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There are times things happen that make me feel like May be God wants me to do or not to do certain things. I am
What is the point of doing something you love, if after all the pleasure, you still carry some burden of guilt. I will prefer to do away with any pleasure at all, if it is wrong. I really want to be sure of my destination before I embark on any journey.
Clam Pastor Wole Oladiyun warns that Oral Sex deglorifies "...May I equally add that men and women sucking their private parts are equally damaging their glories. Demonic partners have done a lot of havoc through this act. Honestly, it is simply unhygienic and dirty."
Apart from that, there was a
post on Linda Ikeji's blog where a man needed advice because he didn't know what to do. His wife used to enjoy "it" with him, but, suddenly stopped. Reason? She tells him that Going down on him is beginning to feel like a demeaning act to her. She did it while they were younger, but doesn't feel good about it anymore. After reading that post and the comments that followed. I was a bit affected. In a way I started feeling like that woman, but after some weeks, I guess I forgot about it and moved on. *Carry go* Forgetting about it doesn't mean that my questions have all been answered. I still have unanswered questions regarding the act of CUNNILINGUS and FELLATIO by married couples.
I left a comment at Linda's blog, hoping that someone would give me a satisfactory answer, instead, there are more insults on the pastor than answers to the question. This morning, I went back to check and with over 200 comments on that post, no one seems to really hit the nail on the head for me. I needed someone who is knowledgeable in this thing to give us a general perspective on the issue, I wanted a very exhaustive scientific justification or condemnation of this act. I wanted a situation where a comment-er will give Bible references that justify or go against married couples carrying out Oral Sex. So many people tried with great comments, But, I still feel there is more to be talked about. I think that by raising it here, I will get a more mature audience that is kind of affected too, and will comment from their hearts and feelings. (btw,The Indomie noodle recipe I wanted to post is still waiting sha, and when I do that, Let me not hear anyone say Repetition of recipes o. Once there is a change in ingredients, The name and taste also changes.)Lol!
This morning I got a mail that actually prompted my raising up this issue right away:
Read it below:
Eya,ps discuss this topic on your blog.Daddy Adeboye mentioned it @d camp b4 and now,this CLAM pastor? For me,I believe my husband's body is for my pleasure and I'm free to do woteva gives me satisfaction.I can't be married and restricted o! Pastor's bringing in their personal opinion and imposing it on people is very wrong!show me where the bible restricts happenings in matrimonial bed. For me,I feel they are condemning it because in the past(old school) they never used to do it. I personally love to wake my husband up with it and I do not feel guilty. I respect my pastor but on this issue I totally disagree with him!
This mail came in while I was reading the many comments on Linda's blog and, I had to stop and start typing.
Another commenter also felt like, if using the mouth is dirty and unhygienic, Then using the hands too is dirty and unhygienic.
In 2012, I went researching a little, and discovered that if semen is allowed into the mouth, it can cause dangerous diseases like Thrush, which is ermmmm true. After reading that, some of us became more careful, and made sure nothing touched our healthy mouths (who wants to be sick?).
Now, come to think of it, MEN LOVE ADVENTURE!!! As Christians, Muslims, and other believers in a supreme being, should we forget this particular "adventure" and focus on our colonial methods?
Is Oral Sex Unhygienic?
Is it condemned by any supreme being?
Do we feel like nothing is wrong with it? **Children, please stay away with your childish comments o, this one is not for you**!!!
Kindly leave a comment that can help us confused sisters.