He Wants To Teach Me To Be A Hardworking Girl

This comment was posted three times since 3PM and hasn't smelt any reply yet. Please help the poster with advice. Is he really teaching her to be a hardworking girl or just being a bit stingy? I pray he does not continue to teach after marriage o.

Aunty eya and wc readers please this is off topic: I am dating a guy that claims he loves me, but he hardly gives me money to take care of myself he is always complaining to me that his family disturbing him for money too much, there was a day I went to his house I brought the Indomie I cook to eat with my money. Any time
i go to his house he always reserved #200 naira to give   me to take home and that is not even up to my transport. But he always claims he wants to marry me and I should not be carried away by other men's money. He always talks about the future and he said he wants to teach me to be a hardworking girl.
 From mercy. Please I need your reply Eya and WC readers.

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  1. Anonymous7/15/2013

    Oh my Jesus! 200 specific naira for transport everytime? Oh lord of mercy some girls need 2 be saved! I dnt even knw hw 2 tell u dis 2 show u d level of seriousness I hv for ur case. If u tell me ur adress, I will come and personally relocate u to anoda state inorder to save u frm dis kingkong u r dating! BoRrow legs frm usain bolt, dnt even break up officially, frm d moment u read dis, nvr eva eva eva talk to him again
    Jesus wept!!!!

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  2. Are you dating a guy because you want money from him or because you like him? That is the more important question than whether or not he is stingy/feeding you some so-so nonsense about teaching you to be hardworking.

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    1. opeoluwa7/16/2013

      In as much as u don't date a guy cos of money, it does nt mean d guy shld nt give u if he has so leave all those r u dating cos of money things. It is d generation of women dat collects money frm. guy. Dear poster jare, does d guy av money? If u r sure he is making enough money n he's giving u 200 then run frm him cos he is a stingy man. If he does nt give u now, he will nt give u when u marry cos he will rather give his family dan giving u or even mistresses. Carry ur legs n run. But if he does nt av much n u can manage with jst stay n continue to pray for him.

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  3. Realist7/15/2013

    HE is stinger as hell mehn. Run as fast as you can.

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  4. Heehehehehehe! Sorry dear,but I couldn't help but laugh at the title of the post.lolz @hardworking woman.
    My dear seems you trying to compare what he gives you to what others receive from their boyfriends,you know his financial strenght,would you want him to appear on crime fighters tomorrow just coz he wants to impress you?
    Gradually anoda zero will be added to the #200,dats how life goes owk.
    Ehen whenever you cook the indomie,u can make it hungryman size so he can join u,there's love in sharing.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  5. So sad... Plz poster can you do a better and detailed post about this!

    What does he do for a living?
    What do you rate his income level as?
    What are his plans and ambitions?
    What level is his family at?

    Cos I refuse to judge this guy until you state clearly the financial and social persona of this young man.


    NOTE: Stingy is a word reserved for a man who has but never gives... Thief is a word reserved for a man who steal just to lavish!



    Nuff'Said....

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    1. You're the man! You took the words out of my mouth & presented it in a good way.

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    2. Ace dear where u disappear go since?! Your comments actually spoke my mind bt serz d post is hilarious.

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  6. lol@bonario..isi adiro gi nma o.you are a funny person

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  7. Anonymous7/16/2013

    Please let us know his capacity! Make we no bury d guy alive for nothing!

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  8. Anonymous7/16/2013

    Abeg d guy is jst a stingy man,even if he's a wheelbarrow pusher he shud be able to give his girl gud money frm time to time,ahahn y 200naira everytime,wat kind of stupid hardworking is he trying to make u. I m always saying dis,dont manage any relationshp if u r not comfortable LEAVE. If not if u marry dat guy d 200 naira will turn to money for food. If he doesnt hv he shud tell u instaed of using d sori excuse of hardwork SMH

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  9. I always say that the proof of love is Giving. Love Gives. That's what I believe. Its even there in the bible "For God so Loved the World he GAVE.."

