We Are All Supposed To Be Like Family

Good day people

Hope you all are having a lovely Saturday.

Well I'm not happy with what is going on in this blog,its becoming annoying. We are

suppose to be like a family but its beginning to change. Why do some people think everybody's opinion must be the same? Why do u want advice and yet u justifying ur wrongs? If what u are doing is right,why not keep it to ur self and keep doing it? Rather,when post comes up,some of the posters go as far as justifying there evil act and still want advice,and when people give it to them,some of u lots would come back and bash the person giving the advice. Some people bring there problems here cos they want some one to bring them back to reality,there's no need to butter the situation,present it as it is..

As a woman,if u find out a woman is sleeping with ur husband,u won't be happy with ur husband neither would u be happy with the girl and if opportunity brings the both of u together,u won't go all sweet on her,u would either ignore and say nothing or lash her out,u won't even preach to her. That's reality! When u bring issues here and it involves lashing out,please,permit people to do that if it would show the posters how bad there actions were,but when u butter it for them,they won't change cos the lots of u were buttering the situation and making them feel what they did is right!

So when it comes to giving advice,when it involves lashing,please do,when u done lashing,u can now advice,even the bible said the rod shouldn't be spared( spare the rod and spoil the child),and the same bible said when we correct someone with our left hand(which means lashing the person) draw the person close with ur right hand(which means correct and advice the person)

I just think those who try to bully the people making there comments are actually guilty of such crimes and because they want to justify there actions,they tend to focus on the person they think is "righteous" as u all say! Besides,been righteous isn't a bad thing,that's what God wants from us,if someone is been too righteous for ur liking,go and read the scriptures,become righteous and serve God well,there is joy in serving God...

Stop bullying people,if everybody in this world thinks alike and share the same views as everyone then this world won't be like this,I don't think it would be in existence. Everybody's opinion can't be thesame. So if someone leaves a comments and u don't like it,kindly move to the next comment or share ur own views but leave the person alone. Stop bullying people u might not even have the opportunity to talk to in real life...

Some of u come here and claim another person is been to judgemental while  u doing the same thing! Attacking that persons ideas or views is also judgemental. U would come here and say u not judging when u doing just that?

Everybody has the right to leave whatever comment they dim fit,if u don't like it,go to the next comment or post or leave ur own ideas and views but don't bully! Not called for at all... If u think the person said something u doing is bad,then its bad. Not only the posters learn,even those who leave comments learn too,so don't confuse people... If u are sleeping with a married man or woman or u are doing both and the post is about u and someone said its wrong and quote the scripture,why don't u quote ur own scripture and quote where it says its good or don't bother commenting..

I have typed a lot,wouldn't even proof read it so y'all should deal with the errors. And u can like to leave funny comments,that's ur cup of tea.

Michelle

Happy Saturday
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Comments

  1. Michelle, welldone...
    Let’s try to accommodate our differences… Did Jesus bash people? YES – he bashed Pharisees and Sadducees, and not Gentiles.
    Anyone coming for advice and still tries to justify herself/himself deserves correct bashing. However, for obvious unbelievers, we need to be careful in passing our message… this way, we don’t drive them away. Would you rather they visit other blogs that preach unrighteousness? If you must bash, butter it with good advice. If you do not have an idea on the issue, please zip up!

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  2. Mitchell, u re imposing ur opinion on every1 yet u re against it... Like u said and I quote "We are suppose to be like a family" families do ve fight, families disagree 2 agree abi?... Ahdesi is d most bashed on dis blog yet she is alwys standing strong, not bearing any grudge and still commenting (dats family).

    Madam Mitchell, d fun of dis blog is not just in d stories pple share but also in d arguments (pple disagree or agreeing on other pple's view).

    So Mitchell mi I don't totally agree wit dis ur theory o. Its a family blog so any1 dat feels like bashing any1 shuld feel free, any1 dat feels like advising d poster shuld do so, any1 dat feels like lashing d poster shuld lash bcos In every family we disagree 2 agree...


