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Tips For 2016 as three hundred naira exchanges for a dollar

By now, it should be clear to all of us that this year will be a difficult one and to survive it, you just have to start planning from Day one.
Be prepared to let go of some things and spend only when absolutely necessary. If you have saved money, try not to touch it quickly.
Avoid capital projects in the next few months until you are certain of replenishing your bank accounts.
Avoid social travels that bring no added income.
If attending a burial, wedding, naming ceremony, marriage anniversary will eat into your savings, avoid them. You would be called names, accept the name calling but understand that these same
people will call you worse names if you have to borrow from them to feed your family.

Reduce your responsibilities. Your first duty is to your family. If you don't provide for them, others will rarely do so.
Talk to your friends who are working not to bother asking

Teen Mom 3 star Mackenzie McKee hospitalized due to 'diabetic complications'... as she trains and diets to be a bodybuilder

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Teen Mom 3 star Mackenzie McKee was hospitalized on Wednesday night. The 21-year-old, who also starred on 16 & Pregnant, suffered diabetic complications and was rushed to hospital near her home in Miami, Oklahoma. Mackenzie had been vomiting for hours before she tested her blood sugar only discover it was 'dangerously high', according to TMZ
In order to compete the Mackenzie has been undergoing extreme diets and grueling training. The star says she does three hours of cardio a day and drinks two gallons of water. She regularly discusses her regime - she takes insulin and monitors her hormones, and has

Cheryl Fernandez-Versini puts on a brave face in first public appearance since 'filing for divorce from husband' at gym launch

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If you watch X Factor UK, then you know Cheryl Fernandez, sits beside Simon Cowell with Rita Ora to her right. Cheryl hasn't been pictured in public for over three weeks, although has been keeping her fans happy with several selfies on her Instagrams in recent days. Daily Mail reports that the X Factor judge attended the launch of the boutique boxing gym on Chelsea's King's Road after earlier enjoying a training session at the same venue. The new venture is owned by her PA Lily England's boyfriend, Shane Collins. Earlier on Thursday, she posted an Instagram of herself enjoying some boxing with Shane, writing: 'K O'd by Shane.'
The post followed Sarah Harding's television interview on Wednesday, during which she discussed the topic of Cheryl and Jean-Bernard's pending divorce after 18 months of marriage. Talking to the Loose Women panel, the 34-year-old said: 'I dropped her a text, but Cheryl's

Go for old school Hollywood glamour in an off shoulder gown like Lady Gaga's + Leonardo Dicaprio's Response

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It's not often we see Lady Gaga wearing something we'd love to have hanging in our own wardrobes, but last night at the Golden Globes the pop star nailed it and we're seeing her in a whole new light. She was elegant and oozed old school Hollywood glamour in a fabulous off shoulder gown by Atelier Versace. It's a classic look and one that's easier to copy in the real world than some of the other showstopping numbers we saw on the red carpet. We love the structured tailoring of this dress and the slinky train. It must have been quite difficult to walk in but totally worth it for the dramatic effect. Atelier Versace is the couture end of the luxury fashion house so will require an appointment with the designer to recreate this exact look, so why not just shop our edit below instead?  Another image after the cut.

See Adams Oshiomole's Look When Dare Art Alade Shook His Pretty Wife's Hand At An Event

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This photo was taken last September when Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo state hosted an event in honor of the Police IG, Solomon Arase. Governor

8 Sure Things That Happen To Your Body After You Birth A Baby

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1. YOUR BREASTS WILL STAY HUGE... AND MAY HURT No surprise, new mothers have gigantic knockers. That's partially because they're constantly filling up with milk, but also because they're engorged from all the extra blood flow needed to transform your chest into a 24-7 dairy. What's shocking is that sometimes, when you produce more milk than what you can expel, the excess milk and blood flow can cause serious discomfort. This shouldn't last long, though

