Friday, July 26, 2013

Be More Engaging On The Blog


Hello madam,

How are you doing. I saw your new blog and your posts. I left
comments. But in addition, I just wanted to advise you on WC in
particularly. I think you should try and be more engaging on the blog.
I like how you are so engaging in your mails, but I have noticed that
you are not so engaging like that in your readers mails.

When people are saying stuffs like they have seen a post here or
somewhere else, don't just keep quiet. When you do, its somehow. Be
engaging. Come and clear the air. Don't just keep quiet and feel sad.

See your blog stats. Do you expect the 25000 people that visit each
month to all be of one mind? It's not possible. You have to lighten
up. Blogs are what they are. Different people, different mindset.

People will like you, people will insult you. Running away is not the
solution. Quitting isn't either. Do have a nice day.

Just try and be more engaging. Not by being fake, but by being the
real you. Forget what anyone will say.

79 comments:

  1. Of recent Abuja is getting very cold,but guess what ACHIM SWEATER!
    TGIF lets go catch some movies @galleria or Ceddi tmao. if u're in jes holla.
    sorry to deviate,I'm just happy this morning.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. mrs pea in a pod4:33 PM

      See u @ ceddi tmr dear! Was there today,went to visit my dentist and spar for grocery shopping!

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    2. Anonymous10:12 PM

      Bona abeg mk I come u go pay my movie fee? Ill watch anyfilm u like.hehehhehheeeemichgirl

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    3. Wish I am in Abuja right now, would have loved to be there.

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    4. Lolz aunty Ojay don't worry there'll be a next time.
      @mrs pea in a pod Imma be there around 3pm,will puttingon a blue and white Tommy hilfiger shirt tucked in and a black flat shoe.
      @Michgirl awww! My pleasure dear,can't wait to see u there.

      ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  2. Mrs T9:29 AM

    How can she be more engaging. She used to advise too but of recent even me a silent reader,was shocked at the way her comments were being attacked.Bloggers una try sha. Who doesn't have blood flowing in them. Whose body is made of wood.

    Eya stopped engaging cos whatever comment she left was being attacked, if she has found a hiding place,I won't blame her at all.
    Let people learn to be mature on blogs. These bloggers we see and think they are superhumans? they are mere humans like us, these things get to them but they just try to ignore.

    If this were a gossip blog I won't bother cos when you gossip on others, they gossip on you too.but to think that someone gives her time trying to make life better for other people (strangers) while those same people throw everything in her face.IMO,There has always been that anonymous force trying to overturn this blog but I pray it doesn't happen because me I need WC in my life abeg.

    Almost every Nigerian blog is doing gossip.someone tries to add value to our lives (especially me the Nigerian recipe learner), Instead of encouragements, people prefer to attack and attack .

    Anyways, I remain grateful to those encouraging Eya by sending in their recipes. I tried once and it didn't work cos the pictures won't send.And I know how difficult it is to take pics while cooking because I tried it. Let people learn to encourage and appreciate cos we all need each other whether we agree or not.

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    1. Mrs T, Aunt Eya isn't the only one that gets insulted on her blog. Shayor! was insulted yesterday, I was called a razzite, Ahdaisy was called igbotic something, people were called jealous and incapable of speaking to Zeus cos of an advice to Chi the other day, posters insult commenters, commenters insult posters, commenters insult themselves, people insult the blogger. It's all a cycle. Didn't really start lately.

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    2. Like seriously? All dis happened on shayor's bd post yestday? Me I just droped my comment and never went bk!

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    3. Anonymous9:36 AM

      @ Jay, you are a very realistic human being. You always speak the truth.

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  3. Aunty Eya please don't tell me you want to abandon your blog for people who leave negative comments. You can start a new blog on a different topic that you think does not fit in here but please don't leave for the reasons stated above because they will hunt you down and continue.

    You should consider comment moderation. Yes, you still get to read the negative comments even when you don't approve them but the good thing is that those reading your blog will not see them. When people see those comments, they will think it is OK to leave such comments here and if they have such intentions, they will start their own.

