12 Surprising Facts About Cheating Husbands And Wives

 If a man is unhappy with his wife, he'll cheat, right? Not necessarily.  Most cheaters are happy in their marriages and satisfied with their wives. They are not looking forward to ending the
marriages. They are curious and want to see what's under that pretty colleague or whether that old flame can still be conquered.  Tell them to make that one permanent and see how they'll start regretting. 
  1. Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat.

Men who cheat haven't fallen out of love; they've become unsatisfied with the current state of it. " They want successful marriages but just can't keep eyes from roving around. 
  1. Men Usually Cheat With Women They Know.  Like they bump into an old school friend,  reconnect with ex girlfriend on Facebook.  Start an emotional affair with a neighbour or office colleague, start eyeing the chorister lady with a great voice and so on. 
  2. Men Cheat on To Save Their marriages.  They want to keep their marriages but do not know how to handle those deep issues rocking the marriage. To escape reality, they cheat, then return to their wives and continue to try to sweep problems under the carpet. Instead of being the man , inviting hus wife to sit down for a chat, they avoid the problem completely and would rather act like all is well.
  3.  Men hate themselves after affairs. You may not believe this but it's the truth, no cheater is proud of the fact that he's not faithful to his dear wife.A cheater is aware that he is betraying another human being. HE might enjoy what he is doing  but still has morals. 
  4. They sometimes become sexually hyperactive, if you notice a sudden change in your husband's sex drive, could be he has started cheating and that appetite is awakened. After the affair solidifies, he might begin to pull away from you his wife, however, a sudden change in the drive should raise a red flag.
  5. They go to church religiously and even hold leadership positions like pastor, elder, deacon, Christian men Association leder, they can pray down fire from heaven like Elijah,  they hold midnight prayers and make sure morning devotions are observed regularly in their homes.  Some keep girlfriends right inside the church groups they are managing, while they remain married to madam. 
  6. As a couple,  you can never work it out when the man is still in the middle of an affair, all he is interested  in and excited about is his lover. At this time,  the poor wife might be spending  sleepless nights thinking how to work on fixing things while her husband is so distracted and uninterested. No woman van make him stop that affair unless he realizes himself and decides to act. 
  7. An affair can sometimes fix a marriage. The man goes to taste the different pot of soup according to him, and  there realizes he has been taking his wife for granted. Realizes his wife is an angel compared to what he now sees.  After an affair some men become better husbands after discovering that women like their wives are hard to come by. A cheater realizes the new relationship isn't as perfect as he thought and suddenly realizes who he really wants to spend the rest of his life with. 
  8. Even after rebuilding the marriage,  a husband may still miss the affair. Yes, he loves his wife and want this marriage but doesn't totally forget the great things he used to do with the other woman ; fun,  zero  responsibilities, the rush of the chase and so on.
  9. Most times, the wife is not to blame if her husband cheats on her.if your husband is unfaithful,  it's not all the time you blame the woman, it might just be a conscious decision by the husband to go astray. 
  10. A wife often knows her husband is cheating . A woman's instinct is very powerful when it comes round cheating. You probably know your husband is cheating on you but cannot bear to acknowledge it. Maybe to void humiliation 
  11. Women cheat just as much as men and their affairs are often dangerous .wives are more likely to cheat for emotional satisfaction  like seen in Online dating -without any physical contact. This is the most damaging type of infidelity because being emotional invested in another man just means you have checked out of your marriage. Number 12 I'd on top, can you find it?


  1. Anonymous10/30/2015

    So very true and eye opening. ThaNks

  2. Such is life. May God open our eyes.


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