How To Conceive A Baby Boy

Hello aunt Eya
My name is  ....... . Pls hide my id.
I have been reading your blog for sometime now though am the quiet type so I don't comment often. I am a mother of 3 beautiful girls and am trying for a baby boy. I have problems with my husband like almost all the time because this issue and even other isssues but the main one giving me serious problem is having a baby boy. I told him that children are gifts from God but he said I just sit there while my mates give birth to baby boys.
Congrats on your bouncing baby boy and I also tap on your blessings.
Also my husband drinks alcohol every night( I know about that) and he smokes too( though he hides this from me) could that be one of the the problem? Please I need help I have done everything( billings and scanning) am considering ivf but my husband said he does not have enough funds for that. Help pls because am always feeling he might get someone else pregnant since am not able to provide him with a son. Please Eya if u did anything to have your baby boy pls help a fellow woman . Pls if there is any other way someone should please help me. Thanks.

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  1. Anonymous3/22/2014

    hmm,na wa o.May God grant you your heart desire...God please hear my cry too,boy or girl,gimmie anyone.amen...

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    1. Anonymous3/23/2014

      AMEN!!! Me too!

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    2. Anonymous3/24/2014

      AMEN AND ME TOO,TTC IS DRAINING!!!

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    3. Anonymous3/25/2014

      Amen, the Good Lord the Giver of children will grant you your heart's desires. Just locate and keep confessing the word of God about children, it will surely manifest in your lives. He is the Unchanging Changer. Don't feel drained pls.

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    4. Anonymous3/25/2014

      Amen, the Good Lord the Giver of children will grant you your heart's desires. Just locate and keep confessing the word of God about children, it will surely manifest in your lives. He is the Unchanging Changer. Don't feel drained pls.

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  2. My dear children are indeed gifts frm God,but I recomend dat u calculate acurately wit d help of a doctor or a nurse ur acurate date of Ovulation, if u meet wit ur husband on ur Ovulation period d chances of a male child is higher, this is becos d male sperm cells are weaker in life span but faster in movement so if done on d Ovulation day d male sperm cell reaches d Ovaries first n fertilize it b4 any female sperm cell gets there,in oderwords d female sperm cell has a longer live span but swims slowly is is why when u meet wit ur man on an odinary period d male sperm cells may have died b4 reaching d Ovaries,but d female sperm cells cud still be alive until ur fertile period n now maybe no male cell in d system which creates d chance 4 d female 2b fertilized. As 4 his drinking and spoking,yes men who do that has a similar charcteristics,just converse wit him on how it displeases u but in a cool n gentle manner,do dis once in awhile don't nag about it, wit time he will change,and don't 4get 2 put all in prayers

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  3. Y is it always difficult for men to understand that they carry the (I dnt knw what its called) to give a woman a baby boy or whatever sex. The women carry the xx chromosomes and men the xy and if a woman doesn't conceive a boy,its entirely the man's fault cos he is supposed to send in the y(male) chromosome to get a male child. Sweetie if you husbannd will agree, go see a gynaecologist together.it is well.

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  4. Anonymous3/23/2014

    I'm just tired of the stories I read on here about how men disrespect women, God help us!

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  5. Your husband is stupid. It's him that isn't producing the chromosome to produce a boy. You have nothing to do with it. There are so many women in the world that just want a child (wether boy or girl), and your husband is there complaining. He should thank God for what he has. God gives us children and it He that controls what he gives. Be thankful for the beautiful children you have.

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  6. Aunty Eya,congrats o.

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  7. •Omalicha•3/23/2014

    Your husband has been unable to provide you with a male child! He is the one carrying the "Y" chromosome and not you.is that too difficult for him to understand? Pls tell him to give you a male child, its not the other way round. And female children are as important as male children! Obama has two girls Deinde fernandez has two girls. Be contented with what you have been blessed with, be happy. If its about who will continue the family name, a successful man, , dosent need a son to continue his name.his name will always be known. I dont know who Dora Akunyili's husband is...but I will always know her!

