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Confused, Aunty Eya Please Post My Mail And Stop Hoarding It

Gudevenin aunty eya, pls as usual pls hide ma identity ma name is xxxxxx and am 22yrs old hv been in dis relationship for 4yrs and d man hs been vry amazing he always talks abt marriage but am d one stil holdn bck I jt need tinx to get fine,u knw wot I mean, financially. 

But recently ma relationship hs been crazy we quarrel virtually evryday we cn be dis sweet today n tomorrow we r quarreln n d tin is dat lil tinx dat doesn't even mata mks us quarrel, he loves me a lot n I love him am so scared of loosn him he hs changed ma life in so many ways he is ma best frnd if he leaves me pple wil mock me n I love him so much n nevr want to leave him, he tells me evrytin we recently quarrel and  he hsnt pickd ma calls for 2days hv called n calld he hs deleted me frm his bbm, twitter, fackbook whatsapp am scard he may say its over, he
hsnt said is over thou but I pray he doesn't say it, wantd to go n see him but bcos of ma job I cnt go in d morning n I dnt knw if he wil be around in d afternoon dnt want to go dere in vain. Pls I need advice shuld I continue calln or go n see him?


Aunty eya pls post ma mail I really need help I cnt even sleep pls aunty eya
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  1. Anonymous2/04/2014

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    1. Anonymous2/04/2014

      Your story sounds like mine. Its 10days today that I haven't talked to my boyfriend. I am 22 too and we will be 4yrs by April. I am not bothered about what people will say, all I want is to be happy. So poster calm down. If you didn't do anything wrong and he doesn't want you anymore, move on.

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  2. Anonymous2/04/2014

    Please who else found this painful to read.....Aunty Eya darling i can see you are tired of editing. Lmao. *ok back to the issue at hand*
    Babe you are 22 years old. Move on. Heart break doesnt kill. Sorry for the tough love. Good luck.

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    1. Awesome Mum2/04/2014

      Me can't even read. Poster now you know why Eya didn't want to post in the first place cos from the title,it seems you pesterd her into posting. Belle no gree am edit. LMFAO

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    2. I can't read. This is plain laziness. Why not read and correct your mail before sending to Eya if you want it posted to the public??? Hian poster you nor try.

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    3. Anonymous2/04/2014

      Hard to read. Is this a text message or email???

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    4. Anonymous2/04/2014

      Bia poster, which school you go?

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  3. Anonymous2/04/2014

    My dear,such is life,but I want u to knw that the heart that loves one can still love another much more,if ur boy friend wants to brake up with u,fine let him go,he is not tied to ur destiny,don't force urself on him.the lord is ur strenght.

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  4. Not easy to leave a relationship, but I mean if you really love this man why not take the stress, get up earlier to see him before work. I said so because distance is not a barrier when it comes to matters of the heart. This avails the chances of his decision, pls if he says "he wants out" do oblige him and he would have a rethink.

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  5. @ poster, wetin u write? Hurts my head, tryin 2 undastand what u wrote. U r 22, still young so stop actin desperate. He deleted u 4rm all social media n u called him, no response. Move on 4get abt him n focus on more important things.

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    1. poster2/05/2014

      @candy am nt desperate, we are perfectly fine now, thanx all the same

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  6. Anonymous2/04/2014

    Dear Poster, it wasn't easy reading through your post (for one, I really don't know why people write "ma" instead of "my".

    Having got that over with, you are so young, you have your whole life ahead of you. Right now, you think you cannot live without him (I'm sure we all did at some point), but if you move on now, you'll forget about him sooner than you think. And, in the long run, you'll be happier you didn't waste too much time investing in a doomed relationship.

    To be honest, I don't know why you need him to spell it out to you. After he has deleted you on every social network available to him, I don't know why you need to see him. Please move on, cry a little, sulk a little, and get back to living your life. If he wants you, he'll come after you.

