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My Fiance Arrested For Molesting A Fifrteen Year Old, I Need Quick Advice

Hello  ma and Wc
I dont know if this is a proper medium for this but i have to get it out.

As I speak to you my boyfriend or should i say fiance is at the station because he had sex with a 15 year old girl.  He claims  it was a one time thing but the girl in question said they have been doing it.

 Peeps from his church are
at the family house begging for him so he doesn't go to court. Am doing all i can to get him out, but he said it was a mistake.

He was the little girl's tutor ooo.what will can I do now please? I don't want to tell people but hmmmmm.
I dont any wise, personal advice cos really it's shameful.
Thank you

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  1. Anonymous7/22/2014

    Yalu better find your square root and stop calling him your boyfriend. If you marry this one na your house girl him go chop clean mouth o. But you have to be wise, so keep silent till everything settles and support him. But once the situation is sorted then silently dump his ass sharp sharp!

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    1. Anonymous7/22/2014

      Seconded o! He go chop ur house girl clean mouth.

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    2. Anonymous7/26/2014

      house girl,say what...?you didn't say her daughters GOD forbid,it's men like this that sleeps with their own children.

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  2. Anonymous7/22/2014

    What do you mean by what should you do? He cheated on you and with a 15 year old not only is he a cheat he is also a pedophile and you are asking what you should do? My dear you have not yet found the man you would marry pls move on

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  3. bulls_eye7/22/2014

    Think of ur future daughters pls. He's a paedophile for God's sake. Run

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  4. RUN..... My dear, run as fast as u can.... Dat ur fiance or should I say ex, is a Peadophile.. He might end up raping ur daughters or jun sister...

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  5. Anonymous7/22/2014

    You muet be 35 and desperate for a husband. Fiance ni,finance ko

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  6. pickme7/22/2014

    Run now there is still time before u cry had i know.

    Ma Eya sorry for not replying don't know what is wrong my comment is not showing, is not heat rash her bombom is very red pls help me.

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    1. Anonymous7/23/2014

      Buy clotrimazole cream and apply twice daily on your baby's buttocks

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    2. Anonymous7/23/2014

      Buy clotrimazole cream and apply twice daily on your baby's buttocks

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  7. Poster what you actually need is usain bolt legs to run faster (abi fastest) away from dat man your stil referring as your fiancé.

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  8. Anonymous7/22/2014

    He is a good for nothing pervert, you better find yourself a real man now one with whom no little girl is safe.

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  9. My dear, u are standing on a long thing, plz this is not what u need, imagine u coming back one day and see your daughter's tutor molesting her, I bet u will leave him alone abi? Abeg park well.

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  10. Pls take their advice and run as fast as you can. For him to lie that it was once. The girl can't be lying that it has been happening since.

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  11. Anonymous7/22/2014

    Surprise ur still calling him a boyfriend. Pls run as fast as Ʊ can. And don't do anything 2 help him out of jail. If he is guilty he should face the law abeg.
    Vicky

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  12. Na Wa so parents of today still employ male tutor 2 teach their female kids? The mass media needs 2 create awareness on this issue seriously. My dear run away cos that is the sign of a marriage that will crash later on because of infidelity or abuse,if u forgive him and later settle with him. My dear u don't need a soothsayer 2 tell u,by their actions u shall know them. Someone who cannot hold himself in front of a child that could be taken as a younger sister or even daughter is whom u wanna settle down with? Girl run away...he has brought disgrace upon u and himself dats if pple know u guys 2 b together. I also believe in the sins of d father revisiting d children,dat act of his could be manifested in any of ur male child...and when it happens u will recall ur husband's past deed. This is a God given SIGN 4 u cos he simply can't control himself. Watch out he could have tendencies of being gay and that which he has already exhibited, a molester. The devil has a special way of doing things, I kind of feel sorry for him.

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    1. Anonymous7/22/2014

      There is no problem with male teacher and female student. The real thg is supervision. Male or female tutor shd teach in an open place where anybody can see what's going on. Our tutors thot us outside under the canopy. No tutor cld even think of trying nonsense cause there was no privacy at all. You shd never send your child to the tutor's house for any reason. And tell the tutor u will assume the worst if ur child is with em unacommpanied

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    2. Anonymous7/22/2014

      Uñder canopy o or under umbrella anything wey want happen go happen....male tutors of these days fear them...children of these days fear dem 2.

