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Hello WC, I would be very grateful if my post is put up for discussion because I am feeling some how. I am 23  by his grace. Due to d above issue,I have resorted to online dating and even thought of bleaching my dark skin.

 A friend attributed
it to my indoor spirit and advised me to go out to meet people. I even have plenty pimples on my face that I am even tired of. I need your constructive help please.
Note: make me anonymous and my post please. Thanks

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  1. Anonymous4/05/2014

    Dear poster, first off, go see a gynae to be sure your acne isn't because of some kind of hormonal imbalance,then get a good face cleanser and clean your face every morning and evening, use face scrub like 3 times a week, drink lots of water and increase your fruit and vegetable intake, your acne will clear off with time.
    You don't have a spiritual or physical problem, just try to lead a positive lifestyle, be a little more out going, be nice to people,always smile, and most importantly, love yourself, when you do that, love will come knocking.
    Psyzbunny

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    1. Mrs T.O4/11/2014

      I agree with you, i use to have pimples and acne on my face till an elderly woman recommended water for me. this is the procedure..... when u wake up in the morning before brushing yr teeth, drink 3 glasses of water or 2 sachets of pure water. I assure u, if u do it consistently for a month, u ll see the difference, As for good guys coming, I hope u are also good cos like attracts like. gone are the days when good guys marry bad girl's except the lady repents and serves the lord in truth and in spirit or they hook the guys with pregnancy.....so dear make urself good, know God, serve him and he ll make u glad. I hope u also have a source of income or in school. Be ready in all ramifications

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  2. It has nothing to do with physical or spiritual. Everything has its time. you are only 23 you still have your life ahead of you. some people have worse conditions and they are married. There is no one that wont find love or atleast that wont be attractive to another.
    If you have reached your 40s and you haven't been approached by any man, then you know its spiritual. please do not pressure yourself, you are still at a good age. Bleaching will not solve it, you have to love yourself before you look for love, confidence is the best attraction. I do hope this helps.

    God bless

    www.Infashionrehab.com

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  3. First of all, u said u are 23, that's cool, am single and searching I will be 25 dis year, jus do as u hav been told, u pimple will leave u ok! Here is my number 08086597033 pls text me. I will do the calling ok! Am real am not fake. Expecting ur text.

    Am the owner of www.reportnaija.com n www.reportmusic.net

    Cheerio

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  4. Anonymous4/06/2014

    my dear u are 2 young to be thinking in dat direction o. Just b urself, love urself. Luk gd at ur best if u can. Be friendly. Also love pple. Nw remember dnt allow anyone to belittle u. Dnt gv in to self pity or low esteem. Dnt fall 4 premarital sex . Be prayerful. Trust God. Join ur religious group. Tk kia of ur body.u wil meet him. Ok.

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  5. mirabel4/06/2014

    Nothing is wrong with u.bleaching won't solve ur problem young lady jus kip praying 4d ryt man to locate u.as 4 ur face buy papaya cleanser nd neo medrol,apply 2wice a day in a circular motion.thank mi l8r.

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    1. Anonymous4/06/2014

      pls i had dark patches on my face. Due to a cream i use wat wil i do?

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    2. Fyn Ijebu Chic4/07/2014

      If ur skin is as sensitive as mine, pls avoid neo-medrol
      It leaves sensitive skin dry and gives patches somewhat..
      But it does work. Na d after effect be wahala!

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  6. Fyn Ijebu Chic4/07/2014

    My dear, it is what you feel about yourself that people will see first oo, nt ur pimples or spot or what av u,
    You are lucky to be dark ooo, I wish I was born dark sef but now I am contented with my complexion.
    If you see me before ehn, my acne case in my teenage years was terrible, even dermatologist tire for me...
    I had boil-like pimples and cos I was fair, they are always red in colour
    But I later sat myself down, studied my body and now acne is a thing of the past for me oo
    Btw, I met a good and God-fearing man when I still had acne and together we overcame it. He was the one who even tells me d diFferences between d pimples.
    Niwez, u can try apricot scrub soap with clear and clean cleanser. Notice when this pimples becomes worse-before/after periods and always take plenty water.
    Check previous post for facial routine
    It is well

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  7. Anonymous4/07/2014

    Sister mi! I am 11yrs older than u and I ain't dead or thinking its spiritual that I'm single. Most of my aburos(younger ones) are married some with kids sef. My dear no one even blivs my age! Which I could give u a friend's number. He wants a babe! Take easy my darling nothing is wrong b4 u will fall into a wrong man's hand. God bless u.

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    1. Anonymous4/07/2014

      *wish I could I mean......

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    2. POSTER4/07/2014

      Ur so funny but helpful. Thanks a bunch. I love dis blog. God bless u.

