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I Have A Challenge At Home. I Need Advice

Hello Aunty Eya, I read your blog a lot and would like to share my burden with you and others who can advice me. I have a challenge at home. I got married last year and had my first baby two months ago.my hubby is so loving nd caring to me nd our son.
but these days I noticed that he answers a certain call very late at nite and he can stay for more than an hour. When I asked he told me I don't know d woman. since den he has been acting strange.I don't know what to do.

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  1. mrs morgan@warri8/12/2013

    Hello Aunty Eya nd all WC Family God has bless me wt a baby boy.tnk u all 4 ur encouragement in post related to childbirth those tips were helpful.

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    1. halima8/12/2013

      Congrats mam.God bless d baby,u and your hubby

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    2. Yay! Thank You Jesus! Babies all around!
      Congratulations Mrs Morgan! God bless your bundle of joy and your home, may his arrival bring more blessings into your home.
      *hugs*

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    4. Samantha8/12/2013

      Congratulations

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    5. Mrs Morgan congratulations. Welcome to the club and am happy our sons are birth month mates plus we stay in same town. Please inbox Ma Eya so we can exchange contacts, I need to come visit you. I stay in Warri too
      Wives Connection South-South Zone, Warri chapter *hehehe dancing *

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    6. Mrs Morgan congratulations. Welcome to the club and am happy our sons are birth month mates plus we stay in same town. Please inbox Ma Eya so we can exchange contacts, I need to come visit you. I stay in Warri too
      Wives Connection South-South Zone, Warri chapter

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    7. Congrats Mrs Morgan. God bless and keep ur little bundle of joy.

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    8. Congrats Mrs Morgan. May GOD bless u and d new born. May he bless u with all u require to bring him up in his ways. May he bless the new daddy too and also bless ur home AMEN.

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  2. Anonymous8/12/2013

    Tell ur husband ur not comfortable wit her calls! Which woman will call a married man @ night if d woman is not asking for trouble? calling him @ dat hour is a big no no! Stand ur ground and tell ur husband calmly but firmly u do not like it! Ho ha!!! If u have ur way, retrieve her number from ur husbands phone, and call her on ur own and warn her seriously. R u hearing me! Dis is marriage we r talking about here Oo°˚˚˚°! Not dating! Good luck.
    Tokoni!

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  3. Well, at this point, one word is needed; caution. Don't nag or ask him again. Just continue to be the good wife you've been. You can stylishly take his phone and copy the number and do your own investigation.

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    1. Anonymous8/12/2013

      So what happens after investigation?...smh.. You are on a long thing!

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  4. kα̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ taking ha num frm his fone n callin ha 2 warn ha is rily gonna b a wrong move on ur part. Tel him u dnt lyk him rcivin calls @ dt hour of d nyt. If possible, both of u shld hv a set tym 2 stop rcivin calls @ nyt. Dt way, I won't b lyk u r on his case.

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    1. Anonymous8/12/2013

      Set time for receiving call? U want the man to say u are choking nd controlling him? Nne,let's get real here..

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  5. Some is fishy.... You need snoop and swoop on him!

    It's possible it's an old love rekindled.

    Many times such girls feel left alone and won't mind hanging in just to hunt you and proove to you that after all, she's not a total looser.

    Listen to the holy words... It say's work and pray!

    All'd Best.
    Nuff'Said

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    1. Anonymous8/12/2013

      Watch and Pray...

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  6. Ace u just say what I wanted to say.
    Poster b4 u start to snoop n cont to get hurt,kneel down n pray,just get her name n fire prayers.
    Snooping n venting is your right but dat may/not work bcos if they have been to deep b4 it cld b hard for d breaking apart, u will b busy most time with ur baby,d time to b snoop n all just use it on ur baby and prayers.. with prayers u will b amazed how it will turn out...good luck.

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  7. Anonymous8/12/2013

    Congrats mrs Morgan.God bless U̶̲̥̅̊ Ąπϑ ЧЯ bundle of joy.@ poster pls don't call the woman I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ question Oo°˚˚˚°! .¶ W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ advice U̶̲̥̅̊ hand ђε̲̣̣̣̥я̩̥̊ over to God I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ prayers.(Experience D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ §♠Ƴ Ȋ̝̊̅§ the best teacher).May God βε̲̣ Ŵi̶̲̅τ U̶̲̥̅̊ .EPHY

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  8. Congrats mrs Morgan, @ poster pls n pls don't call her ooo, calling her will generate more issues and drive your husband away. Get her number and start your FBI investigation, get all you can on her as a back up plan! But most importantly go to God in prayer! And show more love to your husband

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    1. Yes, I agree with Deborah.
      Please don't call her abeg. She might tell your husband you called to insult her, etc. This would just make it all worse.
      Like most people said, try to do some investigation on her, then you can know what steps to take.