    Dortiye say so

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    1. Anonymous5/11/2013

      Gbamest!family must have misunderstanding.that's a real family.but we kiss andmake up don't we baby boo?

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    2. GBAM!GBAM!GBAM!True talk!

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  3. I think people should try and understand that not everyone on this blog has been saved. Not everyone is even a believer in Christ yet. For all commenters that are believers, comment with wisdom. You don't know whether or not the posters are saved. You don't know if they are atheists or just people who back slid. Will you then use cane to force them to correct their head back to God and what is good?

    Will you spank another man's child just because you want to correct him? Won't you try to correct him with love? What I am saying is 'comment with wisdom'. Even in your workplace, you don't respond to everyone in the exact same way except you are downright mean boss.

    You won't bash your pastor if he falls the exact same way you would try to correct someone that was born an unbeliever and knows nothing about the bible or God.

    Keyword- WISDOM. Don't frustrate un believers or 'baby christians' with harsh or hateful tones. Focus more on what works for them rather than what you think will work. Everyone is not like every other person. Learn to respect the diversity.

    What of muslims and other religious people reading this blog? You think they know what our bible says? What are we portraying to them? Or you think this blog is strictly for christians? Christians who are born again, watch your word and what you type before you do. FIRST IMPRESSION matters a lot. If you want to bash, bash, whatever makes you sleep. I don't see this 'permission to bash' article as relevant.

    Those who will bash will, those who won't, won't. At the end of the day, let the posters get their solutions, everybody moves on to the next post.

    #Nuff said

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    1. Anonymous5/11/2013

      Thank you very much, you couldn't have said it any better. Like Ghandi said 'but for Christians I would have been a Christian'

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    2. God bless u JAY...am a muslim and I folo ds blog like every seconds,sum pips comments is strictly bible quotes,wen dey don't even know the poster's religion. There's nothing bad in the word of God,but dey shld stop forcing it on peeps jare.*just saying*

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  4. Anonymous5/11/2013

    Eya no matter how peaceful you try to make ur blog to be, its not possible. Even families quarrel among each other, sisters bully each other but that doesn't mean they don't love each other. If one is asking for advice it is normal that you will hear both good and bad ones. For one to make his or her probs public, don't expect to hear only good tin, some ppl will still make jest of you or condemn you. So stop complaining about ur readers attitude and go on with ur good work.the good tin os that we don't even know whose problem we are tryin to solve we our advice.

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  5. candid diva5/11/2013

    @ Jay,thank you for ur comment jare. When did this become a 'christian' blog self? All arguments now are btw born agains & non born agains. Are dr no muslims visiting ds blog? Evrybody shd learn not to shove dr PERSONAL beliefs down other pple's throats abeg. If u must quote bible,do and move on,allow others be pls.

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    1. O shey oooo...Gbam!

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  6. Anonymous5/11/2013

    Eya, pls we are hungry, we need food. Una wey dey bash eachother na una get time O!

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  7. Sincerely I bliv dat for a person to take time out to post dia stories n ask for advice it means that they want to change or find a way out! Sometimes this bashing may drive this posters to d end and make dem take extreme steps like killing themself(God forbid) dey r already battling with dia c minds! Finally if u want to bash toh! If you don't want to bash shikenan

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    1. Anonymous5/11/2013

      Thank you. That's the aspect of psychology those defending their bashing don't understand. They think everything starts and ends with the word 4 letter word 'bash'.
      Sebi when they hear the person harmed themselves cos they felt greatly condemned and condemned themselves as a big shame, they will now relax and go and cook better food their family?

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  8. *clears throat.*

    How una dey? Tomorrow na church o...una don iron una cloth?. Ok. Welldone. Pele. I just dey pass say make I hail una.

    Kachifo nu...

    *balances calabash properly on head, ties lappa tightly around chest, puts back chewing stick into mouth. Whistling Igbo song to self...waka pass*

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    1. Anonymous5/11/2013

      LWKMD... Excellent drama scene. Ahdaisy you are so talented.