    I'm not even about the money here. Some ppl can give you money and not really "send" you. Some can give u money and not the attention you crave/want.
    A guy can be soo loving that you begin to look beyond him not having money to give you,cus you know when he has,he'll do more.
    I'm not comfortable with this Man's character sha. And look at the rubbish excuse he's using to justify not giving her money. This Man acts/sounds like a whiner and a stingy person.

    Sha shine ya eye well well. What I can't do to ppl,I can't tolerate. Just be careful of what you tolerate now,cus when you marry him, you'l keep tolerating it.

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  10. Anonymous7/16/2013

    If u allow the idiot fuck u,u are a fool!so he still gets an erection with his stupid 200 naira?useless man.

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    1. Anonymous7/16/2013

      lol...hahahahaha...

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    2. Anonymous7/16/2013

      hahahaha....so funny

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  11. Anonymous7/16/2013

    Anon 9:17 u r crayyy! 200naira for what exactly? R/card or tfare? Babes dey suffer for real o, Choi!

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  12. Anonymous7/16/2013

    Wc readers the guy i am talking about works in a office there was a day i check his pay slip unknowingly to him they pay him #120,000.00 a month. He is the senior son of the family, recently he helped me to look for a job and he also said he helped me to find the job because he want me to be independant he hardly call except on friday to ask if i will come on saturday and any time i went to his house #200 is always on his top of his table he will give to me. He also said he love me because i dn,t distrub him for money and that is why he want to marry me. he is very quiet but hit me when i said anything he feel i should not say (even when i say what is right to me) when i complain of him hitting the way i d,nt like he will say he is correcting me to be a good wife and will continuing to hit until i learned how to talk to him very well. Aunty eya thank u very much for posting it God bless u and wc readers. Thank u from poster.

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    1. Anonymous7/16/2013

      Like seriously?

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    2. Madam, even the Lord is clearly revealing the signs to you. Take a hike! 200nra? Hitting you? On top of what na? He's a control freak. Marriage will only get worse. Read that last sentence well and run! Do not let any false pretence cajole you into marrying him. He's not the man for you. Real men don't have to hit a woman to teach her. He's not your father. He's not to teach you nada. You have your own sense. You can teach your own self. Empower yourself. Search for your own job. You have sense! Tell yourself that you're a smart lady cos you are, regardless of how he makes you feel.

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    3. Anonymous7/16/2013

      Poster please how old are the both of you? Dude wants to marry you coz you don't ask for money? ROTFLMSAO. He also uses you as a punching bag? Calls to know if you are coming to spend the weekend and literally warm his bed? Babe, are you a learner? Or you are simply daft?

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    4. Anonymous7/16/2013

      He is STINGY!
      He would be worst IF you get married!
      You would be doing the spending when IF you get married while he spends on his extended family.
      Calls you only on friday to get free fuck on #200? mschewww!
      Women in brothel charge more than that for a round!
      Get out of the relationship ASAP!

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    5. Babe n ure still asking queshun...chai.. :'(

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    6. Anonymous7/16/2013

      He is NOT worthy of you, you are worth more than that. He is very very very disrespectful. Please, run and run , until you can't run anymore. DO NOT communicate this imbecile again. If you marry him, you might as well get a gun right now and blow ur brains out

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    7. Anonymous7/16/2013

      u r a very stupid girl. shio

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    8. Anonymous7/16/2013

      Pls and pls Poster run for ur dear life. If he hits you now, then be rest assured that the day u sign ur marriage certificate is d day u sign ur death cert. This man has no respect for you at all. Also, be ready to carry all financial responsibilities if u marry him cos he wont change.

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    9. Desire7/17/2013

      Pls run as fast as your legs can carry you. He only calls you on friday to come and warm his bed on Saturday? And already has the 200 naira waiting on his table? R u a learner? He sees you as Oshofree. Abeg, he's nt a marriage material. Don't even think about it.
      You are nt married and he's slapping you to correct you, is he your father? Wetin he go come do wen ure married? Pls all these signs are not good. Better a broken engagement than a broken marriage. Goodluck.

