Can You Really Change Someone?

We have all heard these things. Some of us are even currently dating men that we believe we will change. We are right now loving men that we believe “if I show him how strong my love is, if I just give him enough love, if I can just keep his eyes on the bright future we could have, he will stop being afraid, he will give up his single lifestyle, he will change." 

The news that your perfect man doesn’t ever want to get married or have children? The fact that he has a monster coke
habit and gets a bit mean and aggressive when he’s drunk?

But, reality check now, is it really possible? Would a guy ever change for a woman? Can a Woman Really Change a Man?



  1. Anonymous7/22/2014

    You cannot change a man only God's devine intervention can do that, stop fooling yourself o

  2. Anonymous7/22/2014

    Nobody can change for anybody, they change for themselves. Only God can change a person

  3. U can't change a man... Its very rare.. D man can only change himself if he is willing and ready to.. If u try to change a man, he might end up pretending just to marry u and after d wedding, his true colour comes out.....

  4. ifeoma7/22/2014

    ONLY GOD CAN CHANGE ANY MAN. Love for who they really are and not what you want them to be.

  5. Pinkyberry7/22/2014

    Nobody can change anybody, ones life can influence another either positively or negatively but change is of the lord

  6. To ladies abt 2 settle down u can never change a man it takes only God's grace cos a man can only pretend to u until he has succeeded in putting u under his roof then he becomes that real guy u never saw bfor u guyz got married. Generally,most men are unchangeable unless, except, only if he has being marked for a change by God just as Paul in d bible. lol

  7. Anonymous7/22/2014

    Unfortunately, you can't chage anyone. Only the individual ca change themselves and eve at that, they need God and determination so they don't go back to their old ways. We women deceive and fantasise about chaging a man just because we don't want to let go, we're afraid of beig alone, we're scared we might not find another, we scared due to our age/biological clock and finally because of plai stupidity.
    Everyday I see very intelligent women waste away due to "Man problems", problems created by the woman herself. There are always alarm bells but some women just turn a blind eye or refuse to be observant enough. Before you date anyone, always find out about them. If they exhibit any habit you cannot cope with, dump them and let them no why.

  8. Anonymous7/23/2014

    My Fiancé has a serious boozing habit and he's a night crawler. I've been trying my possible best 2 change him all these while but reading all these comments.. I don't know

    1. Anonymous7/23/2014

      You cannot change him.

    2. And you will be amazed when he repeats that in marriage. If you cant change Someone in courtship just know that you have decided to take that shit in marriage. most of this things causes divorce or problem in marriage: trying to fix things you ignore while courting.

  9. NO one can Change anyone, but only you can Change yourself..
    If you really need to change someone ask God to do it and fold your hands and watch things change:)
    The Beautiful Eagle

  10. Anonymous7/29/2014

    In as much as I believe dat,is only God dat can change someone completely,we also have roles to play,showing love nd summision to ur hubby also goes a long way.


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