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  8. My dear na who wear shoes know where e dey pain am pass. I'm in same boat as you. My lovely girl tru c-section who d devil almost took away wen my placenta abruptured came. I give God glory for that. Now I have ltd no of babies to have duo to dat. Which means I v to time cos I see it in my husband's eyes that he wants a male child off cos every man wants someone he can teach how to be strong, play soccer with, bear his name @ d end and replace him when he is gone. Meet a gyno, go through the internet 2 find out ways to help ursel. Find out foods to eat and wat not to eat around ur ovulation period. Pin point ur ovulation day if u can, have sex on or 12hrs after ur ovulation if possible shallow or doggy prenitation sorry about my lang. Eat salty foods around dat time cos salty vaginal favour y chromo more. Above all my dear pray well na God hand everytin dey. I'm not a doc but I do research a lot which help me concived. then all I wanted was a child anyone.

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  9. Pls first u need to no that it isn't ur fault that ur having female children oh my tips are just to help u. ur husband is being unreasonable and not mature for saying dos hurtful words to u as a woman should never be abused wen it comes to fertility. I waited for two yrs b4 my girl came. Then all I wanted was a child.

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  10. Anonymous3/23/2014

    congratulations aunty eya. May he b a blessing to ur family.

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  11. Anonymous3/23/2014

    I feel so bad when I hear stories lyk this. Madam I so feel for you. Pray to God to bless you with a male child, and if he doesn't, he has a reason.

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  12. Anonymous3/23/2014

    I feel so bad when I hear stories lyk this. Madam I so feel for you. Pray to God to bless you with a male child, and if he doesn't, he has a reason.

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  13. Anonymous3/23/2014

    I feel so bad when I hear stories lyk this. Madam I feel so sorry for you. Pray to God to bless you with a male child, and if he doesn't, he has a reason.

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  14. Cutest3/23/2014

    His mate are there producing Y chromosome, he sits there nagging his wife. There are a million and one families looking for half of what he has and he is there complaining. Tell that husband of urs not to get God angry oooooo.

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  15. Anonymous3/23/2014

    Wht a world my friend is crying seriously for a female child

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  16. Dear poster, I tried twice to a male child but gave birth to my lovely girls. It's six years since my last girl to tell you we had closed that baby making chapter.
    If you follow this blog, you'll know I didn't plan for this baby, it just happened the way God wanted and when I later discovered I was pregnant? I won't lie to you, it wasn't fun, it was unexpected but God knows better.
    If you can, read baby sex selection on billings method. It might help. Let God's will be done because every child is a special gift from God. I wish your husband wd show appreciation to God for what he already has. It's those girls that we remember him when he is old and feeble.
    I didn't even know my LMP this time around. Ultrasound was used to fix my EDD.
    I pray the creator himself will surprise you and other families waiting on him with what is best for you. Amen.

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    1. You can also play with the Chinese gender selection chart at BABY CENTER. It worked for some people I know.

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    2. I married 2yrs a ago and hubby wanted a boy as 1st issue and we used Billings method it works for us. Pls if u r using it u have to involve ur hubby. During my time my hubby was caculating it for me. So try to carry ur hubby along bcos u can't do it alone. Congrats Eya

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  17. Anonymous3/23/2014

    Pele my sister. it took me a whole year trying for a baby and now my God has finally answer my prayer. I'll be due in 3- 4 months. he keep wagging his tongue ' u must give me a boy as my first child, I must have boys at all cost." if he makes me uncomfortable a bit if I happens to deliver a girl I go show him mofo. all am trying to tell u is don't stress or worry yourself alot if not u'll keep having girls. pray and pray a lot , and also use whatever method they said u should use( to me prayer is the ultimate). take eya for example she was not even planning to have babies anymore after 4 girls but that was when a boy came. take it easy and don't even give your husbnd the impression that his boy baby boys issue is bordering u if so he will frustrate u more. remember men easily take advantage of your weak point and weakness in general.