    They always say that once you put yourself out there, you should be ready for all sorts but I don't think so. It is your blog and you have the powers to allow or not allow certain comments. You want to attract the right kind of commentators who have something constructive to add to the conversation especially as this is a family blog.

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    1. Aunty Flo of Allnigerianfoodrecipes thanks for ur advice. Aunty Eya, i don't want to believe that you will allow some pple discourage you from this good work you are doing. pls, don't be detered cos som pple just don't know how to be happy and wen they see that you are putting smiles on the faces of others, dey jst don't understand it. Abeg, ignore dem. No vex ma.

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  4. Aunt Eya, opening a new blog solves nothing. You either:
    1. Start moderating comments or
    2. Restrict the audience to your blog to people whose mails you authorise, if that's what you want or
    3. Leave comments open but Moderate the way the comments get to you.

    Creating another blog solves nothing because if the insults start on the new blog, will you abandon ship again and create another new blog again?
    Recall that you merged two blogs into WC cos managing two blogs was tedious for you.

    There's something about picking a profession or a hobby. If I decide to be a female engineer or a teacher/lecturer, then I must be willing to deal with all sorts that come with the profession, both good and ugly.

    Let's say you are a teacher and a student insults you, do you keep changing schools looking for the one where students won't insult you?

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    1. Anonymous10:58 AM

      Jay ibia kwa! Moderate kwa? Biko, the blog is good and Eya hasn't complained to any of you lately. Make una dey try get busy abeg, Eya is prolly busy somewhere.

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    2. It's like you really don't know what is going on. Anyway, welcome to WC, newbie.

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  5. U kidding me right? A new blog kwa? What for? How many people suceed in life by running?? You own this blog Eya, take charge!! WDH??.. U really need to be strong o abi which kain thing b dis? After building this blog and all u now want to abandon it and run.. Yes,u are running..

    Just as I was beginning to get addicted to the blog and I love the blog already..Please ignore whatever anybody says to u and if u can't take it,reply them..U can't suceed in life if u are timid..

    Eya,u just have to take charge and let everyone know this is your blog and its your rules!!.

    As for me,I love this blog already o and I aint going to any new funny blog, come back and take charge..

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  6. A lot of people have multiple blogs that serve different purposes if Eya decides to have another blog that's ok. But the reason for the other blog should not be because of insults on this blog. Eya you never nipped the insults at the bud so you are responsible for the way this blog turned out a lot of good advice about comment moderation has been given in the past which you heeded for a few days but it seems you love the drama and controversy because you enabled free comments almost soon after you even approved some insulting comments and negative criticism. Nigerians need to learn to speak their mind without insulting others. You have to stick your ground if you want a blog devoid of crazy insults then comment moderation and no anonymous/name url comments is the way to go. Like Aunty Flo and Jay have said what if insults start on the new blog will you abandon ship? You can still redeem this blog if you want to and return it to what it once was my two kobo! Start as many other blogs as you can handle but don't let it be for the reasons you have stated in your first post on the new blog

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    1. Come to think of it Eya your first mistake was to actively advertise and source readers from LIB after you had seen how comments go on there of course they were going to port their insults on here

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  7. From my understanding o..she is not abandoning the blog. she is just creating another for her peronal space and sane reflections...

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  8. But I support what others have said. There will be no sane blog without comment moderation. Aunty Eya, ppl who will contribute meaningfully to this blog will come irrespective of comment moderation. The trouble makers will get tired.

    When U start moderating comments, take ur time. Have a schedule for aproval. Dnt mind ppl complaining. Even if she stays three days ppl who comment on Lib still comment. Take charge of this blog. It's ur one yr old baby and U wnt leave ur baby to play in dirt.

    Trust me, more ppl will bring their stories and recipes and comments when they know that they will not be viciously attacked. U will be shocked at how many ppl will start showing up here when comments are moderated. A lot of ppl r silent readers and anonymous cos they see the way some of us are attacked. Just try it for a month and see. A lot of ppl now know this blog and a lot more will participate with comment moderation.

