What Should I Do With This Baby?

Hello WC and Aunty Eya, I have a big issue and please please need urgent repliess am stuck in my room and can't go out.I have never been pregnant. I am a student but live off campus. My boyfriend and I broke up about six months ago I wasn't pregnant. I can swear that up till this morning I wasn't pregnant.

Yesterday
, I wore my tight jeggings, my waistline has never increased, my boobs and tummy are their same small sizes. My periods have never failed.I don't know what to do about this mystery baby. Where did she come from? While trying to use the bathroom this morning, I couldn't stop pushing and I thot it was stomach cramps then this thing coming out  thot it was death. I Felt like I was going to die alone in the bathroom, then I saw a babies' head and had to grab. I worked briefly in the hospital while waiting for JAMB. 

I grabbed and pulled out a live baby. the cord has been cut with my blunt razor and I don't know what is happening.Aunty Eya my enemies have succeeded. What do I do? Where is the baby from? I was never pregnant.am scared, cannot even call my parents, What should I do? Is this a real baby?

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  1. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Jesus, tell me am reading sumtin from my dreams...like really?
    Wao..I must say that's a blessing den.
    Pls take care of ur bundle of joy..call ur closet friend 2 help Ʊ get d neccessary things, visit a hospital and take good care of both of Ʊ....tell ur bf if Ʊ r sure he is responsible 4 it...and b happy.

    God bless you real good.

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  2. Anonymous6/25/2013

    You were pregnant and pls don't dump that baby

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  3. Babino6/25/2013

    Waowwww,well I would have been soo shocked if I had not watched the program "I didn't know I was pregnant before" lots of ladies fell into this your situation. First of all the doctors always at a point admits its a great miracle,because how the baby survived without antenatal instructions,the do's and the don't is always a mystery to them. One of the reasons I heard them give for women that fell into this category is that the baby was hiding at their back all along hence that's why they didn't know they were preggy all through. Some even carry out pregnancy test and all,yet its always comes back negative till the day of delivery. My dear that baby is a wonderful gift,its a baby of divine purpose and destiny,dnt give it up,I suggest you go to the hospital now so that they can take care of her and you,then pls summon the courage to inform your parents,there is nothing hidden under the sun,be courageous and block your ears and hearts against what people would say please. May God strengthen you. Plenty hugs. God is indeed great!!!Oluwatobiloba,Kabieosi ooo Baba.

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    1. that show is very scary..makes me wonder

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    2. Babino6/25/2013

      Honestly me too,it jes shows the supremacy of God.

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    3. Anonymous6/25/2013

      This isn't d 1st time its happenin to fellow women like u.I also watch d program & reading ur story just felt like i was watching another episode of it.Having a baby doesn't ruin ur life, nor stop u frm achieving ur goals in life.Please,accept this reality of urs & THIS DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH UR ENEMIES!!! OK?
      May d Lord be with u, children actually bring good tidings

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    4. Anonymous6/25/2013

      It happens.
      I have watched documentaries on it.
      It's not a mystery baby.

      Wait,you had time to send a mail after giving birth,instead of calling for help? Please go to the hospital immediately.

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  4. Carry urself to the nearest hospital and don't try anything stupid.

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  5. Please just go to the hospital.
    Its very possible to be pregnant and not know it. Its rare but its possible.
    Please take the child and yourself to the hospital ASAP. This isn't the time to wonder what people may say or think. Your safety is most important right now, both of you.
    All the very best

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  6. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Oturubeke. The kind of stories i read on madam Eyas blog... grabing my popcorn and coke.

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  7. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Oturubeke. The kind of stories i read on madam Eyas blog... grabing my popcorn and coke.

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    1. As in! If its true that this happened,writing to a blog is d last thing that'll be on ur mind! So u dey hold baby for room and u're waiting for comments ba? U must be joking. U've been watching too much TLC abeg!

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    2. Anonymous6/25/2013

      Hahahaha! Chi and anonymous! Funny! I'm glad I'm not alone!

