Worried about my breast

Aunt Eya I greet u, and commend ur work! Please do not post my identity. I’m 26 years old, a beautiful lady, chocolate in colour, but I have two issues concerning my body and it makes me worry! First one is that I naturally don’t have a firm breast right from puberty! My breast developed facing downwards, it’s not long just a typical example of a fallen breast, I’m a virgin,
and I feel when I start having sex my husband may find it as a turn off! Secondly I have dark patches from birth on my right leg to my inner thighs more on d right than the left, and it’s not even to really make it look like a birth mark! I plan to start sex after marriage, but I’m worried cos I feel it may be a turn off for my partner! I wonder if it’s such imperfections that makes women turn off the lights during sex! I would love to know wat men think about these 2 issues I jus stated and if there are also women out there with similar problems and also, if there are ways in which I can improve on my breast and inner thighs, thank you!

16 thoughts on “Worried about my breast”

  1. Why are you worrying? You are fearfully and wonderfully made and any man who doesn't accept you as you are, doesn't deserve you. When I was serving one of my acquaintances told me that women have different kinds of breasts, the orange breasts-these ones stand and are as firm as oranges, the melon breasts-these one are big but neither stand upwards or slop downwards and the banana breasts-these ones slope downwards in the shape of a banana. So, you might just be in the banana category because no two breasts are the same.

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  2. Poster you shud be calm and confident in yourself, God created you that way because he wants to see you like that. Its not your fault. Be thankful to him @least you are not deformed. Regarding your issue i suggest u get fenugreek seeds, they are tiny n yellowish brown in color, sorry but dont knw d local name. Get it n boil along with some ginger, sieve n drink hot as tea or cold, it works wonders as i hv been using it for enlargement. Goodluck with the patches hope u get a remedy for it.

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  3. Adaeze – which one be orange, melon, banana breast? Men like 'water melon' breast (lol)!
    Poster – u are beautify and God will bring the right man. And please note, the body also changes over time… a man that loves and deserves you will love the changes as they come. But sha, that's no excuse for leaving ur body unattractive!

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  4. U can get d seeds in our local markets where they sell spices coz i know d leaves are used in cooking, maybe google d local name and ask d market women. I get mine thru a friend who lives up north. In d meantime u can alternate with its oil which is also gud but i prefer d seeds coz i hv gastric ulcer u can get it in any major super market in the oil section where u find olive oil. Just take a teaspoon full everyday , if u hv ulcer take it immediately after meal. Your breasts will enlarge in less than a week so get a gud bra to use. it may be a bit soar as if u r a nursing mom.

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  5. Pls mufy's mum is it true this fenugreek helps in increasing breast Milk because I really want to do exclusive breastfeeding for my one month son but I seem not to be producing enough milk. Pls reply

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  6. Dear Poster, I was in your shoes and could not even dare to look at my breast in the mirror. My dear, God sent me this wonderful man that can not get enough of it. I am now the nudist of the house and if my husband comes home and I am not naked there will be problem oh. He wants me that way all the time and if I am dressed up, I get the "is everything okay, my love" question. He wants to see my boobies all the time. It turns him on. I was madam hide hide breast but now I am the madam free style breast exhibitor. Once I get home, off comes the bra because I don't want wahala from oga.
    I have learned to love my body and understand that while one man's food is another man's poison; you never what you possess that could be a major turn on for your husband so never make assumptions. God created you "imperfectly perfect" and what you have and dont like might be what other people are praying and fasting for.

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  7. For those asking about Fenugreek,It is mainly used to induce breastflow,rather increase breastmilk especially for nursing mothers having challenges of milk supply which probably explains why d non lactating ladies breast enlarges just like how a breastfeeding woman's breast does! Which makes me wonder if there won't be an adverse effect because it's probably making her lactate while not pregnant;she should consider looking into how safe it is!better safe than sorry! For the pregnant women,pls just wait till u deliver before you start on fenugreek,you will most likely be lactating by your last trimester and no body wants a leaking boob b4 baby is here plus engorged boobies hurt too!so keep it on standby and start soon as u deliver! Plus you might not need it coz some ladies over lactate naturally!#case in point.
    P.S- am not a medical personnel oh just a mother who does loads of research! So try your best to find a doctor that is open to questions and discussion to help you through!not that easy to find here

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  8. Wow! What a testimony. Thank God for u. Poster shebi u don hear? Keep on being u and trust in God for ur own. Am sure some one may have a solution for the scars on ur thighs. Cheers

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  9. @anonymous dont take it if u r in ur 1st or 2nd trimester, fenugreek seeds induces labor if a person is pregnant. Leave it till 3rd trimester it eases d contractions n when used in warm water for sit bath, it soften d vagina n mks it elastic which prevents tear. It has mny medicinal uses. I use it in alk my pregnancies. Besides u dnt need it for now ur boobs will increase naturally wait till after weaning to do d sisi na…

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