Do Blackberry Phones Encourage Cheating?

Hello everyone and Aunty Eya,I am sick and tired of my local husband who didn't allow the western Education to pass through him.I never cheated on this man even though he was caught red handed once and I still forgave him.

Ever since I discovered how to use my BB well, my husband hasn't
allowed me rest.He nags and complains everyday.He has so nagged me into hiding my BB whenever I sense him approaching.If am sitting beside a chair, I slid it into that chair, if on the bed,I hide it under a pillow. 

There was a day I nearly threw my phone in a boiling pot of soup because I didn't hear him early and only heard when he held the kitchen door knob.In an attempt to hide the phone fast for the sake of peace,I threw and it narrowly missed my pot of draw soup.

I have never heard that BB encourages cheating,he has never caught me but is so against my use of BB i don't know what to do. The only thing that will make him relax is I stop using it. 
I need advise from readers of your blog Aunty Eya. Should I throw my BB away for peace to reign?

Comments

  1. Na wa O! U hv 2 bridle ur togue O. U dint knw he ws local b4 u marid him abi? Si hw u r abusing him. Jst dnt get too attachd 2 ur bb. U cn as well get anoda fone n leave bbm

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    1. Anonymous06:27

      My thoughts exactly, you must avoid anything that brings strife in your home. There are countless ladies looking for local husband just to bear his name. This shows how disrespectful u re. Repent!

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    1. Anonymous23:52

      whatever name u call ur husband, so will others do.
      bcus of BB u called ur husband a local man? smh.

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  3. Anonymous22:49

    na people like una dey dry this blog. poster don talk as pain am come say her husband local now you don dey tell her to bridle tongue. wetin consine you ? na you husband local? instead of you to quench fire wey dey burn you dey pursue rat. #okbye

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    1. Anonymous23:58

      now r u happy wt d wet juicy news? smh
      @poster, u c what u have brought upon urself bcus of common BB?

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  4. Yea... Blackberry like other social media is a tool that encourages and permeates easy flirting, ur hubby understands this that much. As local as you think him to be, he know's.

    People exchange nude pix on Bbm, people do all sort of things on bbm that end up in real crushing and eventual sex, that's his fear! I'm sure he has been involved or he has been briefed.

    Another tin I noticed is that, you might have been so engaged with ur BB recently to the extent that he feels abandoned and he feel's threatened by your utmost concentration on It, bbm is addictive and most times you might have been carried away in ur usage. By this, you may have given him room to reason awkwardly.

    You need to tone it down, leave the fone in positions he can easily access it so he'll nurse no idea that you have something sinister while on It, let him see ur pings and convo. You need to create an ambience for trust cos right now he doesn't trust you.


    Niff'Said!

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  5. My dear if your husband had seen what I saw on saturday,there'll be need to nurse such fear. I was dumbfounded seeing what this married women do with their phones in the name of social networking.
    I sat on a table behind the one occupied by this two married women. Of all their various discussions the one that caught my attention most,was when one opened the picture of that handsome guy that was deported from Saudi for being too handsome. They had to zoom the pic as they analyse his physical features and u need to hear how they were fantasizing and what they were saying. Had to even point to my mum what her fellow women were doing.
    My dear the mordern media has eaten into the fabrics of our societal norms in the name of civilization,throwing a knife into the beliefs that hitherto held us together and we fell apart. So the fear aint out of place.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. Anonymous17:55

      Bona bona, you are gradually assuming the call of apostle paul with your recent long epistles. Anywayz its well said.

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  6. Anonymous23:51

    Where is our able sister and Ahdaisy
    Something is not right

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    1. Anonymous02:48

      you see that means they both one and the same..

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  7. Anonymous00:05

    Re-phrasing the problem:

    I have a BB, but my husband does not want me making use of it.
    Whenever i see or hear him coming, i quickly hide it under a chair,a pillow, and nearly threw it into my pot of soup i was cooking one day.
    I am not happy with his attitude.
    Please wc followers, what should i do?

    Learn to bridle your tongue iyawo local man!

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    1. Anonymous02:49

      hahahahahahaha...

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  8. Anonymous01:06

    Hi Aunt. Eya, would be happy if you could post this as a seperate topic.
    It's about my husband. He can snore for Africa!! He snores to the extent that the beds in our room shakes and I am a very light sleeper so he is always keeping me up most part of the night. I never did a sleepover with him when we were dating so I didn't know this.
    And we've tried everything from nose strips to clips to whatever. It still hasn't changed.