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    2. Anonymous5/12/2013

      You just called her the same thing.loooooooooooool!

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    3. Thank God now you guys can see what I am seeing. All those bashing me for not 'developing thick skin', you wnt understand. If the person can type it here with all the censoring, imagine what is sent to my mail.

      And I dnt cuss people or call them names. Imagine what them Pealie, Prince Jobless, Billie Jean and co are facing. Lol! ( although I kinda doubt the hate is this much).

      *In Patience Ozokwor's voice* Ekwnsu ihere me gi n'uwa, ihere me gi. Ma gi na ndi otu gi, ihere me gi!

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    4. Anonymous5/12/2013

      @anon 7:25 I can't call her or anyone that

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    5. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Hehehehe buhahahahaha lolllllllzzzzzz

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    6. Thank u jare

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    7. Ok, Thanks Tangerine. The problem is that you guys take things way too personal. Anything I say or do is bad even something that was obviously just for humour. Those people who come after me should actually sit back and ask themselves what it is about me that they are so angry about?

      The funny thing is that many of you think that what happens on this blog affects my real life. No dear, it doesn't. That a lot of people saw the hate text, how does that make me 'served'? Is it news that I receive a lot of hate? Or did the hate text make me lose my job or money or husband or family or what? I dnt get.

      But sincerely now, I really want know. Tangy said I am causing other to sin, dunno how but I am curious. And I need real answers pls. You can call me whatever you want. Aunty Eya, pls dnt delete them. ok so, apart from the fact that I am opinionated and dnt run away fro heat, WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU HATE ABOUT ME? Especially those anonymous that follow me up and down. What is it that makes you get angry whenever I comment? Cos I have checked it. People say worse things than I do. People even go after others and insult them but I hardly reply someone who just made a comment (concerning a post) and left. Especially if I dnt agree with them, I just say me own.

      So what is it about me that is making others sin? (Cos dat is the only comment so far that really got to me. The rest to me are not an issue). And I am not playing victim here, I know where my own issues lie.

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    8. Anonymous5/12/2013

      What is going on here ?na wa oo ,but ada baby if u ask na who I go ask over to u guys

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    9. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Ada! Stop acting drama. That post of river or wateva was so childish. I'm convinced its one single individual hounding u. And I bet its one small girl whose brain is still in d process of development. Don't drag urself down 2 her level. You've started coming across as petty. Stop all ds,I won't back down,rise above her.
      I know she's getting pretty personal wit her comment,why don't u silently in d corners of ur room report her 2 God?,then be rest assured he'll fight for you.

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    10. Anonymous5/12/2013

      All of them 4 ur mouth 1,a small is hounding her 2,report her to God na wa 4 u oooo,as if God is jobless nne there is war in d north ,cancer is raving people. There are orhhans and homeless peoplle everywhere ur own na make ahdaisy go report anon anon to to Baba god God uno well I swear

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    11. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Looooooool@cancer is raving people but I get ur point anyway btw I need u need reading glasses

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    12. Anonymous5/12/2013

      @anon 7:25 u are a real clown looolzzz

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    13. Anonymous5/13/2013

      Eya,where is tangerine's comment.I think u cherish perverse joy in what is going on her comment was there all day only for u to delete even ahda said she liked d comment.she would ve made changes to those thing people find irritating but u don't want it u like people bashing her I also wonder y ahda whom I consider intelligent can't read between d lines.if u like delete it at least u will read it Gmorning

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  9. Anonymous5/11/2013

    **yawn**

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  10. Shayor!5/11/2013

    Now a christian blog?? Ok! #justpassingby#

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    1. Anonymous5/13/2013

      Don't mind ahdaisy and co

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  11. Anonymous5/11/2013

    Anonymuos is back again......girl can't get enough of ahdaisy. Iv not seen this type of witchunting. Hahahahahah. Make I waka go another post jare. MOVEMENT

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  12. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Oh my God!who is afta this woman naa this is too much.haaAa

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  13. Anonymous5/12/2013

    It must ve pained ahda so much to d extent of comparing billie jean who says it as it is no matter whose ox is gored pealie doesn't make sense @ all then prince jobless madam ahda how desperate can u be comparing urself with lowlife prince j na wa 4 u sef abeg get over urself.

