He just got a 'good' job now and we are trying to get a place for him to stay, for now he still lives with his parents, and me, with mine, he asked to meet my dad Two Years ago before he travelled for his masters so I took him home, he now comes to my house, my dad and brothers like him, I go to his house too and his parents know we are courting but he hasn't proposed, he said he'd like to wait till after next year to get married so that he can save up enough.
I'm kind of confused now,what should I do? Should I try to get a child out of wedlock or press for marriage now so that we can start making babies fast? Or I should still maintain my 2year plan, won't it be too late for me? I'd really love to be a mother, I love kids and will love to have mine, and I know this PCOS is a recent development because I've been pregnant more than once for my boyfriend, even took in a month before he went for his mask and now I'm regretting why we terminated it.
Please Your kind advice/suggestions are needed. Thanks in anticipation and Aunty Eya please do not post my details.