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  8. Anonymous4/07/2014

    my dear i was once like you never had any befitting relationship at a point i channeled my energy elsewhere. i'm 26 with a Msc i bagged at age 24, when job didnt come i went ahead to learn handcraft, now i bake and i make jewewlleries and i won't stop at learning new things.. you're still very young. Love would come knocking at the right time, you can use this time to learn about God more and most importantly like someone said, Love yourself. ... my 2 cents

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    1. POSTER4/07/2014

      Ohhhhh!!!! Thanks! Wish I cud knw u outside dis blog!!! Thanks a bunch. God bless.

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    2. Anonymous4/08/2014

      oh yes you can.. just put your email add here and i'll contact you

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  9. Anonymous4/07/2014

    My dear don't see urself dt way.I am 36 just got engaged and will be getting married later in the year.U see d age difference btw u and I? so don't give urself unnecessary heat. Sometimes u feel concerned I know bt u r still young. Ur time will come and very soon too by God's grace. Inspite of my age and pressure I refused to give in to premarital sex. Please ensure u keep urself cos sex doesn't guarantee a relationship will lead to marriage. May God give u a wonderful man soon.

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    1. Anonymous4/07/2014

      100 likes!

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    2. POSTER4/07/2014

      Thanks! Wish u too all d best sister. May u hav a blessed marriage. Amen

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    3. Anonymous4/08/2014

      gbam!!!

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  10. Sweetheart you don't want to get tangled in a relationship now,
    First your living in depression and discontentment for yourself and skin, so it's 100% possible that you'll fall for any guy that comes your way and you'll do anything to keep him......I know it won't be so easy but start with Loving yourself, love those pimples and start taking care of yourself for yourself.....Find something that gives you joy and always believe that YOUR THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GURL ON THE FACE OF THE EARTH.........No body wants a sad depressed girlfriend or WIFE.......don't try to bleach your skin, remember your AMAZING just the way you are.
    The Beautiful Eagle's Blog

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  11. POSTER4/07/2014

    Thank u all very much,first to EYA 4 deemin it fit to post my issue. Most especially,to my sisters and mothers here 4 ur luv thru ur advises. May God bless u so much. I luv u n i am d most beautiful girl on earth.#smiling#

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  12. Anonymous4/07/2014

    U r welcome. My dear frnds how can l treat heat rash that is all over my body

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    1. Anonymous4/07/2014

      buy villiage fresh ghana black soap. And sudocream or prickly heat *powder.

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  13. Poster, your questions has been answered. Pls we are Nigerians and with this ur age, u shdnt even write EYA, me sef wey senior u would still put a little respect & lots of us on this blog do too. Sorry dearie if i sounded a little blunt.:-)

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    1. Anonymous4/08/2014

      Shut up just because she wrote Eya does not mean she doesn't respect her ode

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    2. Anonymous4/08/2014

      Anon 10.55am dnt mind her,for d fact she mentioned Eya does nt mean she has not respect for her. Na wa for una oh... Nigerians with their eye service

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    3. Anonymous4/08/2014

      *no*

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    4. Anonymous4/08/2014

      respect does not come with title madam Temmy... ever heard of polite insult before????

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    5. anonymous4/08/2014

      Am very sorry AUNTY temmy. D last time I checked,I emailed Eya n she posted it. Meaning she approves of it so whatz ur problem? Am sure ur siblings cnt relate well wit u cos of u ova sabi nature.

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    6. Anonymous4/09/2014

      Ok..Temmy meant bcos poster is 23, she should write "AUNTY EYA" rather than "EYA". Haba Temmy! If Eya isn't complaining, who d hell are you to complain?..

      It Jst shows d kind of person u are..a hypocrite/oversabi. People like you find it hard to relate wt younger ones because u'll be robbing off ur "so-called" age on dem jst to intimidate them(which obviously shows how inferior u are). pls step up ur self-esteem.

      This is a decent blog please. The poster politely asked for answers to her question and u're here sacrificing her!!..HOW INSENSITIVE!. D way she addressed Eya doesn't mean she lacks respect. Abegi be real..people like u end up doing d worst things...mtcheeww!

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  14. She is old enough to write. I got married @ 25. Started dating @ 21. So what are u taking about... Pple get married @ 23 sef. Even lesser...

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    1. Anonymous4/08/2014

      Yes, we know people get married early. But the point commenters are trying to make is that she need not be worried at this point because time is still on her side. If to say she talk 38 now, ehen, we for say make she begin fast and pray. Get it?

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  16. Anonymous4/08/2014

    @ temmy, blunt my foot. this is not your house! this is an official blog. writing Eya is not a big deal at all, you need to wisen up.

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  17. Anonymous4/09/2014

    AUNTY Temmy, abeg take am easy o! Aunty ko, aunty ni?

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  18. Anonymous4/10/2014

    Lol! U guys plus take it easy on aunt temmy

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