Guidelines For Sending Mails To Wives Connection Blog

Good morning Fam. I am still shockd about what happened yesterday hence this post. Right from today, before anyone sends a mail to my email cuulme@gmail.com for publication on wives connection blog,

  1. Add a phone number to your mail
  2. Start by introducing yourself, write your name whether fake or real but just write a name
  3. Write a title for your mail. I might edit the title however, but you should not leave your title blank.
The most important thing here is the phone number and please no one should go and spend money buying a SIM card cos they want to impersonate another. It's very wrong. 

These are all the guidelines I can think of for now.  I shouldn't be spending time chatting with mail senders just to get the story in one place. Even if you are distressed while sending a mail, try to compose yourself and introduce yourself well so I don't start asking questions like: Who are you and where do you live. Save me that stress cos comment moderation has been enough stress already. 

And please, to those replying comments with too many vulgar insults, kindly stop now so that I stop this comment moderation thing cos it's too hectic on me and it's time consuming.

Thanks to all of us who suggested a few guidelines. Now I have to wake up earlier than normal to moderate comments before I think of lunch boxes. Please stop the insults already.

Comments

  1. Anonymous05:53

    Ungate d comments pls

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  2. Anonymous05:54

    Yes ma!

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  3. That's good Aunt Eya. If it's possible, they shld send their  pin join sef. I just pray they will cooperate and make things easier on you.

    Whoever goes to buy a new sim card just to send a fake story or impersonate somebody, remember that God's judgement is real.

    Finally, enough with all the insults already please people. This blog used to be very peaceful and sane.....can we make it the way it used to be? Na beg i dey beg. I have a feeling that all those people hiding behind anonymous and different names for the sake of spewing insults just might be very timid people in real life.

    Aunt Eya, may God give you more wisdom and strength.

    Happy new month fam'lee!! *Abrazo y besos*

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    1. Anonymous13:17

      Is it every1 that has a bb?

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    2. Sweetie, that's why i said "If it is possible"

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    3. Sweetie, that's why i said "If it is possible"

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  4. Anonymous06:38

    Happy new month people, my sweeties (Ace and Oma)...
    Aunty Eya pls stop gating comments

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    1. Thankz Anon... HappyNewMonth to you also...

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  5. Aunty Eya, well done. No give yourself stress because of comment approval.

    Happy new month of July; July is the 7th month and 7 rep. perfection. May GOD perfect what he's started in our lives, amen.

    I think this person is the same one who also impersonated Ada(keyword-PH).

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  7. Aunty eya weldone o, plz blog family me too follow they beg us on her behalf cuz dis gatting of comments too follow dey annoy me. Happy new months peeps.

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  8. Pele Eya. Sorry about d extra work u're now forced to do. You really need to know there are psychos with warped imaginations on d lose everywhere! Thank Godu now want to be verifying mails. I read some mails and it just doesn't make logical sense. Like dt mail on miracle baby,inasmuch as I know it happens,I can bet with d lady's line of actions that it was a sham,a figment of somebody's imagination.
    You'll see that with this actions you want to be taking,mails will make more sense. God will reward your hard work dear.
    Happy new month to all.

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  9. Anonymous08:23

    un gate comments please

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  10. HNM WC Family.

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  11. Anonymous08:36

    It's my bday guys!!!its such a blessing to be born on the 1st of July and please join me celebrate as I add another year to my life.
    -Celise

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    1. Happy bd to u, best wishes

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    2. Happy Birthday Celise... This new age shall mark the end of your shortcomings and the beginning of your endless happiness. Long life and favor I wish... Av a blast!

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    3. HBD, wishing u d best in lyf

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    4. Happy birthday Celise :-)

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    5. Anonymous10:49

      Happy Birthday Celise.God bless you. -omo Wj

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    6. Celise, you will enjoy life to the fullest and live to see your children's children.
      Happy Birthday!

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    7. Happy birthday my Ghanaian sister. May you live to fulfil your destiny IJN amen.

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    8. Happy Birthday Celise. God bless you now and always!