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    3. Nwa pastor6/25/2013

      Looool,na wa ooo nothing wey we no hear.wey ahdaisy and sister sef

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  8. Anonymous6/25/2013

    My dear, u were pregnant but u dint know it. Trust me stuff like dis happens. Take urself and d baby 2 a hospital 4 check up. And den tell ur parents about ur baby. Also tell ur x bf. If he acceptes, great. If he doesn't, his loss. But PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, DO NOT ABANDON UR BABY. God will help u take kare of ur child. Oma Baby.

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    1. Anonymous6/25/2013

      *accepts* Oma Baby

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  9. Like seriously, am really surprised at this miracle baby. I strongly advice you see a medic fast, contact your ex bf and tell him about the baby i.e if you did not play away match while dating him. Contact your parents and tell them about it, and the sooner the better dear.
    Also let me not forget to plead with you not to tamper with that child of yours. Your priority now should focus on education and your baby.
    Una Don see am, wen some of us go die of pains and fever under one month, she Don drop her babe without paracetamol for toilet. God be praised.
    Please where is sister?

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  10. See me dey look for pikin for donkey years, studentt dey pick for free.
    This life

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    1. Anonymous6/26/2013

      It is well Mrs L, God will do it for u be +ve...

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  11. BeeCee6/25/2013

    Madam Eya pls check your mails. If she would like to give that baby up. Cn I know her destination? Help send my mail to her pls

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    1. Anonymous6/25/2013

      ehen hen giving up for what she is keeping her baby go born your own..twishhh..

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    2. BeeCee6/25/2013

      Replying with a sharp mouth. How does that make you feel? Asking to take custody is better than watching her dump, cos that is what most of you students do.

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    3. Anonymous6/25/2013

      And you take know say na student write that thing?? you no even allow the girl think of what to do first..you don dey wan go take custody chai!!

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    4. BeeCee6/25/2013

      Keep quiet jor. I know your type. After dumping everything you atart visiting prayer houses at the bar beach to ask for mermaid babies.

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    5. Anonymous6/25/2013

      hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh mermaid babies hahahahahahahahahahaha I cannot laugh ohhhh

      Ignorance is sure bliss!
      jokes apart the lady needs to try to have a clear head and think not just decide immediately so she doesnt make wrong decisons people give their babies away and regret and for some people it becomes the best decision they ever made so what i was trying to say is dont just jump in there! Let her settle,think sort herself..

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    6. Anonymous6/25/2013

      I apologize if i hurt your feelings in anyway tho...dont worry your own bundle is on the way..

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  12. Priscy6/25/2013

    wow...I have never heard of this my whole life. I honestly would not know what to do if I were you.

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  13. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Poster, congratulations you just had your first baby. The Lord will keep you both in sound health. You need to get to the hospital fast, using a blunt/old blade for a new born can lead to serious infection. You also need post natal attention. Has tye plancenta come out already? Please you need all the help you can get, inform your parents then get a neighbour to take you to the hospital. Tell the doctors everything you have told us. This stuff happens a lot, you are not weird and your baby isn't strange as well.

    Pls let us know how you ae doing. God is your strength.

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  14. Anonymous6/25/2013

    @ poster pls go to d hospital for treatment first to avoid infection on u n d baby. By d way wats d baby's gender?

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  15. Anonymous6/25/2013

    This na home video, abi na super story! Shuooo... Hiding under my desk ooo... I neva hear this one before oh

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    1. Anonymous6/25/2013

      hahahhahahahahahahaaa come out jare!!! this one na real super story..

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    2. Anonymous6/25/2013

      You are inexposed and you don't read wide better start now. This earth is not as flat as you think. It is spherical. Thank me later, that is when you start reading wide and being current with world issues.#HidingUnderMymattress.

      Congratulations new mother, hope you are at the hosp now??? It's not a mystery baby, it's you and former bf's baby.