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    10. Anonymous7/17/2013

      @poster, dis ur guy sounds like someone I know. Does his place of work start wit the letter N? Pls reply.

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    11. Anonymous7/17/2013

      And his name with the letter 'A'?

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  13. Anonymous7/16/2013

    Nne, he hits you, on top 200naira, and ul go to his house during the weekend and cook, do his laundry and fuck him....but you check am, check am by yourself naaa...kai!

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  14. Thank God! He got a job for you save your money very well and go to school cos judging from your write up*wheeeeewww* and forget d guy abeg! Poster do you knw what #oshofree# means? Ahah? Are you a learner?

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  15. Anonymous7/16/2013

    THIS GUY IS STINGY PERIOD!

    HE LIKES YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T DISTURB HIM FOR MONEY? SO WHEN HE MARRIES YOU, DON'T BE SURPRISED IF HE DOES NOT DROP FEEDING MONEY FOR YOU! YOU BOUGHT YOUR OWN INDOMIE TO EAT IN HIS HOUSE WHEN YOU WENT VISITING?

    POSTER LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS ARE TELLING YOU, RUN AWAY WITH YOUR 2 LEGS BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!

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  16. I didnt want 2 comment until i read ur extra info. Out of d 120k he earns u get 800 naira. He hardly calls except on fridays 2 be sure his erection will be taken care of on saturday. He panel beats u & has no plan of stopping till u become d good wife he wants. Babe u dey chop shit all in d name of love. I weep 4 u. I wont be surprised if u r not his main babe. Probably has someone his spending on. But if u r d only one & he treats u like dis then know dat when u get married, u'll feed &cloth urself & dont be surprised when d house rent & kids' school fees become ur responsibility. D fact dat u brought ur issue 2 WC shows dat u dont need anybody's advice. Advice urself by urself.

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  17. Anonymous7/16/2013

    ACE BENTLEY she don answer ur question oya comment oooooo

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  18. Queen Bee7/16/2013

    IMO,that man will not even marry u but just using ur head seeing dat u are a sucker for love'
    Pls stay away from him cos he's a selfish,manipulative piece of shit#amsoangryrightnow#
    Can't imagine what hell some women let demselves pass thru cos a man mentions the word marriage' to them!
    Oh pls!

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  19. Lwkmd ooooo...
    :O ˚°◦shuoo!! .
    _\\_!

    Dear poster, I've got nutn to tell u cos u knw wat to do already. If you like no run, tmrw send us post on how u are faring in d marriage. This is d funniest post ever. Chai!!!

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  20. Anonymous7/16/2013

    Madam tell him pe ma gbe keke e lo mi o ba e sere mo #simple

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  21. Anonymous7/16/2013

    My dear, run, runner, runnest, running,runs! Whatever the english just run! Ko fa eti mejeji now now! Ur just digging ur own grave!

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  22. Hmmm dis life...my dear u know what's good for u b4 its too late

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  23. Now I gerrit.... This guy is worse than a pig! IMO, you know what to do run...

    Even if he's earning 30'k a month 200 naira is just too erring.

    It's apparently a master-slave relationship you've got there! Make ur decision and stand by it. It won't hurt that much now than carry it over to the future!


    Forget all the marriage promises... Ppl promise that and more and still fail!

    #My2cents!


    Nuff'Said!

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  24. Si tori O! Anyways if u tink 200naira is wht u r worth, den die put.

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  25. Anonymous7/17/2013

    Ure a stupid girl. Dazall.

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  26. Ahhhhhhh e ma gba mi ke! Babes ?

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  27. Dear poster, pls run 4 ur dear life,remember he got d job for you, he can also come der to disgrace you or beat u up bt I will suggest while u re still workin der, be lookin 4 oda vacancies so that you can finally stay far away frm him and even sef, change ur numba. Goodluck.

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