Celine Dion's Husband Rene Dies At 73

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Husband to International songstress, Celine Dion, Rene Angelil has died at the age of 73. Rene died in the early hours of today January 14th. He was diagnosed with throat cancer in 1998. His health got so bad

Watching My Wife Give Birth To Our Son Put Me Off For a Year- A husband confesses

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Neither of us said anything, but I could sense we were thinking the same thing. As we lay there, side-by-side in the darkness, a chasm was growing between us. I longed to reach over and draw my wife  to my side, but something stopped me. I felt frozen to the spot, my stomach in knots and my heart pounding. The problem? We hadn’t had sex for more than a year and the longer we left it, the higher

More Nigerian Soup Recipes To Cook This Weekend

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Click on any soup you like to find the step by step cooking recipe

How Do I Believe In Something Am Not Convinced About?

Good evening Aunty Eya, thank you for everything I have learn since I started following the blog in 2013. Now, I am not a religious person but there are questions bothering me. I would really like to know how can you love Someone that you've never met? Can you love an idea

Always Loving The Wrong Men But I'd Rather Stay Single Than Live With Someone I Don't Love

Hello Aunty Eya and Wives Connection and fellow Blog visitors who are always ready to help us silent readers with your wealth of knowledge. I'm 31 years old and I can say that I've truly loved only three people in my entire life and unfortunately they were  the wrong ones. My close friends are all in long term relationships and getting married and raising their beautiful families. Everyday I feel like I'm getting left behind. I feel old and discouraged,  I wonder why I can't fall in love or develop feelings for the right men, except those who will lie and deceive me and disappear when I need the relationship to move forward.But as much

Bird Flu + Lassa Fever, Temperature Scanning Has To Start Again In Nigerian schools And All Public Places

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Abuja records first Lassa fever death. Schools, supermarkets, Churches, hospitals and all public places in Nigeria took up the task of scanning before anyone is allowed into premises,  what happened to this good habit? As soon as the World Health Organisation  (WHO) declared Nigeria Ebola free,  many dropped the habit and now there's free entry everywhere with no one bothering to scan visitors. Let this scanning habit return.  It's a good habit. The Federal Capital Territory has recorded it's first death of the deadly viral disease, Lassa Fever. Minister of Health, Prof Isaac Oyewole made this known during a visit to the National Hospital, Abuja where the patient died.

The medical director of the hospital, Jack Momoh, while confirming the death, said the patient, a 33 year old newly married man, was brought in unconscious

The Return Of Bird flu To Nigeria. Without Even Waiting For Lassa Fever To Leave

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Which one should one worry about now? Lassa Fever and Bid Flu at the same time?  Read the press statement from Anambra state government below...
The Anambra State Government alerts members of the public about the resurgence of Avian Influenza popularly called Bird Flu in some states across the country. This disease which is usually associated with birds can also be transmitted from bird to man. Bird Flu can be transmitted through direct contact with infected birds or poultry materials.
The Symptoms of the disease include fever, sneezing, cough, diarrhea, trouble

My Baby Is Ready For Potty training, How Do I Know? READ ALL THE SIGNS BELOW

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Yesterday I went potty shopping because the one that came with the bath tub is now small and too low for my baby. He has started school this week and GOD! I'm so grateful. He started showing signs before Christmas but I wasn't interested, all I wanted to do was wait until he is 2 at least but now that he is in

Where To search For The Missing Budget

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Or, is it found already?

