Should I Tell My husband Or Continue To Deceive My Boss?

Good morning Aunty Eya, my name is **********, my husband lost his job two years ago and we have been managing on my little salary. I work in a private firm and we were very happy when last year my boss trippled my salary. This increment made life better for my family. 

Now I know there is a
price for the money, my boss won't let me go into his office and come out without hearing some ish words from him. He owns a Guesthouse somewhere here in Lagos and on Friday he invited me there for lunch but I didn't show up. I could not bring myself to tell my husband what is happening. But it's disturbing me.

Today is Friday and he is inviting me again. I don't know how to handle this. I need advice from WC. Should I tell my husband or just continue to deceive my boss?

Comments

  1. Johnson8/16/2013

    Tell your husband that you're under pressure from the office and put heads together on how to manage the situation.
    You also need to tell him to get something to do - 6months is too much to be idle, not to mention of 2yrs! Don't make him comfortable doing nothing... I sure do hope he get up in the morning and leaves the house in search of some earning while waiting for that 'job' to click?

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  2. U hv 2 tell him so he can triple his effort at job hunting cos its looks like u r going 2 loose urs very soon. For how long r u going 2 play ur boss b4 he fires u. U shld be on d look-out 4 another job cos ur present job is not guaranteed. Dont 4get 2 talk 2 God in prayers.

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  3. Anonymous8/16/2013

    Fourth-ed

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  4. Farida H8/16/2013

    sleep with him jare, whats the big deal........its better than a marriage with two broke, jobless peeps...........hope he's fine sha

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    1. Anonymous8/16/2013

      U must be a commercial sex worker. Stick 2 ur business & dont introduce d poster 2 wat u do.

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    2. Queen Bee8/19/2013

      Farida H,lol at ur comment.hahaha!
      Want to believe u are just kidding.
      Sbut if u are not.know dat such a man will still sack her after taking her to bed,and might never be able to sack her if she doesn't yield cos its a game to him,he will keep trying.i used to work for a psycho like dat when I was single,till today he's still hoping#in his mind#,but sacked and openly embarrassed the gals that slept with him.
      In all,whatever happens @ poster,leave that office with ur dignity.keep ur head high,legs closed and eyes opened!

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    3. Queen Bee8/19/2013

      Farida H,lol at ur comment.hahaha!
      Want to believe u are just kidding.
      Sbut if u are not.know dat such a man will still sack her after taking her to bed,and might never be able to sack her if she doesn't yield cos its a game to him,he will keep trying.i used to work for a psycho like dat when I was single,till today he's still hoping#in his mind#,but sacked and openly embarrassed the gals that slept with him.
      In all,whatever happens @ poster,leave that office with ur dignity.keep ur head high,legs closed and eyes opened!

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  5. Anonymous8/16/2013

    Sixth-ed

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  6. Anonymous8/16/2013

    Deceive ur boss ke! Babe u're already in a serious net... Wake up girl... u need more prayers! May the lord deliver you from this temptation, and grant you peace... Amen!

    Patsy

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    1. This is the Lord's battle, take it to God \he will fight for u, talk about it with your husband, prayer is the key

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    2. Tackle it with prayer........... and discuss with ur husband... it is well

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  7. Anonymous8/16/2013

    Deceive ur boss ke! Babe u're already in a serious net... Wake up girl... u need more prayers! May the lord deliver you from this temptation, and grant you peace... Amen!

    Patsy

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  8. chioma Duru8/16/2013

    Mrs poster. If u dnt want c fire on the mountain. U better wake up. Tell ur husband. If u think u can deceive ur boss. U are vry wrong! Better shine ur eyes o.

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  9. Anonymous8/17/2013

    I was once in a similar situation, but I work in d public sector, so was impossible for him to fire me. At first, we were just good friends; my boss & I. I thought he just really valued my work ethic & stuff. Plus he's a christian. We would talk about scriptures. I felt very comfortable around him, cos I naively believed he wanted nothing from me. I told hubby about him, but hubby wasn't convinced dat my boss wanted nothing from me. My boss would travel and buy me really expensive gifts, which I willingly accepted as I would do from a friend. Eventually, he made his move. Honestly, I was in shock. I was so foolish I guess. I reminded him dat we are both married and my feelings for him were strictly platonic. He tried a few more times until I got pregnant and started showing. Then he left me alone. We still talk now. But It's not like before. I'm just thankful he couldn't fire me. What we ladies go thru in d work place.

    @Poster: tell ur hubby. You are in this together. Let him start looking for a job in case u loose urs. Playing ur boss is a dangerous game as he ain't a kid and will soon become angry. You need to find a way to talk about it with him. Pray also, that God deliver you from this temptation. All the best.

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  10. There is no hiding place when you allow yourself to be put on a hot seat. Come off it because you need peace to enjoy whatever money you get. That is not the only job around. It may take a little time, but you can get another better job.

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  11. Anonymous8/17/2013

    Dear Poster,
    I hope u know that you already have yourself in web. Pls dnt let it get bigger.
    1. Tell your husband bout ur boss
    2. Tell your husband to job hunt for 2(u and him)
    I am single and I quit my job because of dis type of rubbish. My dear look well I think its time to develop that ur passion. I started my bizness with 20k I knw where I am today. Glory to God. Pls dnt let one silly boss drag u into his foolishness! Imagine he calls ur husband and starts saying thgs? Men are funny ooo. Ur husband will start adding 1and10 together! Save ur sef nd home. Hugs and peeks. Much love sis.

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    1. Anonymous8/17/2013

      Which business did u start? Pls help a sis.

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  12. The price for remaining sexy after marriage, not every married and hardworking woman is still deemed elegant to stir a anoda mans head.

    Play smart... Never give in and keep ur hubby in the know!

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