I Have A Friend From The United States, A Woman Of God…

Hello Eya, I have a  question for you, can I ask?
Well i will go on, i have a friend from the US, a woman of God and we love ourselves and I believe we will engage soon, she is by age older than me about a difference of
12yrs, and am ok with that seeing it’s for the fulfillment of my purpose as a minister, what can you say about it? Am in Nigeria.

22 thoughts on “I Have A Friend From The United States, A Woman Of God…”

  1. 12years older than you no be 12days. Anyway I'm sure u've madeup your mind already.
    So I'll suggest you follow your mind,by the grace of God you both can move the ministry to the permanent site.
    As for me 3 yearbor 4years gap is managable before I marry my mother's classmate.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  2. "it's for the fulfillment of my purpose as a minister"

    I'm sure that purpose is for you to move to US and live off her, abi?

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  3. God has d final say. AskGod and b open. Hp u are nt thinkn dis way 4 monetary reasons? If so then u want to use her to get wat u want. I cant marry a guy 2yrs younger. Na 1yr i fit manage.

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  4. I will say you should clearly tell your self the truth about what you truly want and need.

    Did God tell you marrying her will help you fulfill your ministry purpose or you FEEL so?
    Have you been or seen this woman physically? If No, Are you very willing to tolerate/accept WHATEVER baggage you may see after this marriage coz even two persons that dated in same city ang got married will still tell you some things were as tho concealed all thru dating/courtship years. This isn't to say that online unions doesn't thrive
    Would you have married her if she's Nigerian?
    Many questions to ask but I'll say this to you: No one on earth knows you like you. One of the signs of a +ve venture is Peace. If you have complete (unshakable) Peace of mind about his then God be with but if you're doing it for selfish reasons(greener pastures which is only but a mindset) then know that you'll bear the weight.
    God be with you Sir

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  5. How are we even sure this poster is a man/Male….4 all I know she can be a woman/Lady…..

    @poster, if you have d conviction in ur heart and if really you are a man of God, why ask us?????

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  6. Prince ken Emeka tell yourself the truth. If she is a Nigerian will you marry her? Inferiority complex. You forgot to mention she is a divorcee with kids! Onye ministry.

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  7. Ewo o..frenemies of Prince ken emeka are here ooooo.

    Issokie prince, @least I now know Ʊ r male…

    Mbok, are Ʊ a divorcee too????do Ʊ have kids???

    Mbok, Ʊ r free 2 do want Ʊ like but I believe that part of d bible that says a divorcee should remain single is still intact in your bible……if not, lemme lend Ʊ mine.

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  8. BEbe bEebee Ar u sayin dis is #lesbiantinz# bcos poster clearly said he's a man of God n d Woman is 12yrs older dan him And dt dey wld soon b engaged. #nawaoh# poster tAk am ezzy o. B4 d ministry runs away

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  9. For you to come throw this question to the house, it means you are in doubts about how this would work out based on the age…. Also i dont doubt you love her but am sure the end goal(fulfilment of being a minisiter and all that) is kind of a distraction of the age thing. I would advice you ask yourxelf some sincere question before you get married like can imarry a lady older than me that is not a minister? Have you ever dated an older lady?… If you are afraid that you dream as a minister wont come to pass then may i remind you that when God calls you, he gives you everything you need, go back to him and find out what his thoughts are on thismarriage, if this lady is a part of what God has called you to do, he will make it clear and if she is not he would always direct you,God has got you best interest at heart.

    Bride2mum blog coming soon!! Please follow @ bride2mum. Thanks

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  10. For you to come throw this question to the house, it means you are in doubts about how this would work out based on the age…. Also i dont doubt you love her but am sure the end goal(fulfilment of being a minisiter and all that) is kind of a distraction of the age thing. I would advice you ask yourxelf some sincere question before you get married like can imarry a lady older than me that is not a minister? Have you ever dated an older lady?… If you are afraid that you dream as a minister wont come to pass then may i remind you that when God calls you, he gives you everything you need, go back to him and find out what his thoughts are on thismarriage, if this lady is a part of what God has called you to do, he will make it clear and if she is not he would always direct you,God has got you best interest at heart.

    Bride2mum blog coming soon!! Please follow @ bride2mum. Thanks

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