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How a smart Nigerian mum helped her son escape fake pregnancy trap set for him by gf

Facebook user Winnie Wonder Friday was almost tied down with a fake pregnancy in Edo State, he has taken to Facebook to narrate what really happened and to also thank  his mum for the role she played. According to Winnie Wonder Friday, the lady who did this was

In a relationship with an Urhobo man who is into traditional worship

I would wish my post to be anonymous and would love to get responses concerning this issue that has been bothering me for sometime.
I have been in a relationship with an Urhobo man for three years and was invited to his family house as at last year, only to realize on my own that they are still into traditional worship.
He made me understand that marrying him would not force me into the religion but that I

What it means when YOU are being taken for granted

When you are taken for granted, it means your value is being underestimated. You are expected to always be available, to serve without needing a 'thank you', an appreciation. In short you are being taken for granted when people or someone expects you to serve without needing recognition/acknowledgement. When try as you may, give until you have nothing more to give yet, you are seen as ''after-all you are doing what you should be doing" You go all out of your way to render some services yet that recognition is not given you and you are wondering why? Just know that YOU ARE BEING TAKEN FOR GRANTED.  Your value is not appreciated or, you are not even valued by whoever it is you are serving.
To be honest, so many people feel they are being taken for granted but are not really sure. Now, here are signs to prove that you are truly not valued either by an individual; husband, wife, In-laws, friends, family and the list goes on.



Good evening WIVES CONNECTION. it really feels like a family on this blog I must Confess. I just discovered something really surprising about my bf, OK he gave me his phone to use for now cos mine is bad.  I didn't mean to but somehow I stumbled on his Facebook messages and wat!!!!  I couldn't believe my eyes.  He had sex chat with so many white girls, some girls re from African countries.  

My bf travelled since last year August to Sweden, those Facebook messages I saw is dated Dec 2015 to June 22nd 2016. I was surprised wen I saw the messages cos I never suspect him, I mean I literally see him as a saint wen it comes to things about women.  I messed up once when we quarreled last

My Fiance Relocated To Abuja; Should I Move On With My Life?

Guys I need your advice, because am tired and confused at the same time. Am 24yrs being dating these amazing guy for 5yrs now and the relationship has be OK even talking about settling down. Late last year he relocated to Abuja and since then things has changed. He got a new job and all the things he does like calling, texting etc stopped. I complained because the whole thing was annoying, We had issues ‎and for 1month to 2months we didn't talk, his best friend called for a meeting and we saw after. After the meeting I kept asking him what's in between us and if he still loves me like he used to, I got the

My Fiance Says He Used To Masturbate, That Ok For A Christian?

Hello, good day auntie Eya,I'm a Christian and so is my fiance. We're both adults, and are both waiting till marriage before we share a bed. Now, we all have urges. we're human. I'm physically attracted to my fiance and he is the same towards me. Yet we of course won't and can't do anything about it and just try our best to ignore the urges.
Well, the thing is he just confessed to me that he used to masturbate, and this would ease


Good evening madam Eya, please I am a male reader on this your blog , help me post my case so that I could get help from you ladies, I am a father of four kids,I've always taken care of my family but my wife attitudes have changed that as the economy of the country is high and she is doing well in her business,


Hello ma, I had an abortion four years ago and thought I had gotten over it. I was 24 years old, we were planning our wedding and I didn't want to be seen as a pregnant bride. Although my husband (then fiance) tried to convince me to leave it, I couldn't stand what other church members will think of me when I give birth earlier than 9 months after the wedding. "I'm in the church choir, what would they think of me" how will they start treating me afterwards?". Our courtship was seemingly very strict as my church has rules about all these things, what would they say if 6, 7 months after the wedding they receive news I gave birth to a baby that doesn't even look premature?  I went ahead and secretly did it. 
Let me not lie, I was haunted after the wedding, I never thought another

Should I Move On Or Wait For The Love Of My Life To Become Single?


