By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 13 Nov 2014 11:53:34 +0000

I believe that 6months,1 year or even 2 years is too short to remarry after a spouse has gone suddenly. If you truely loved that person, you would not remarry too soon. you will mourn that person until you actually heal come to the realisation that it is time to move on and if you have kids, they will be your priority not even another marriage. The death of your spouse would always remind you that life is bitter as well so you would take time and care in searching for another good spouse again. It is not the same case when you marry barely a year after your wife dies and do a wedding that calls for world attention, then start flexing, roasting chicking in public, Pastor doing duck face pose, travelling to Russia with wife in the name of Ministry, buying wife expensive cars and showing it off to the world to see. Doing all these things which you never even did for your late wife and you tell the world you your late wife was your life. Who are you fooling? The truth and you know it is that you never loved your late wife. She died of a heart break in the guise of a heart attach, she died of too much thinking and weight gain. you were never around and you never took her for any of your Russian trips. Remember you told me saying " I don't know what i am going to do about my marriage, its not working and I can't divorce because of my status" I already knew there were hitches in your marriage and love had died pastor but you could have respected her death and mourned. Rather her death brought you relief and you could not wait to jump into another relationship. We all know that you courted your new wife soon after your late wife died instead of mourning. Yes you did. If your late wife died in July and you are getthing married in August the following year then when did you court her? you courted her during the mourning period. God forbid!

By: Blossom

Blossom — Wed, 09 Oct 2013 13:08:11 +0000

Your father is a rare gem! Hope you show him lots of love.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 19 Aug 2013 07:42:20 +0000

well my father lost his loving wife 28 years ago and he has never remarried uptil today my father is 78 years now he is still very single he takes joy in seeing us his children succeeding in our different profession we do ask him he said to me i can not love any other woman the way i love your mum so there`s no point, .so it is just discipline and how u love that woman when she was alive .

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