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Trust Issues

Good day AUNTY Éya and to you my dear blog family member,I have learnt so many things from this blog,it's turning into a habit for me to check on this blog every 
day,it's like morning coffee.


Today I will like to bring up an issue,trust issues,mine is very bad,I know it but how can I stop suspecting

every single thing my partner does,I always feel he is up to something bad,even when he is not,this happened before in my last relationship,but I didn't end it based on the fact that he was cheating on me,infact my ex never did,I got an award from one of his friends unknown to me,that I was the only woman who kept her man for 4years without him cheating.

 I don't know if I should just stop trying to find out if my fiance is cheating or I should keep trying,and please if u agree that I should,please write good tips for me on how to know if your man is cheating,asin...how to catch him red handed ,thank you.


P.s no bashing abeg...I have already begged so please don't bash me for any reason,AUNTY Eya thanks again and please don't post my email.

Comments

  1. Anonymous5/22/2013

    So what happens when you catch him red-handed?you'll be fulfilled I guess?continue in your quest for High blood pressure o ,you'll become old overnight.next pls.

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  2. Anonymous5/22/2013

    God bless u! @ anon. I rily don't gt dis post. We should give u hints on hw to catch YOUR MAN red-handed? I can only but wonder y someone will b sear0hing aimlessly 4 shortcuts to gtin a high BP. Wish u luck in ur ultimate search. I do hp u gt a thousand ways to catch him. Next pls!!

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  3. Anonymous5/22/2013

    God bless u! @ anon. I rily don't gt dis post. We should give u hints on hw to catch YOUR MAN red-handed? I can only but wonder y someone will b sear0hing aimlessly 4 shortcuts to gtin a high BP. Wish u luck in ur ultimate search. I do hp u gt a thousand ways to catch him. Next pls!!

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  4. Anonymous5/22/2013

    God bless u! @ anon. I rily don't gt dis post. We should give u hints on hw to catch YOUR MAN red-handed? I can only but wonder y someone will b sear0hing aimlessly 4 shortcuts to gtin a high BP. Wish u luck in ur ultimate search. I do hp u gt a thousand ways to catch him. Next pls!!

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  5. Have you been hurt before by someone you trusted deeply? That may be your problem. If yes, pls realize that there are still good trust worthy people in the world. Trust is essential in any relationship.

    Stop listening to people's stories about how all men are dogs. Stop watching movies that buttress that point. Including music and music videos. Men are not aliens with a special trait that makes them natural cheats. They are human beings like us and the way you might not want to cheat, is the way, they also dnt want to.

    Yes, a lot of them do but that's cos they dnt have the fear of God. So if your man doesnt give u any concrete reason to suspect him, then dnt. Pls note that if a man is cheating and tries his best not to make you find out, you wnt know. So give urself peace and enjoy your man.

    How can you say you love someone, yet you are looking for special CIA techniques to catch him red-handed?

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  6. Anonymous5/22/2013

    Ask her o? Ahdaisy,u are so on point.

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  7. Put SHEABUTTER in left palm, then give him a dirty slap... After he reboots he will just be confessing... From sister caro to baby oku. You will be so surprised at the amazing result....

    Thank me later.

    Nuff'Said

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    1. Anonymous5/23/2013

      not funnny pls

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    2. When you stretch a joke too far this is what happens. The shea butter joke used to be funny. Now u're just struggling.

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  8. Put SHEABUTTER in left palm, then give him a dirty slap... After he reboots he will just be confessing... From sister caro to baby oku. You will be so surprised at the amazing result....

    Thank me later.

    Nuff'Said

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    1. Anonymous5/22/2013

      Bwahahahahahaha! @ Ace, when did u become a comedian....I just had a very good laugh.

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    2. Anonymous5/23/2013

      Dnt mind ace,kindly rub ABONIKI! Loooool

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  9. Anonymous5/22/2013

    Ace,u'll not kill ne with laf. Imagine using sheabutter to make a man confess. Lol

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  10. Anonymous5/23/2013

    Pls my dear poster don't even try finding out cos wat u don't know won't kill u...ave bin there b4 and it almost killed it took d grace of God family and friends b4 I got myself,I had sleepless nights trying to go thru my ex phone checking if he was cheating on me...wen I found out he was cheating wit so many gals I was devastated...pls dear let sleeping dog lie...

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  11. Duchess5/23/2013

    Dear poster, when in doubt, GET OUT!

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  12. #How2CatchUrBooCheating
    1. Move next door: there is no better way to keep tabs on his trifling arse than being right there with your camera phone

    2. Quit ur job: we all know catching a hardened player can be time consuming. You can't let having a job stand in the way

    3. Install a hidden camera in his house: plus you now have 2 mins of adult movie footage to sell on the internet!

    4. Steal a copy of his key nd turn up @ 2am, if you make it past the "oro" is his area, you'll get to catch him red handed

    5. Install a GPS tracker on his car if he doesn't have one tell him it's the latest fashion accessory and tie it round his neck

    6. Get militants to kidnap him and beat him till he confesses. Make sure they get the confession on tape

    7. Tell him you need money for surgery in India and use it to fly Joey Greco from Cheaters to Nigeria. The guy never fails!

    8. Buy expensive lace for his mum she'd be so grateful that she'll have no choice than to give you the info of his other babes

    9. Sneak into his house and hide under his bed. Make sure you have supplies cause you might be there for a while

    10. Contact Sikiratu Sindodo to give you her juju man's number. He'll show you his transgression on his "white cloth LCD"

    11. If after u have tried all the #How2CatchUrBooCheating methods and u still can't find any evidence, your boo must be a hardened player, dump him!

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    1. LOOL @ Flying Joey Greco to Nigeria, He never fails!

      This is the perfect response to this post!

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    2. Best advise so far...... Poster plz pick one,and in all don't fail to apply the no 11th memo i'll be waiting to introduce my girlfriend who is not a police how much more a CIA like you. ROTFL

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    3. Best answer ever! I laughed hard and loud...

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  13. Wow, u're really vexing o! Just had me a hearty laugh, lol!

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  14. Duchess5/23/2013

    @lurvmj u had me ROTF... The poster na super learner abeg. I sure say she never reach 20yrs sef... Yeye dey smell

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  15. Anonymous5/23/2013

    ROtflmaooooo@ white cloth LCD!!!! Chei! I've bin a silent reader bt I jst had to comment today! Nice one lurvemj....u jst made my day! @ poster, wat u don't knw won't kill u. Invest ur time and energy in more profitable endeavors like plannin ur weddin or acquiring a skill.

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  16. Anonymous5/24/2013

    Hhahaaaha u guys will not kill me ohhhh so funny.@poster ar u praying 4 him 2 cheat on u.its like u wnt him to cheat dats y u want 2 catch him redhanded.d day I came across a text msg on my guy fone I almost had heart attack.so pls just let him be n pray n hopes he does not cheat cos der is really notin u can do.

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