FYI, How To Tighten That Place Is Still The Most Searched Query On Wives Connection Blog

There is yet no topic on this blog that gets daily queries like " How to tighten" Must it be tightened? Ladies, If your husband is not complaining, please stop disturbing yaself. *The things we do to please our men.

Don't kee yourself because of tightening of our beautiful snail look alike. Do men even care if theirs is too small, too short, too long or
massive? I think only a few will give it a thought. so, please women, let us be content with what we have. Some things are hereditary. If you were born that way, what can you do about it? Everything has an advantage o.The advantage here I think is that you may not feel as much pain as most women do during delivery cos the size allows your baby free and easy passage. Is that not something to be grateful for?

Please look at it this way... If it's not tight down there, be happy that you won't spend much time pushing in the labour/delivery room. 

Just like some people have wide throats and can swallow big lumps of eba while others can only swallow tiny morsels, It's the same way down there too. Would you rather have too tight and get bruises every time you go on duty? huh?

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  1. Anonymous7/20/2013

    Biko whether wide or not, labour pain remains the same..a baby's head and shoulder would still have to go through it..mee

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  2. Otele mmiri mmiri topic,I will chech back to see d comments am going for morning service

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    1. Anonymous7/20/2013

      You? Service?

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    2. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Yawns and farts.

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  3. Eya, i see what you are doing here.

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    1. Anonymous7/20/2013

      What is she doing?

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    2. She mentioned last time that traffic increased after the first vagina tightening post bcos pple search for vagina solutions a lot on google. Then she did a follow up post on it to get more traffic. Now here we are again, yet another vagina post. So anytime people search for vagina issues on google, her blog will be listed. Loooooolz! Don't get me wrong oh! I'm not saying it's bad oh! Heck, even i would do the same. If i discover my blog's 'selling point' i would use it over and over and over again. Good thinking Eya!

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    3. Anonymous7/20/2013

      @Pink Sunset true.. This blog is getting boring. This particular article is not necessary cos it carries no new information but hey I guess anything to increase traffic right?

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    4. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Pink sunset next time biko quote correctly. I read dat post too

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    5. Did you tink i was quoting her word for word? Chai! I give up!

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    6. Anonymous7/20/2013

      GBAM!
      NOW, I KNOW THERE ARE SMART PEOPLE HERE!
      @ANONYMOUS, MUST YOU DEFEND BLINDLY?
      PINK STATED THE OBVIOUS, AND YOU GO BARING YOUR FANGS!
      AUNTY EYA IS A BUSINESS WOMAN, SO ANYTHING GOES TO BRING IN THE BUCKS!

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  4. Lol...Aunty Eya abeg free them joo... whatever helps anyone sleep at night... What of ppl that go and reconstruct the place nko?

    Truth is women will always want to go the extra mile to please men...and if they suspect the man is cheating, they blame themselves and try to 'correct' themselves...

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    1. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Yawns and farts

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    2. Anonymous7/20/2013

      True talk Ahdaisy

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  5. Anonymous7/20/2013

    You that yawns and farts don't you have better things to do with yourself? Lol! Na wa for you o! Messy messy! Lol

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    1. Anonymous7/21/2013

      Yawns and farts

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    1. Sheabutter again! I av beedn using sheabutter mixed with fade milk for my stretch marks caused by weightloss,haven't seen results but I notice my boobs are gettin firmer,is dat part of the work too and I hope I still av hope with clearing the stretch marks?

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  7. Seat on a pot of cooking coconut oil.

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    1. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Sit you mean?

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    2. No I meant seat.mtchew

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    3. Anonymous7/20/2013

      You were only being corrected and the anon wasn't rude about it. No need to get salty

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    4. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Salty or saucy? Lmaooo, i give up!

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    5. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Yes, salty
      www.internetslang.com/SALTY-meaning-definition.asp
      Google is your friend.

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  8. Pls who knows where I can sign the petition against the underage child marriage in kaduna and in abuja? Thanks

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    1. Hi deborah,
      Don't know about Kaduna but I know about Lagos and Abuja.