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  7. Anonymous2/04/2014

    Well I will excuse you cause you are just 22yrs old and like kiki said I find this very painful to read. What is your problem? You want to kill yourself cause of a man and you went ahead to say people will laugh at you. Well I guess that is what you are concerned about not the fact that you love him. My dear love is aa choice ok? Being heartbroken is also a choice. A man does not want you then move ON don't chase after a man cos you want to get married you are just 22. Its really annoying when i see young girls act like you. Better face your job or career what is for you will always come back to you. Good luck

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    1. poster2/05/2014

      I Do Love him very, and am nt desperate for marriage

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  8. I think it's mean asking you to forget about him. Besides, it's easier said than done. Go after him... Ask him what the problem is. If he says he wants to opt out, then indulge him.

    On another note, sometimes i wonder why God created relationship sef! It's sooooo stressful. It is well!

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  9. U all telling her to move on, do u realise its been four whole years? Probably the man she lost her Virginity to.Besides she said the cause of quarell wasn't a serious issue. Well all malam to their kettle, but if I may say go see him and iron things out with him and if he insist leave him, he can't just call it off over the phone like you don't matter. Also u sound desperate which is not good for any woman, yet so young. What will be, will be. On a second thought eeeeeeerrrrrhhhm poster, so u had a bf @ 18 yrs. Goodluck

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    1. Anonymous2/08/2014

      What is wrong with 18?
      Last time I checked an 18 yr old is an adult.

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  10. Anonymous2/04/2014

    Aunty Kemi no vex o abeg,tell me what's dere to iron out?what if he's d one she lost her virginity too?yea four years is a long time so does that mean she should continue to suffer herself in d relationship?pls poster it is not how far o but how well,a man deleted u frm all social network,refuse to take ur calls and u still advice her to go ahead and beg him,haba!! Is it not obvious dat d guy is tired of d relationship and wants to move on?babe if na for just annoyance alone ur guy will not go that far,am not saying it's going to be easy o but trust me u'll get over it.all d best

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  11. Anonymous2/04/2014

    Poster you do not know what you want neither do you love him. If you love him you will not be saying that he is not financially ok for marriage. C'mon this guy has been asking for your hand in marriage and you have been holding back. He is confused and does not know what you want. He may not even believe you love him. now that he has summoned up the courage to leave you, you want him to come back to you.

    Deleting you from all his social accounts may sound callous on his part but I think this guy is so in love with you that the only way he can deal with this is by deleting you from all these places so he does not see you. Pls let him go so that he can meet someone that is ready to settle down with him today.

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    1. poster2/05/2014

      Pls dnt misquote me I didn't say he is poor and I love my man sincerely, I just want a perfect and unique wedding pls. Which we are working on.

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  12. Anonymous2/04/2014

    Hi poster. Ur still very young to act so desperate. Believe me u wld live very well without him. Deleting u from all social media and not picking ur calls is rather extreme. I think its beyond the cause of d quarrel. He wants out so pls let him be. Yeah u wld cry n be sad for days, weeks and all but ud survive n move on. If he still wants u he'd be back if not, life goes on.

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  13. Anonymous2/04/2014

    There are three sides to every story. U didn't say exactly what caused the quarrel but for him to take such drastic steps, I suspect it's more serious than the usual esp wit how desperate u sound. Tey to clear the air sha and even if he wants to break up afterwards, that's not the end of life.

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  14. juliet2/04/2014

    all dis people here way d talk say she too young for dat na una spoil pass. My dear i understand ur pains bt just make out time and wake up early to see him and ask him why his actin like dat. Dis guy loves u so much bt pls ooo if u r not ready to marry him just kukuma find ur way nw and live d poor guy alone.

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    1. poster2/05/2014

      Juliet tnx a lot ur comment was what I really needed, God bless u so much for me. And ready to marry him over ready sef, he is the best any woman can think of o

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  15. Anonymous2/05/2014

    OMG!!?

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  16. Anonymous2/05/2014

    Anon 1.28am This is scam!!!!!!!!!! Oo┬║°˚ pls people face the Almighty God!! No matter how desperate u r

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  17. Fyn Ijebu Chic2/05/2014

    Hello Poster,
    I know how it feels to be brokenhearted.
    But the best way you can get over it is to become a better you.
    You can't love someone if you don't love yourself,
    And stop building your life around someone else's life
    Abeg, u r 22, u r young.
    You might feel you've given ur best to him but trust me, your best is yet to come.
    In d interim, learn how to communicate on paper. Haba, this ur english get plenty comma pass my own!

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