Video: Finally, My Chairman Goes To School. First Day Of School

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The Lord has done it again. This week has been a bit different for me. After all the begging and yummy soups, hubby has agreed that my Chairman starts school, until last week, he still insisted that the boy has to be three and be able to talk clearly before going to any school. HALLELUJAH SOMEBODY! I'm so happy for me and for the blog. Okay, Monday was his first day at school and I couldn't wait to share with you guys, surprisingly, he didn't

My Parents Always Talking Negative About Me To My Mother-In-law

Good morning Aunty Eya and fellow Blog readers, I need to share my story here to encourage someone on this platform, one for all the yummy recipes my wife and I enjoy from wives connection, and two for the advice that has helped us have a better marriage as a Nigerian couple. 
I am the first child of my parents, as a child I always wanted the love of my parents, but could never understand what was wrong.  By age 9 after a sever beating, and thrown outside, I remember that I prayed to  God and asked him to take me away from this horrible life.  When I was twelve, I remember my mother telling me how I ruined her life for being born.  I'm in my 40's now and looking back all I have ever been was me being the Black Sheep in my family.  I joined the military at age 20 to make a better life.  After leaving the

I Was A Married Virgin Until Yesterday

Hi wives connection, I am from logos. I am married and I am still going to school level 400.my husband wants us to start having kids but I am not because I am still schooling. Now he always wants to forced himself on me. But yesterday he came home drunk and he forced himself on me. I was still a Virgin until yesterday it hurts a lot. Now

Lassa Fever Prevention

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With the recent outbreak of Lassa fever in the country, it is important for us to put in place preventive and control measures in our homes/offices most especially since reported cases have been confirmed in the region.

·         Avoid contact between rats and human beings;
·         Keep your house and Environment clean
·         Cover all foods and water properly.
·         Cook all foods thoroughly
·         Store foodstuffs in rodent proof containers
·         Block all rat hideouts
·         If you suspect that rat has eaten any food, discard it
·         Family members should always be careful to avoid contact with blood and body fluids while

The Things We See Today, Won't Even Dare In The Days Of Elijah! Gunmen kidnap Redeemed Church pastor during service in Kogi, demand N50m ransom

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Has God truly gone farther away from this planet because of sins and filth? In the days of old, honestly, fire will rain down as soon as these kidnappers step foot on the pulpit.  Is that God has become more loving and enduring than he used to be. You know when we read stories like this. I begin to prefer that instant action, that thunder and fire judgement we read from scriptures. 
People should fear what might happen if they try to commit crimes in CHURCH but No, whatever criminals can do outside,  they carry to church and are able to execute whatever without fear. The number of curses raining on them right now? Uncountable.  Will any ill supernaturally befall them to scare others who try committing crimes on sacred grounds? I don't know... However, in my mind's eye, I can see the man of God commanding fire and paralysis on those kidnappers and I see them frozen into pillars of salt. I wish. A senior Pastor with the The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) in Lokoja, Kog…

How To Preserve Tomatoes For a whole year

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Big round and firm tomatoes are in season and cheap now. This is the time to buy and store for long time use. I got the biggest series basket for N3500 here in Ilorin last Saturday. It will still come cheaper between now and mid February, especially if the fuel situation improves. To store, sort the tomatoes to ripe and firm, unripe and firm and soft whether ripe or unripe. Wash the ripe and the soft, removing the stalks and pack in freezer nylons. Stack the

My Sister In-law Is The Worst Person I Know, How Do I Tell Her That She Is Rude?

Good morning Auntie Ey, My family used to be very close, just like those Kardashians we see on TV, we are always there for each other especially my parents who I have seen sacrifice a lot just to make us comfortable and happy. This was until my sister In-law came into the picture. Okay, so 2 years ago my brother was dating this girl and at first she was really nice to me and my family. She was the best of all the other ladies we ever saw him with, I liked her though We never really talked much before then. Then about 2 years ago she got pregnant and her and my brother got married but not a church white wedding because she already

Just Found Out Stuff About My Father

Hi Aunty Eya, good evening. I have something to share with you. I am confused. Am a male reader of wc and have been here silently reading for about one year. I just found out my father has a girl friend not too far from our street. Mom trusts him so much she won't even believe me. I

Sunday Night Quote, Sleep On This

“Shift your focus away from what you want (a billion dollars) and get deeply, intensely curious about what the world wants and needs. Ask yourself what you have the potential to offer that is so unique and compelling and helpful that no computer could replace you, no one could outsource you, no one could steal your product and make it better and then club you into oblivion (not literally). Then develop that potential. Choose one thing and become a master of it.Choose a second thing and

How Sunday? How Body?

