Any Help For Spouses Of Bed Wetters?

Hello Eya, how is your weekend? I feel ashamed sending you this and please hide all my details. I think what I want to ask for being strange but I
sincerely need help. I don’t know if there is anything that can be done when one’s spouse bed wets. 

Please help me post on the blog. I need help cos this can break my marriage. I am tired.

16 thoughts on “Any Help For Spouses Of Bed Wetters?”

  1. Have you tried talking to a doctor about this? It might be a medical issue that your doc may know how to solve. Alternatively see a psychologist, I didn't say psychiatrist o! This is because it may be a psychological problem which started from childhood such a severe trauma at a young age or something like that. Not to worry, these cases are surprisingly common even among adults. Please try and be patient with her especially as she's not doing it on purpose. Until you see either of the above, get her to use the toilet immediately before bed and set an alarm for her to get up every 3 hours or there about to use the toilet. Hopefully she would get used to it and wake up on her own eventually to urinate. Coming to think of it, she might be a heavy sleeper that can't feel when she needs to go. If this is the case then frequent use of the toilet at night would be helpful for now. Good luck.

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  2. I know there was this thing they did for bedwetters while we were in secondary school,mayb u should try to ask around from elders.. They made dem stand opening their legs over hot coal gotten after burning firewood..I can't really tell but I think they made then pee inside the coal or so…I don't know d connection but they said anytime dey are asleep and want to pee,no matter are deeply asleep they are,they will wake… U might not believe it but u guys can try it.. They did it for my mates then in secondary school and out of 20 of dem, it worked for like 18

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  3. awww..i really feel for your spouse..cos it an embarrassing situation to be in. first of,is she pregnant?(its normal for some pregnant women to bed wet coz of the growing baby sitting on the bladder).if not,wear pads and rubber pants when going to sleep.Reduce fluid intake in the evenings,and take several trips to the loo before going to bed.there are also medications you can take(please see a doctor for that).
    i hope the situation gets better soon.x
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  4. I think dr was a post related to ds on ds blog a yl ago; and d mum came back to thank all cuz d result was positive; I think aunty Eya shld send u dt link; if it cld work for d boy guess it shld work for her. MrsAjaryee

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  5. I think dr was a post related to ds on ds blog a yl ago; and d mum came back to thank all cuz d result was positive; I think aunty Eya shld send u dt link; if it cld work for d boy guess it shld work for her

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  6. My gut feelings tell me its an attack. A serious one. Prayer, fasting n deliverance will solve d problem. There Is nothing God cannot do. Pls don't slack atall. Take it to God.

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  7. Wen did she start bedwettin n hw long has it been goin on?? Ask her if she was bedwetting b4 she got married 2 u. I ask dese questions becos it myt nt b ordinary,it myt b spiritual. I'll giv an example. There was a lady dat gave a testimony sayin dat she never used 2bedwet in her hse bt weneva she goes over 2 her fiance's place n sleeps over she wud bedwet. At first she tot it was jst a mistake n she apologised bt wen it occured over n over again,she knew it was an attack n she went 4 deliverance. Things lyk dis happen sometyms cos d devil wnts 2 put her 2 shame n make her hv a broken marriage,d devil neva lyks anytin gud 4 d children of God. Sir,I'll plead wit u 2 b patient wit her pls,stand by her n help her fyt dis battle. U guys r one nw,fyt it as a team,dnt giv d devil d chance 2 laff last plsss.

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  8. i think u shld follow d suggestion made by anon 5:50pm.cont to pray for her and also look for a living church nd take her der for delieverance becos its not ordinary,its a trick of d devil in other to destroy ur marriage.so pls don't give him a chance if u really luv ur spouse and i know in due time it will be over nd u will testify……….Best of luck. Lady Dee

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  9. Follow chubby Ella's adv and also, let her control her liq intake once its 6pm.she should use d toilet freq before she goes to bed, you can also help wake her up @ intervals to use d toilet cuz I feel she is a heavy sleeper who finds it dif to wake up until she feels damp. Plz help her, its really embarasn, I can imagine how she feels. Don't be tired already, she needs ur support sir.

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  10. d only tin dat I can recommend in dis situation is prayer,fasting and deliverance.jes take her to mfm headquaters at unilag 2nd gate…God will be wit u

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