    Thanks.

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    1. Anonymous11:58 AM

      But u cussed shayor out yesterday,on her BD that's an all time low for you,anyway whatever.

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    2. Anon, U can enter the cave already. Yes I cussed her out and cussed my self too. Yes I did knowing that no one will suspect me considering how much she has NOT attacked me on this blog. Yes I did. It was an all time low for me but I am descending lower. I will come back as anon and cuss you for replying me and also cuss myself for replying you. It's just how terrible I am. I send in problem s for Aunty Eya to post, then I come back and advice myself. You see I fashion these problems after my already prepared answers. Sometimes I lie that I have been married for four yrs, sometime 10 so that no one will suspect. Sometimes it's 2 kids and other times I am preggers. Everything I have been accused of on this blog is so true...I dint know U were smart enuff to figure it out. Are U ok now? Mscheuuuw!

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    3. Ada u sabi talk oo! Shoooo*eyes rolling*! Take it easy nne and I don't wanna believe all ds gets to u cuz its just a blog anywah and people are faceless here!

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    4. Anonymous4:39 PM

      @Ahdaisy hahahahaha... lol, i just can't help laughing sha.This Anon just dey fine trouble. Well this blog is so interesting even with my exams at hand i still find time to come here. The cusses,the anons,bashings,d good advice,fighting's etc is what makes d blog interesting. Aunty Eya who you wan run leave d blog for? Please stay put oh.Dis is just my favourite blog!

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    5. Anonymous5:39 PM

      @Ahdaisy, i just came back from the new blog and read your comment where you said ever since you began reading wc, you realized other blogs are TRASH!

      No, i am not a blogger,before you think so, nor am i an ass-licker like you!

      In the context of your statement, your own blog is also TRASH! That is why you cannot stay there and develop it but be coming here. And all the blogs ID i read here are also TRASH!

      There are many good blogs out there that does not feed on gossip and mud-slinging, but intellectuals discussing and improving themselves!

      You cannot cast others down because you want to worship or idolize somebody, it is childish and immature!

      Yes, i like wc, as i like others, but she is not the best i have seen. Each blogger have their style.

      Blogger Eya, with all due respect, you are also myopic like your first daughter who is sucking up to you and you are lapping all the praise like a hungry puppy!

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    6. Anonymous5:45 PM

      Seriously, ur blog made me view other blogs as trash.' culled from adhaisy comment.

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    7. Lol....!!! Some people will fall sick the day they dnt see my comment. Yes I said it! D day I stop commenting on this blog...just like that! Fever! But I love U, I dnt want u to be sick so I'll do my job of keeping U sane and alive.

      1. I dunno y some of U r mad. First U say I am her first daughter, I embrace the title and now, you are angry. You cuss and yab her all the time and sometimes I am the only one who defends her when I do, U cuss me out. Now dat we both are pleasant with each other, it is paining you. Lolz!

      2. As U saw that U cudnt comment there and bash me, U came here....LMPAO!

      3. My blog is my biz. If I like I close it. If I like I leave it dry. If I like I write rubbish there. If it is paining U, dig some feet into the ground and plank there! Shuo? Did you pay me to blog? Have I come to meet U to come and read my blog? When last did U see an ad from me to come and read my blog?

      4. If U read my statement again...slowly...and ask an adult near you to interpret, you will see that I meant gossip blogs. I have so many other blogs that I read...most of them are not owned by Nigerians. So how will I say ALL blogs are trash?

      5. With all due respect, although the respect you deserve, on a scale of 1-10 is -50. U r d one who is myopic and immature. You cannot take another person's opinion but U want to shove ur own down my throat. If I say all the other blogs in the whole world are trash, nne, how e take consign you? Must I think like U? See painment o!

      Later someone will come and tell me I shud not respond, y cnt U mind ur own bizness? Be following me up and down. But while U are at it, get ur head out of ur ass, it is not a hat...(Pitch perfect....lololol!!!)

      *No reply mode activated.. Let the ranting continue...