My Husband Says Complaining About Me To My friend Was A Joke

Goodmorning  Mrs Eya, I need help from wives connection blog. My husband and I met and got married after a brief courtship which was mostly long distance because we work in different cities. Before the wedding, I tried my best to get a transfer to join him but perhaps because I work in a private firm, that wasn't possible. We then decided that after the wedding we'll reschedule and ensure all weekends are spent together.
To make that possible,  it was his idea that we buy a house in the town where I live, and that I spend my money  on our wedding but that he'll surely refund when the bulk

There Are Things I Can Do To Get Closer Hubby's Friend But I'm Scared Of The Consequences

Hello  Aunty Eya and the loving wives connection family.  I have been an ardent reader of the blog for only three months but have learnt so much more than I could imagine. I am female, 36 years old, and have been married 10 years. Lately, I have felt very ignored and restless in our marriage which has remained sexless for the past two years and counting. I don't think my husband is aware of these feelings because I try to talk about them but he doesn't seem quite interested in talking about sex life and that kind of stuff , but the urge and feelings? they are  alive in my heart. He buys me beautiful gifts and tries to give me his love and support in other ways,  still relates with me without problems and kept enjoying my blow down there for almost 2 years without reciprocating with at least a one time penetration or something. When  I got tired of satisfying him one sidedly, l stopped and that has been it. He acts

My Wife's Menopause, Mood Swings, How Do I Handle Them?

Hi Mrs Eya, good evening and remain blessed for the awesome platform on wives connection. I need help from the forum please. I loved my wife many years ago when I found her and still do,  but her moods are getting me down. This her mood swing s is not a recent development and I have been able to cope all these years but it's getting to me now.
Years ago, she would go into moods with little reason and would not talk to me

I've Fallen Trap To Being The Other Woman I Didn't Intend To

Read the story below and please advise

I Am Her Sponsor, Why Did She Choose Another As Next Of Kin

Hello Aunty Eya, good evening and thank you for wives connection blog and all the good lessons I have learnt from the time I was introduced by a friend. I never knew that a day will come when I will ask for advise, today I need help with my thinking faculty. I hope am not stupid?

My mother remarried after my father passed a very long time ago and she has three kids for my step dad, we all grew up together and God has been helping me. Although my step dad didn't sponsor me in any school, God saw me through. My mother struggled so much to see me through Secondary school and at a point, I became known as the last student to pay school fee every term. All in all I passed WAEC and God sent Scholarship my way, that was how I got  a degree.

I am married now with 2 beautiful daughters and why I write this mail is because something is bugging me a bit. After my marriage, my step dad passed on and hubby and I tried our best with my 3

I Cheated Even after my husband suspected, Please Help Me

Good morning Anty Eya and wives connection friends, I'm very sorry about what I have one now, even after my family's disagreement on our marriage, my husband and I  got married about 10 years ago, we had a bouncing baby boy after 5 years later and still waiting for more blessing. We were so devastating without each other and had to marry even though my family was not very happy he is from a far away tribe. We blessed with our baby boy and life was going well. My husband ,he is a very nice person for not only me but for everyone with whom he is connected. We only quarelled a few times in my marriage to my husband and always settle the fight without involving anyone but this time I need to involve the wives connection inside it. I don't know how to get my husband forgiveness. around 2 years ago , I met a person in my new department at the office . we talk daily as he was my senior and i had to report to him everyday ..this went

I'm a final year student in need of a rich husband?

Hello Aunty Eya, Am from abia state
Am precious,  a final year student at college of education
 Am 21years
But was born and grow up in lag
 I'm Female. Is it only wives you connect?

Should You Shave Your Pubes And Wear Weaves At 55?

Hello wives connection, I am what you all will refer to as old. Got married at 24 and now it feels like I have been with this same person forever. Would have been a granny by now but kids came after 10 years of waiting. I want to do things to shock

I Need Help With My Marriage

Hello Madam Eya, I am a male reader of wives connection, a husband. After all there can't be wives without husbands. I love the blog so much and it's my go to blog whenever am Online or want to feel at home. My wife and I are Nigerians even though we do not live in the country. We have been together for for 8 years we got married after 2 years of knowing ourselves and dating here in the US. I had a one night fling with someone before we got married which she later found out about but we managed and I thought to get past that but obviously not, she still

In Love with my employer's driver, can we go on with

Good morning ma...pls I will like you to give me advice on this 18 and will turn 19 God will this month...
I work with one of the executive director of access bank as a nurse to her kids for 6months now but am dating her

My Friend's Weird Relationship With Her Uncle; Should I Do Something?

Good morning Aunt Eya, I need advise from the wives connection blog, Please help me share without my details. I’ve had a close relationship with one of my friends since the days of Secondary School and we are now in our twenties and, graduated from Uni though none of us don get work. My friend has lost her father as a teenager and probably because of that she is close to her uncle (Her