My Husband Always Accuses Me Of Cheating

Hi, i rily love ur blog. And i know its not good to cheat on one's
husband. But in my own case, i ve neva cheat on my husband but he
always acusing me of doing so.(He said i am beautiful and knows many
men will always run after me) And recently my neighbor dat used to
take my kids to school

is intrested in me and want me by all means.
(He's even a very close friend to my hubby)  He even said if i wont
give him a chance easily dat he will go out and get juju to use for
me. In such case, what do u advice me to do?

Comments

  1. Haba!! Pls stop givin men rum 2 talk rubish 2 u.its beta dey cal u mean dan 2 hv d rum n mind 2 b chykin u evn up 2 d xtnt of sayin juju. Mtchew wht rubbish. Pls clean up ur act

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    1. You and the poster write exactly the same. Thanks for punishing us.

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    2. Hahaha.....I thought I was d only 1 who noticed......was trying hard 2 understand wat dat x---- word meant.....hehehe

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    3. Anonymous10/31/2013

      Lol, Ivy Brown is a case fa. She can never disappoint.

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    4. Sorry oº° bad habit. Xtnt. Extent. Rily sorry...rotfl

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    5. Anonymous11/01/2013

      I don't blame ur hubby accusing u of cheating, u give men avenue by listening to them say they want to have an affair wit u. How can a married woman stay n listen to that extent. Smh 4 U! By d way find other means of taking ur kids school n stay away from men, no matter what!

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    6. If you give the devil an inch, he'll take a mile, better be careful. That man is very serious about using Juju on you cos nobody jokes about that. Stay the hell away from him and start praying if you haven't already

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  2. Are you a kid... u're obviously giving GREEN light to your neighbor and he's that bold to tell you rubbish. Severe every relationship with your neighbor and tell your hubby simultaneously.

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    1. Anonymous10/31/2013

      Exactly my thought since he knows u are married why is he still asking you out unless you where giving him d green light unknowingly 2u.

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  3. Am totally irritated right now.. He tells u about using juju to sleep with u and u still allow him drop your kids? Wetin wan even cause all dat kain friendship dat he will be telling you rubbish?.. My dear,u need to respect yourself and stay away from such people. Change your attitude completely and stop being friendlt with irresponsible people......can't even deal!

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  4. Anonymous10/31/2013

    @ poster, u were addressed by ur neighbour that way cos u do not have self respect. No wonder ur hubby dosent trust u. No man can jump out to say dat to a responsible woman

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    1. My thought exactly. Honestly, I can't even deal...

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  5. Anonymous10/31/2013

    Ur eye dey outside joor. If u no respect urself men go take u play ball

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  6. Anonymous10/31/2013

    Ur eye dey outside joor. If u no respect urself men go take u play ball

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  7. You need some counseling... They need to drop some coins into ya head!

    If you haven't given room for suspicion ur hubby won't be furious.

    For you "a married" woman to stand infront of another while he told you that crap show's you are a cheap wore! If you weren't you ought to have dished him a resounding HOT slap.

    But, you see... You wanted it, you contrived it, you augmented and fanned the embers of his romantic advances by simply watch him tell you all that.

    You have a case to answer with posterity.


    Lemme answer ur question.....
    "In such case, what do u advice me to do?"

    Give him missionary in the morning, blowjob
    at noon and doggy at night so he won't use the juju on you....


    MtcheeeeeeEeew!





    Nuff'Said....

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    1. Anonymous11/01/2013

      If there was like comment button here I will click like on ur comment.@poster tell us d real truth no man will b bold enough to tell a married woman such rubbish unless u made ur self Available.N I don't know y I'm up @dis time of the night.

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    2. Anonymous11/01/2013

      Ace o Ga ju...
      Madam poster na wa for u ooo, can't u look for another means for ur child to get to school?

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  8. Anonymous10/31/2013

    Poster! Dnt deceive us. Na u knw wetin una get. U just dey form innocent. No bastard has d gut to talk to a married woman like dat. No smoke without fire jare. Just repent and stp dat act!

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  9. @Ace Bentley, u'v made me laugh my tummy out! As in God bless u big... U hv said all I wld hv said... @poster,sleep and wake on dt!

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  10. Anonymous11/01/2013

    When he was saying all that rubbish why didn't u tell ur husband? I just tire for u,is like ur enjoying the talk of ur neighbor!