      Abuja
      Venue:
      Unity Fountain, by Transcorp Hilton
      Time: 9am-12noon.

      Lagos
      Venues:
      1. Ojeez Restaurant, National Stadium Surulere.
      2. Alausa Park, Opposite Lagos State Governor's Office, Ikeja.
      3. The Palms Shopping Mall, Lekki
      4. New African Shrine, Agidingbi, Ikeja.
      5. Arrangements are still on-going for those in Festac Town and it's environs.
      Time is 9am-12noon.

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    2. thanks MrsB, got the kaduna address frm Jay.

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  9. Anonymous7/20/2013

    Ope, using fade milk for ur stretch marks isn't so ideal. Instead use shea butter and bio oil. And don't expect results like magic. Patience and consistency is key. And yea! Shea butter helps for firmer skin.

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    1. Thanks,do I just say I want to buy bio oil at d cream market or any particular brand name?

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    2. @ Ope bio oil is the brand name

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  10. Anonymous7/20/2013

    Debbie ur email na? Pssss.

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    1. anon10:50 is it my own debbie, cant remember you asking, pls mail anty eya to give you thanks,

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  11. Anonymous7/20/2013

    Pink sunset, me I like hw eya updates and carries us along. Please don't discourage her jor

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    1. Excuse you? Pls read the last part of my writeup again, the last 5 lines precisely.

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    2. Anonymous7/20/2013

      DON'T MIND ALL THIS BLIND VOLTRONS PINK!
      THEY DON'T LIKE TO HEAR THE TRUTH!
      YOU THINK AUNTY EYA GIVES 2 HOOTS ABOUT YOU PEEPS?
      SHE IS MORE CONCERNED ABOUT INCREASING HER TRAFFIC AND ATTRACTING ADVERTISEMENTS AND YOU GUYS BAD-MOUTH ANYBODY THAT STATES THE OBVIOUS!
      NOT EVERYBODY ARE MOREONS LIKE YOU ALL!

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  12. Twitter, facebook and BBM has been madly in buzz over the #GirlChild issues that is meant to oppose former governor of Zamfara state Ahmed Yerima's bill that seeks to support a constitutional change.

    Th constitutional change seeks to make Nigeria's marriage consent age reduced from 18 to 12 and it's supported by an islamic ideology as proposed by Yerima.

    @Aunty Eya, I'm so surprise ur blog of all has no concrete post and research into this current national issue!

    On Twitter some of the popular twits are:

    Give her a Pen,not a Penis.
    Ask 4 her Books, not Boobs!
    She needs Education not your Ejaculation


    @Aunty Eya, we expecting ur post and also how to sign the petition against such an evil bill.



    Nuff'Said

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    1. mrs krixx7/20/2013

      Me too ohh. Am suprised aunty eya has not done a post on d issue. Am so upset about it. Its truly sickening

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    2. mrs krixx7/20/2013

      Upset with d girl child potential abuse issue

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    3. Anonymous7/20/2013

      WOULD THAT INCREASE HER TRAFFIC?

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    4. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Thank you! This is a more important issue,than marriage of Funke akindele and the tightening of vaginas.

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  13. Ace God bless you.

    I actually came to this post to leave a comment which was meant to be exactly what you just said about the #ChildNotBride.

    Aunty Eya, biko, this is a major issue for our daughters; your girls' age mates. You can check the hash tag #ChildNotBride to inform people of where to sign the petitions in their respective states. The few ones I know are:

    As for those in Abuja, go to Unity Fountain Abuja before 2pm today to sign the petition.

    Port Harcourt: Tweet at @dr_kaduru for information about Civic Center, Moscow Road #ChildNotBride outreach.

    Lagos: Tweet at @Nedunaija for information about Ojez Restaurant, National Stadium, Surulere #ChildNotBride Outreach.

    Please sign the petition following the link #ChildNotBride http://t.co/3nf6R61Tph

    Kaduna: Front Gate of Lugard Hall 9am on Monday #ChildNotBride.