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    1. I am not comparing myself to them. I am only imagining what I wud have been getting if I was as insultive as they are.

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    2. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Shebi u don iron ur cloth u no go church again

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    3. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Help me ask her oooooo maybe d chewing stick has choked her loooolz

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    4. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Free her, why una no go Church?

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  14. Anonymous5/12/2013

    God pls hlp us in dis,dis blog is 4 all matured minds who av solutions2offer if nid b,xtians or muslims regardless,i wonda who cals smone barren?jst knw u ve placed a spell on ursef,pls,pls let mk WC a safe haven4 All2 feel free lik a Fam we re.Tho i hardly comment on matas here,buh i'm sure familiar wt WC fam,so jst had2 do dis nw cos i wnt dt love n Unity among us2continue,I sincerely Love dis Family n i pray God hlp us All stay strong. Love MASON's MUM

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    1. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Mama mason pls type what someone can actually read

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  15. BIGGMAMas5/12/2013

    Hmmmm no comment

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  16. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Adhaisy,babe,this person that said those crap to you has put curse on herself!
    Even if you have kids already silly person,there is a proverb in yoruba "one thousand children is not enough for God to kill in just one day". Be careful what you say to people. This is an ordinary blog! Don't bring damnation on your head cos of Adhaisy o!

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    1. sister5/12/2013

      @anon8:25 that devil will soon ravage ur entire family am going to church now but will surely put u in prayers.adults are playing u bring peoples family into it 4 wetin bcos of a whore and a liar u are a fool and an idiot bye 4 now I no wan go late

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    2. Anonymous5/12/2013

      @ Sister, abeg which church be that? U call her a whore n a liar,do u knw her personally?Yet u dey go church.abeg tell me which church make I n my family members no go make mistake enter there.

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    3. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Sister, shut up! U neva late? Or r u replying from church?instead of u to confess that u r in love with the girl, u r ranting all over the place. I'm sure u r one of doz lesbian mamas.christian my foot.later u ppl will be bashing adaisy n telling her how a christian shud react. Meanwhile u r all 10 times worse. Tueh!

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  17. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Where is ace and bona to come and quench this fire naa,I think Eya has gone to church oh my ahdaisy is in hot ogbono soup

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    1. Anonymous5/12/2013

      U guys dnt knw Adaizy, I doubt this obono is hot enough.

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    2. Anonymous5/13/2013

      Eya has deleted d commemt that gave it u, she was rather late cos everybody has seen it.yimu;siddon there dey yarn rubbish ahda know say water don pass garri

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  18. kendra5/12/2013

    Some people tho! Understand a post before u comment, the poster didn't say this was a christain blog neither did she impose her ideas on u.. She only said attacking some one for no reason isn't any good.. If u want attack,do it in a good way,how is attacking some one on a post calling the person asewo and other names? Haba! Do u even know her? So what if u do? Go settle ur selves outside and leave the blog alone

    If someone quotes bible and it didn't favour u,quote ur own too to favour u.. There are bothe christains and muslim in this blog and if I remember correctly,most of the things in the bible and quaran are desame,I know that cos I grew up in the north and had lots of muslim friends and I went thru there quoran as I normally follow them as a child to there quoran classes

    Nevertherless,grow up people.. Stop acting like someone who was starved of all the love they deserve as a child.

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    1. Anonymous5/12/2013

      Gbam! Kendra, I wonder why ppl say that others are shoving their opinions on them.This is a blog na.Did they force anyone or blackmail them into doing what another person says? Hm. I feel that secretly, people love bashing Ahdaizy cos she is such an eazy target considering that she always says her mind and never goes with the crowd. They like it cos if you notice, people comment more when they r bashing her than on any other post. If Eya puts a post on food or healthcare, only few will comment but if one person bashes Ahdaisy, everybody will start commenting. It means she is actually good business for Eya.lmao.