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    3. Anonymous6/25/2013

      Let's be real oo, how can! No preg signs, no labour signs, nor big tommy, no big nose, no irritation, no seizing of menstrual flow, no spiting, no morning sickness, no vomiting, no large breast, no large bumbum, no cramps at night, no kicking, no nothing! Ha! This na vodoo oh! Still hiding under my desk oh
      Shuooo! I hold my head join am oh!

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    4. Anonymous6/25/2013

      I never believed until it happened to my cousin right under the same roof. The shock in the house could electrocute everyone.

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  16. Anonymous6/25/2013

    I wish na me shit one baby boy like that comot for early morning. Chei!!!

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    1. Anonymous6/25/2013

      lol..

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    2. Lol, I go wish shit twins out

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  17. Anonymous6/25/2013

    My God! I have never heard of anything like this before o. Makes me wonder if I'm also pregnant. I'd be at alert for the next 8months, if no foetus comes out from under me, I'd know I'm not pregnant. Honestly, i have pregnancy scare and I'm not sure of what to think, been menstruating too but, since this happened, anything can happen *faints*

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  18. Anon 10:31, it's not VOODOO, just pray it doesn't happen to you cos me sef don see am for my neighborhood. Why do you think ppl dump babies and no one can say who was pregnant before the incident?

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  19. Anonymous6/25/2013

    OMG!!!!!!!!!
    I'm going, going, then finally faints and drops.

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  20. Mrs OFT.6/25/2013

    Is this a real story or some kind of joke arising from TLC. Eya please contact the person if possible

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  21. waohhhh if I never watched "Dint know i was Pregnant" then I would have thot otherwise.. But these things do happen tho very rare

    Please get medical attention Asap..and let ur ex know..Wish you the best..

    http://aomosale.blogspot.co.uk/

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  22. Dear Poster, I didn't know things like this happen for real. I couldn't believe all that I read till others confirmed they've heard of such occurrence.

    Like others have said, yours isn't the first and I don't think it will be the last; there's ALWAYS an oddity to every scenario of life.

    Please visit the nearest hospital for proper care and check-up; inform your family and your ex.

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  23. Anonymous6/25/2013

    really am so happy for you but you should inform your parents they need to know i know it might be hard but they would get over it, dont be concerned abt what pple would say and as for the father of your baby from what i read here it's like it's your boyfriend you broke up with 6 mnths back he too should know about this . I pray God guides you through all this. Once again congratulations

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  24. Anonymous6/25/2013

    please kindly keep us updated on this story of yours. thanks may God see you thru, welcome to mother hood. p.s: please keep the baby

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  25. Are u for real @ poster?geez...av never heard of this all my life,weird things are happening oo.chineekee!!

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  26. Dis can happen 2 anyone 4 real!!!!!! Gosh. Dnt evn wnt 2 imagine hw convincing d guy dt he's an emergency fada wld go. Pls call ur mum n go 2 a hosp soon

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    1. A DNA test would be the best option to convince the guy cos if she's dating someone else now(most likely)and her Ex is aware of it,then it won't be easy convincing him with words.

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  27. Anonymous6/25/2013

    What happened to the placenta? Hp it fell off o. Pls go to the nearest good hospital. Call ur closest ally, better still ur Mum. U need all the support U can get. Family wont turn their back. Oya, get up ok. All the best!

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  28. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Dear poster, this your story has plenty K leg ooo. I know women get pregnant and they don't know about it, even frm watching "I didn't know I was pregnant" but this story has so many loopholes. You don't wake up one day and then baby comes out in the bathroom, then you use a razor to cut the cord, then fire up your laptop or ipad and mail Anty Eya this long story, and then wait for it to get published, and sit and read the comments, while you leave your new born. Anyperson that just gives birth without knowing won't react by mailing, any instinct will make you call a friend, or mother not email. Pls the story isn't logical at all. Anyway congrats on ur baby if its true and don't think of throwing the baby away oo.

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    1. Anonymous6/25/2013

      The same thought came to me as i read.