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  18. khloe13/24/2014

    Men ehh.....na wa oooo!!my own is that I already have a boy ooo, one that I almost died giving birth to, but he wanted another one because one boy was not enough. You should have seen him when I was in and out of the hospital then, crying and behaving as if he would die if I didn't get better, even telling me point blank in front of my parents that my 3rd child was the last we were going to have!! I oaf in the face of danger!!! Anyway when he turned three and I got tired of hearing "sososo and so have four children, why can't we av one more boy, ur strong abi?" Or "this person has given birth oooo baby boy" or when I tell him my period has come he will say " why now what is happening?" I decided to try again. I'm not much of the praying type (but he is) so I went my normal route of drs, hsg, Clomid, etc and now I'm pregnant. This preg is not as difficult as the last one but I always blow any symptom I av out of proportion so he will know it is not easy. I'm really tired of men, marriage, the whole shebang. Just hanging in for my children. Trying to be the dutiful wife so he can provide adequately for them. But I really hate my life. Feel like I'm about to explode sometimes. Sorry for the rambling but I'm just soo fed up and frustrated *sigh*. Pls poster do your best and leave the rest. Men are not worth it Jared.

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    1. Sweetheart try to relax at least for your kids.
      Men are not worth it when you look up to them. But when you look up to God (which I strongly advice), He alone will help you see the man as He (God) sees him and only then will he be worth it.
      This is one of the reasons some women divorce even after 20 years of marriage, they hung in just for their kids. But instead of this years of personal torment (which he might not even notice), why not seek a solution if one isn't coming voluntarily .
      If DV is involved abeg seek for the solution from outside. Life is first

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    2. Anonymous3/25/2014

      Yes, take it easy. Sounds just like mine. I have one son and 3 girls. I'd finished with d matter, happy with my God. Only for him to start complaining dat my son is acting too girlish, always crying etc.and needs a brother. Mil too started giving hints about another boy... I refused initially cos I was just getting over the stage of taking care of toddlers and trying to do something with my life. Someone now said that i shouldn't deprive him o, since he really wants it and he continued to drop playful hints about how im not cooperating. I decided to try again just to make him happy (the things we do) but asked him what if it's a girl, and he said forget about that side, just remove the contraceptive 1st. I did and I took in when my last was 5. It ended in a nasty miscarriage few months after, I was so shaken cos I've never had one before. I didn't go back to replace my iud cos I was tired of all the gross stuff....So I took in again the next year and hubby was like "ah! didn't u replace the contraceptive?" I was in shock. He was the one disturbing for another child and never told me he was no more interested. I was just so tired. Well I have done like 3 scans and dey said it's a girl. Haha.. He bought d baby stuff when travelled recently and am just keeping myself happy till I give birth to my child. It has been so hard cos my last is 7 so I don't know if the body is tired or the gap was much or what, can't wait to deliver abeg. Sorry for the blabbing pls.

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    3. Anonymous3/25/2014

      Yes, take it easy. Sounds just like mine. I have one son and 3 girls. I'd finished with d matter, happy with my God. Only for him to start complaining dat my son is acting too girlish, always crying etc.and needs a brother. Mil too started giving hints about another boy... I refused initially cos I was just getting over the stage of taking care of toddlers and trying to do something with my life. Someone now said that i shouldn't deprive him o, since he really wants it and he continued to drop playful hints about how im not cooperating. I decided to try again just to make him happy (the things we do) but asked him what if it's a girl, and he said forget about that side, just remove the contraceptive 1st. I did and I took in when my last was 5. It ended in a nasty miscarriage few months after, I was so shaken cos I've never had one before. I didn't go back to replace my iud cos I was tired of all the gross stuff....So I took in again the next year and hubby was like "ah! didn't u replace the contraceptive?" I was in shock. He was the one disturbing for another child and never told me he was no more interested. I was just so tired. Well I have done like 3 scans and dey said it's a girl. Haha.. He bought d baby stuff when travelled recently and am just keeping myself happy till I give birth to my child. It has been so hard cos my last is 7 so I don't know if the body is tired or the gap was much or what, can't wait to deliver abeg. Sorry for the blabbing pls.

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  19. khloe13/24/2014

    *laf in the face of danger!!! And men are not worth it jare!!!!!
    Trying to correct the typos

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  20. Anonymous3/24/2014

    First of all, see a Gyno asap; someone who's experienced in baby selection. Your hubby's sperm can be tested to know if he's capable of producing male children though that can only be done by a fertility doctor. Just see a Gyno first and I'm sure you will get all the info you need.

