Asking Northern Women For The Recipe Of Kayan Mata

 Hello Aunty Eya, I’m a young soon to be bride and follower of your blogs. Please I’d like you to publish an episode asking your northern women for the recipe of what the wives use to make them sweet in the other room. 

I’m a hausa girl but my mother is Russian. So she knows nothing
about it but I heard 90% of hausa brides are given this recipe before marriage. I don’t trust my aunties or my step mom so I want to cook it myself, all I need is the recipe. 

I don’t want to miss out on anything because I’m marrying a northern man too. So please please make my marriage sweet by publishing this and beg your readers to help me out. Thank you so much. 

48 thoughts on “Asking Northern Women For The Recipe Of Kayan Mata”

  1. Recipe for KAYAN MATA

    6 cups of fresh Cow milk
    1kg of Sheabutter
    1 2ft long Koboko
    4 bulbs of Onion
    2 Glasses of Ruwa
    9 Table spoons of Gun powder

    Sorry, I can only remember the recipe can't remember the procedures I hope some else can help with that…

    In Other News… Happy Birthday NELSON MADIBA MANDELA!

    #InsomniaNights, just joking @poster!

    Nuff'Joke!

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  2. Its nt smtin u can gt jst lyk dat so its beter u ask ur paternal aunties for advice&guidance.Goodluck.

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  3. Poster,na wa for u ooooooooooooo
    What effort were u apprciating and btw ace is a he.I gave u clean advice u said I mocked u,d person that mocked u is whom u are thanking now.na wa for mallam people

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  4. and also, google "aphrodisiacs" and see normal food items you can eat that will get you revved up, things like ginseng, oysters (if you have money like that) etc…seriously, information is out there, ASK! and RESEARCH!

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  5. My northern friend told me about this before I got married. I didn't see the need for it so I declined. Good luck with that. One of the menu is to eat one whole chicken (kaza) that would be prepared a certain way some weeks to the wedding then eat another one after the wedding that way your hubby will do whatever you ask him to do for you, there is another one for sweetness down there…. #nothanks.

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  6. Hello poster,
    Just to clarify, 'kayan mata' is not cooked per say, its a mixture or concoction of different herbs that have different uses. They all have one aim, to make you and your hubbys experience in the bedroom amazing. If you want the real traditional kayan mata, go to the market (assuming ur in the north nw) and ask hausa traders male or female fr were they sell kayan mata, u will be directed. If u wnt the more natural kayan mata, there are loads of homemade recipes tht I cnt get into right nw. But take loads of water melon. Or try blending water melon, add a tin of peak milk, dates and drink. ….

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  7. (First time commenter) I feel this queen of d coast lady shud be totally banned 4rm this blog..and anytin dat bears her name…she's such a bitter person, no1 needs a soothsayer to tell she has a sad life..its only natural 4 a bitter person 2 derive joy in causing others pain..but she fails 2 understand dt her life will continue 2 be in a stand still if she keeps doin evil..karma is a bitch! And its on 2 U! Mrs AAA

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  8. Poster kayan mata isn't one particular food you cook, I know a lady that's a specialist in abuja and another in bauchi. It contains food to eat, herbs, spices, perfume etc also as a new amariya they will have to do waxing dirki etc. If you are interested u can contact me. But pls its not any hausa seller you can buy it from, some are into diabolical things.

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  9. First time commenter) I feel this poster of kayan mata or raimi shud be totally banned 4rm this blog..and anytin dat bears her name…she's such a bitter person, no1 needs a soothsayer to tell she has a sad life..its only natural 4 a bitter person 2 derive joy in causing others pain..but she fails 2 understand dt her life will continue 2 be in a stand still if she keeps doin evil..karma is a bitch! And its on 2 U

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  10. Ofcourse I'm talking out of bitterness! @least it is chanelled in the right direction..funny part is I hardly scroll 2 the comments part, few times I did, her name came up n she seemed unwanted…and 2day I saw 1st hand…how she takes her time 2 be mean…4 absolutely no reason!!! Wat kind of humanbeing is that?! It might seem like a joke 2 her…but she shud be smart enof 2 know that she might just be the only 1 laffing! Mrs AAA