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    8. Desire2:12 AM

      You are one of the problems on this blog. The earlier Eya realizes that, the better for this blog. .

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    9. dollarpo9:01 AM

      @ desire nd u r part of d prob too, so she shdnt reply bah? wen Shez nt a mumu like u...All ds Adaz stalkers tho *sigh* I hope someone is paying u guys...ts sad wen u do things like ds for free :(

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  9. Anonymous12:05 PM

    It's pointless creating a new blog only for you to post a link to it here

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    1. Anonymous5:17 PM

      Same thought.
      Why run and tell your haters where you are?
      I don't get it.
      Then, i got it!
      Her IP tracker is likely installed in this new blog, so all anonymous would be busted!

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  10. Anonymous12:06 PM

    Gudmrng aunt Ey. Am a lover of this ur blog n want 2 tell u dat ur blog tyt die. Eya, u of all ppl shud knw dat life is full of hurdles n up n dwn. there4 insult here is wat is keeping dis blog, moving, its wnt be interested wen its only one sided. This r the thing dat wud help u 2 move on n better ur blog. Dnt run, cos u cnt tell if there might be worst dan here. kattyreality.

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  11. Anonymous2:06 PM

    2b candid,am not happy @ all,but y will people hate so much.I love dis blog d first tym I posted and was given prompt and good replies but as time goes on,haters showing up themselves.Av learnt one or two thingd from dis blog.
    Av not tasted salt,pepper or water since morning and I pray dat anybody dat doesn't want d success of this blog will KNOW NO PEACE-AMEN! Eya,pls biko,abeg,ejooor,don't leave dis blog.

    Adeyanju

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    1. Anachunam7:25 PM

      Buhahahahahaha,confirm loon.looooolllllllzzzzzz una no go kill person

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  12. Anonymous3:20 PM

    I just went to that new blog and eya, you are starting on wrong footing. You took the problem here there and talking about daughter this that bla bla bla. I laugh in spanish they will follow you there ni.

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    1. Anonymous3:31 PM

      Name of the blog abegg

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    2. Anonymous4:08 PM

      Am tired of d drama here and pity party am out
      Good riddance to bad rubbish

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    3. Anonymous4:12 PM

      Click on "new blog" on this post it will take you there.

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  13. Aunty eya plz tell me its just a joke o cuz I feel so @ home here, I love and respect everyone here incl d annoms! Its no prob creating anoder blog on diff note but just like most pple hav said TAKE CHARGE I keep saying this. Nobody should deter u, I learn so much here

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  14. Anonymous5:23 PM

    I was the same anonymous who wrote to you months back and you gave back a hug,when your voltrons thought i was a hater.
    You never took the advice, and now you got burnt!
    You are still making the same mistake in the new blog, why do you still allow anonymous comments?
    Especially when you are talking about personal issues?
    They say, a word is enough for the wise.

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  15. Anonymous5:25 PM

    Checking if comment moderation, I sure hope not

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  16. Anonymous5:40 PM

    @Ahdaisy, i just came back from the new blog and read your comment where you said ever since you began reading wc, you realized other blogs are TRASH!

    No, i am not a blogger,before you think so, nor am i an ass-licker like you!

    In the context of your statement, your own blog is also TRASH! That is why you cannot stay there and develop it but be coming here. And all the blogs ID i read here are also TRASH!

    There are many good blogs out there that does not feed on gossip and mud-slinging, but intellectuals discussing and improving themselves!

    You cannot cast others down because you want to worship or idolize somebody, it is childish and immature!

    Yes, i like wc, as i like others, but she is not the best i have seen. Each blogger have their style.

    Blogger Eya, with all due respect, you are also myopic like your first daughter who is sucking up to you and you are lapping all the praise like a hungry puppy!

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    1. Anonymous5:42 PM

      http://eyaayambem.blogspot.com/2013/07/keep-moving-even-when-discouraged.html#comment-form

      This is the link, before she denies it and say i took it out of context!

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    2. Anonymous5:44 PM

      'Seriously, ur blog made me view other blogs as trash.' culled from her ahdaisy comment.

