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The Day After Valentine, How Did It Go?

Would you like to share? For me, I was  home all day with my big belle. In the morning, at a point it felt like no parcel was forth coming and I had to ask o. Yes, I know we shouldn't ask , gifts should come from the heart but you know men na, sometimes they don't even remember some things and if you don't express yourself to them, anger and vexation will silently kill you while they have no idea what you are thinking. So, me, I jejely ask oga at the top " Where is my valentine's Day Present?" 

Later in the evening I got a small present sha, To God be the glory:
Oh well,  I don't know if my asking triggered the buying of that gift but I no send lo. I wish I remembered to get him a gift too. Next time I won't forget. He understands that I don't go out much these days, maybe, that's why I wasn't yabbed for asking when I didn't present anything.

Well done! to all  who remembered to get gifts for their loved ones, it's a good habit, keep it up. By God's grace, next valentine, I won't fall your hand. I'll get something ahead of time.

For
those who gave without getting anything, let it go! It is not like a "give me I give you kind of thing" 
There is always a next time and I hope no one fought or broke up engagements because they were not given gifts? If you are guilty, then that's childish. 

For those who found time to share with the less privileged, God bless you real good. I couldn't go out but thank God my kids School visited some orphanages so it afforded us the opportunity to send food items through the School.

If your gift wasn't appreciated, don't let it give you High blood pressure OK? 
If your loved one refused to take you out and went out with the boys instead, take heart and go out with the girls today when he is at home Lolz

How did it go for you?

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  1. Valentine was very boring!


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  2. Anonymous2/15/2014

    I'm sure everyone else had a better val's day than I did. We had agreed to go out for chinese, and go clubbing. We dressed up, then I slept off as he was on a call. Woke up this morning, end of story. Today is my Valentine's day. Lol

    No gifts, none expected.

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  3. Anonymous2/15/2014

    Bought myself a big bowl of ice cream and cake (very big one) that I had to call friends to join me, cos he choose val day to travel and service his car... Anywayz I had a great thing and I made myself a very delicious plate of coconut rice and finished all so that he won't have a taste of it when he comes back today... val was so val... lol

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    1. Anonymous2/16/2014

      Hmmm sweetie where did he travel to and for what? .. Hope he didn't go to see someone else. Please make some investigations and save urself some heartbreak in d future. Glad u spoilt urself and had fun.

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  4. Anonymous2/15/2014

    Bought myself a big bowl of ice cream and cake (very big one) that I had to call friends to join me, cos he choose val day to travel and service his car... Anywayz I had a great thing and I made myself a very delicious plate of coconut rice and finished all so that he won't have a taste of it when he comes back today... val was so val... lol

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  5. Anonymous2/15/2014

    It was ok I got a perfume gift set and dinner from my husband. The whole week was topsy turvy for us bc I felt he didnt go out of his way to make it special but it turned out ok for us

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  6. Mine was quite intimate and creative with the hubby :). candles, roses, good food etc :D

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  7. My family val's gift is d greatest. A BOUNCING BABY BOY 4rm baba God to me nd hubby yesterday!

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    1. Yaaaaaaay, Lindy congrats

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    2. Anonymous2/15/2014

      Congrats Lindy

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    3. Congrats Lindy. Welcome baby valentine.

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    4. Congrats Lindy.
      Baby Valentino is welcome!!!

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    5. congrats dear...

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    6. Na ur own sure pass oo! Congrats dearly!

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  8. Anonymous2/15/2014

    I got perfumes from my husband. Didn't give him a gift cos we usually take turns 2buy every year. By Gods grace next year it will be my turn to get him a gift. Been trying for another baby and thought I'd give him a positive test result. But LOL mother nature decided to bless me with AF

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  9. Anonymous2/15/2014

    Congrats Lindy. You win, hands down!

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  10. I woke up to find myval gift at d edge of our bed, I think he left it there just b4 he left for work. It was 2 sets of beautiful bra n pants all in my size and I couldn't believe it. I was surprised bcoz years ago we had a conversation about men buying underwear for ladies n his opinion was he can't be seen in d ladies underwear section in d shops and can't buy ladies underwear full stop.
    We later dropped d kids at their grandparents house to spend d night. Then he took me to a club as it was a special val old school night (black and red was d dress code) and I danced and had so much fun.
    We got back at 5am and I woke up 2hrs ago. I'm in pain all over from dancing and........

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  11. Anonymous2/15/2014

    @ lindy congrats.spent mine Ŵi̶̲̅τ ...M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ hubby Ąπϑ our girls..Ħ̀ε̅ confessed that .Ħ̀ε̅ doesn't know what to buy S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ i collected the money from him =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))to help myself .EPHY

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    1. Awesome Mum2/16/2014

      Awwww Lizz that was fun. Massage your body wella.

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  12. Couple's dinner was great. Couldn't have asked for anything better.

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  13. Anonymous2/15/2014

    pls WC connection how can I make payment on aliexpress without no issue bCOs my account officer advice me not to pay thru internet.