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    1. Anonymous01:09

      Cont. We have an extra bedroom but he says we just got married and he won't let me sleep there.
      This snoring is affecting our marriage cos I sleep very very late like 3 am just so I'm too tired to let the snoring wake me up. I wake up every morning angry and moody. I'm suggestion surgery to him but he says he doesn't want to risk it.
      Please I need advise on how to handle this situation cos it's a headache for me.Thanks

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    2. Anonymous02:54

      he wont let you sleep cos of his snoring,he wont let you get the good sleep that you need in another room how selfish!! things women go thru all in the name of marriage! wobi(look) i suggest you think about your own health not getting enough sleep means ur less productive.. I mean there are days I wake up from not having enough sleep will be so cranky I will feel like flinging anything i see not to now talk of you not getting sleep everyday!! Do something ohh..

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    3. Anonymous10:52

      Take him to see an ENT ( ear, nose anf throat) doctor.

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    4. Anonymous15:26

      Its every nite I give my hubby hot slaps(abara.. in yoruba voice) at the back to sleep well, thot that would change him, now wat i do is to cover my ears with pillows,.......really gettn use to the snor

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  9. Anonymous04:30

    you and your fake stories and examples.every time you have some fake illustration# fake ass small boy

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  10. dear Poster,leave that bb alone for the peace of your family.from what you said,u are not just attached to the fone but glued to it.cooking and pinging,chatting with hubby and pinging,doing house chores and pinging, if possible up2 pinging while on bed. ahn-ahn!relax o!its way too complicated.
    i had to dump bb cos it was taking the place of my job. I couldnt deliver on my daily task,not able to chat with my family even to the extent of driving and pinging!!!
    nobody tell me 2 take chill pill.with annoyance,i gave it out.
    am happy without bb and never planning to go back to it.

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  11. Anonymous11:07

    @ poster From ur comment one can c dat ur addicted to ur bb. At first My hubby told mi not to use bb,go on 2go n facebook cus of dis same reason,I didn't even argue wth him, I only smiled cus it didn't make any sense to mi. In my mind I juSt told ma sef dat e met mi usin bb, so cus we r married now I shud stop usin my bb, story!. Thou e asked mi what if e tew uses dis stuff wil I b happy. I replied wiith a smile cus I knw I won't want him to b on bbm,2go,facebook e.t.c (10k God hubby doesn't hav tym for dis stuff.lol). I trust my hubby oº°˚ ˚°ºoo buh don't trust all dose desperate/desperado bitches out dir.

    funny enough e s d same person dat gives mi money for my subscription. Guess e noticed am not glued to my bb cus I only use it weneva am bored esp wen hubby s not around. Eva sinc I got married I dont value my fone lyk b4. I always receive lots of missed call cus am not always with my fone. Now hubby begs mi to always b with my fone. So dear poster havn a bb s not d issue buh its how u use it das s d big issue.


    #phew it wasn't easy typin dis long note oº°˚ ˚°ºoo. I hate typin long story dats why I don't comment often .d headache of typin kills my spirit of replyin to a post n I wonder how ppl lyk ace,bona, ahda n oda longstory writers do it. Aunty eya pls add voice comment option for mi *eyes rolling*

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    1. Lol at your voice comment.......

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    2. Anonymous13:20

      No matter your disguise we know you. C'mmon u don't need to do this. Use ur known identity and comment afterall u don't owe anybody

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    3. Anonymous14:46

      *turns back*@ Anon 1:20 c pot callin kettle black. 2 questions 4 u
      1. Wtf s ur business, huh? (Aproko)
      2.What happened to ur own identity? Ova sabi sabi.
      Hian! Too much haters n busy bodies n nigerian blogs dis days.
      FYI don't ans cus am not interested n u/ur ans. MtcheeEeeeeew *faces front n walks away* *u can talk 2/kiss my fat ass*

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  12. Anonymous14:44

    *turns back*@ Anon 1:20 c pot callin kettle black. 2 questions 4 u
    1. Wtf s ur business, huh? (Aproko)
    2.What happened to ur own identity? Ova sabi sabi.
    Hian! Too much haters n busy bodies n nigerian blogs dis days.
    FYI don't ans cus am not interested n u/ur ans. MtcheeEeeeeew *faces front n walks away* *u can talk 2/kiss my fat ass*

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  13. MERCY18:42

    U GIVE HIM REASONS TO SUSPECT U.HIDING UR PHONE WHENEVER U SEE UR HUSBAND MEANS U HAVE SOMETHING TO HIDE. TAKING UR BB TO THE KITCHEN CLOSE TO UR DRAW SOUP. HOPE IT FALLS INSIDE THE NEXT TIME SO THAT EVERYONE WILL BE AT PEACE.
    THE MAN IS LOCAL YET U MARRIED HIM.

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