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    3. Hahahahah! I have not laughed this much in a long time. From impersonation, to digging up old comments, to copying my comments and posting on other blogs, to this one. Chei! See obsession. Pls O...I am a human being... In case U forget.

      Child, the new blog is there for all to see. She did not hide it. So ur link is baseless. At this rate, one day you'll start seeing me everywhere U go. Yes all the other blogs on the internet are TRASH...including my own. Do U want my address so U can come and flog me or lock me up? It has not finished o...re-post it some more. Send a letter to everyone you know to go and read my statement. When U r done, tell me..

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    4. Anonymous7:08 PM

      smh.
      u hv rily lost it ada.
      now, i understand wat pple have been saying abt u.
      so BN, LIB,SDK, LLB, r all trash?
      was it not from LIB ur beloved aunty eya wanted to take after & cud nt handle d heat?
      b careful, pride comes b4 a great fall!

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  17. Anty Eya oooo this is not fair, why bring us this far and then abandon us! I totally love this blog when I say its like a family to me I mean it. The recipes, fun, advice etc. I went to check the new blog its okay but I can't comment don't know why! Either way let WC not die abeg, let it make an impact in this generation. I believe peace will be restored and we will all comment, agree, disagree in peace.

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    1. Anonymous7:54 PM

      B4 dis blog is closed down(hehheheh). I want to thank you, Deborah Bala for the book u sent me. God bless you.
      You are officially my bestest person on dis blog.
      Emmylohlar@yahoo.com

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  18. Anonymous6:46 PM

    Am sure its adhaisy that told aunt eya to open new blog..rubbish

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    1. Anachunam7:33 PM

      Buhahahahahaha,na wa 4 u sef.this Ahdaisy bashing is very uninteresting jare.
      Bia anon,I hope u don't believe the rubbish u just wrote

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  19. Anonymous7:32 PM

    Ahdaisy Jayde, from all your comments in this blog, i have come to the conclusion that you are a woman full of yourself, and never admits when you are wrong. When many people continue to fight only one person, then there is something definitely wrong!

    It is good for blogger Eya to have such a loyal friend,it is a rare find, but people like you that love with a passion, also hate with a passion.

    I sincerely hope, nothing comes between you two in future, because that is when blogger Eya would know she has a venomous snake under her clothes!

    Since, you boldly claim your blog is a trash, let me join you to say the same, because whatever name you call yourself, others would join you do so, Mrs Trash Ahdaisy Jayde, EVERYTHING about you is TRASH!

    Even a retard knows where to draw the line, but you Adhaisy Jayde fall below the rank of a retard! And you do more harm than good to blogger Eya, who is older than you to have handled this matter wisely, but i forgot you are both in the same boat of i-am-always-right.

    Cuss me all you want, i would do my best to ignore you because when someone is chasing after a mad man, people would not know the difference.

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  20. Anonymous7:51 PM

    The insults have only recently started and it seems to be one person or a small group. She can easily block certain ip addresses where a trend is noticed.

    I am tired of the constant talk about web traffic. Everyday someone is on here taunting about traffic. I have never seen this on any blog before, so I know the party or parties involved are doing so maliciously. These people do not belong to the wc community, they are transient trolls whose sole purpose is to go from blog to blog and bring discord. When their work is done here they will take their mayhem on to the next blog.

    This letter is from one of those trolls, like the witch urging the little kids to come out and play so they can catch them for their evil intentions. The letter comes off as being benign enough, but if you read between the lines you can tell there is a whole lot more going on. I wish I had a can of troll-b-gone to spray on them.

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    1. POSTER8:05 PM

      For your ignorant information. I sent the post as a personal letter. It was a private conversation. I said beyond these to her just advising her not to give up. So, please take several seats with that your analogy of trolls.

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    2. Anonymous8:32 PM

      No you didn't! Who the cap fits let them wear it. You are a troll and she was not in need of any advice from you! If it was a private conversation dum dum troll it would not have been posted. Your cry for attention and begging Eya to acknowledge your existence has not worked, railing up on my comment is not going to make you get any more noticed by her. Stalking her movements to see her new blog is not going to get the attention you trolls feed off of.