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  29. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Congrats lady, pls don't even consider giving your child away

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  30. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Eya pls post smth believable. Yes, sm1 can be preggy & not know it but sm1 cant suddenly hv a baby & start sending a mail 2 WC. So she lives alone in a wilderness. No neighbour 2 call on & she doesnt hv a mother, sister, aunty or friend 2 call. Abeg u can fool pple smtimes but not all d time. U've been watching 2much TLC. Even d girls on dat show always call a family member or friend or 911. Abeg i dey vex.

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    1. Anonymous6/25/2013

      Stop running your bowels durl, nothing is new under the sun. If I tell you what me have seen. Dis na small pikin

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    2. Anonymous6/25/2013

      Aunty Eya pls don't mind this shallow mind. Shocking but possible and believable to moi

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  31. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Ha! I hope u didn't type this msg with ur placenta intact oh! You didn't add that ur placenta fell oo... We need to know that you're ok now! My goodness! Delivered ur baby by ur sef, hey! And u were able to type clearly and send a mail! Jesus christ!
    I'm still hiding under my desk oo!
    I've had two babies with CS oh, labour pain nor bi here oh! And you had urs like u went to pupu strng pupu.
    God! You're awesome!!

    Patsy

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    1. Patsy, some women do give birth on their own. My grand mom gave birth to my aunt at home with no one to assist her.

      Also, I've heard case of women who go to toilet thinking they want to urinate but end up giving birth.

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  32. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Waoh i can understand ur predicament. But i tell dats a divine baby. Am sure if u knew u were pregnant u wld have aborted it.Pls keep d baby and if u can't, like sombody said pls give it up for adoption. But always be in consistent touch with your child.Hmmm... wonders will never end. God bless u!!!!!

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  33. Anonymous6/25/2013

    All of you still advising, do you think she ll still be at home to read your advise? You are jokers

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  34. Bislondy6/25/2013

    Wow! we live in a world of wonders.. pls call someone close to you(a friend) to help you to the hospital. call your parents afterwards, then your ex to inform him he's a daddy(i am sure he will be as surprised as you are right now. All the best

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  35. U had been having unprotected sex for sometime which is considered fornication and u were amazed to be pregnant?and people saying that this is a divine what from who?
    People should stop mocking God!His righteous standards are clear,He doesn't deal in dodgy ways to get His message across.
    We suffer the consequences of deliberate sin and this one of them!
    As for your story I don't know whether to believe or not but girrrl u aint no Mary so stop acting all naïve and stupid!

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      Your righteousness did not let you conceive until after 7years of marriage and you are here cussing out this girl?

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    2. Anonymous6/26/2013

      Wow. Thank God you weren't born when Mary got pregnant for Jesus. You'd have cussed her out!

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    3. Anonymous6/26/2013

      she would have picked the first stone and threw at her!

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    4. @Anon 6:09 u must be confusing me with someonelse,I beg ur pardon!problems with childbirth?married for 7yrs?I laugh in capital letters!that's soo not me ok so all u casting fire and brimstone over me for upholding God's righteous standards,well guess u'all are happy living in perpetual sin!
      The Bible said in the last days,people like ur sorts would be around condoning and applauding wrong.2Timothy 3:5-7 is for u to reflect and meditate on.
      The girl is acting all naïve when she well knows having sex leads to pregnancy,is this rocket science?
      Fine baby has come,we thank Jehovah but wrong is wrong,there's no middle ground.
      And if I was in Mary's era,been a diligent student of the Bible and knowing that the Bible had prophesied about the birth of Jesus,I wouldn't have questioned it.
      Nice day to u all and remember 1John 5:3 as well as 1John 2:15-17.Kisses.
      Thank You

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    5. Anonymous6/26/2013

      And what happened to King David and Uriahs wife, madam abena? Did David not later repent and was Solomon not the next King( @ ur amazement at it being divine)? Was it not from his lineage Christ came? How sure are you that the Lady in question has not repented?
      I am not. In support of premarital sex, but please don't be quick to judge. Let he who is standing take heed, lest he fall.

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    6. Anonymous6/26/2013

      ask her!
      dnt worry, on d judgement day, write i was a virgin on earth, n see if dat wud take u enter heaven. u wud account 4 evry spoke word, actn & tots madam abena.