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    2. Thank u so much@anon 9:51... I thought I'm the only one that has noticed it. They always wait for her to comment so they will spew the things they have in there mouth

      I personally don't see what's wrong with her comments,she's entitle to her opinion,its a blog,if u don't like it,move to the next comment or just give ur own comments and say why urs is better instead of saying the things that don't matter! Bringing personal issues into the blog,most of which might be not be true but we don't care,take it some where else like ur sitting room

      She comments and leave bible scriptures so what? If u don't like it,move forward,if u are a muslim,move forward or quote ur quoran,no one is stopping u. The blog is not just for christain but if someone decides to preach salvation,take it or leave it..

      Duuuuh

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  19. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Ʊ all are just mean and childish. And its so dissapionting that most of u are wives and mothers. Calling Pple names cos of their own opinions. It shows a lot of Ʊ have issues ur dealing with and aunt Eya's blog is the only place Ʊ feel important and run ur mouths. This is not a religous blog. ΒƱ† we can never remove the God aspect from our daily lives. So if Ʊ dnt like someone's comment. Make urs and move along. We are all diffrent. And every one's opinion Ȋ̝̊̅§ impt. Pls let's show maturity and respect 4 each other. Any woman who calls another barren,prosititute etc is a very bad person and need an overdose of christ mercy. I beg everyone here put aside ur claws and let's embrace each other in love. Biko. Am tired of all this hate comment. Its beginning to make this blog uninspiring. Much love
    Vicky

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    1. sistet5/12/2013

      Vicky am d anon so sorry for making u uncomfortable but that woman get on my nerves with her theatrics.once again so sorry bye

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  20. nnenne5/12/2013

    Aunty Eya,where is my comment given recent developement I don't think my comment was offensive

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  21. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Are you God that gives children...Are you? Have you ever heard the cry of a childless woman...have you? I call upon you this day whoever that wrote that,if you don't send an apology mail to Aunty Eya apologising for that comment.....Your life will never be the same wherever you are,the tears these women shed everyday will not be in vain. This is no longer about Ahdaisy. GLADDENED HEART

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    1. Anonymous5/12/2013

      She has apologised already stop pouring petrol

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  22. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Eya y did u delete the msg I just saw now y are u pouring petrol on mata that is dying that is bad of u

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  23. sister5/12/2013

    @God knows my name sorry 4 offending anyone once I see matured response like urs and vicky I become helpless pls forgive covers face

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    1. God knows my name5/12/2013

      Thank you sister.

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  24. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Don't worry about that.I forgive you dear. I forgive you. GLADDENED HEART

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    1. sister5/12/2013

      Oh my God thank you very much

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  25. Anonymous5/12/2013

    Na wa o

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  26. Why can't we all just get along?
    This is a blog. If anyone drops a comment you don't agree with, its his/her opinion. If you have a different opinion, you can post your own comment, criticise constructively or keep it moving.
    I know there are hateful comments all over the internet but we really didn't have to let this go so far.
    The barren comment was just too much. Why would you mock someone with what's hurting her so bad?
    I hope we can find a way to stop all this.

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  27. I love just 3 persons on dis blog,ahdiasy,eya and bona(the man who's blessed amongst women,smiling face*¤)...Ahdaisy is one unique person here,despite d criticism she gets wen she says d truth it doesn't stop her frm been who she is.sumtimes wen I see hw quarrelsome some mothers are here I begin to wonder what their homes look like. We are all matured minds for heavens sake let's stop acting in some manner that is not pleasurable. Handle issues wit sincerity,wisdom and truthfulness. Call a spade a spade and stop covering wrong doing wen we see one.

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  28. Anonymous5/13/2013

    Hmmmm,well to me Ahdaisy is just every where..it makes me feel she is idle just like bonario if He does not comment in a day he will not sleep well ...my opinion.. MADAM KOFO

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