      "I saw your new blog and your posts. I left comments.." <------ The first sign you are dealing with a troll, they will stalk all your movements online and find themself wherever you are, even without an invitation. They will leave comments and write you letters to reach out to you give "advise". Their deepest hope is that you will respond to them and acknowledge their existence, they will attack other bloggers who call them out on their trolling because their modus operandi is to act without detection. Their insatiable appetite for trolling will never abate, they will stalk and troll their victims until they get tired and move on to the next target. They usually have no lives, and are people with self-esteem issues, trolling is their means of compensating for their lackluster lives offline. I have seen enough trolls in action and POSTER, YOU ARE A TROLL!


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    3. POSTER9:08 PM

      Lol! If only u knew the sort of comments I left on the new blog. Keep calm and cool down Jesus jor. I'm just laughing at all that you just said. Oh my gosh. Your troll analogy is so funny. You sound like u have a doctorate in TROLLOGY. Good for you! I'm just rolling on the floor in laughter here. Sorry, no offence. But lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Can't help but laugh. Lol.

      "She wasn't in need of advice". Oh really? I tot everyone has been advising her since both here and there and she has been appreciative. That means we are all trolls abi? Aunt Flo, Mrs T, Ahdaisy, N, Rubynnia et al. We are all trolls. Then a troll I am, if that's what earns me the name. I'm only replying you to prove a point to Eya (practising what I preach). You see, on a normal day, I go ignore you cos I'm sorry to break your heart, but I don't fit into your troll spec. Sorry, go and read that your troll-study book well again or earn a higher degree to know more.

      I really wish you will take deep breaths and know that you got it wrong this time. I understand you. You feel for her. I do too. I'm a troll? Oh well. If feeling for her and advising makes me earn the troll name, I care? I don't give a damn mehn. Then you too are a troll, for advising too. We are all trolls. Kisses fellow troll sisteh!

      Just sha keep calm and cool down for Jesus. Aunt Eya knows better. If I like let me seek her notice, it's my business. Do you know if she's the one that pays my internet subscription? Biko don't come and put sand in my garri I begee you.

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    4. Are u abusing the person that sent Eya d message too? Oga o..what's going on gan sef.. Y are u guys just Unnecessarily emotional over nothing..is it wrong to send Eya a mail..smh

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    5. Anonymous10:11 PM

      When someone moves and do not tell you that they moved, or what their new address is and you seek to present yourself where you were not invited, what are you? If you were invited you would not need to send a letter. Your "advise" was not sought after, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Save your good intentions for yourself.


      @ Mama Ijebu, there is no smoke without fire. I simply threw my stone into the pig pen and the hit one squealed. Godspeed!

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    6. POSTER10:51 PM

      Anon TROLLOGY, biko you need Jesus!
      Who knew an open blog needed invites to view it? LoL. Did you have an excess to drink this evening? Lol. Sebi Aunt Eya invited and permitted you to view WC abi? If no blog owner has officially invited you to his/her blog, hello! You're a troll too.

      FYI: I found the blog via her facebook. At least she invited us by making a post about it. Duh! There you have it. YIMU!!!

      Please give your life to Christ sharp sharp!

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    7. POSTER11:00 PM

      Drunkards be like "Are you a learner? Where you invited? Why send her a mail?" Lol.

      Sebi you are google? Sebi it's you that operates her google account and mails? Don't go and mind your business you hear. It's even in the bible. Sebi Aunt Eya complained to you that she's sick because I found her blog on facebook and that I now mailed her on top? Over sabi kobo kobo.

      Please go and seek relevance elsewhere. Pot calling kettle black. YIMU!!!!!

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  21. Anonymous8:01 PM

    Anon 7:32 may your soul rest in peace, yes you are as good as dead. Tufia I pity your family and your neighbours. If you allow hatred for a stranger fester and grow to this level than your life must be emptier than we imagine. You just go about ranting over the whole place, she ignore you kpam, reply you kpam to no avail. Since you refuse to give yourself peace in this world, I pray you find peace in the world to come.