    Benin: Museum Ground, Ring Road from 11am today. #ChildNotBride

    Kent: Gillingham High Street, Kent, England by 1pm on Monday. #ChildNotBride

    Ilorin: Mr Biggs, Tanke Junction GRA from 10am today. #ChildNotBride

    Ekiti: Fajuyi Park, Ado-Ekiti by 9am today. #ChildNotBride"

    Owerri: KFC Foods #3 MCC/Urratta Road by 3pm today. #ChildNotBride

    Osogbo: Fakunle Comprehensive High School by 4pm tomorrow. #ChildNotBride

    Akure: Adegbemile Cultural Centre by 12noon today. #ChildNotBride

    Warri: The point beside Synergy Centre Jakpa Road from 9am today. #ChildNotBride

    Ibadan: Come to Mokola behind Group Medical Hospital from 9am today. #ChildNotBride

    Lagos: Union Bank, Alaba Junction. Oja-Alaba Axis from 9am today. #ChildNotBride

    Lagos: The Palms Shopping Mall, Lekki by 9am today. #ChildNotBride

    Port Harcourt: House on the Rock, Heritage House by 10am tomorrow #ChildNotBride

    Port Harcourt: CIWA Church, Artillery Junction by 10am tomorrow. #ChildNotBride

    Lagos:Alausa Park, Ikeja by 9am today. #ChildNotBride

    As Ace said, BBM, Twitter has been on fire, so to say, with this issue this past week. But there's been nothing here except the issues of one actress that cannot change our lives :-) Thank you.

    Nuff said :)

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    1. Thanks Jay! For d kaduna info Wonder why senators will vote for underage girl marriage- SMH, just when u tink u understand this world. Am so happy that we as Nigerians now have a voice, speaking thru social media, tv, radio etc. Social media is now a tool for empowerment and change. Its well with our Country

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    2. Thanks sis.... Very very in-depth!

      To also add, Ahmed Sanni Yerima the proponent of this dastard bill married a 13 year old egyptian 2 years ago.

      2 years after, that girl is still a kid at 15...

      Does it mean that when a 13 year old in Delta or Oyo state is going to school our northern girls will be receiving "Duke Udi" from old men?

      Anyway! Thank God I'm a christian sha!



      Nuff'Said!

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    3. alamin muhammad7/20/2013

      Girls Of 13, 14, 15, 16, 17 Are Not Wives But Are Prostitudes Parading In Hotels; They Are Street Hawkers Parading The Streets @ Nights; They Are Sweet 16 As Such Can Have Sex Anytime They Are In Need; They Can Have 5Boy Friends Yet They Are Not Wives. @ 13,14 15, They Are Disvirgined On Valentine Day, In Primary Schools Toilets, @ The Back Yard @ Dinner Parties, Yet They Are Not Wives. They Are House Girls Selling Sex To The Gate Men, Maddams' Sons Husbands Yet They Are Not Wives, While My Culture Religion Say Yes To Their Marriage, Some Say No To Their Marriage But Yes To Their Prostitution. The Law In The 1999 Constitution Is Vividly Clear On This: In Terms Of Marriage We Are Obliged 2 Follow OurReligious Guides.

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    4. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Thank U Jay n Ace, I hv refreshed ds blog at least 3x today to see wat post Eya did on the #Childnotbride issue, still nothing.
      Muhammed, if men like u dnt patronize or rather stop patronizing these young girls, they will go out of biz.
      Mtschewww!!

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    5. Yes oh n we'r nt ashamed of it,it's nt a most bt wt ur consent as a parent.atleast we ddnt ask 4 gay rights.tnk God am a muslim n am proud of it

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    6. Sir,I was forced into marriage @14,had my first baby @15 and a year apart till my eight child
      My hubby is a nice man,he spoilt me with good life,but I can never love him.he took away my innocence,my right to education and u know d worst part I ve never grown past 14yrs sobs.he made me a director in his clearing/forwarding com haulage comp in amuwo infact one of d biggest in lagos but he knows its never enough.
      I am in my early thirties with grown up kids infact when we go out people think my hubby is my father and my kids are my siblings.I ve not enjoyed my life yet I still feel trapped in a 14 year old body
      Fyi am not looking 4 pity but just felt like sharing cos I know what it feels like

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    7. Thanks for this update jay.