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  11. Anonymous11/01/2013

    Poster is just as foolish as her nrighbour.ur hub mudt v seen'whoreish' signsvfr him t v said dt.nonsense and ingredient

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  12. Anonymous11/01/2013

    Neighbour,must ,signs fr

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  13. Anonymous11/01/2013

    please aunty Eya and the rest of the family, I have a little clarification to make regarding my marriage. Let me put it this way; me and my husband made love on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday but we did not on wednesday. on thursday i came back from work very late and was in the kitchen for up to 11:30pm, i have a 5 month old baby that i need to interrupt my sleep for at night. i also have to wake up early like 5:00am to prepare for friday work, the above is the scenario. the main thing is that my hubby woke me up during sleep demanding for sex, which i told him i need to sleep that we are almost on weekend where he can have it anytime but he refuse telling me he needed it at that point in time, though he was begging me but i told him i would find it hard to fall back to sleep after the sex and if i dont relax well will have headache all through at work. thereafter he started saying all sort of things like you wont go to work the next day if i dont have my way with you, you have to be submissive to me, i am your head and you have to answer me anytime i call you, that is why i married you etc.... to cut a long story short, he forcefully have his way with me that night. please my good people where do i get it wrong.

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    1. Sorry. 4giv him. Evry1 has dt 1min of madness. Dnt escalate d issue jst talk it out. Sorry.

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    2. Anonymous11/01/2013

      U didn't go wrong, next time after sex when ur baby cries, wake ur hubby up to do d night duty. 2 ge 4.

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    3. Anonymous11/01/2013

      Lol..... Nxt time when u come late like dat, don't do everything alone,if u are in d kitchen,let him help out with d baby,he can also help out in d kitchen too,don't do everything alone. If e no come answer,just dey ring am for him ear say u no b robbot o,say make nobody wake u for anything called sex for night o,eh hhen...

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    4. Sorry darling forgive him, dat tin D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣γ̲̣̣̥ make dem crase, make sure u wake Him up tHrough ouT next week.

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  14. Anonymous11/01/2013

    na wa 4 men o. Ur baby is just 5mnths and wuldnt allow u to rest. Haba. Pls 4gv him.

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  15. Anonymous11/01/2013

    I agree with anon 1:03pm. Wake him up to do the duty. Jst forgive him

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  16. Anonymous11/01/2013

    men and sex. Haba. Just let him knw he should be assit u domestic wk and takn care of d baby.

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  17. @poster I swear U̶̲̥̅̊ need serious beating, just read ur mail again, hOw? Ur neighbor to U̶̲̥̅̊ married Woman , U̶̲̥̅̊ ve been flirting joor, A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ U̶̲̥̅̊ re Enjoying . Abegggi

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  18. Anonymous11/02/2013

    @ poster, poor poor husband of yours. Now I know why d guy(your hubby) has fears. My dear you no dey try at all. What did you come here for. For us to ask u to FCK your neighbour so he doesn't jazz u? Seriously babe you sit down with him and listen to such. A beg buzz off Jor. poor husband of your's. MTsheeeeeeeeeew.


    @2nd poster. Ah no be today my sister no be today. My own is usually well behaved after 'the act' so I use d opportunity to send him on all possible errands. Hehehehe. Find a way to do something like that. These men eh.

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  19. Dunno y every1 is condemning u cos u cud truly b innocent. Hav u given ur hubby any reason 2 doubt u. Try n talk 2 him to find out y he suspects u all the time n work on urself to reassure him of ur fidelity. As for ur neighbor he's a dog u shud hav cautioned him seriously 4 his improper behavior. Make other arrangements 4 ur kids n let ur hubby know wats goin on ASAP. Its well wit u n ur family

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  20. For the second poster ur husband raped u n yes husbands do rape der wives. Let cut all this forgive him crap cos he was being totally insensitive. So if it was @ d pt dat she jus gave birth n was stil bleeding won't he hav som self control or he wud look 4 another woman 2 sleep with? He crossed d line n needs 2b spoken to seriously. Women wake n stop being our own worst enemy.

    Speak to him n if he shows no remorse u may nid to involve som1 else like his elder Bro. Jus hop it doesn't get to that sha.