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    1. Anonymous8:20 PM

      ada stop hiding under anonymous 2 abuse!
      i pity you also ada 4 this ur obsession wt this blog.
      4 u 2 fit cuss ur blog as trash, i fear u no be small, bcus u fit cuss ur own papa, mama, husband and pickin sef 2 show ur solidarity 4 something.
      pesin no get liver 2 talk true 4 this blog.
      aunty eya, best of luck wt ur new blog.
      no blogs 4 this blogging atmosphere don fit change d price of garri 4 mkt, since they started, so i no understand d all this pesin-go-die-4-this-mata.
      i 2 don tire 4 all this drama.
      make i waka pass b4 they begin abuse me join.

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  22. Deborah, I sent you some mails. Pls, lemme know if you got then. Thanks.

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  23. Anonymous9:44 PM

    TRULY, TRULY, I SAY TO YA' ALL, THIS BLOG HAS LOST IT!

    GETTING MYSELF OUT OF HERE!

    BTW, AHDAISY IS THE POSTER.I KNOW HER STYLE OF COMMENT AS SHE KNOWS MINE,#WINKS#

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    1. POSTER11:02 PM

      I beg you, please leave Ahdaisy out of this for once. Thank you as you comply. God bless you too.

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    2. Anonymous11:25 PM

      SORRY POSTER,I WAS SETTING A BAIT TO KNOW IF SHE COMMENTS AS AN ANONYMOUS ALSO AND SHE FELL FOR IT.
      BLESS YOU TOO!

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    3. The sender of this mail gave me all her details. She is also a reader of tis blog but I deleted her name. She signed off with her real name, the name she leaves comments with, we all know her here but I decided to take off her name before posting to avoid direct replies to her.

      The poster is not an anonymous, she is a regular reader who has also sent in posts to wc. She is not the accused.

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  24. Anonymous10:58 PM

    Am so happy that you are going, hmmm sigh of relief. Just hope you go permanently for ever and ever and never to come here again, witch. As if we don't know you breath, eat, sleep and live ahdaisy and wc. The truth is dat every one know who you are and we are having a good laugh at your expense. Pathetic soul, we are sure you had a very troubled childhood, too bad we don't have the facility toi rehabilitate your kind in naija. But don't worry you will outgrow it ine day.

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    1. Anonymous11:22 PM

      LOLZZZZZZZZZZ!
      YOU MUST BE IN THE WITCH COVEN TO KNOW ME.
      YOU ALL KNOW WHO I AM? OH! DEAR ME! #SCARED#
      THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW MY OTHER ID'S, I HAVE 4 IN THIS BLOG, SHALL WE PLAY A GAME OF SEARCH? YOU ARE ON! COUNTING 1, 2, 3, 4, 5,
      LAUGHING AT MY EXPENSE? NO! I AM LAUGHING AT YOUR FOOLISHNESS AND EMPTY BLUFF!
      REHABILITATE ME? WHY DON'T YOU START FROM YOURSELF TWO-FACE LYING BITCH! MUAH! #WINK#
      CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS STRIKE TO BE OVER, GETTING BORED WITH YA' ALL. #YAWNS#

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  25. Anonymous11:16 PM

    I once said this blogger likes drama and attention, but i was cussed.
    She claims to run away from the heat to a shade, yet showed the torch bearers the path.
    Before you all start running there like a pack of wolves that sniffed a prey, CAVEAT EMPTOR!
    To the loyalist of this blogger, you are doing a good job, but i sincerely hope you don't have an ulterior motive?
    Because even the bible says we should beware of flatterers because they dig a pit in front of you.
    I would have expected that after the chidibere and uche matter, any woman with an iota of respect would have kept her distance, but it just got to proof over and over again, women don't have brains like men!
    I hope you don't become indecisive as you were about comment moderation and come back to this blog, because it would be like a dog going back to his vomit!
    I mean well, and wish you well.

