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SHOULD A WIFE MOURN HUBBY WHO DIED IN HOTEL ROOM WITH ANOTHER WOMAN?

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Should she? shouldn't she? Well, Reading all 35 responses below can make you a good Marriage Counsellor, just in case you need to give advice to a grieving woman... Lol.
This question was raised by a Nigerian man Afolabi Mathew on Social media. He asked for responses from both men and women concerning the matter on ground. If a husband who says he's travelling to another city for an official assignment is suddenly

I married early to escape torture from mum, Now My husband mistakenly calls me his secret girlfriend's name... I need help

Madam Eya I am so so sad. I cry everyday. my husband does not

Re: My Husband's irresponsibility has no part 2. Hubby replies separated wife and those who left comments

If you didn't read that post in 2016, read it here. A Nigerian wife sent a mail for posting, she was tired of her hubby's ways and wanted to know the next right step to take. Many blog readers left comments and right now we do not know if the poster is still married to her husband or divorced. So, this morning, I opened the blog and saw messages from her husband. He has replied and insists that his wife's post was  not the whole truth and also replied some comments left there. 
See his replies below:

I SNUCK INTO MY HUSBAND'S PHONE AND GOT ANOTHER SHOCK, ONE TOO MANY

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I need your help and the readers. I wrote to you last year how my husband slept with two sisters for seven years We have been married for eight out of it he has spent seven sleeping around until that faithful day He was embarrassed by the first one he started sleeping with first . he confessed to the crime and I forgave him not to do it again . 

Now, He told me he was going on an official trip, upon his return

AM NOT AT PEACE WITH MY HUSBAND'S FLIRTING. HE CLAIMS THEY ARE CUSTOMERS

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Pls wife connection, how do i handle a husband who has no truth in him, he hid everything he does from me, he cheated one severally and will swear amd promise tat it wont happen again, still i found out he is wit that same girl, for five yrs now, we had 3 kids, he take his responsibilities but am not at peace with his flirting habit, he will claim they are customers. What should I do?

FOR ALL THE PAIN SHE CAUSED MY MARRIAGE SHOULD I REPORT THIS LADY TO HER HUSBAND?

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My husband had an affair with a lady I know too well. All throughout the affair I kept asking him to stop but he kept denying it and since I didn't have proof I couldn't do anything. Now I do and he he is acting so good trying to be at his best behavior but I know it's because he has been caught and does not want me to further expose them.  But the lady in question

TWO DAYS LATER THE GIRL SENT MY HUSBAND A MESSAGE AND HE STARTED HIDING HIS PHONE AGAIN; WHAT SHOULD I DO?

My husband had an affair for years with a lady I know too well, with all my instinct he kept denying it until he was caught red handed. After I decided to leave, he begged me and family members stepped in to settle us . In all those seven years he hide his phone like crazy. But in one of the conditions of staying in the marriage he promised never to hide the phone again, that the only reason

Ghanaian pastor caught sleeping with a married woman on her matrimonial bed (photos)

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Apostle Douglas Akwesi Amanor (pictured on the bed) was caught naked with Mrs Mina Adjei (pictured) a married woman and a member of his church on her matrimonial bed in Accra, Ghana.  Read the story as told by Nana Effei, from Tema, Ghana after the cut...

I ENJOY SEX WITH MY HUSBAND'S BROTHER

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Ben, my husband is the aggressive type whilst Kingsley was what you would call a real man – strong and able to handle himself with no aggression whatsoever – no hint of the bully his brother was. It was Ben who helped him clinch a deal on an empty flat in our neighbourhood and as soon as he moved in, he visited more . frequently. It was thanks to him that I started taking more interest in how I looked as he was always liberal with his compliments. He made an effort to look well too, splashing on exotic after-shaves and wearing sexy clothes. The admiring look in his eyes whenever I let him in made my efforts worthwhile. It was obvious that a sexual tension was simmering between us even though I tried to smother the feelings.
“One evening, I was relaxing at home when Kingsley called unexpectedly. “Ben

SHOULD THIS WIFE APOLOGIZE OR NOT?

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To understand the tweets, Go read from down up...

My Heart Is Not In The Marriage

Good morning Mrs Eya, I need some help from the wives connection blog ASAP. I have been feeling like this for a long time now. Been married almost 8 years with 3 daughters. We lived apart initially because I got transferred to the North, later my family joined me and we have been living together for about 6 years.

