14 year old Ese Rita Oruru, the Bayelsa born girl child who was abducted by Yunusa Dahiru, alias Yellow but rescued by the Police in Kano, has been discovered to be about 5 months pregnant, very reliable sources have told Vanguard.
Consequently, it was gathered that the white Hijab dress she wore on her arrival from Kano on Tuesday, was used to cover the pregnancy even though her physical condition and looks created a suspicion. Vanguard was told that it was the condition in which Police authorities discovered about Ese that informed the IGP, Solomon Arase’s directive that she should be handed over to the Gender and Child Protection Unit and later, a team from the Medical Department of the Force to carry out a comprehensive medical examination of the girl-child at the Police Medical Facility in Area 1, Garki
Upon certifying her medical status and emotional state, Vanguard gathered that the Inspector General of Police feeling uncomfortable with the transport arrangement of the mother that they return by road, cancelled the arrangement and directed that both Ese and her mother be flown to Yenegoa by air. Meanwhile, the IGP has directed the Bayelsa State Police Command to take over investigation in the child violence offense saga because according to sources, the offense was committed in Bayelsa which is the place of residence of the abductor, Yunusa Dahiru. Consequently, Vanguard was told the Yunusa will be moved to Yenegoa to face interrogation and prosecution for kidnapping and child abuse as well as violence against a girl-child.
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/03/abduction-14-yr-old-ese-is-5-months-pregnant/
Hmmmmm, it’s well.
End of the road for her parents. They just lost her to the Aboki Mallam.
I thought as much, when I saw her all covered up.
I saw the article about the woman who knows her husband is a good provider but is cheating on her and is wary about having sexual relations with her .
Below is what I honestly think. No relationship is easy .People fall in and out of love everyday.
Dear Woman, everyone have advised you.
Yes, it is not easy.
But as our parents before us will say 'Marriage is the only school where you learn everyday".
It is never easy , but if you determine in your heart you will get your man?. By his grace , you will.
First of all ,curb your tongue and try to be approachable again like when you both first met . Upgrade yourself, look good, be clean always lose weight if needed, smell good. Men are also affected by scents like vanilla , jasmine and musk. So get choice perfumes but don't bathe in them.
Next , sow a seed to the Lord and make a vow to God to get both your marriage and man back on track because God has a divine plan for every marriage.
Try to rekindle the attraction between you two, what were those things you used to do then and what are your relationship goals with him now for 2016?
You must have a time frame and target?.
Another thing assess how you both have changed since you two courted, got married and had a child and try to correct your fault as you also pray for him ( He is your head remember)
Another thing is to become financially independent so the pressure won't be too much on him ( be wise as you do this as it may backfire if you go into one of your headstrong feats).
Fix your hair and dress appropriately.
Get your spiritual leader in church to assist you in prayer and counselling.
You can plan 'date nights' for the two of you to just talk or relax not necessarily have sex.
Make your home a haven like 'Heaven on Earth ' for him (It is not easy as you will keep remembering how he has wronged
you but you must keep trying if you want to have the last over the other women outside)
All the best .
May God always be on your side.
A.
I saw the article about the woman who knows her husband is a good provider but is cheating on her and is wary about having sexual relations with her .
Below is what I honestly think. No relationship is easy .People fall in and out of love everyday.
Dear Woman, everyone have advised you.
Yes, it is not easy.
But as our parents before us will say 'Marriage is the only school where you learn everyday".
It is never easy , but if you determine in your heart you will get your man?. By his grace , you will.
First of all ,curb your tongue and try to be approachable again like when you both first met . Upgrade yourself, look good, be clean always lose weight if needed, smell good. Men are also affected by scents like vanilla , jasmine and musk. So get choice perfumes but don't bathe in them.
Next , sow a seed to the Lord and make a vow to God to get both your marriage and man back on track because God has a divine plan for every marriage.
Try to rekindle the attraction between you two, what were those things you used to do then and what are your relationship goals with him now for 2016?
You must have a time frame and target?.
Another thing assess how you both have changed since you two courted, got married and had a child and try to correct your fault as you also pray for him ( He is your head remember)
Another thing is to become financially independent so the pressure won't be too much on him ( be wise as you do this as it may backfire if you go into one of your headstrong feats).
Fix your hair and dress appropriately.
Get your spiritual leader in church to assist you in prayer and counselling.
You can plan 'date nights' for the two of you to just talk or relax not necessarily have sex.
Make your home a haven like 'Heaven on Earth ' for him (It is not easy as you will keep remembering how he has wronged
you but you must keep trying if you want to have the last over the other women outside)
All the best .
May God always be on your side.
A.
If they / she like let her be 10months or more pregnant. Let her parents take her back and keep the unborn child PERIOD. It's not an excuse to leave her to dem.