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  26. Nummy Ej12:26 AM

    Wow. So much hatred up in here. Haba. Please be civil and respect one another. If you must say something, why not be polite about it? Being rude adds nothing to you, but actually takes from you. If you have a contrary view about something, say your piece politely. That way the poster won't feel insulted. Please guys, let's be more mature.

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    1. Anonymous1:38 AM

      on point & any peace-loving blogger would have disabled comments on this post before it went out of hand.

      Delete
  27. Anonymous4:55 AM

    I love this blog die. So much fun here jare.

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    1. So chaos and discord defines fun to you? I see.

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    2. Anonymous2:03 PM

      Sorry I have to comment as Anon this time but this blog is kinda fun sha.. For real..lol

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  28. For the love of God, you guys should give Aunt Eya a huge break abeg! Do you guys call LI, LL or SDK's names when commenters are blog-fighting? Do you ask them to delete?

    FYI: Aunt Eya has kids who give her enough wahala at home. Should she increase her bp cos uncivilised people decided to call others names? Na wa o. You guys be fair abeg.

    Why is everyone even calling Ahdaisy's name? She is the problem? Oh wow! Who knew? Those that are calling her thrash are entitled to do so even though she didn't insult anyone personally?

    Oh wow! Just wow! Judgemental bigots everywhere here.

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  29. Anonymous7:24 AM

    Please o, has any comment been deleted yet? I'm still so lost! Btw, y'all be behaving like some untrained mad women.
    And please, miss caps, go and study you hear? Don't just wait for the strike, do yourself a favour and stop typing in caps!

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  30. I'm just smh at the behaviour of some of us here. Future wives,wives,future mothers,mothers. I'm sure the men are staring at the screen,bewildered,wondering What is going On.wat all the fuss is about. This is the Reason Why men do all they do, this is why they Rule. Because Most Men seriously don't have the time or energy for all this pettiness.
    I'm not saying we can't disagree o,but for heavens sake,WHY THE INSULTS???!

    I'm sure we were raised better than what we are displaying here. Can't we all at least try to be civil? And nobody should even say ahdaisy's d cause of anything. Ahdaisy has said it several times. Ignore her. Say your piece. MOVE ON!!

    And then the insults aimed at Aunty Eya is just something else. Anonymous saying vile things...
    Me I can't even begin to comprehend all this. But one thing I'll like to say is Let's try to be Civil with each other. That's all. Disagree all you want;afterall everyone has differing opinions. But at least let's try and be Civil.

    That's all I'm saying. We can bring forth our arguments and differing opinions in a civil,respectful manner.

    God bless us All.

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  31. Its appalling dt peo tak it upon demselves 2 do tins whc dey cnt do in person on blogs unda anonymous. Diz peo cussing out odas may b lawyers, doctors, elders in church, best students and all dt. So bcos dey feel protected, dey bring out d devils in dem. Well God sees in d secret n in d open. Evry1 shld carry on.

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  32. Unbelievable! The stuff that has been going on here sha. Please let's consider the fact that people are very different, and not everyone takes insults well. We can express ourselves without being insultive. All this can not be easy on Aunt Eya. Not everyone can be thick-skinned.....Aunty Eya has even tried by holding on this long. If na me, i go dey cry everyday.....i for don run since sef. This isn't a gossip or an entertainment blog, it's where we come to learn. Can we please stop attacking people here? It can't be that hard to do.

    It's not easy to send in cooking posts here, it's not easy to take pictures while cooking...yet some of us go through that trouble but still get bashed.How then will others send in their own recipes? Please, lets all cool down for Jesus. It's not only bickering and fights that makes a blog fun. Stop with all the baseless accusations already...... This story has been seen somewhere else before....Creamberry is tangerine....Ahdaisy comes to insult under different anons....other commenters type and reply themselves under different names....Tangerine is Ezenwanyi....and so on and so forth.

    Aunt Eya, The Lord is your strength. If having another private blog will make you feel better, then by all means do.

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    1. Ezenwanyi12:02 PM

      U jst had to pt ezenwanyi in d mix

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