Dem say Boko Haram don poison beans after I don buy half bag for house o. From the one wey I cook, I give my dog, Bingo, make im first test am. 45 mins later, bingo still dey waka, dey jolly. Na im I come chop my own. After I don chop finish, my gateman run come tel me say bingo don die, Hey! I run enter

A Rebellious Wife Is Like Witchcraft

A MOTHER'S WEDDING PRESENT TO HER LOVING DAUGHTER ON HER WEDDING DAY..
Read Below:

My daughter, Today you have become a wife.

The position of a wife is that of great responsibility. It is the responsibility of a home builder.

A wise wife will build her home. A foolish wife will  destroy her home with her own hands.

My daughter, don't be a foolish wife. Don't be a rebellious wife..Rebellion is bad. It is like witchcraft.

Rebellion will cause strife in your home.
Strife will cause war in your home
War will destroy your home.

War will destroy all the good things that you have. War will destroy you.

Remember that no individual or community or nation can make progress during war
If there is No peace, there will not be progress... THAT IS THE RULE..

My daughter, if you want your home to progress, let peace reign.
Prayers will not help you if you're disobedient and contentious..

My daughter, seek peace.
My daughter, with everything inside of you, seek peace.

God made your hu…

Experiencing Verbal Abuse In A Subtle Way

Hello Aunty Eya, Happy new year to you and the very handsome baby Chairman of the family, please help me post this mail on the blog; 
Honestly, verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. Growing up, there were 5 siblings, I'm the middle kid. When I was a teenager, I noticed my father would decide not to talk to my mom for weeks or even months at a time. There was a time when my younger brother just under me asked my mom if our youngest sister was adopted since dad didn't talk to her whenever he was not talking to mom. Even now that we are all adults, I don't see my dad showing her affection like a father should. When I tried to ask him, he said he loves all his children equally that it's my brain playing games. 

 I felt so bad for my sis because the silent treatment from a parent is just as bad as verbal abuse IMO...I vowed I would never treat my children that way, and I didn't. Now that my

I Miss The Happiness I Used To Feel Before I Got Married

Good evening Aunty Eya and wives connection BvS, I just want to talk but there's none to trust so, better I come here and rant away. I used to feel the excitement of facing everyday, growing up and even at the University, I was a very bubbly girl. I used to look forward to

I Know I Am In Love, When

When I care so much about the person that I forget about everything else completely, even my health and well being. When I sit and write something like this crying to myself, and wondering why I am so pathetic. When I can't sleep at night because when I close my eyes, he is standing there to remind me that I am not alone. When I feel all these feelings, but am too afraid to tell them, because am scared he might

I Confessed To My Husband, He Turned Around And Told Our I4 Year Old Son

Hi Aunty Eya, good day, I wanted to send you this mail last week but changed my mind. Now I can't keep it any longer, because I am so confused I just want the ground to swallow me up. Last year I was so alone a d lonely in my marriage, with my husband giving all his time to work and gadgets. I tried to talk to him about my feeling lonely but, he just waved it aside and said it's Idleness that I need a more serious job to keep me busy.

Around this time, my colleague and I started talking a lot, even though he is married too we became very close and started seeing ourselves. We saw only twice before I left town. At that moment I
"I ate 3 plates of beans (which I know I shouldn't). When I got to my fiance's place for dinner,he seemed excited to see me and exclaimed delightedly Darling I have a surprise for you tonight. He then blindfolded me and led me to my chair at the dinning table. I took a seat and just as he was about to remove my blindfold, the telephone rang. He

Egusi soup for the weekend, Can We Cook This?