    Most of all ur not superwoman so involve him in d chores @ home esp as u hav a baby taking so much frm u during the nite. Remain blessed

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    1. I lol at Ur comment.. involve someone else abt bedroom matters? Wow.. U are so single.... He didn't rape her BTW....What he did was wrong and ahjould be talked to and then forgive him.... Next time,wake him up to help out.. Don't do it all alone... I have a small baby too,and I and hubby do routine duty... Baby is still on breast milk so when am done with my time,I express and put I'm the fridge,when its his time,he does the neccesary and feed the baby

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    2. Anonymous11/03/2013

      THANK YOU DIUTO! I was wondering why everyone was ignoring the fact that he raped her. YES husbands can rape their wives. what kind of bastard forces his wife to have sex with him? THe bible says to LOVE YOUR WIFE AS YOURSELF. can that man stand to have someone force him to have sex with them? so why force his wife? He is supposed to protect her and love her and the other commenters here are busy ignoring his act of violence, and to the commenter QUTIE, sorry, you don't need to be single to think its rape. I'm married and i know rape when i see it

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  21. Anonymous11/02/2013

    You could get pregnant after that rape then chores will double for you.

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  22. Anonymous11/03/2013

    Bizarre. So your husband is always accusing you of cheating and your neighbour is also interested in you at the same time? And you open up your letter with "..And i know its not good to cheat on one's
    husband." Hmmm. Something is very fishy, very very fishy.

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  23. Anonymous11/03/2013

    u pple did nt understand wat i am saying here. Even wen am single i dont double date. I ve promised myself dat no other man wil com btw my thigh. (I was disflowed by my husband)He only accused me of infedelity bcos he is a humanizer and he tot i wil also be doin wat he is doin.(he's becomin a changed person now o) i am a highly respected woman. My family and my neighbor's family ve becom a gud friends. (his wife do call me her second mum)I was shock to hear dat frm her husband, i ve cautioned him and promised to stop disturbing me. Bt i kno if i tell my husband, d story wil change cos he is a jealous type.

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    1. He married you a virgin and yet womanizes? Shame on you Nigerian men.

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  24. Anonymous11/04/2013

    Nor be by virgin oh, and i no its not all men who appreciate their virgin wife. Na prostitute dey marry men that are faithful

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  25. MY HEART IS FULL OF JOY I GIVE THANKS TO DR ANU WHO WIPE AWAY MY TEARS. I AM JASMINE FROM U.S COUNTRY OVER 6 MONTHS MY HUSBAND DROVE ME OUT OF HIS HOUSE/ I GOT MARRIED FOR 11 YEARS LIVING HAPPILY WITH MY HUSBAND, WITH 2KIDS BUT OF RESENT MY HUSBAND BEHAVIOR WAS CHANGE DOING WHAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND ALL MY THOUGHT WAS BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE MALE CHILD FOR HIM, WAS MAKING HIM TO BE PERFORMING STRANGE BEHAVIOR BECAUSE WE THOUGHT ABOUT THAT LONG TIME AGO, HE DROVE ME OUT OF HIS HOUSE SAYING THAT I CAN`T LIVE WITH HIM ANY MORE OVER 6 MONTHS . NOT KNOWING THAT THERE WAS A SPIRITUAL PROBLEM CAME UP IN MY MATRIMONIAL HOME THE SAME SPIRITUAL PROBLEM MAKE ME NOT TO HAVE A MALE CHILD FOR MY HUSBAND AND WANTED TO DESTROY MY FAMILY. ON A VERY FAITHFUL DAY I WAS READING ON BLOGGER AND I SAW A LOT OF TESTIMONY ABOUT DR ANU ON HOW HE WIPE OUT SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS AND RESTORE BROKEN MARRIAGE. AND I COPY THE EMAIL ON INTERNET AND EMAIL HIM HE ONLY ASK ME & MY HUSBAND DETAILS AFTER THAT ALL HE PROMISE WAS, MY HUSBAND WILL CALL ME BACK HOME. 2DAYS AFTER ALL DR SAID CAME TO PASS MY HUSBAND CALL ME BACK HOME WITH SMILING FACE I WAS SO SURPRISE, NOW MY HEART IS FULL OF JOY DR ANU RESTORE MY FAMILY NOW! WILL LOVE EACH OTHER MORE THAN EVER BEFORE. YOU OUT THERE YOU MITE ALSO NEED A HELP OR YOU ARE IN SERIOUS TROUBLE IN YOUR MATRIMONIAL HOME ALSO GET TO CONTACT HIM HIS EMAIL. anuspiritualhome@gmail.com

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