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  21. Relax dear Poster. God's time is the best! Always!
    Most people don't have even one child and are seriously praying for any(boy or girl)
    Focus on being positive and take care of your female kids and teach them to be model citizens.
    Pray!Pray!Pray! God never fails.

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  22. Congrats on your baby Aunty Eya. May he bring joy to your home. Amen

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  23. Anonymous3/24/2014

    AM DAMN SURE U GUYS R FRM ANAMMBRA STATE.

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    1. Anonymous3/29/2014

      No you are not fool.

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  24. Dear Poster. I rejoice with you coz your dream must come to pass.
    Maybe your husband is not knowledgeable enough to know that it lies with him to produce a male or female child.
    As much as we're believing God, you should equally do your part as a God ambassador.
    Some men have chromosome abnormality whereby either X or Y is missing. Do get him to check with a doctor and if everything is fine then equip yourself by reading free articles online like this one am just reading now http://sandydeanarticles.com/

    Then use this predictor http://www.chinesegenderchart.info/gender-selection.php

    Make sure to have your faith built up

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    1. http://conceive-a-boy-baby.com/

      You can go to any good pharmacy store and ask of Carrot-top Ovulation kit.
      I did buy the pregnancy kit for 250naira so it should be within that range.

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    2. Poster its #1,700. Check their site http://www.carrottop-ng.com/products/fertility-products-for-her/predicte-ovulation-test.html?virtuemart_product_id=81&virtuemart_category_id=12

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  25. Anonymous3/26/2014

    Plsss dat chinese calendar dosent work.It failed me twice.plss visit a gynae 2 track wen ur ovulation.Doggy style is d best position 4 baby boys cos of d deep penetration,reduce d acidity of ur vajayjay wit vinegar,hubby shd eat more banana.Buy ovulation test kit and meet ur hubby 12hrs after ovulation.Dats hw I got my twins boys.Though I took clomid. Chizzy

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  26. Anonymous3/26/2014

    Sorry 4 d typos. *ovulating* chizzy

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  27. Anonymous3/26/2014

    Chizzy,hw did u take d clomid? Is it a doc dat prescibed it 4 u?

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  28. Hatstruck3/28/2014

    He he he. All of you stressing the man is responsible for baby's sex cos he has the Y chromosome, I have a Food for thought. Consider this argument from a Professor of medicine - At ejaculation, millions of sperm cells, both X & Y chromosomes are released for fertilization, it's up to the woman's body to decide if X or Y does the job. He said if you keep conceiving girls, another woman elsewhere with the same exact cycle as you, receives the same Semen and conceives a boy, so what are we talking about?

    I'm praying for twin boys... Charting my ovulation failed me twice. I'll probably use the vinegar and doggy mentioned by chizzy. May God Almighty bless the desires of our heart.

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  29. Anonymous3/28/2014

    Pls chizzy wat is clomid? Throw more light abeg.

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    1. Clomid is a fertility drug.but u av to b careful wit d usage Ω̴̩̩̩̥ dosage so dat u won't go Ω̴̩̩̩̥ give birth to twin, tripplet, quadruplet etc

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  30. Anonymous4/08/2014

    Another natural way I've observed is not making love with hubby too often if u want to try for a boy. It makes the sperm thick and strong. My hubby travels a lot and I have 3 boys to show for it. I actually thought of trying for a girl but I've just decided am done. God has blessed me with what a lot of people are looking for. I've stopped complaining about not having a girl and accepted dats how wants it. Hubby doesn't have any problem if I want to try again. According to him' its up to me'.

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  31. Anonymous4/19/2014

    Anon 6.52,ur right on point,if ur trying 4 a baby boy,plsssss meet ur hubby only on ur ovulation day and dnt hv frequent sex. Clomid is a fertility drug dat makes u prone 2 having twins.A friend of mine dat had twins told me abt it and I took it and it worked 4 me.i had 2 CS wit my 2 girls so I didn't wnt 2 go 4 a fourth pregnancy. U take it on d third day of ur menses. But Google it u wil get more info.it doesn't fail.Good luck pple.Chizzy.

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  32. Anonymous11/10/2015

    Chizzy, thanks for sharing

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