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After all the Christmas and New Year fried rice, coconut rice, vegetable rice, jollof rice, rice and stew and so on. Let's take a break this weekend and crave some swallow

I May Walk Out, My Husband Claims Single hood Behind My Back, Could Have Another Family Somewhere, I Don't Know

Hello blog family. Please I need advice from each one of you because I may walk out on my marriage.
I started noticing changes in my hubby 2012 when I was preg with our 2nd issue. He'll have sex once in a month. I tried to ignore but it continued till I birthed our 3rd child in 2014. He was too attached to his phone. Then I checked and I saw chats with different girls. I confronted him, he apologised. But he still continued. Later that year I snooped and I discovered he was involved with a friend of mine(they met on badoo but didn't know each other). It caused a big fight. My friend revealed that

My Husband Is Too Embarrassed To Go Back To The Doctor, What Do I Do to Help My Marriage?

Hello Aunty Eya, I need you to remove my details before sharing this because I suspect the hubby reads wives connection too. I live in a sexless marriage because he is not ready to go back to the hospital for his erectile dysfunction issues ..have been married 3 years. We dated for a year before marriage. .I knew my husband had problems before we got married.  He promised to get help..He tried to use viagra ... he used it once.....was still not good. it  Didnt really help him.Because of this problem and his low libido,  plus stress from a workaholic boss at the office and the traffic that doesn't help matters, he has become  not very romantic. 

I asked him to try something else, to look for some enhancing

Cringe Worthy Baby Bump Picture

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That looks like baby fingers.

The Other Mans Wife Called And Warned My Wife To Keep Away From Her Husband

I Saw wives connection page open on a colleagues system during work break, checked it out and got super glued since then. I enjoy reading advice here because people are so sincere and forward.  Here is my problem. Almost a year ago, my wife fell in love with another man. I don't know where or how they met but It started out with texting and flirting. This escalated to texting daily even while I am home. I remember a rainy day in July, she asked me to stay home with our two children while she

Top 30 Blog Posts Of 2015 - Most Read

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Wives connection most read posts of 2015 all have something in common.  Can you see it? I'll add links so we check them out again. The shea butter and baby skin post is number one, it is the most read post on wives connection this 2015. It receives  heavy hits everyday from January right till December.  There was no day the she a butter post was not read by many mums I guess.  Ok, so I'll start linking from the highest to the high.
1. Is shea butter good for baby skin?

2. Pictures: How to Prepare Soya Beans Powder  For Infants By Peach
3. Can a pregnant woman take moringa?
4. Nigerian food recipes 
5. Why you desperately need moringa tea
6. Nigerian meals suited for a pregnant palate
7. How to cook nutritious afang okazi vegetable soup
8. Excessive farting after giving birth to my baby
9. How to cook Nigerian white soup

Yoruba Introduction Ceremony How To

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Hi Eya, I  am a Yoruba properly married woman. I read an old wives connection post where the poster asked how Yoruba Marriage Introduction is carried out, but could not post my comment. In the Yoruba culture, an introduction is held so both families can meet officially. 
Yoruba Introduction Ceremony used to be an affair of just close

Happy Sunday. Hope You Had A Joyous Tiring Christmas?

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Merry Christmas From My Family To Wives Connection Family

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May this season bring joy to you and your family as you

Promoting Tolerance In The World, Shouldn't Both Sides Adjust?

MAYOR REFUSES TO REMOVE PORK FROM SCHOOL CANTEEN MENU... EXPLAINS WHY
Muslim parents demanded the abolition of pork in all the school canteens of a Montreal suburb. The mayor of the Montreal suburb of Dorval, has refused, and the town clerk sent a note to all parents to explain why...