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    3. Anonymous7/22/2014

      well i guess you'd like to ban male teachers from all schools

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  13. Anonymous7/22/2014

    heyyy, this one go cheat even with a mad woman! stay there no run u hear!

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  14. Anonymous7/22/2014

    You're doing all you can to get him out? Clap for yourself. So he couldn't find anyone else other than that poor girl? And he's even lying saying it's only ones. Tomorrow you'll also come back saying your hubby got your maid pregnant as if you didn't see the signs.

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  15. Well POSTER, I hope you've read everyone's advice and thought about what they are saying. Sometimes God speaks to us in different ways. and this example of what just happened with your boyfriend/fiance is a shame and it's sad. If I were you, I would kneel down and thank God that you didn't marry him. I would thank God that you found this out about him on time.
    There is no time to go and rescue him for a mistake that he did. If a grown man can do this, he has no self control and he's probably done this before in the past, he just got caught this time. One word is enough for the wise. The red flashing lights are on the wall. If you care about your future, listen to everyone's advice.... God will eventually give you a decent man that you deserve.

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  16. Anonymous7/22/2014

    Read this quote from Oprah Winfrey: "When people show you who they are, why don't you believe them?" "Why must you be shown 29 times before you can see who they really are?" "Why can't you get it the first time?"... Please my dear poster, be wise.

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  17. Anonymous7/22/2014

    Fiance ko,molester ni! Am sorry for ur dear life! Even if u r 40yrs of age,I'll neva advice u 2marry him! God has just saved u from future problems! Congratulations Poster! May God give u ur Boaz! Adeyanju

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  18. Anonymous7/22/2014

    You shouldn't be pleading for him neither should his family, Your boyfriend is a peadophile, end of. I work in child protectio services dept, although not in Nigeria. Your boyfriend should face the full force of the law, the law regarding sex and sexual contact with minors was put in place to protect children against predators such as your boyfriend. Dump him immediately and help the girl's family get him to court. It doesn't matter if it was once or not. He betrayed his position of trust to the girl, her family, you ad his family.
    Never help to conceal or turn a blind eye to serious crime.

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  19. Anonymous7/22/2014

    Church kwa? Trying to save his ass rather than seek justice for the poor girl?????

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  20. Anonymous7/23/2014

    JUST IN CASE YOU HVNT BEEN ABLE TO READ ALL D OTHER COMMENT LET ME WRITE IN CAPS:RUN!!!!!!! I PRAY U HEAR!

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  21. Can u imagine? If u like don't take d above advice. Don't come back here 2 tell us he shambrished ur help, niece, neighbors or even daughters. Mtchewww

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  22. Anonymous7/23/2014

    abeg leave that guy to face justice.if such a tin happen to ur sister will u let d guy go like that?RUN RUN RUN.

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  23. Anonymous7/23/2014

    So he says it is a mistake...the process of putting someone down and taking off gis pants was a mistake??? Or they flew away from him??? and you are helping him do what?? He is caught and is hiding under the cover of "the devil made me do it". Leave this one to his own and move on!!!! If you want your own family tree and family to be tainted then carry him as your fiance!!!! RUNNNNN!!! If he tries to beg him...Look at him in the eye and ask him if someone did this to his mother or sister he would be happy!!

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  24. Anonymous7/23/2014

    Dear poster, I see u as either wicked or warp minded. just imagine dis happenin to u wen u were 15 or ur 15yrs old daughter. ur so called boyfriend is just like the boko harams. he probably disvirgin dat poor girl. he is a peadophile, rapist n a pevert n u want to help him get out of police custody. u betta help in getin justice for dat poor child.


    BABINE.

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  25. You asked God to save you from ' Ota ile'. He showed you who your 'ota ile' is and you are doing 'ibi ni ma ku si'. Are you Mario?
    Fathers who sleep with their daughters started the journey by sleeping with other people's children(minors)
    Sorry poster, but for my sake and the sake of my unborn daughters and nieces, your fiance abi boyfriend should face the full wrath of the law.

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  27. So after this drama are you planing to continue with him? am just wondering he might as much sleep with your children

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