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  12. I line wit dis post, I wna share a new discovery I made.
    So I came online yesterday and my eyes almost popped out at d amount of finger pointing I saw btw creamberry, tangerine, sister, ezenwanyi and oda anonymous. Nvr knew d origin of d speculation and almost let it go but I kept reading where someone kept sayin we shld give benefits of doubt so I decided to dig. I had to stay up last nyt for up 2 2hrs makin use of an IP tracker software I bought frm CIA bugs site and u won't believe d pain I felt. Do u knw dat d IP address frm one comment of 'tangerine' matched one comment of 'anonymous' sayin we shld give creamberry d benefit of doubt? This same Ip adress matched a comment by creamberry! Omg! I was shocked!
    Forget LIB, d amount of underground hate here is staggering. So many IP adresses of so many anonymous matched some knwn names here, I can't even start callin names!
    To say I was disappointed is an understatement, I was heartbroken, I tot we wia a family.
    I'm commenting under my full profile name like I always do. Call me out if u can.

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    1. Nelly...thank you. Please zip and send that IP tracker software to Eya or give her the link where she can get hers.

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    2. I say give us the names, let's see if we can hv some peace here.
      And yes, link up Aunty Eya with that software.

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    3. Hi Nelly, thank you so much for the info but please for now let it go eh. We are still a family despite the fights. Fights happen in all large families. Let this serve as a warning to all and please if this trend continues further, do not fail to give us names. Thanks for the hard work and pls can you help moi with how to get that tracker?

      Thanks a million, I know that IP addresses can be tracked but didn't know it can be done even here in NAIJA.

      *I advice us "mischievous family members" to chill now so that wind doesn't blow on your fowl yansh oo. Don't do it again.

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    4. Aunty Eya, I don't agree with you oh. Nelly please provide the names.


      Thank you for taking time to do the undercover work. Thank you very much and please link aunty up with the application.

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    5. Nelly good job! Wooow FBI Agent Nelly! Anty Eya I don't agree with you, let her do her independent investigation so we can have some peace, its when you know what is wrong in a large family that you can have family meeting to settle it! And its because of this lack of peace you start gating comments, so let the cat out so that we can solve this issue and move on! And then there won't be moderation of comments again

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    6. Anonymous12:19

      Aunty Eya, i also do not agree with you. So you are scared that your name will appear ba? I dey take corner eye dey look una 4 dis place ni o. Abeg post my comment o

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    7. Anonymous12:20

      Aunty Eya, i also do not agree with you. So you are scared that your name will appear ba? I dey take corner eye dey look una 4 dis place ni o. Abeg post my comment o

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    8. Ezewanyi13:16

      I agree u realease d names biko
      Imagine associating sister with me not that she is a bad person but I wonder cos I ve gone thhrough her comments and there are no similarities but am interested in d names that will be revealed
      I agree with rubby and deb nelly pls release d names cos this is becoming madness

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    9. Ezewanyi14:24

      Hian,everybody is saying release names even d known gt acct owners,d question now is who are perpetrators of this evil act
      Nelly pls I beg u to release names no matter whose ox is gored if not tangerine will die of heart attack

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    10. mimi14:34

      LOL @the anon saying Aunty Eya is afraid hahahaha I agree name and shame please. And Aunty Eya you brought all this stress on yourself first by soliciting crazy readers from LIB when you had already seen how comments go on there secondly by not putting a stop to all this foolishness when it first began. Keep gating comments until people learn to behave I believe it is easier to gate and approve than to keep deleting comments on multiple posts. People need to learn to be civilized. Come Nelly did this investigation take place from similar comments on your blog because I am wondering how you can track the IP addresses from another blog I would love to know the secret I have my eyes on a few people.

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    11. Nelly,I'll appreciate if u'd release the names without being bias.and I don't get the part that u said tangerine's comments was traced to my IP abeg.if there's a way u can even snap or screengrab so we can see for ourselves.God bless you.

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  13. Happy bday celise. Wullnp. Health wealth and hapiness.

