RELATED STORIES

Did He Forget To Propose?

Hello WC and Aunty Eya,  (AuntyEya pls do not post my details). Please fam,I need advice. I'm very confused this night. My boyfriend of 15 months hinted some people he was going to propose at my sister's birthday party. I got to hear from someone, snooped and saw the beautiful ring hidden in his drawer.

The birthday
has come and gone. I just got home after the celebration and am really worried. I saw the ring with my own eyes. That morning we had a little fight at my place but is that enough to make him deprive me of a proposal? After the fight, things went on normal, he also attended the party and my people were so expectant. I feel so embarrassed before my family and cannot stoop so low as to ask why a man did not propose after all he never told me, I heard from someone.

I pretend like am not bothered but it's eating me up, I can't concentrate on anything this night. Did he forget to propose? Is something wrong. Can a loving man change  his mind just like that?I am worried.  

Comments

  1. I think u shd not put ur mind on d proposal issue, u heard from pple, may b he changed his plan on his proposal bcos a lot of pple know. Am sure he wants u and others to b surprised..
    I know ur bothered but put ur mind at rest, ur worrying too much.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Dnt worry.. He dint 4get. He probably decided 2 change d wen n wher. So better go 4 a manicure :)

    ReplyDelete
  3. Dear poster, if he didn't propose, its nt enuf to eat u up. Don't ask him anything, its like you forcing him or something. When both of you are in a good mood, just ask him what his plans for the relationship are and all that

    ReplyDelete
  4. LOL...I dnt know why dis ur post is so funny. I think the mistake you made was making the news of the proposal public. My dear, until the ring is on ur finger, you dnt tell anyone. Infact, until you are sure the ring sef na engagement ring not bday gift...lol

    Anyway...just relax. Maybe he somehow found out you were aware. It's possible he knew his secret was out and decided to change plans since he wants it a surprise. I suggest like Ivy said, make sure ur nails are on point..and practice ur surprised OMG look.. ;-)

    btw, hope the argument isnt something serious that makes U look like non-wife material?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Johnson8/14/2013

      Ahdaisy's last question is very apt. A little fight? The little things are very important to guys because it's the little foxes that spoil the vines... for marriage vines have tender grapes.

      Delete
  5. its either he wants to give himself lil time to think again or he wants to surprise everybody. i'd say u should keep being urself, dont put up an act becos ure expecting a ring. keep doin those things he saw and liked.. both the good and the silly things. Goodluck

    ReplyDelete
  6. He didn't forget. Not like am in his mind thi but it's likely to be that the little fight(as you assume) has big underlying issues to him and he has decided to draw back and re-evaluate.
    Or he wants to re-schedule seeing many are already aware of his surposed secret(proposal).
    Nevertheless, don't take any misunderstanding for granted. Breaking a ware is enough to make some guys reconsider; whether you'll mistakenly break all his glassed after marriage - weird?
    Just take time to be yourself and improve where necessary and I believe himself is too

    ReplyDelete
  7. My dear I doubt if he actually forgot to propose. I guess he's the typethat reads meaning into things and if thats the case I guess maybe he percieved the lil fight u both had as not a gud omen and needed time to think it over.
    Am sure he was shocked that he had a misunderstanding with you on such important date. But not to worry,keep being yourself since the love is there he will definitely pop the queation. I pray it won't be the day u slapped him.looolz

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous8/14/2013

      Lol @ I hope it won't be the day you slap him

      Delete
    2. Anonymous8/14/2013

      Lol @ I hope it won't be the day you slap him

      Delete
  8. Women and marriage!
    Dear, just keep being urself, try and forget about d ring issue, allow him surprise u, Stop snooping!

    ReplyDelete
  9. Women and marriage!
    Dear, just keep being urself, try and forget about d ring issue, allow him surprise u, Stop snooping!

    ReplyDelete
  10. Women and marriage!
    Dear, just keep being urself, try and forget about d ring issue, allow him surprise u, Stop snooping!

    ReplyDelete
  11. Women and marriage!
    Dear, just keep being urself, try and forget about d ring issue, allow him surprise u, Stop snooping!

    ReplyDelete
  12. Women and marriage!
    Dear, just keep being urself, try and forget about d ring issue, allow him surprise u, Stop snooping!

    ReplyDelete
  13. Women and marriage!
    Dear, just keep being urself, try and forget about d ring issue, allow him surprise u, Stop snooping!

    ReplyDelete
  14. Women and marriage!
    Dear, just keep being urself, try and forget about d ring issue, allow him surprise u, Stop snooping!

    ReplyDelete
  15. My dear I don't think he forgot to propose, men are full of surprises just continue with the relationship and believe that if he is for you, the proposal will come at time

    ReplyDelete
  16. My dear I don't think he forgot to propose, men are full of surprises just continue with the relationship and believe that if he is for you, the proposal will come at time

    ReplyDelete
  17. My dear I don't think he forgot to propose, men are full of surprises just continue with the relationship and believe that if he is for you, the proposal will come at time

    ReplyDelete
  18. my dear I don't think he forgot to propose, you know men are full of surprises, continue with the relationship and know that if he is for you, the proposal will come at the right time.
    www.thelifeoffulness.blogspot.com

    ReplyDelete
  19. The little fight might ve made him had some thought. Just relax and be YOU! Watever dat wil be will be.. Meanwhyl chika and Bola watsup wit ur comments?

    ReplyDelete
  20. Anonymous8/14/2013

    What am going to say may hurt but it' the truth. I don't think he is going to propose anymore. For you to have a fight with him on the day he was planning to propose to you after knowing he was planing that, shows that... My sister, he's having a rethink. His head is saying,"if you fight me now as girlfriend, what will happen as a wife? Sorry young lady.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Anonymous8/14/2013

      If u are not the guy then don't say what u r not sure of.That's not true. Afterall married couples fight. Every couple whether bf or married fight. He may still be upset abt the fight and decided to postpone the proposal. Just act like nothing happened and keep smiling. What is urs will be urs

      Delete
    2. Anonymous8/14/2013

      Anon 5:22, don't tell d anon not to talk? That's their own opinion...

      Poster,

      Are u sure u are not hot tempered? U heard gist he was to propose to u dat day and u couldn't control urself and keep d fight for another day kwa? Was d issues dat serious dat it u will be so unfulfilled to make d day hitch free and just tell urself not today? Don't worry,dude will still propose but that thing u called "little fight",those little thing matter a lot..

      Delete
  21. Anonymous8/14/2013

    @Anonymous 4:10pm I totally disagree wit u.Evry relatnshps hs deir own flaws,r u sayin u r perfect or wat?cos no married couple wil deny d fact dat dey dnt hv issues,evn wen in a relatnshp.Inshort,if u dnt hv any issue wit ur supposed spouse wen dating,it means deres a lot of pretence in dat relationshp.@poster jst relax n pray,call him n probably apologise.Best of luck

    ReplyDelete
  22. Anonymous8/14/2013

    I support chicadimples. Take ur mind off the ring and keep been yourself. It's shameful how people just 4gt abt the marrige itself and focus on the wedding. Don't force him. What will be will be. If he wishes to surprise u, allow him.

    Omalicha...

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Feel free to email us with comments, suggestions, recipe ideas, or pretty much anything!
Contact Email: cuulme@gmail.com

Most comments are by other blog readers. Always seek Professional Help First.
“As an Amazon Associate I earn a little commission when you shop from links placed on this blog.”

SHARE THIS POST

RELATED

SHOP HERE