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Do All Men Watch Porn?

Hello Aunty Eya, happy weekend to you nd my wonderful wives connection family who 

have helped me learn so much more about life and relationship. Please help me post this anonymously . I have a feeling my husband reads the blog.

I always read articles, blogs, forums etc, etc that blatantly say ALL men watch porn, 

ALL men check out other women, ALL men think about women other than their partner.. My 

husband of 3 months adamantly denies being like this. He's not a religious guy, he's not 

weird. He's just your average very handy, very kind, 32 year old younger looking, good

looking and attractive man. I am his first girlfriend and we have been together nearly 3 years 

before the wedding. He was a virgin not because of anything, he vowed to him self and 

friends at Uni that he will do nothing until after marriage. I'm just bombarded with all these v

voices telling me that this must all be too good to be true because men 'apparently' are 

sexual creatures who aren't built for monogamy.

I'm confused and just want to know if true mental and physical loyalty exists or if he's just telling me what I want to hear.

Is it true that all or MOST men watch porn?

Comments

  1. Anonymous2/21/2016

    YESSS! Poster, all men and women watch porn secretly.

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  2. Johnson2/21/2016

    True that men are sexual creatures and get excited by what they see, esp the wonderful curvy creature from them.
    Can a natural disciplined man really keep to himself & not fall in the hand of one/more daughter of Eve? Almost impossible! However, only one thing can make the difference - Jesus & the continuous help of the Holy Spirit. Is this based on religion? NO! It is based on relationship with God and knowing the danger that lies ahead if one falls.
    The worst thing that can happen to a man is to live in denial and also to cover up temptations that are lurking around - he that covers..., shall not prosper.
    Poster, rather than worry pls befriend your hubby and constant communication helps to unravel anything that might come up.

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  3. Brandy2/21/2016

    Stupid question you ask. If we don't watch porn, how we wan take sabi wetin to do for oga down dere make another *stupid side stool* nor go do blow am away. If not porn, then someone like me will forever remain there with old school missionary style. The world has since moved to permanent site. Start packing your bags poster, join the queue now.

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    1. Anonymous2/21/2016

      Thank you! Porn is the teacher, the watcher is the student. Kachifo, you hear?

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  4. Hmmmm it's a matter of choice mbok.

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  5. Monique2/21/2016

    I don't watch porn

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  7. Anonymous2/21/2016

    Yes we do!

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    1. Anonymous2/21/2016

      FALL OF NAIRA TO THE DOLLAR, DON'T BLAME BUHARI :- Sen. Ben Murray Bruce.

      Many Nigerians are complaining about the constant fall in the value of the Naira and they blame the Government.

      But is the government really to blame? In truth, our insatiable appetite for all things foreign is to blame.

      I always fly Arik Business Class whenever I am traveling abroad except Arik does not fly on that route.

      Not only is an Arik ticket a fraction of the cost of a British Airways ticket, but the money I pay to Arik circulates in Nigeria and helps firm up the Naira’s value.

      As I speak to you today, a British Airways Business to London is ₦2,103,666 while Arik Business is ₦551,545 yet our elite still fly BA

      But though Arik offers an affordable alternative to British Airways and other foreign airlines, our big men prefer to pay double what Arik charges to BA and other foreign airlines for the same services and yet they complain about the value of the Naira.

      I have Nasco cornflakes and I have eaten Kellogs cornflakes. In terms of nutrition and taste they are almost indistinguishable. Yet our elite who will rather eat Kellogs than Nasco cornflakes, wonder why the Naira is falling!

      Even something like Quaker Oats can be substituted with corn meal known locally as pap.

      Obasanjo Farms of Nigeria and other large scale poultry farms have the capacity to provide chicken for the entire nation. Since that is the case, why are we even buying imported chicken?

      In fact what is wrong if every family in Nigeria has a poultry in their backyard to give them eggs and meat?

      My steward went to Makoko, which is one of the largest fishing communities in Lagos. He wanted to buy fish and they were selling imported frozen fish!

      Yet in the very waters in front of them, there exist fresh fish that is more nutritious than the cheap frozen fish they were selling.

      We keep spending over 1 Billion Naira importing rice when our own farmers are capable of meeting our national demand for rice. But for some reason, Nigerians just prefer to buy imported rice.

      The imported rice we buy in Nigeria is not as good as our local rice because it has been stored for years in silos and treated with chemicals.

      Moreover, every time you buy it, your money is going out of Nigeria to service an economy in Asia. The end result is that their currency gains value while ours loses value.

      Have you ever wondered why European Premiership Clubs are so interested in Nigeria? It is because Nigerians spend billions traveling to Europe to watch their games, buy their merchandise and promote their leagues.

      Yet, back at home, we would not be caught dead watching our own local league.

      If we will not spend money on made in Nigeria goods and services, how can we expect our Naira to hold its value and appreciate?

      Obviously we can not cut ourselves off from the world. No nation is an island, but at least we can fly Nigerian airlines, eat locally produced food and patronize our football league.

      If we do this, not only will our economy grow and produce jobs for Nigerians, it will also make our goods and services improve in value such that they will be attractive enough to be imported.

      I bought Innoson vehicles as official cars for my staff. I have never lived to regret it one day. They are comfortable and durable. But most of all, I know that my purchase helps to keep jobs in Nigeria and improve the value of the Naira.

      I urge you to do the same. We have no other country but Nigeria and it is you and I that will make it what it is.

      If we buy Naija We Will Grow Naira

      My name is Ben Murray-Bruce and I just want to make Commonsense!

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  8. Pregnant But Not Ready2/21/2016

    Even Kirk Franklyn confessed to watching porn and even getting addicted. All men watch porn at different times and levels.

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    1. Why drop his name man? Is Kirk Holier than the pope?

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  9. ANONYMOUS2/21/2016

    Not secretly. I watch porn with my wife occasionally

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  10. Swthrt,the issue here isn't about your porn question. 3mnts in marriage is too early for this prejudices and doubts.let loose and give ur man a fair chance!dont give the devil a chance to capitalize on ur fears and most importantly don't paint him with the general brush!back to porn matter,there is absolutely no rule in this life that has no exception,why won't u choose to believe him the exception?he @ present believes he will never watch porn,well where my doubt lies is in ur saying he isn't religious,if it's not a faith based declaration den he will fail!coz he can't do it of his own will!most important thou is forget all these,learn to filter what you read n enjoy your marriage! You are just getting started,there's a long way ahead! E neva give u problem sef you de find mata!

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  11. [21/02 21:05] Aunty Eya
    [21/02 21:05] Good evening oh
    [21/02 21:05] These write up isn't staying the truth
    [21/02 21:06] Arik and ba difference dey
    [21/02 Arik can delay and cancel flights like joke

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  12. If you were his first girlfriend and he was a virgin before he married you and so far you havent suspected any act of infidelity why bother yourself? Please dedicate yourself to loving him and making your marriage work.

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