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  14. Anonymous10:02

    Lmaoo @Nelly, u r such an angel. Abeg call names, I'm sure some people's hearts are already in their mouths! I can't even shout!
    HBD Celise dear, wishing you all the good things that life has got to offer

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  15. Anonymous10:02

    Lmaoo @Nelly, u r such an angel. Abeg call names, I'm sure some people's hearts are already in their mouths! I can't even shout!
    HBD Celise dear, wishing you all the good things that life has got to offer

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  16. Anonymous10:57

    Happy birthday dear, I hope Aunty Eya is no longer gating comments oo

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  17. Anonymous11:57

    HBD Celise Ąπϑ HNM peeps.EPHY

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  18. Anonymous12:00

    Wonders shall never end! Nelly pls check who sent that fake odun's mail oh! Abi na creamberry... Watching from a distance..

    This is a serious matter oh! WC is the only frnd I have now oh, abeg make una nor spoil ground for me here oh!

    Patsy

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    1. Patsy I agree with you! Anty Eya I don't know why you won't reveal the email and name of the fake Odunayo! If we don't handle this matter it will continue! Pls contact Nelly or anyone that knows how to find out who sent that mail.

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    2. The mail sender has explained herslf to me and Virtuosity. She didn't mean to impersonate Odunayo. She is a woman with her own issues who needed advice from the house. I just did a post now that we please stop cussing her cos already she has some issues and needed answers.

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    3. Dear patsy
      Even if aunty eya forwards dat email to me, all I can do is retract aunty eya's IP adress and location. The person has to send me an email directly so that her email will come wit a trackable IP address which I can trace the location frm any Macbook. There r two tins I can do wit d IP address when I trace it: 1, I can tell if the person is really in ph and which side. 2, I can compare d IP adress to all d comments on dis blog and find out if the person is a comment poster we r familiar wit. But like I said, I can't do all these witout gettin a direct mail frm d person cos IP addresses r like signatures, every device has one.

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    4. Madam patsy,I see u like to make trouble,I sent a post on saturday saying am not tangerine,that I've never bashed anyone except sister using the name "me" and it on one post she was bashing ahdaisy and the next post.on saturday,most people were forming Angels-armies while some were even commenting as though they were in heaven already.
      Who hasn't bashed sister on this blog before?how come she became a brand name if not for the hate she's always showing in her comments. I decided not to respond to anybody that day not because I don't know what to say or whatever buh I decided to keep calm cos I just felt I should clear the air as regards the tangerine-creamberry thing unlike numerous faceless cyberbullies as anonymous.

      I also mentioned in my post that I had to open an account cos I notice someone already took up the name,atleast there's another show of impersonation on the odun's story,even on the saturday post too.

      All you could think is it could be creamberry who fabricated that story.(I'm not wicked)one word for you God will judge you.

      Also to you Nelly,u said u traced Tangerine's comment and an anon comment to mine.(Meaning I comment as anon and tangerine on that post)

      I'd advice that you do your investigations properly and truthfully without any form of bitterness to proof what is true,like I said earlier,if u can snap the screen or screengrab like u can on bb send us a picture of all your investigations.

      I mean if you can stay up for 2hrs to dig please dig more for the truth. I don't need you to justify me but I can go down on my knees,fast and pray and watch God expose all evil doers even on this blog cos I trust him totally to do that,yes I can go all the way.

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  20. Soulspasms13:03

    Those of you who came here to accuse sting of all sorts either directly or indirectly owe that lady an apology.
    #dazall.
    Breeze haff blow and the bum of the chicken has been grossly exposed. So na we dey do ourselves? We come here with a registered account/name say good things,and after same ppl will use anonymous/another name and say mean things and curse others out. Then of course madam sting will now be said to be the one. Give a dog a bad name and hang it.

    We need to repent of all this rubbish behaviour.we know ourselves and who is guilty of all this rubbish. We are supposed to be adults here. If adults behave like this,what will the younger ones do?

    Anyway sha,God know all of us address. I don talk my own. And please aunty eya,do not muffle the lady that did the Ip investigation. Please let her speak out. Enough is Enough. Some people want to turn your blog into "touts connection" and pursue sane commenters. Let this lady speak so that some people will think twice before coming here to be double faced.

    Thanks.

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    1. Ezewanyi13:20

      Thank u soulnwannem,nelly should release d names so we can know who is who before tangerine apu ala cos this sis/eze is disturbing her too much
      I don't want anybody's blood on my hand biko

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  21. choi!!!!

