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My Fiance Relocated To Abuja; Should I Move On With My Life?

Guys I need your advice, because am tired and confused at the same time. Am 24yrs being dating these amazing guy for 5yrs now and the relationship has be OK even talking about settling down. Late last year he relocated to Abuja and since then things has changed. He got a new job and all the things he does like calling, texting etc stopped. I complained because the whole thing was annoying, We had issues ‎and for 1month to 2months we didn't talk, his best friend called for a meeting and we saw after. After the meeting I kept asking him what's in between us and if he still loves me like he used to, I got the

My Fiance Says He Used To Masturbate, That Ok For A Christian?

Hello, good day auntie Eya,I'm a Christian and so is my fiance. We're both adults, and are both waiting till marriage before we share a bed. Now, we all have urges. we're human. I'm physically attracted to my fiance and he is the same towards me. Yet we of course won't and can't do anything about it and just try our best to ignore the urges.
Well, the thing is he just confessed to me that he used to masturbate, and this would ease


Hello ma, I had an abortion four years ago and thought I had gotten over it. I was 24 years old, we were planning our wedding and I didn't want to be seen as a pregnant bride. Although my husband (then fiance) tried to convince me to leave it, I couldn't stand what other church members will think of me when I give birth earlier than 9 months after the wedding. "I'm in the church choir, what would they think of me" how will they start treating me afterwards?". Our courtship was seemingly very strict as my church has rules about all these things, what would they say if 6, 7 months after the wedding they receive news I gave birth to a baby that doesn't even look premature?  I went ahead and secretly did it. 
Let me not lie, I was haunted after the wedding, I never thought another

Seriously Searching For A Working Class Igbo Lady

Hello, Am Livinus, an Engineer. I need A tall virtuous working class Igbo lady(27yrs@Most) for a serious relationship . Add me up... 2AD03FDB

HIV positive looking to settle down? Leave Your Contact

Hello, Iam an HIV positive lady ready to settle down with a man who is also positive or negative, please no games. I am who I am, a man that will have the same

What Nigerian Man Will Marry A Woman That Doesn't Like To Cook? Step Forward

Good day Aunty Eya, Good day WC family.  I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we've been doing great. He's very ready to get married. I'm not the most domestic girl around town nor am I anywhere near being a traditional wife, but I know that's the kind of wife he wants. I went to a boarding school, never really spent time at home. Then proceeded to a private university. I know I can cook but there's no interest. I used to love to cook with mom as a child but not anymore. I don't like to cook or stay in the kitchen and I keep asking myself what Nigerian man will want to marry a wife that doesn't like to cook? With time may be I'll begin to feel differently but right now I'm not in a cooking mood.

 In being his girlfriend, I feel like I've given up my individuality. I think I've given all that I'm willing to give and if

Single Nigerian Lady In Search Of A Yoruba Guy

Good day madam , I am an ardent reader of your blog, Almighty God will bless you for the wonderful job you are doing on your blog. please I need your help to find a serious guy, I am very sincere. 

I am a single lady of 26years, still searching and I want a God fearing and caring guy who will take me for who I am, and treat me nice, i leave in lagos, I will like to meet up with a Yoruba guy for a serious relationship,  i

Can I Meet A Wonderful Nigerian Lady Here?

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