Pornography Issues With My Husband

Good morning Eya Ayambem, please i need help. I have this problem with my husband. When we got married i discovered
he likes watching pornography movies on the internet so much it became a habit. I was not happy but had to help him, we discussed the issue and prayed about it. I was happy when i discovered that he has stopped all those pornography things with the help of God, he broke the CD and truly stopped.

Now my problem is that just last night, I caught him watching this demonic thing again after two years. Please my people what else can I do to stop this but I'm still praying about it.

Thank you Eya, Thank you all.

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  1. My dear, continue praying, because every addiction is difficult to break. try to spice up things in the bedroom, am sure if you guys are acting your own movie, he will not want to watch other people!

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  2. BEKEES6/11/2013

    He needs akpakor prayers and deliverance.Years back I remember this same issue almost broke Kirk Franklin's marriage,He was so addicted that he even brought it inside his bedroom to practice with his wife. According to his testimony,God took control and he was delivered.My sista at dis point don't criticize him,jst pray for him and he shld also go for deliverance.

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  4. babe, welldone for helping him out.its not easy to break off a habit.i suggest you watch it with him,and practice exactly what u have watched and more#wink#,maybe dat ll make him feel guilty &stop....

    http://warmhearts13.blogspot.co.uk/

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  5. Soulspasms6/11/2013

    Babe prayers and more prayers needed. And target specifically the Spirit of Lust. Pornography is a horrible addiction,and needs "apakor" prayers like someone above said. :)

    And if your husband is Willing,Let him join you in prayers too,specifically targeting the Spirit of Lust. And again let him be careful the kind of things he watches;programs,music videos,movies etc. Even Music is not left out,cus a lot of songs that we listen to today are filled with explicit content.Cus all he needs to trigger the addiction is a "thought" that comes as a result of watching something he shouldn't have watched. Or even listened to.

    With Gods help,You will overcome. All the best.

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  6. Anonymous6/11/2013

    I don't think there is anything wrong with your husband watching porn, it is normal. Trust me, if you think you can pray it away, you are only fooling yourself. He will just find a better way to hide it from you. My advice, allow him to enjoy his porn, in fact you can even participate and maybe you can learn a thing or two about each other sexual desire

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  7. Anonymous6/11/2013

    Don't watch with him abeg. Just try what you did the last time again, if he doesn't stop, treaten him that you will tell ur pastor so they can counsel him. I'm sure he wouldn't want a third party into it. And again, you two should always pray together, and when you do always mention his adicts in ur prayers, say it loud and clear, that God should deliver him from the adiction of ponography. And always pray for him in ur personal prayers too. God will surely deliver him.
    Patsy.

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  8. Anonymous6/11/2013

    Don't watch with him abeg. Just try what you did the last time again, if he doesn't stop, treaten him that you will tell ur pastor so they can counsel him. I'm sure he wouldn't want a third party into it. And again, you two should always pray together, and when you do always mention his adicts in ur prayers, say it loud and clear, that God should deliver him from the adiction of ponography. And always pray for him in ur personal prayers too. God will surely deliver him.
    Patsy.

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  9. Anonymous6/11/2013

    My sis,apart from prayers,I hav to ask,do u satisfy ur husband sexually? Or are u one of us dat is always tired,lol. Are u adventurous,wild and untamed in bed? Are u willing to try new styles ? Do u initiate sex too? If you cannot answer yes to all this questions then I suspect ur husband is sexually frustrated,alongside prayers and fasting,pls my sis try to up ur game,don't be harsh towards him and I tell u by Gods grace,all will be well

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  10. desire6/11/2013

    I used to be a porn addict but somewhere along d line, I got tired of watching and now it even irritates me. I want to believe its a passing phrase which he will get over esp wen there r kids in d house.

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  11. I have a friend, though not married yet but an avid lover of porn... He so watched porn that sometimes he'll sleep off while watching on his laptop if you go close to him in the morning you'll just see the thing in active motion while he has slept off.

    This guy had this particular porn series that he followed. "I no know say porn get season sef" he vowed to follow the porn series to the end, then he was in season 17. He so loved porn that he can quote porn celebs like "lexington steel". All the while he dint have a gf.

    My friend stopped when he got this pretty gf who was very close and intimate to him. In essence his obsession with porn was to satisfy his sexual yarn cos porn addict are kings in masturbation.

    Do YOU satisfy him sexually?
    I guess NO!

    Are you the type who dictate sex, do you find it uninteresting or you just simply need to be in the mood to give him...?

    Remember, there's no way a man will leave a "live woman" and then surfer himself watching others enjoy! the enjoyment he gets from watching it culminates when he has to secretly masturbate.



    Nuff'Said!

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    1. Pls abeggi d name of d porn series

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    2. Sorry, I can't remember the name.

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    3. Ask ur friend abeg
      Its very important pls

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    4. lmao.....truly nuff said

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  12. Anonymous6/11/2013

    Madam, maybe you don't play sexually with him.pray to God but use your sexuality to stop his attention on pornography. Always attract him sexually bc when he does not have you he goes for pornography.

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  14. I don't know how people profess to be christians but whole heartedly embrace pornography!
    It is wrong!Satan is doing everything by appealing to fleshy desires and he's succeeding by the comment I see here.
    How does pornography draw u close to God?can a person be to have love if he repeatedly watches pornography?the sexual pervasiveness of this system of things.
    Poster please log on to www.jw.org there's an article on pornography there,u would find very helpful and give it to your husband too.
    U should go have a read on that article.

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    1. pardon me,bt i think u r being unrealistic here....an average man likes porn,christian or pagan....men r wired to move to images.....so basically wives need to engage the thots of their men sexually. dis distracts them from porn and even other women tempting them

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  15. Anonymous6/12/2013

    Read Phil 4:8 and you will understand that a christian has no biz watching porn. Dear wife, itis a sin, Pornography is a form of lasciviousness because it arouses sexual desire and the bible condemns lasciviousness. It says in Ephesians 4: 18,19 that the pple that do it have their understanding darkened and that they have given themselves unto lasciviousness to do the unclean bc of greed.. When Jesus comes again, people caught in this sin will wail! 2 Corinthians 12:21.

    Pray hard but also bring out all the bible verses that talks about lasciviousness in the bible, along with Philipians 4:8. Don't forget the definition of lascivious too. Maybe that can jolt him out of the believe that anything goes, so fsr he's not hurting anyone, cause that is usually their excuse.

    Come to an agreement with him such that he would be accountable to you. Anytime he feels the urge, instead of hiting play let him tell you so you can pray and make love afterwards.

    Don't watch with him pls. But do all that is necessary to make your sex life exciting. Be free with him and allow him to be free with you as well. Don't wait for him to request for sex before u do it. Seduce him, kick start the process. Above all, ask God for help. It is well my dear.

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