    Nelly, pls dis is a special plea from one sister to another. PLEASE release names I beg you. If you cnt release the names pls wats ur email add so that we can chat... pls... Release the names, since they know how to run their mouths, they shudnt mind this one too!

    Do u know how many times I have been accused of coming as anon? How many times I have been attacked by different kinds of anons and strange names that I never see again? Even the impersonator, pls the person's comments are still on SDK blog. pls let's track that one too.

    Ah! I am so happy for this... 999 yearss for the thief, one day for the owner.

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  22. Woah! Inspector Nelly. You are so brilliant!

    This software will make plenty sense if it can go beyond just tracking of ip addresses, to also doing a kind of google search thing to decode the real names, faces and locations of them people that call others 'ugly' and other mean words and impersonate people's in-laws and impersonate people on other blogs. +1000000 to that software (if it can do these o).

    Cos if it can do all of these ehn, cyber bullying just got ended yo! So long as it is 100% accurate o. If not, na one chance be that.

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  23. mimi16:40

    It just occurred to me that some of these different name same IP address comments may come from people who work in the same organization and are readers of WC or share a Wifi connection in their apartment building like I do. So please before anyone is falsely accused first verify that the IP add does not belong to an organization or the connection is not shared. Another example is people using internet cafes. Just thought I should point that out.

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  24. Hey Original Tangerine, I feel u r taking ur hatred for Sister too far. However, I now have strong reason to believe that Ezewanyi was the one impersonating me. how did I know? She just made a comment that is very similar to the one my impersonator made!!! I have just been dancing in my spirit! Ha! Dnt worry, God is watching everyone...One day for the Owner!!!

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    1. Ezewanyi19:37

      Onye ana agbalu ama ona kwu enu onye ana ete ohi ekwetago?
      Ahdaisy,I ve cleverly avoided since I came on this blog but let me ask you,do u ve a real life at all or you like courting controversies.u were dancing in your spirit as what ?my dear check yourself properly cast ur search very well and far because your impersonator might be living with you or close to you
      Ezewanyi is sister,ezewanyi is that ogini a name that is obviously fake is giving u sleepless night like this
      Baby girl biko chill and look for your impersonator because I no get your time.leave me biko do you also want to die on my account like original tangerine.@nelly pls trace my ips or cia pls compare my line with sister so I can lest according to my igbo blothers
      Aunty pls publish my comment I promise to behave.thank you

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  25. In addition, the reliability of the data on this app also depends on the ip address shown by this software. I'm interested in knowing the specific ip address displayed by this app (cos of the Cream's accusations). Host's or internet gateway used in routing each device to the internet?

    I'm not in support of the 'daring of people' who use anonymous and their g account, so long as they aren't using the anonymous to insult some person. Cos, this is 9ja, people browse with multiple devices on multiple networks. If they don't have the patience to sign up with their popular names when dropping an advice with another device, are they supposed to be 'woe betided' too? We are not all the same. Don't forget that. Not everyone has the patience of every other person. And this is the internet for crying out loud. You are only going to make people stop commenting and dropping any form of advise at all (mostly those who use names/url option, but not google accounts).

    I think Nelly should read the reviews of this said software so as not jump into conclusions. We shouldn't in a bid to get back at those who leave hurtful comments at others, now insult innocent people. Even the police carries out a proper investigation. I bet the CIA won't just use that tracker and label a person as guilty, if you ask me (for those calling for names).

    Permit to say this, but sentiments aside, I doubt the CIA would publish a reliable app they use for meaningful work for download on the internet. They are smarter than that, in my opinion. Reason; you don't allow your 'enemies' to be aware of what you want to use to get them, cos trust me, millions of hackers will study it to ensure that they break, hack, beat and render it useless to the CIA.

    Let's just be smart about it all. And besides, please people, don't let hurtful comments made by unknown people; real face, fake face, real name or fake name, get to you. You have the power to let it get to you or not (my opinion sha).