I just have not been feeling the love anymore . My feelings have changed over the years. My wife is a good wife, attractive, and good mother to the kids. I just don't have the love for her that she needs and wants. I feel I have nothing left to give. For years I have fantasized a divorce. Years I mean! I have had fake

My Marriage Has Become Lukewarm And Boring Over The Years. I Never Wanted To But Because We Had A Child Together

My Husband Calls Numbers That I Call Or Text That He Doesn't Know.
Hello Mad'm Eya, I'm married and have been with my husband for 13 years. We have 2 kids 14 and 8. We met when I was still 18 and he was 29. I feel like I was pressured into the marriage because we had a child. I NEVER wanted to get married! My family always tells me that I'll never do any better than him and if doesn't beat me then there should never be a reason to leave.In the years we have been together we have both changed so much. He has always had trust issues. He would always accuse me of being out with other guys. He would call up to my work or school and make sure I was really there because he didn't believe me. Reads the phone messages and calls numbers that I text or call that he doesn't know. I started texting a guy I work with. It was

Video: Tiwa Savage Marriage Crisis - Lessons

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There have always been Social media rumors that Tiwa Savage's marriage to Tunji Balogun was suffering but, without evidence, I never believed until I watched the video yesterday and when I got to the point where she broke down, I also broke down. It was really touchy and I've

How Do Affairs Begin?

The rate at which affairs are happening these days?  Especially with technology making it possible for people all over the world to connect. God forbid, but do you know you or your spouse are more likely to have an affair than a divorce? 

Affairs can lead to so many heartbreaks, yet a lot of people do it why? You know, affairs usually begin with an attraction to someone you know fairly well, someone you spend time with each week:  your friends, neighbours, exes and co-workers. 

 Never ever allow yourself to believe  that those feelings of love are a signal from God to abandon your relationships and rush into this new relationship. It's no signal from God. Instead, it's the way our emotions mindlessly encourage us to spend more time with those who meet our emotional needs. If we submitted to our emotions, and chased after anyone who at the moment

I Cheated Even after my husband suspected, Please Help Me

Good morning Anty Eya and wives connection friends, I'm very sorry about what I have one now, even after my family's disagreement on our marriage, my husband and I  got married about 10 years ago, we had a bouncing baby boy after 5 years later and still waiting for more blessing. We were so devastating without each other and had to marry even though my family was not very happy he is from a far away tribe. We blessed with our baby boy and life was going well. My husband ,he is a very nice person for not only me but for everyone with whom he is connected. We only quarelled a few times in my marriage to my husband and always settle the fight without involving anyone but this time I need to involve the wives connection inside it. I don't know how to get my husband forgiveness. around 2 years ago , I met a person in my new department at the office . we talk daily as he was my senior and i had to report to him everyday ..this went

I Need Help With My Marriage

Hello Madam Eya, I am a male reader of wives connection, a husband. After all there can't be wives without husbands. I love the blog so much and it's my go to blog whenever am Online or want to feel at home. My wife and I are Nigerians even though we do not live in the country. We have been together for for 8 years we got married after 2 years of knowing ourselves and dating here in the US. I had a one night fling with someone before we got married which she later found out about but we managed and I thought to get past that but obviously not, she still

I Want To Confess And Apologize Without Causing More Harm

Hi Mrs Eya, this is a confused male reader posting because I don't know how women think or look at issues. There is 21 days fasting and prayer going on in my church this month and as an ordained worker, it is expected that I participate, aside that, I made myself a promise that I'll be more committed in spiritual matters this year. Days are passing and very soon the programme will end yet, I haven't been able to fast because of the weight on my chest.

We once had serious issues with my wife, that took about  3 months to resolve and during that period I

Having An Affair Too, If I End My Marriage, Will He Keep To His Words And Marry Me?

Hello wives connection, please please please, someonehelp ke out. Aunty Eya I need your help too. This post I'm sending you was meant to be a comment on that other post that got wives making confessions. I tried severally to post it there but keep getting a message that my comment cannot post because it's too long. Kindly hide my details before posting this please  I really need someone to put my life back on track, to turn me back into the mother and wife I once was... a year ago, around

My Husband Called Me Names For Attempting To Email His Facebook Girlfriend, Am I Wrong?

Good morning my dear Aunty Eya and fellow blog readers. I once sent a mail concerning my husband's irritating habit, your advice helped me so much. After the comments, I was able to take a stand and fight positively. Thank God our relationship improved tremendously.  There's another problem again, my friend and his Facebook girlfriend. I tried my best not to ask for help,  I thought I could

Taking My Husband's Best Friend Was My Little Revenge

Hello Aunty Eya, after reading the recent confessions you posted on the blog, I feel compelled to share my story too. My confession is not to ask for advice or tips but just to be able to

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