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  36. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Anon 4:11 & anon 4:14, d 2 of u r dumb 4 replying me. Dis is how u fail exams. I didnt say its not possible 2 be preggy & not know till labour/ childbirth. All am saying is dat its NOT POSSIBLE 4 sm1 dat gave birth under dat circumstance 2 type a well composed & coordinated mail. I hv 2 kids & i know how my entire body was shaking after i had my babies. So wit all d blood & nyama-nyama & a baby dat must be screaming his/her head off she typed dat mail. I worked in a hospital, jamb, i wore leggings yesterday blah blah blah. Am just being logical here cos i hv brains & i use it unlike u. Dont worry when next Aunty Eya fries akara she will give u both 4 being loyal 2 a fault. Awon ode oshi.

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    1. Anonymous6/26/2013

      Thanks for calling me dumb because I didn't flow with you. I sent Eya a mail for advice last month and what she published wasn't exactly what I posted. I don't think Aunt Eya will publish an incoherent post sent by a traumatized lady without editing first. She actually edited my mail before postong and I HAD TO SEND HER A THANK YOU MAIL when I read the blog.
      Thank me later for not insulting you too.

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    2. Anonymous6/26/2013

      When my sis gave birth, there was no blood all over and she wasn't shaking all over. She hugged me and hubby with smiles and laughter. Every woman cannot be like you sweetie.

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    3. Anonymous6/26/2013

      There is always blood all over, and sometimes excreta.

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    4. Anonymous6/26/2013

      Yuck, my baby came out clean with no excreta. Some births can be quite dirty I know but not mine

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  37. Abena Mother6/26/2013

    @Abena, Madam righteous Moses, you have come again with your self righteousness abi? Please don't congratulate but condemn her. you the almighty Judge Abena.

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    1. Anonymous6/26/2013

      dnt mind d over-righteous zealot
      wz her husband a virgin wn he married her, bcus he does nt have a hymen?
      wat did she tink a man 10yrs older than her wz doing y waiting 4 her 2 finish schooling?
      hw did ur mother conceive u? do u no?
      u dnt have 1 of d traits of a true christian in u, LOVE, wch covers multitude of sins.

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  38. Anonymous6/26/2013

    Abena repent and be renewed

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  39. Anonymous6/26/2013

    Abena ooo, even a prostitutes birth is congratulated. Never hate a baby, its Gods gift

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  40. Ok ok,now I'm confused!did somebody send a story in my name about not being able to concieve for 7yrs?or did somebody with my name say she married a man 10years older than her while I took a blog hiatus?
    None of those apply to me,I don't go spilling my life story to total strangers,unfortunately I'm not sucked into the TMI of social media that seems to be the norm now.
    For me every advice I need is found in the Bible and it principles,fine I'm imperfect and prone to sin but would not deliberately carry myself into wrongdoing,that is grieving the holy spirit.
    I know the world has become jaded and lax in their way of thinking and lifestyle but there are certain people who wanna stick to God's righteous standards no matter what!
    So all of u who have being confusing me with someone else,stop it now!it not nice that u would use the inability of someone to give birth to ridicule them,not cool at all.

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    1. Anonymous6/26/2013

      You almost sound like the other Abena(s) that have commented on this story. I am very sure you are not the only Abena in the world?

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    2. Anonymous6/26/2013

      u r lying!
      u r d same!
      dnt play smart!
      there is no 2 abena here!

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  41. Chukwunonso6/26/2013

    It is a made up story...

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    1. Anonymous6/26/2013

      Not surprised at all, you are a man

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  42. Anonymous6/26/2013

    How far about this baby and her mother, Aunty Eya we want to know oh!
    I still think about the ikorodu lady and how she's fairing at the moment!
    All these dramatic stories without feedback gives me headache abeg!

    Feedback is neccessary abeg

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  43. Anonymous6/26/2013

    Ikorodu lady is not the only one with challenges

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  44. This is shockingly challengable. Hope you can handles this.

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