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    8. Anonymous7/20/2013

      @ QOC,it is well!

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    9. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Thank you for sharing.
      It pains me to know these useless senators are taking us backwards instead of moving forward in Nigeria.

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    10. As much as I swore not to get involved in any argument about this, the above comment by Mr alamin is truly alarming.

      I beg to differ but not ALL girls of that age behave like that and you can not justify paedophilic behaviour with those arguments.
      Please explain how an underage girl does not have the mental capacity to vote but somehow has the capacity to get married.

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    11. @alamin muhamed; u don't get the point do u? The point is not about those little child who are naïve and think the best thing @ dat age is to be a prostitute,have sex etc.. Even while we have children dat do such at dat age, we should be looking for a way to rehabilitate them not trying to make a law that will make it proper for men to defile them at that age and hide behind religion and culture.. Do you even know what VVF is? Don't be selfish and stop thinking backwards.. Nobody,I mean no SANE human being should ever think of defiling a 13yr old..

      Y not tell a male child to start having a family @ 13..Is he even matured enough? The problem is d way you and some of your people has been brainwashed. For you to even think like this, u need serious rehabilitation..

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    12. E hugs Queen of d coast! Its well okay, I pray God gives u all ur heart desires.

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    13. @Alamin... I don't feel an urge to even call you Mister (Mr) cos you are not 1, you are an hypocrite... You used ur full names and commented for the 1st time to prove ur religious hypocrisy.

      Do you have a 12 year old daughter you can give to me? I need 1 and ur's or yerima's ASAP. Yerima has female children from his many marriages but hasn't given out any at age 12.

      The circumstance ur brethren's in government and at arms caused this nation is a reason for all the teenage circumstances you highlighted above, a fall out of poverty and strife.

      I want to ask you, at age 12 what were you doing with ur life?

      Albert Camus said and I quote:
      "There are 2 factors that cages the mind and life of a man... (1) Religion (2) Government.

      Truly, I can see that hovering around your little mind.



      Nuff'Vex

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    14. ur anon fan7/20/2013

      Queen,which state are you from?I know you are ibo,pls expantiate.

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  14. Anonymous7/20/2013

    Na wa o. So Aunty Eya must post it? Una no get bogs?

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    1. Anonymous7/20/2013

      They no get bogs, dem get blogs. I must comment. Biko face front.

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    2. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Buhahahahahaha

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    3. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Kikikikikiki anonymouses fighting here o. Choi i haff missed dis blog scarra...

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    4. Anonymous7/20/2013

      ANONYMOUS 1:25, I DON'T KNOW WHAT NAME TO USE TO DESCRIBE YOU!
      NOW YOU ARE ASKING IF THESE PEOPLE DON'T HAVE BLOGS?
      I DON'T BLAME YOU, BUT WE THAT TAKE THE TIME TO COMMENT HERE.
      A SERIOUS ISSUE IS ON GROUND, AND AUNTY EYA IS CONCERNED ABOUT VAGINA TIGHTENING BECAUSE OF TRAFFIC?
      EVERYDAY, SHE SHOWS HER TRUE COLOR, BUT PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE BLIND!
      I CERTAINLY HOPE THIS IS NOT AUNTY EYA REPLYING AS ANONYMOUS?
      IF YOU LIKE DELETE MY COMMENT, YOU WOULD READ IT AND BE IN PEOPLE'S MAIL!

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    5. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Anything 4 traffic baby! I won't put it past her dat she was d one who left dat comment. She's done such b4.

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  15. #childnotbride http://aryora.wordpress.com/2013/07/20/the-mind-of-a-child-bride/

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  16. #childnotbride http://aryora.wordpress.com/2013/07/20/the-mind-of-a-child-bride/

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  17. Pls U guys shud cut Aunty Eya some slack... These days she posts only in the morning and nights...so chill pls...