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  11. Ofcourse I'm talking out of bitterness! @least it is chanelled in the right direction..funny part is I hardly scroll 2 the comments part, few times I did, raini's name came up n she seemed unwanted…and 2day I saw 1st hand…how she takes her time 2 be mean…4 absolutely no reason!!! Wat kind of humanbeing is that?! It might seem like a joke 2 her…but she shud be smart enof 2 know that she might just be the only 1 laffing! MAA

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  12. Both of una na anonymous…..so don't be calling a kettle black when ya own name na pot.
    Mrs AAA,pls get a grip.we ve been living with her since
    Yawns

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  13. Oh My! It appears she has lots of supporters…like dey say…U cast out a demon and it returns with several others…a lot really has changed since I've been here…my apologies..sorry I singled U out madam…didn't know being mean was trending…okies! Madam Eya more grease 2 ur elbow..I can only imagine wat U have 2 deal with outside ur 'family' vision…Mrs AAA

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  14. mrs AAA,this is a blog its not that serious
    If u find her comment vulgar y don't skip it
    U guys are d real bullies and troublemakers .msewwwww

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  15. So with all these comments, no1 actually gave this lady d recipe to Wat she wants, instead na abuses and insults she get as recipe.Lesson to all of u that bring ur burden to blogs.

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  16. Wen pple tlk abt kayan mata I laff, for a muslim its ok but 4 a christian its a big no no. That shit is highly DIABOLICAL na mallams the chant ontop the real ones any oda thing is fake.I hv 2 friends who afta drinking it were still shunned one wit a kid sef.

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  17. WC NEVER CEASES TO AMAZE ME!MARRIED WOMEN BEHAVING LIKE KIDS. HMMM WELL ITS A FUN PLACE TO BE + THE LESSONS I LEARN HERE! QOC WELL DONE OH!ALWAYS COMING BACK AS VARIOUS NAMES AND DIFFERENT ANONYMOUS. U FUNNY SHA, BCOS YOU REALLY MADE ME LAUGH TODAY.

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  18. Its not that serious abi? Tell that 2 d pp that come here with issues! Idiat! Anuofia! Monkey! Why u no skip d comment too?

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  19. I'm Hausa born and bred. My advice to you take planty water melon,other fruits,vegetables,exercise (very important for stamina) and in general live a healthy life. One sure aprhodisiac is musk-gets the juices flowing immediately,but to get the real deal hard ooh,sai a Dubai,a Dubai din ma sai da kyar! All the best dear

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  20. Poster what's ur location? I know someone in abuja that does kayan mata. Well the kayan mata I know isn't a recipe rather its various things in one package. They tell you and give you spices, perfume explain the use etc then also dirki, waxing, laili, tularie wuta etc.

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  21. A friend of mine bought it from kano and gave me some they are diff types of herbs n when I tried it Good Gracious Lord I really enjoyed myself with my partner! It's d best!

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  22. Peace! I'm also interested, so please email me via this post.

    Can this be shipped out to another country? Does it have a long shelf life? I'm familiar with many herbs like this, but this seems like a complete package.
    Thanks for the info. 😉

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  23. Please i'm not th poster but I stumbled upon ur comment and was so interested.I stay in abuja and i'm so interested. Pls help.

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  24. Kayan mata sold in open markets are a joke. Original kayan mata are generational secrets. It is inherited and passed through generations.
    The women who make kayan mata do not sell in the market. They are in their homes or dedicated quarters. They won't even attend to you if you are not married because the know the damage it can cause to a man as no woman will be able to sexually satisfy him except you, hence you literally enslave the man.
    Kayan mata sold in open markets can be adulterated, mixed with synthetics for profit and may not be as effective.
    Except the person selling is a direct link to these women and genuine.
    But people like that don't even sell mass market quantity. They deal with specific clients and referrals.

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