I Need Urgent Advice Please

Good evening aunty Eya,I have this urgent matter that needs urgent advice o. Am presently a corper, the chairman board of directors where am serving decided to help christian corpers with job. He askd only christian in the organisation to come see him so he will discuss with them. 

The problem now is that he prefers to hold that meeting with them in his hotel room,cz he says whatever he wants to do is confidential cz am serving in a muslim state and he doesn't want other corp members to know he is interested in helping only the christians

We had the first meeting with him today in his hotel room we were
3 that had the meeting with him, he askd me to come back tomoro morning to meet a doctor that will help me with the job connections. When I got home, he called to ask whether I will be free for the rest of the day and I bluntly told him that I will be a bit busy and he said ok,we will see tomoro

Pls my people should I just forget about going to see him tomorrow or should I go and see what happens,and what if he says he won't assist me again if I refuse to date him. Am a bit disturbed right now.
N.B.- This man has  the right connections to help because he helped a batch b corper that just passed out to secure a job(a male corper sha).Aunty Eya pls post it on time o.

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Comments

  1. Anonymous6/24/2013

    I think you should go and see him and not conclude that he wants to have carnal knowledge of you,but you should go with a friend and also give sm1 else his number in case he tries shit.I don't think there is any need for alarm,because at the end of the day,if he develops genuine intrest in you then,it might lead to something tangible,and if you are not interested,politely tell him so.

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  2. Be careful. If there are three of you at the same time, that might be OK, but not if you're alone.

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  3. Anonymous6/24/2013

    Forget it!
    He wants to sleep with you!
    A true christian, would take your names and do it without meeting in a hotel.
    He is a wolf in sheep clothing.
    You already know this, your intuition is telling you so, that is why you are here.
    The ball is in your court.

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  4. Anonymous6/24/2013

    What's with all this secrecy? My dear, he does not want to help you. Him calling you to ask you wether you are free, means he's up to something. Run!!!

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  5. Anonymous6/24/2013

    Where is sister and Ahdaisy
    What is going on here
    Something is not right

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    1. Anonymous6/24/2013

      U Anon@9.43pm what is ur problem wit sister and Ahdaisy biko nu? Ah ah. If u are missing them so much make u comot for cyberspace enter d real world go find dem na. This shows that they have real lives and real issues and real jobs/businesses that might take them away for sometime unlike u monitoring spirit! Wetin! Take ur time o! Lily-livered bully!

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  6. Anonymous6/24/2013

    PLEASE DO NOT GO!!!!!! If u do ......... My dear don't

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  7. Lol oooooo.... Oturupeke!

    I can swear down, that man is after your pant! Plz don't forget to update us sha after you decide what to do.

    Lemme teach you a scope... Just be on anitary p** just incase he wants to suggest sex, atleast when you lie to him you are on, he'll let you pass for the day after which you must run for ur dear life!


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    1. I've heard of crazy saddists that will enter d place fully fleshed regardless of if a woman is on or not.

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    2. @Lizzy, Yes o... Real mad men!

      Well if she makes him feel like she will succumb after her dues then I guess it would sound tenable to him... Some men can be cow's sha!

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  8. He may have honorable intentions and he may not. If you decide to go back then do not go alone, take a friend with you.

    Be wise.

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  9. Anonymous6/25/2013

    my dear poster,are u dat desperate for a job????????? if d chairman cant connect u????dont u think u'll be highly connected by God tru anoda means??? if u ask me i wil tell u to save urself from d stress ure abt to involve urself

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  10. 1. Must you meet him at his hotel?

    2. Can't you guys meet with this so called doctor in an open restaurant?

    PS: if this man doesn't you use his 'connections', do you mean to tell me that you have no other hope of getting a job?

    3. Be wise! You know what this man wants. A pastor doesn't have to reveal this thing to you. Be wise! Play smart, don't play naïve and dumb. Be wise. Shine your eyes. Use all the senses you got. Borrow some if possible. Just shine your eyes.

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  11. Anonymous6/25/2013

    This has dodgy written all over it. He met with you all first and now he is bringing another male (the doctor) to meet with you all plus he called to ask if you were free for the rest of the day. I'd suggest you do not go. Smells like trouble. What if he and the Dr overpowers even the three of you? What if more guys are hiding in the closet ready to overpower all three of you? Be wise, most importantly pray about it. God is able to tell you the ultimate truth. We are only human, only God can see and know the thoughts of this man's heart so pray about it.

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  12. Bislondy6/25/2013

    Please be wise, suggest you schedule the meeting @ a restaurant or somewhere public. please don't go alone ooooooooo

    They have all said it all above

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  13. Anonymous6/25/2013

    Please obey your instincts and don't go. Must it be a hotel? If you must go, make sure you go with a male and female friend. Run from men that insist on having private meetings in their home or hotel except you want the wahala that follows. I

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  14. Oh girl, dust ur slippers and fly, not to run dis time around

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  15. Queen Bee6/25/2013

    It seem u already know his intentions deep in ur heart.
    Pls don't date him cos it has been confirmed over time dat men like dat will never give u that job if u sleep with them or he will do,and start frustrating u out of it.
    Just play on his intelligence,get what u want and keep him on the chase.
    Or even if u don't get the job forget him,God has better plans.

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  16. Queen Bee6/25/2013

    It seem u already know his intentions deep in ur heart.
    Pls don't date him cos it has been confirmed over time dat men like dat will never give u that job if u sleep with them or he will do,and start frustrating u out of it.
    Just play on his intelligence,get what u want and keep him on the chase.
    Or even if u don't get the job forget him,God has better plans.

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