    My own is, if their religion permits it, then they shud carry on. Why fight for people who dnt want to help themselves? These young girls are married off by their parents and no matter how we protest, it will still go on. As long as theur religion permits it. After all with everything going on ppl still blow up themselves amd others in the name of their god

    However, it shud not be accepted for all Nigerians. Those people who support is are shameless pedophiles. Why did they even start consodering it sef? Were there not any other serious issues to deliberate on that they decided to start looking at reducing the age for marriage? I still cannot imagine how a grown man will find a 12 yr old attractive. Unripery of the highest order. That is perversion from the pit of hell.

    Me I know that I will not leave my kids especially my daughter for anyone! whether friend or relative. And from an early age, I will help her tear her eyes the right way!!! No one is to be trusted! I suggest all other parents do the same. I will keep praying for this nation, for the innocent and for my kids! The devil will never succeed in Jesus' Name...Amen!!!

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    1. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Your ignorance can be sickening at times. What has the devil got to do with this one too???
      They are innocent kids out there who will be affected by this law and you are here spewing rubbish.

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    2. Anon,your own ignorance is worse cos it's spiritual.. And of epic proportions. What has the devil got to do with this? I laugh is pages! So U mean to tell me that God created humans who are naturally perverts and pedophiles?

      How do U think the law works sef? U think when we fight the law, child marriages will end totally? Hahahah! Like I said, I am not against the petition, and I will sign as many as I come across. However, I do not follow the crowd. I am capable of thinking on my own. I will go several steps further to protect my children and any child I can from these pervs. And I will pray for my nation and the innocent.

      Better make sure you sign the petition cos ppl like U only know how to attack others but never do anything worthwhile.

      U can keep defending the devil and displaying your larger than life ignorance.

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    3. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Hahaha I laugh in Swahili.im defending the devil right? You are a very funny character.
      Pedophilia even exists in the US where there are proper laws to protect children. Should they also fold their arms and say to hell with the law it's not even working??
      Ok let me paint a scenario, there is a young girl of 12 years in your neighbourhood. This girl is about to be married off and she comes begging you to help her.Now you really wish you could help her and you go and have a talk with her parents. Now these parents tell you they are doing nothing wrong because the Law permits it. Now tell me, couldn't things have been better if the Parents know that there is a law prohibiting child marriage.
      Do you have to sit and be unconcerned simply because it's not your child?
      Even with your own child what if at the age of 16 she tells you she wants to get married. Ada there is nothing you can do because there is no law to protect your child.
      If reasoning and having empathy means I'm spiritually ignorance then I embrace it with my 2 arms. I always say the moment we start to analyse issues and find practical solutions instead of blaming the devil for everything, we will start to solve so many problems in this country

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    4. Did you see any place where I said I WILL NOT SIGN IT? or NO ONE SHUD SIGN? Does it sound or look like I support it? Does it look like I am opposing the law? I just explained why these things exist. Period! I understand the scenerio U painted but my point is, these people dnt see what they do as a crime in the first place..whether the law supports it or not. Same with suicide bombers and terrorists. Abeg...it's ok. We can all move forward now...

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    5. Anonymous7/21/2013

      As for signing it, everyone can do it. It's the simplest of the actions that can be taken.
      So my dear my point is so far from just signing an online sitting at the comfort of your home.
      I only have a big problem with the ignorant comment you wrote. Keep defending yourself girl, cos I know ppl like you are to thick to self examine and change their views on certain issues. I've said what I can say, the best is to honestly retract your comment, if not you can write as long an epistle as ever explaining yourself,it makes no difference.
      Oh yea, and you can continue blaming the devil for wrongs in the society we can all change.

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    6. Anonymous7/21/2013

      I love u already Anon 2:16, no homo tho

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    7. Anonymous7/21/2013

      Ahdaisy can give advice in epistles but she can't argue logically n accept when she's wrong. Dats bad, no body holy pass.