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  26. Anonymous20:29

    @Jay u made sense buh why do I ve a feeling you are patronising Nelly? I ve only commented on this blog twice buh ve been following the issues of impersonation going on,and an inference I was able to draw is that some people are trying to twist the tables on Nelly so that she gets tired of publishing names. If u aren't guilty as charged,then I feel u dnt need to patronise Nelly Aunty Eya has solicited on pple's behalf so pls make una no panic,Nelly would likely not publish for the sake of peace.

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  27. Eya, you can now delete this post as well since you caused the whole hullabaloo of someone impersonating another which obviously did not happen cos you assumed. IMO.

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  28. Anon 8:20: Sorry if you 'feel' that way. Beht I honestly do not understand what it means to 'patronise Nelly'. Sorry if you didn't get the koko of my epistle. Let me try and clarify it just for you; you are that special :-)

    I only just sat down and chose to reason like a learned person (sentiments aside). From my end, I do not see advising Nelly to ensure the reliability of the app's info to be akin to 'patronising'. No?

    I could really care less about names, cos I'm not interested in knowing the real/fake people that choose to hate on Jay and others sometimes. I can't use that data to boil water, so why care? (Just me sha o). I'm this weird person. I know. Can't help it. I don't just know how to take those people that bash and hate on the internet serious. They don't count. I don't care if they are known faces or not. I could really care less. Cos, all I know is that they are COWARDS for doing that. Okay, should I care about cowards? NO! Aint nobody got time for that.

    I am not asking Nelly to cover anyone's fowl nyash. I'm only asking her to check the reviews of the app to ensure that the data she sees is trusted. If it's trusted, then she can feel hurt with her findings, but if it's not reliable, there's no point for her to give herself unnecessary stress by feeling hurt over unreliable data.

    Also, if that "make una no panic" was for me, my reply is:
    "LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL, you wish, right?!" But come to think of it, that would be a great headline for a post o --- 'JaY is a basher'. ​
    LOOL.

    Anyway, It'd be good if there's an upgrade to this app that would help in revealing not just blog names, but the real names/personalities that cuss out other people's lives. The very latter data, people can use it to not only boil water, but also, to fry egg with basmatic rice and tequila sauce...

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  29. Anonymous06:57

    @Jay same anon u sure know ur onions and u know ow to disguise ur darts =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) nice one buh stop advocating abt the authenticity of the app U are using that to cause a kinda confusion,its Nelly's business and she got pained at d extent of deceit that lies here by her findings,so leave her JAY let her be n let sleeping dogs lie.

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  30. Okay Ma, Anon 6:57; I no advice again o. No vex eh. I apologise if it sounded like 'advocating'. I'm not a lawyer o, can't be doing no advocacy stuff. I just thought that I was doing a good thing before by advising cos I actually felt for Nelly when she said she was 'hurt'. Anyway sha, what do I know sef, asides writing epistles? Any which way, Sorry if I confused you, Nelly. Please disregard the epistles. Thank you.

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  31. Anonymous09:13

    Hey! Where ve I been! I left after I gave comment on creamberry being the fake odun.. Now we know she's not fake.
    Creamberry dearie, I hope you see this, for you to change a name to 'me' inother to insult sm1else isn't matured!
    You shld be you @ all point in time... Nobody will believe anything you say now, cos u exposed ursef gal!
    Just apologise to the fam, and move on... Stop defending ursef!

    Patsy

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  32. Dear patsy,
    Now that u've realised that your prime suspect isn't the fake odun,kindly behave maturely and apologise to me cos you know you owe me one.

    And why do you think I need to apologise to the fam,because I opened up to the fact that I bashed sister,no way! If I have to do that then the whole house also have to apologise to sister for also bashing her at some point or the other,including you.

    As regards anybody believing me from henceforth,SMH...who cares?!

    Now this is the last I'm gonna say anything with regards to this.

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      U still don't get it .smh

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  33. Na wa o!
    Wahala dey!!!


    Aunty welldone!
    Una dohhh*salutes*

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  34. Bislondy13:32

    oh my goodness....why all this now?
    pls let all these drama stop! pleeeeeaseeeeeeeeee

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  35. Priscy14:30

    NA wa o...Plenty things. Anytime I disappear from this blog for a day or two na super story I go come meet.....I LOVE WC

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