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    1. Anonymous2/16/2014

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    1. Kikikikikikikikikikiki, lwkmd. Happy Val

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  15. Anonymous2/16/2014

    I woke up to see a btiful cake by d bedside,then later at night,he tuk me out to a comedy show with 2 of his frnds n their wives,it was fun,I cldnt stay long bcos of baby but I expressed enof breast milk for him,still mind no gree me stay too long,it was quite memorable,mrs m

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  16. Fyn Ijebu Chic2/16/2014

    Day after val was .......
    Went about my business only for my brother to call dat I av a guest... It was my fiance.
    Such a sweet surprise.
    We cooked, ate, discussed and I asked for my gift...he hasn't gotten it because he wasn't chanced but I know what it will be.
    Then we went to ss for sweet scoop, cupcakes and pie.
    And i got a promise of he taking me to domino as soon as he is chanced!
    Thank God for my tribe, to be smart aint easy. Who says u can't make an unromantic man romantic?
    If he truly loves you, he'll try to make you happy always.
    I think I had too much to eat, I feel sick.
    Next year val by His grace will be better!!!

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  17. Anonymous2/16/2014

    My hubby askd me to prepare for morning mass,afta the mass he drove to a hotel whr he has already booked for. It was grt fun spending the val outside home.

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  18. I took my wife nd son to one of the top class hotel in town for a night bt earlier we went for mrnning mass. My wif dd for a stop ovr on our way nd she got into a boutique came out wt my most cherisd inner wears. I had to go the extra miles to make her happy

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  19. Anonymous2/16/2014

    I spent it with m friends, it was really fun. We had an evening outing. http://bit.ly/1jrovi8

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  20. Anonymous2/16/2014

    i was home all day with the kids, oga came late, had to do some chores, we were all dressed, waiting, took us out first to chinese but the crowd plus by force buffet drove us to an eatery, where it was more crowded, with little kids all over the place dressed in red, ruined it for me, (even though i carry my kids go too)but val is for lovers na,not family gathering with kids dressed in red. anyway i bought gifts with my last card and got a "your gift is on the way" in return. something to look forward to i guess

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    1. Hehe, continue looking forward, till next Valentine

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  21. Anonymous2/16/2014

    Day after val wasn't nice for me. LOL. We had a huge misunderstanding. But vals day was great tho. Got amazing gifts for each other. Went out, whispered sweet nothings to each other. It was fun. We've settled sha :D

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  22. Val came and went. I just went shopping and spoilt myself. Hubby went for a funeral. I was pissed but whatever.

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  23. Anonymous2/16/2014

    Eya, we are I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ same level, my big belle cldnt allow me enjoy my val, countin dwn to two mnths, hubby noticed my frown later called from office around 5pm to meet I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ a supermrk, he was like I shld pick watever I want, just tuk few things, didn't buy any for him Õoooº°˚ ˚°º, cos all dis yrs Ђ̥̊α̲̅√ bin d one buyin. So I said no let him also be d man. My waist pains, my legs can't walk well, pregnancy not easy, third child sha. Cnt wait for my delivery day, to be free.

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  24. The kind of pressure the day - 14th february - has put on relationships is alarming! Arguments, accusations and counter - accusations, suspicions etc abound on that day. Someone said her boo traveled on that day and already, another person is suspecting he might not have really traveled!
    People now use only that one day to measure what their partners feel for them. Others compare the gifts they got with what they were expecting or what their friends got.
    I think 14th February is causing more harm than good oo. My opinion.

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    1. Anonymous2/17/2014

      I concur!!!!!!!!

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    2. Anonymous2/20/2014

      I agree! It's nice to celebrate Valentine's Day but should NOT be used to measure the value of your relationship.

      Blessings!

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  25. Anonymous2/17/2014

    Gbam!@wivesroundtable so I thought too, infact was so tired vals day after work plus dealing with early Peggy and hubby booked a two table dinner for us and our family friends but all I needed that day was to eats a whole roasted fish and chips in the quiet of my home and rest it out, and that I got thank God hubby was understanding though he had to call and cancelled felt for him though but I cudnt help it.hope he doesn't take it to heart God help me lo, I mean we can always share those luvly moments any day and time it doesn't have to be on vals day joor...

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  26. Hmm. Mine was fun o. I proposed a quiet night in oga no gree. Where are we we going he refused to say. Anyways we ended up at the same place where he proposed had a romantic dinner then went and saw a 6d movie.

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  27. Hmm. Mine was fun o. I proposed a quiet night in oga no gree. Where are we we going he refused to say. Anyways we ended up at the same place where he proposed had a romantic dinner then went and saw a 6d movie.

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  28. Oh I forgot to add he bought the dress and gave me to wear that day.

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  29. Anonymous2/18/2014

    Mine was fun,after work,he picked me up and we drove to d same place he proposed to me.I ate barbeque Fish and chipe wiv lot of drinks+when we got home,he got me a q10.

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