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    8. Anonymous7/21/2013

      And btw, no one is talking abt ur kids aunty, we r talking abt voiceless girls. So, open ur eyes wide and stop saying jargon abeg. Mstcheew

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    9. Ewo! Una still dey here? Anyway, U guys shud not be angry abeg... I just re read my comment and realized where I mustav sounded insensitive. I guess I was just pissed at how dat Muhamed up there came to defend the stupid law so I came across as harsh. Dnt be offended ok? I usually get defensive when you start attacking me in form of correction.

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  19. @Ahdaisy: "Why fight for people who don't want to help themselves".

    Sorry honey, but that statement is very INCORRECT!

    NB: The fight is for the children and not the parents. Are you implying that the KIDS don't want to help themselves?

    I've met someone who was 13 and a hausa girl who was forced into marriage. We were both 13. She was as sad as hell, but she had no choice. She fought her dad. She wanted education, they wanted marriage for her.

    This fight is for the voiceless. Please sign a petition today. Thank you.

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  20. Jay, I know wat I am talking about! Even when the age limit wasnt reduced, were there child marriages? Yes! Those parents giving out their kids, were some of them married off as children? Yes! Did they feel bad at the time they themselves were married off? Absolutely Yes! Will they still marry off their kids? Your guess is as good as mine!

    As long as their religion permit it, if you like sign a billion petitions, it wil not stop. Dnt get me wring, I am not against the petition and I will sign one tomoro..

    My point is, the problem is ignorance, religious blindness, poverty and perversion. All these have to be dealt with first. All these things we are seeing now is just a symptom of the main problems...

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    1. Still doesn't make it ryt... Keeping quiet makes it worse.

      A billion voices can save just 1 child, that 1 child can turn around to save a generation.

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    2. Anonymous7/20/2013

      Ignorance is such a terrible disease. And you won't mind typing epistle to defend what you said. Nke a gbasara gi

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    3. Anonymous7/20/2013

      @Ahdaisy, MOUTH AGAPE!

      If it is their religion and tradition or culture, why force it down everybody's throat?

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    4. For those who might have a problem with reading and comprehension, pls re-read this carefully...slowly...U can make use of a dictionary if you wish...

      “My own is, if their religion permits it, then they shud carry on. Why fight for people who dnt want to help themselves? These young girls are married off by their parents and no matter how we protest, it will still go on. As long as their religion permits it. After all with everything going on ppl still blow up themselves amd others in the name of their god

      However, it shud not be accepted for all Nigerians. Those people who support is are shameless pedophiles..."

      Culled from my first comment on this issue. I'm out. Peace y'all...

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    5. I really don't get people's problem with what Ahdaisy wrote. Before you criticise her comments, it is good to understand Islam in relation to the genders. I'm no voltron for Ahdaisy but I understood clearly what she was saying. The petition being signed is to prevent the law legalising the marriage of the girl child from being put in place. It wouldn't make it a crime to marry a girl child. After all, the marriage is conducted with the consent of the parents. Their religion permits it (methink). What we are basically doing is fighting the flames of the fire without attacking the roots. Has any Senator pushed a bill to abolish the marriage of children? Until they do, if they do and it ever passes into law, sign your petitions and hope that the poverty in the country will reduce. After all, how many comfortable Muslims will marry off their young daughters @ less than 16years?

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  21. I refuse to believe that its their religion and shouldn't bother those of us who aren't Muslims. Yes, their parents marry them off but for God's sake, its not ALL muslim parents who do this. Also, what about the children who don't want it?

    Please let me point out that this is about THE CHILD'S consent, not even the parents so really think about that.
    Another thing to think about is that this law gives free rein to paedophiles, child molesters, rapists and all that to do as they please with little girls and claim consent!

    How anybody can be indifferent to or support this is beyond me.

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    1. Oh and FYI, if this bill is passed into law, it will affect ALL female children in the country, not just those in the north or Muslims.

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    2. Yeah MrsB...I understand perfectly and if you check my comments I never for once supported it or tried to discourage anyone from signing. I clearly stated that it should not be enforced on all Nigerians. I have signed Aunty Eya's own and tomoro I am going to House on the Rock to sign.