35 Nigerian Christmas Recipes To Try This Christmas And New Year 2016

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You can find your favourite Christmas and new year recipes on these food collages.  What's your favourite Nigerian Christmas Recipes?  If it's not here, let me know and I'll give you a link to find it. From these images,  I'll
link only the ones that I  think Nigerians love to serve and enjoy at Christmas and New  Year. Try any recipe here and watch your guests luck fingers and plates.
1. Jollof rice and beans with carrots 
2. Pan grilled fish dinner with rice
3. King prawn fried rice by Lizzy Obaze
4. Rice and baked beans stew
5.  Fried rice by Sisi Yemmie
6. Vegetable fish sauce with rice

7. Titus fish stew
8. Fried rice mix in the making.
To follow step by step cooking of all these rice delicacies, from number one to 8, click on all ricerecipes and some more rice recipes and much more rice recipes

Can A Pregnant Woman Eat Nigerian pepper soup, Bitter leaf, Ugu and Hot Leaf?

Good morning Aunty Eya. God bless you for this forum. Please ma, this is my first pregnancy and I don't want to make mistakes eating the wrong foods.  I crave pepper soup daily  and now am scared the hot pepper in there

My Story. The Circle Is Repeating Itself

Hello Aunty Eya, I came across your blog while I was in a desperate chat. I'm 24rs old. I have a 3yr old baby from years back. The man flew immediately he knew I was pregnant, I

12 Delicious Finger Licking Nigerian Recipes To Cook, pick one

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While In Labour, He Is Breaking Up With Me At The Hospital

Good evening  Aunty Eya,  I want to ask for advise on the blog but am not a good writer. I just found this story on bossip and there a so many similar things about my case, any advise given by blog visitors will help me too but I  Kw you might not post it because I read a comment last week where you warned a poster that she or he copied a story and shouldn't do that again. I  am not a copier and not a good writer too. Please help me, pity me by posting this story. I need advise please Aunty Eya. I am 22 years old with a one year old son with a man, or should I say boy, who’s betrayed me in every way. We’ve been neighbors all our lives, even had sleepovers in my house when we were kids. We didn’t speak to each other besides a “Hi,” and head nod for years because our mothers HATED each other. But, more than 2 years ago, because of my brothers, we started to hang out with each other. I was in another relationship at the time with someone who was cheating on me, so I cheated on him. B…

Why Am I Pregnant While Still A Virgin?

These mails from young, Pregnant virgin ladies asking me if it's possible to get pregnant without being disvirgined. I've always sent private replies without posting but I'm getting a bit worried and just thought to post this because they are becoming a bit more frequent. I always replied that fertilisation can take place if seen gets to the egg even without penetrative something. There was one lady that won't believe and kept asking more questions and finally I told her that if there was any foreplay around the veejayjay, even around the stomach, navel or thigh area, it's possible to get pregnant because semen is like liquid and can flow down without notice,  and once it touches the uvula, a little can escape in there and fertilise the baby to be egg and voila you are pregnant as a virgin.
Here is the short mail below :

Giving Birth In America, Any Blog Reader With Experience Or Tips Please?

Travelling To Give Birth In The USA.Good morning Aunty Eya, thank you for this wonderful platform that helps us share info f learn right from our bedrooms.  I am an ardent reader who started following wives connection right from inception.  This is my first post on the blog however.  Can you do me a favour?  I need info about giving birth in America. See Aunty Eya, my family has done the American green card lottery thing for over 10

A Northern Sister Shares Bdroom Tips To Help Revive Ailing Marriages

So, after reading the post and several posts on married women cheating in their homes, i pondered so much on it and it's glaring that this trend may keep increasing, one of the major factors is lack of sexual satisfaction. Many married women are suffering from this both those that are cheating and those that are not cheating, moreover the single ladies can also learn from this so as to get ready for their marital bed when the time comes. For the purpose of easy understanding i will divide this post into 3 sections, f you have any question about anything or contribution you can drop it in the

Another Pregnancy 4 Months After CS, Please Help

Aunty Eya please help me. I don't know what to do. Don't even know how to inform hubby because he insisted I go for family planning but fear and stubbornness won't let me. After birth, the Doctors advised that I wait at least one year before getting pregnant again. I don't know how this happened. I

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