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Your Temperament 2: Facts About Your Husband's Personality And Sexuality

To understand your husband's sexuality, you need to go read our first post on temperament and devour Tim Lahaye's books too. 

Sanguine Husband You? You are very responsive, it doesn't take much to turn you on. You are  a natural charmer, good with flattery. You have a great appetite for everything including Knacking your spouse. Dear madame,Your Sanguine husband is reluctant to take
no for an answer. If *doing* isn't the most important thing in life for a sanguine, it is a close second. In case your husband is sanguine, better gear up to satisfy him at home because if you don't, he'll seek affection elsewhere o. The sanguine likes to prey on lonely, unfulfilled women, so if you are lonely and unfulfilled, that man acting nice nice around you might just be one energetic sanguine trying to prey. The Sanguine Christian husband can easily be distracted by the opposite sex if he is not walking in the spirit. That's his major weakness; WOMEN!

Your Choleric Husband
Hahaha, before marriage, he was the sweetest thing that happened to you, flowers, candies, chocolate and so much politeness and kindness and dynamic leadership.Shortly after marriage, he takes the romance out of the marriage. He loves to conquer and has conquered you, so, off he goes in search of another conquest which could be his job, position at work etc. When confronted with Madam's complaints that he doesn't love her anymore, He replies " Of course I love you, I work like a slave to give you what you want" hehehe story, story, the truth of the matter is that your sanguine husband enjoys work o, not working to give you what you want, just doing what he enjoys. He is very impatient, has that inability to lavish you with affection. Showing affection is just not his thing, so, madam, you just have to pray and learn to cope. You know your choleric husband is not a good planner, he just thinks that everything will always work out. That's why he can take you to the bedroom without the slightest sex Education. He believes things will work out in the bedroom. One fortunate thing about him is that once he realizes and is convinced, he learns quickly.

Melancholy Husband
If your melancholy husband is as naive as you are, sorry, you both might come home from your honeymoon depressed instead of happy. Your melancholy husband is a perfectionist you know, and because nothing in life is prefect, he tends to easily fall into depression, kind of moody, complaining, hard to please husband. One great thing about your melancholy husband is that he has the capacity to express love. His romanticism is his greatest asset and honestly, for marrying that melacholy hubby, you have found yourself a lifetime loyal and faithful partner. He might derail a few times, especially if he indulges in  porn but on the whole, he is the most faithful of husbands. Don't push him with your nagging and unnecessary suspicion. He is such a perfectionist that even dirty dishes in the sink can get him all worked up. If his wife is a stay home mum, she will always feel he doesn't appreciate her efforts. His complains have no end. He can easily get turned off  because you undressed without hanging up your clothes properly, yes! The best way to get the best out of him is by encouragements. He goes all the way to do more when he feels encouraged and appreciated.


Your Phlegmatic Husband's Sexuality:  
This your husband doesn't express much o. He is the most closed mouthed and you just have to understand and accept him that way. He is easygoing. but just not a noisemaker. He has the soft answer that turns away wrath. His achievements speak for him. He is very patient. He is not very vigorous in the bedroom. He is habit prone you know that already. If you two start with a thrice a week *something* it might just continue that way, he makes a habit of almost everything. He might not care much about your sex drive and your complains about lack of frequency. The plegmatic husband is reluctant to take leadership oh, sometimes this extends to the bedroom. If you wait for him to initiate it, you go wait tire. You go even tink say him no love you but na lie o, he does love you wella. He is stingy not only with money o. If you always complain that your husband is stingy, maybe he has phlegmatic traits, he knows how to be stubborn in a polite way and that can be really annoying to other people. He finds it difficult to talk about anything, so, if you make him feel embarassed in that department, he'll just withdraw into his shell. You can't teach him to give because he is naturally stingy like that, it's in his DNA.

Do you agree?

Comments

  1. So damn true. I think my husband is 100% Sanguine.

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  2. Johnson3/01/2016

    I remember a former boss asking me about my temperament bcos it's pretty difficult to box me into this cages. If I may ask, what temperament does Jesus have??

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  3. Can't see my hubby in any of this definition.

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  4. Oshey! I will make a sanguine husband then, but the last paragraph doesn't apply to me.


    . ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  5. Anonymous3/01/2016

    Bonarioo, the sanguine hubby, guess your libido must be very high. Your wife will hear it.

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    1. Hehehe it won't kill her.

      . ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  6. Anonymous3/01/2016

    Jesus is God Uncle Johnson, we don't expect him to be mel or san or any of those. He is almighty.

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    1. Jesus isn't God Ok. U can never equate any being wt God. Jesus is the son of God. His only begotten son. Sue

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    2. Oh swthrt u really need to know ur bible very well b4 correcting somone bcs frm d little I knw dey re all one person,the father,the son and the holy spirit

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  7. New Momm3/01/2016

    My husband is choleric plus phlegmatic in the ratio of 2:3

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  8. Interesting. I have a little something from three temperaments.

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  9. Anonymous3/01/2016

    My stingy boyfriend must be a phlegmatic. Alright, I'll pray more for him.

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  10. Aunty Eya what about wives' personalities?

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  11. Anonymous3/01/2016

    So Bonario darling, if she doesn't give all the time, will try outside? Reply

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    1. Hehehe if I could survive it years before meeting her, just few breaks won't make me run outside. But I'll make sure the first will be so good, she wouldn't want to miss any.

      . ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  12. Mercy J3/01/2016

    I pray for a melancholy husband when that time comes. They are trustworthy men.

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  13. Some men possess all the traits.

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  14. Anonymous3/01/2016

    Hmmmmmmm, Bonario you don't look like your first will be that good please. You look to moi like a JJC that needs some lessons.

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    1. Hehehe a trial will so convince you.
      in dbanj's voice "if you know what I know, you go like meoo!


      . ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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    2. Bonario has become the subject matter lol at a trial will convince you. Welcome o abeg where your nokia 3310?

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  15. Wow, where have I been all this while? Welcome back Sir Bona.

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    1. Thanks dear.


      . ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  16. I can't find my husband in any of these category

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  17. When I saw this post on the blog. I just knew that hell fire will smile today. See them all lying that they cannot be found here. How? are you holy spirits or your husbands holy ghost? Shaking my head. Eya, if you like don't post, you can swallow my comment for your waist pain.

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  18. Anonymous3/01/2016

    Silky S just stop contracdicting yourself lady. Jesus is God and God is Jesus. God is three in one. Ask your pastor the meaning of the TRINITY before you type.

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    1. I insist: Jesus is not God! He is the Son of God. I assume u re a Catholic hence the Trinity. Y does Jesus refer to God as father in heaven? Jesus is human n God is not. Don't confuse urself wt the trinity pls.

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  19. Anonymous3/01/2016

    Your number babe. I'll contact Aunty Eya to get it if you don't mind. Send it to her for me. I'm still single and searching and ready to settle. My high libido needs you.

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    1. Wawuu! This is getting more interesting, aunty Ojay has my number.lol

      . ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  20. Johnson3/01/2016

    Na me find trouble to bring Jesus come dis mata (lol)!
    When Jesus walked on the surface of this earth, he was fully man... So as man, what was His temperament?

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  21. Anonymous3/01/2016

    You are the confused one Silky. Am so disappointed in a grown woman saying Jesus is different from God. How can?

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    1. Ds is rather unfortunate. U need to learn more abt d word of Gos pls. God is spirit(John 4:24). Remember when Christ was baptised? God spoke from heaven (Matt 3:17). Don't argue too much as knowing abt Christ n d word of God has nothing t do wt how "grown" u re!

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  22. Anonymous3/01/2016

    Jesus was in the beginning

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  23. Anonymous3/01/2016

    Silky so u never c d place wen Jesus say I and d father are 1? Calling catholics! Read ur bible u too johnson

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  24. Hahaha!!we like fight pass quarrel oh

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  25. Lol....this temperament post has taken a whole new turn....Jesus, God, Trinity, Bonario being openly toasted....lol

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  26. Johnson3/02/2016

    How interesting to see diverse views/understanding of who Jesus is, esp. among those of us that claim to be Christians... The good thing is that we have some common ground: Jesus is the Son of God - the only begotten Son & the Word. The Bible says three bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are ONE.
    Back to the point I tried to make - when Jesus walked the surface of this earth, He was fully man and I was just wondering what His temperament would be? Na that kin temperament me I want!
    One day Aunty Eya go open Bible study class for us...

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  27. Anonymous3/02/2016

    My crush Bonario, I haven't sent my contact to Aunty Eya yet, have been thinking, it's important I know your availability status first. Do you have a girl friend currently? I don't date other women's bae's. Please reply.

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  28. Hehehe currently I'm only in a relationship with Jesus the Boo of the Booless.


    . ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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