      My only argument here is that once it is backed up by their religion, stopping it totally is not possible. Imagine the number of educated senators supporting it?. That is y I said I will pray for this nation. Evil will not succeed. And the parents consent has a lot to do with it. I can't imagine y a child will consent to being married. It is the parents who consent and most times force these kids into it. You cnt imagine the kind of physical, emotional and psychological methods these parents use to force their babies on pervs. And of course the line, 'it is the will of God'. As long as these people believe it is the will of God, there's no stopping them. That's why we still have suicide bombers.

      I suggest they also look into child abuse and molestation laws. Not just stop this law, we should advocate for stricter more severe punishment for child abusers. I believe that will even have more impact. Thanks.

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    3. Ashwally, as for those senators, you'll be surprised to know that some of them aren't educated. It's not surprising though. Our duty as citizens is to be a part of the process, not just the 'siddon look' that we're used to.

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    4. Anonymous7/22/2013

      Ahdaisy, you are contradicting yourself a whole lot

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  22. You missed my point o Ahdaisy. I was referring to that statement and pointing out to you that "the people we are fighting for" are the KIDS. And from your statement, you implied "they don't want to help themselves". That is wrong. You implied the kids don't want to help themselves. I'm sure you know that majority of these girls have fled and others are feeling hopeless over this issue, despite the "It's God's will" talk. A child is a child. A child's brain is a child's brain, Muslim or Christian.

    That statement was incorrect. Or am I not reading clearly? I should probably borrow interpretation lenses. Yeah ya. I would try that option. Lol

    Anyway, we know the parents force them, yes. You know what, let me stop here sef.

    All I know is that 9ja mentality is sickening. Gosh, God borrow us the mentality of the Egyptians. Amen!!! Nigerians give up too soon. They never believe they can cause change. It's sad though.. Very. God help us all. Even Occupy Nigeria, I can imagine what the Egyptians would have done with that. Dang!

    Happy Saturday evening peoples!

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  23. Jay, now I get ur point. I meant the people in general...(Muslims) cos truth is, they makeup majority of d people who support child marriages.

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    1. Anonymous7/21/2013

      Please be graceful enough to retract your statement,it speaks volume..this is a very sensitive issue.if a law is repugnant to natural justice equity and good conscience, then it should be revoked..regardless of the premise on which it was founded..mee

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  24. Ahdaisy, saying if their religion permits it they should carry on is tantamount to saying if their religion permits killing of 'unfaithfuls' they should carry on as well. To me, that's a very insensitive thing to say.
    Moreover the signing of bill into law means its now a law in Federal Republic of Nigeria and some bastards will see it as an excuse to take advantage of innocent girls afterall, it has been okayed by some men with animalistic tendencies.
    Religion or not, a child is a child and no child should ever be forced into marriage. Childhood once lost can NEVER be gotten back. At 13, children should be in schools and not in marriages. Their warped religion supporting doesn't make it right!! Going ahead to make it a law worsens the whole thing cos I want to believe there are some muslims who won't give out their underage girls in marriage but when its a law they can be coerced into doing so.
    #childnotbride#

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    1. I just love your last statement,especially where u said "Going ahead to make it a law worsens the whole thing cos I want to believe there are some muslims who won't give out their underage girls in marriage but when its a law they can be coerced into doing so."

      God bless your soul.

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    2. Right baack @ you Jay. God bless you to @Mama Ijebu.

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  25. While we are busy tightening, and yes, we must tighten. Let us remember the helpless child whose body is not prepared to go through this rigour. Nigerians must say NO to abnormalities that is being thrown in our faces. Our fathers have indeed eaten the proverbial sour grape and our teeth set on edge. Trully, our ship of state is in very rough seas.

    Visit leyejisola.blogspot.com Join the march to build a great nation. We are a good people

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  26. Anonymous7/24/2013

    Sad. They are now claiming they never voted for child marriage . Vist http://sardaunamagazine.com/index.php/component/k2/item/2028-ekweremadu-no-plans-to-endorse-child-marriage to read more.

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