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  9. What will you get her number for? Call her and tell her you know she calls your husband and the particular time she does? My dear you don't need that drama in your life. Just get more loving and caring to your husband, finish him with tender love and care (TLC)and get on your knees and pray her out of your husband's life. If you are a christian try and get this book " the power of a praying wife by Stormie Omartian". It is well with you.

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  10. Shayor@Soup-a Bowl8/12/2013

    Congrats Mrs Morgan! God bless n keep him! We need baby girls on WC ooo! Who r we going to leave our cookery books to naaa! Pls baby girls....lolz! Ehen! Poster: Thou shalt not call ooo! D oda woman shldnt know dt u even know abt her not to talk of caring d least abt her, it would only make her feel impt! Snoop n get her fullname, go to facebook, check her frds list, look out for some1 u kno, u may just be able to link wia she's from and wt she's up to! Then, go on ur knees and heap hot coal on her head, u r rightfully married to d man so she is wrong by all standards! Thankfully, God hates Cheats so you and God wld be at par on this one!

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  11. Anonymous8/12/2013

    Dont call her ooo. I hv a friend who called her husband's mistress & did d 'leave-my-husband-alone' thing. Her husband went back 2 apologise 2 d mistress & a yr later d girl is still in d picture even bolder than b4. Her only resort now is prayers. Dat doesnt mean u cant do ur own investigation. Be wise.

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  12. I was wondering if it is possible for a loving and caring husband to take calls from a woman he has something with at home. It is usually men who do not have any respect for their wives who do that so this may be an innocent call.

    I showed this post to my hubby and he is worried that your hubby did not make extra efforts to explain who this lady is and reassure you that it is nothing. That you do not know the woman is not enough. Do you hear what he says during the calls or does he step away and talk in hushed tones? If yes, find out why this is so from your hubby. You'll need to do this in a loving (not a confrontational) manner.

    But whatever you do, please do NOT call the woman. That move never solves the problem, especially if there's nothing going on between them.

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  13. Anonymous8/13/2013

    My sister with God all things are possible, pray without ceasing, but do not, I repeat try to nag or take any number from your hussy's phone, just tell him you are not comfortable with such call period. May God help us, both men and women

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  14. diplomatic wife8/16/2013

    Praying is good but finding who d lady is and possibly preventing d r/shp from going too deep is also good.i dnt knw d extent dey hv gone,bt men dnt knw hw 2 hide their feelings @ all sometimes esp if d wife is nt doing any meaningful thing,dey wl lik 2 Lord it over 2 u n expect u 2 deal wt it.checking our hubby's fone is good but u hv 2 b matured n diplomatic of whatever u see there, u dnt strt shoutn n making trble dt won't fetch u anything,rather hide under anonymous n put both of dem in hot seat,threaten dem,yesssss!! Device ur means of doing that.i bet u no man wl stand being threatened cos of a woman outside,even d lady outside can't stand a threat of killing her cos of a man dts nt even her husband,u r lucky if she's married,trace d hubby n mke him know so dt she wl feel d pain she caused u too,remember u r anonymous oo.it takes wisdom n maturity 2 do ds.sumtyms I open anonymous email account n warn both parties too.a lady once sent her naked pixs wtout her face 2 my hubby's email,na God save her,had it been her face wz there,she wld hv gone round in our social network.my dear women endure a lot of trash in marriages n wot u see wl mke u to always devise ur own means 2 handle issues.do d physical n back it up spiritually.i dnt knw hw weird or good ds advice is,n am sure no woman here prays more than me.but one day ds thought n ideas came in2 me n it has been helping a lot.check hs phone n emails, but bear woteva u see there n anonymously begin 2 release both physical n spiritual missiles to them.oya mke una begn criticise me libers

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  15. Anonymous9/02/2013

    Well said diplomatic wide I concur with u, I noticed one lady always calling my hubby even inviting him to club I fished out her number from his phone waited till like 2am in d middle of d night n gave her a call called her number n told her to stay away from my hubby. She could not talk was just silent of course she heard me n since then no calls from her am sure she told hubby but he has never confronted me on the issue I did not bring it up either it just died. So at times these ladies Wil b afraid of d confrontation from d wives n back out so my dear pray n make u r move, these men may not even have d will power to stop some of these tins once u stand in the gap they open up n respect u more. D wise ones though.

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